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A girls signals
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01-12-2008 9:52pm#1
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Ah come on lads, lets not bust his balls.
the dude is clouded by the basic need for companionship. We have all been there.
I grew up in a house full of women, scary but a great education.
My tips would be:
Be confident or pretend to be.
Don't use chat up lines EVER.
Keep conversation casual and shown a geniune interest in what they have to say (this works for everyone, not just women).
Never leave yourself hanging. If she is still talking to you with smiles and laughter after 15-20 mins, then you may have earned the right to maybe get her phone number
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OP, never mind signals because one girl's 'come hither' look might be another girl's 'come near me an' I'll punch ye!' look! There are too many variables to consider when you're trying to figure out signals, so your best bet (as the constant in the equation, see maths does have it's uses
) is to decide if you like the look of someone, or how they carry themselves, and just go for it. And don't take it personally if a girl rejects you, just go back to your mates and enjoy the rest of your night or get talking to someone else. 0 -
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CoachBoone wrote: »I hear they're selling testicle seeds in most well known retailers now, prob wanna get yourself some and grow a pair.
Genius.
Easy answer, you just know. Of course that's BS, I know because I've got practice over time and I'm pretty good at reading people in general. I would say looking objectively and in general, women turn their bodies towards you more. Want to engage you in more conversation. They laugh more to encourage you. Will try to get close to you physically. Will lean towards you. Will touch themselves more, especially their hair. They'll even gently scratch themselves which is a weird one, but I've seen that one a lot.
Maybe I've got fleas though.... Lips move more when they're not talking, they look at your mouth too. Conversation wise, they ask more and more about you and try and slip in some subtle stuff about current relationship status(if they're single themselves, if they're just up for a jump, they won't care usually). Arms behind their head to display breasts is another one. Even women with no bewbs to speak of will do that. If you're really getting to them crossing and uncrossing their legs is another sign. They'll tend to escalate this stuff to then touching you. Subtly at first or for some non sexual excuse.
If you have a good lot of the above you're likely in. I would say contrary to a lot of guys beliefs, women are not as picky or fussy as men think(or even what women may say). Women for the most part encourage men, even borderline men. They're actually quite open to men, if men are open and non bullshítty with them. Men often are though and miss the signals or screw the deal too early etc. TBH if a woman likes you even a little its 9 times outa 10 the blokes fault for screwing up IMHO of course. I've a mate who is a complete(and I mean complete) man whore. I've seen him go off sleep with a woman within hours of meeting. More than once. He's nothing to look at either. He just doesn't stop them or put them off. He's confident, not arrogant and he's good company. Up for a laugh. The other thing is he doesnt make them feel guilty for anything they may do either. Slut he may be, judgemental he is not.Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.
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The_Minister wrote: »Don't laugh at that, you have no idea how horrible it is:mad:
That horrible curdling feeling in your stomach when you realise that you missed out on someone who you were really interested in......
Actually... yeah, I do.
Had a crush on a guy for a very long time, one to two years. We were friends, and I decided quickly enough he just wasn't interested and put it to the back of my mind as much as possible. Told him years later in conversation as it didn't really matter anymore, and when he said he had had a crush on me too... !! Man. horrible feeling.
Wibbs' story still was very funny though 0 -
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galwayguy22 wrote: »Right so I'm getting to a stage in my life where I, not want, but feel I NEED a GF / Buck Fuddy / any kind of contact at all with the opposite sex.
I don't go out much, but when I do and I think, "oh there's a girl I'm attracted to"* but the problem is the concept of walking up to a girl in that context is just so foreign to me.
The only way I could see myself approaching a girl is if I know for sure she likes me, i.e. she's been giving me "signals".
Problem is I can't read signals for ****.
So, what signals (and how does one read them) does a girl give off if she likes a guy?
*I'm attracted to all girls at this stage
It's a bit hard to just a "signal" from 30 feet across a room so you're going to have to go talk to a woman. If you wish, then you can keep an eye out for that sexy lonely woman in the pub smiling and looking away and licking her lips while gawking at you but I don't think these exist. You might see the odd smile and then turn away . It's hardly an invitation to her bedroom and it's not a proposal but if someone's looking at you go say hello. If you're somewhere you can speak then make conversation. If there's a general reason both of you are in the same place (such as a gig next door or a sports game or something then there's a good starting topic). Don't start with "can I get you a drink?" or your budget for the night will soon be as small as your self esteem.
While talking, eye contact helps (from both parties), if she's smiling and seems interested in what you're saying then that's a plus. If she's looking away and not reacting to anything you're saying and seems more interested in her phone then cut your loses and get yourself a drink.
If her body is facing you then that's good, if she's standing or sitting with her side to you then that could be negative. The "playing with one's hair" sign some say is negative , others say it's positive. I think it means nervousness of some sort . If you say something funny and she laughs and gently touches you on the shoulder, chest or thigh then that's a fair sign that she likes your company and wants you to stick around .
This is all general shoite and all cliche ridden stuff and most women will probably disagree with what I've said as manly rubbish or myth.
No woman is going to hold up a sign for you or anyone else that says "I want to fuck whatever guy looks in my derection"0 -
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