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Can You Be Too Pretty?

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  • #102
    Galvasean
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Jeremiah 16:1 wrote: »
    They can if you get cataracts. Or have an eye poked out through a freak accident involving a radio aeriel.

    That was awfully specific...


  • #103
    Red Hand
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    Galvasean wrote: »
    That was awfully specific...

    *Blinks the tears (and memories) out of cataract coated, slate-blue eye.*


  • #104
    metrovelvet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    nouggatti wrote: »
    Moonbaby !!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek::eek::eek:

    Real gingers have green/hazel eyes, you are suggesting an attraction that will diminish the ginge gene pool?



    But long term people are going to grow older/grey/lose teeth/shrink/become frail?

    How would you cope with that?

    My perceptions would hopefully change by then.


  • #105
    anonymous_joe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,255 ✭✭✭anonymous_joe


    GirlInterrupted wrote: »
    Sense of security?

    I have a truly beautiful friend who is almost never approached by the type of man she actually wants to meet, and is constantly belittled by insecure women. She's a lovely person.

    I actually think that its quite possible that beauty makes for a nicer personality. Studies have shown that beautiful children recieve more praise and attention, more affirmation, that the more average child. We also respond well to pretty people in advertising and business.

    So my question is this; Assuming all this positive attention fosters a positive outlook, and a secure self-image, and also assuming that these help contribute to a well balanced personality - can we assume that the good looking person has grown up to be nicer to be around than the less attractive person - who will have been on the receiving end of less positive interaction, and consequently, perhaps, be less liked and likeable?

    Maybe, sometimes, beauty starts off skin deep, and sinks in deeper.

    Ehm, a large part of it is bad experiences in the past.

    A few more beautiful girls whom I knew were quite unpleasant people. They were spoiled and demanding. It's unattractive. That's a factor. Knew one who was blonde, tall, willowy, verging on perfection, and here's the thing... where's the personality to go with that? Sure she was nice, but there's nothing there. And this wasn't a stupid girl by any means. I value personality more highly than looks in any long-term thing, and I find that of those I met, the beautiful girls were all lacking in personality, or perhaps just unwilling to let that show? Given that some of them had what I might call a siege mentality due to the sniping of jealous friends and the attentions of sleazy horndogs it's not necessarily surprising.

    To examine your point - beauty attracts both good and bad attention. The beautiful girl is the one whose parents spoil her and ends up being disliked for that reason by those who know her and ends up bitchy and cold. Or she could be like a ray of sunlight on a cloudy day. That's the person not the looks I reckon.


  • #106
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Climate Expert wrote: »
    Nobody would ever suggest that. But only considering the inside is equally strange in my view.


    Dear god, I actually agree with this...

    But the point also stands that people's perception of your attractiveness does change the more they get to know you. An ugly person can seem less ugly over time if you grow to like their personality - and an attractive person with a crap personality is less appealing. Case in point, I have a friend who is extremely annoying, who I'd have never thought of as hot, but yet when people see pictures of him they say he's gorgeous. We reckon if he was less annoying, he'd be more attractive.


  • #107
    Galvasean
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    shellyboo wrote: »
    I have a friend who is extremely annoying, who I'd have never thought of as hot, but yet when people see pictures of him they say he's gorgeous. We reckon if he was less annoying, he'd be more attractive.

    I hate when people use me as their case studies. :pac:


  • #108
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    nouggatti wrote: »
    Moonbaby !!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek::eek::eek:

    Real gingers have green/hazel eyes, you are suggesting an attraction that will diminish the ginge gene pool?

    Jeez!!! It is not like I can be held responsible for my actions in the company of blue eye owners. :P
    Jeremiah 16:1 wrote: »
    They can if you get cataracts. Or have an eye poked out through a freak accident involving a radio aeriel.

    Shut up!
    Jeremiah 16:1 wrote: »
    *Blinks the tears (and memories) out of cataract coated, slate-blue eye.*

    Wait a sec....Are you of legal age?


  • #109
    A_SN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 515 ✭✭✭A_SN


    I think that "too pretty to be approached" is utter BS. The prettier a girl is the more men, bisexual women and psychos she will attract. Maybe your average guy will be intimidated, but if you're really that pretty just go to a club and you'll have douchebags buzzing all around you like flies around steaming poo.

    Being too pretty can definitely feel like a curse for a girl, i.e. she won't find anyone who acts decently towards them, only try to get in their pants and so on. It seems that for a man to be trying to be simple friends with a girl that's too pretty for her own good is the way to go, simply because all the other guys try to crash their way into her genitals, which depending on the girl succedes relatively often nevertheless.


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