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  • 08-01-2009 1:54pm
    #1
    taragurl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭


    Hi first post so here i go, im a 23 yo guy from Dublin. I kinda need some advice, im a "straight" guy (i think) but i really enjoy wearing womens clothing and underwear? I have a GF for 3+ years who is very understanding and sexually adventurous but does not know about my dressing?

    She is someone i care a lot about and want to tell but Im afraid she will freak out? She is no stranger to different things but i fear this may be a lil much for her? The reason Im thinking of telling her is due to her discovery that i am kinda fond of anal play. Which at the time i thought would be the end of us but to my surprise is was totally cool with her?

    Is there anyone out there who has had a a similar experience or who can offer any advice from a lady's point of view??

    Thanks!!
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  • #2
    Reflector
    Registered Users Posts: 380 ✭✭Reflector


    hey,

    I've read threads on both anal play and cross dressing somewhere on boards not necessarily in this forum. If you use the search tool and try some key words you might find them. They were informative.


  • #3
    taragurl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭taragurl


    Thanks reflector,

    i tried those search tools, didnt find anything really helpful. Kinda looking for advice from someone who has been in the same/similar situation.

    thanks for help though


  • #4
    Rev Hellfire
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,346 ✭✭✭Rev Hellfire


    There's a Sex and Sexuality forum available to subscribers, though if its females view on the matter you could also try the ladies lounge.


  • #5
    taragurl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭taragurl


    Thanks very much rev i posted a similar message there.

    thanks for the advice, im kinda new to the whole boards thing???


  • #6
    monellia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 284 ✭✭monellia


    im a "straight" guy (i think)
    I personally don't see why the cross-dressing should be an issue, but I definitely think you should open up to your girlfriend about your apparent sexual confusion.


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  • #7
    smileykey
    Closed Accounts Posts: 120 ✭✭smileykey


    Are you actually sexually confused or are you confused because you assume that your like for dressing in women's clothing should be somehow related to your sexuality?
    Because they don't have to have anything to do with each other.

    With regards telling your GF it seems like you want to so do, it will be hard to bring it up but its a part of you and you shouldn't have to hide it

    good luck


  • #8
    dory
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,517 Mod ✭✭✭✭dory


    If it's the like of anal play bothering you you should check out Babeland. It's an online sex shop. I was looking at strap-on dildos and presumed only lesbians use those. But the vast majority of reviews were written by straight couples saying how much the male in the duo enjoyed it being used on them.
    So it's clearly pretty common.


  • #9
    mmmdoritos
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭mmmdoritos


    im 23/bi/f who loves cross dressers. alot of my male ex's turned out to be cd, it always added to our sex life as opposed to anything else. i suggest reverse role playing and see how she reacts to you in her shoes or tights. (do it in a joking way just so you can back out of it if she reacts badly!) Chances are she knows already, i always did!


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