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  • #102
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Dragan wrote: »
    There is nothing quite like the kinky struggle to give pleasure....I don't see the point in doing it any other way myself.

    To be honest, a large part of sex for me is pleasuring the girl, i enjoy it, it gets me off and imagine in a very real way it plays to my ego....

    Yeah, this is pretty much the essential ingredient for good sex! When both partners are focused on the other person's pleasure... it doesn't really get any better than that. But I think it takes time for some people to come around to that attitude, and others never will.


  • #103
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Dragan wrote: »
    Like any skill though, this can take time to develop.

    And practice.


  • #104
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    Dragan wrote: »

    To be honest, a large part of sex for me is pleasuring the girl, i enjoy it, it gets me off and imagine in a very real way it plays to my ego....so i enjoy it.

    That said, i also enjoy the returns, as most people do. Balance is important.
    I would say that most men would think like that, or maybe that's just wishful thinking?:p
    Yeah of course balance is important, give and take makes it more fun doesn't it!


  • #105
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    age gaps in either direction are a turn on - but having done the much older and much younger thing several times I yearn for someone around my own age with similar cultural refenrences.


  • #106
    Dragan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    And practice.

    And that is the fun part! :D
    Kya1976 wrote: »
    I would say that most men would think like that, or maybe that's just wishful thinking?:p
    Yeah of course balance is important, give and take makes it more fun doesn't it!

    I actually think they don't. I think a lot of blokes, at least a lot of blokes that i have know, a lot of blokes who have been with friends and girlfriends before i was with them, assume that sex is sex, that they are good at it and that as long as she comes or seems to then she enjoyed it.

    I have noticed that girls were always surprised by my willingness to talk about sex, to take direction and my ability to ask questions as well.

    I think blokes will happily talk about "****ing", and will go into the greatest details with their mates....but i think when it actually comes to talking to their partners about sex that most blokes have a long way to go.


  • #107
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    who007 wrote: »
    age gaps in either direction are a turn on - but having done the much older and much younger thing several times I yearn for someone around my own age with similar cultural refenrences.

    Again it depends on if they are similar interests and how well read they are
    but yes some times dating fetus of the 80s can be annoying.


  • #108
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Again it depends on if they are similar interests and how well read they are
    but yes some times dating fetus of the 80s can be annoying.


    On the first statement - yes I agree, but that is a bit of a rarity.

    As for the second statement - ROFL!!! :D


  • #109
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    who007 wrote: »
    On the first statement - yes I agree, but that is a bit of a rarity.

    :)
    who007 wrote: »
    As for the second statement - ROFL!!! :D

    It's true honestly if you are looking at dating a 21 year old they were born
    in and around 1987 which was the year Appetite for Destruction was released...


  • #110
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    :)



    It's true honestly if you are looking at dating a 21 year old they were born
    in and around 1987 which was the year Appetite for Destruction was released...

    well when you put it like that....


  • #111
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    Dragan wrote: »

    I actually think they don't. I think a lot of blokes, at least a lot of blokes that i have know, a lot of blokes who have been with friends and girlfriends before i was with them, assume that sex is sex, that they are good at it and that as long as she comes or seems to then she enjoyed it.

    I have noticed that girls were always surprised by my willingness to talk about sex, to take direction and my ability to ask questions as well.

    I think blokes will happily talk about "****ing", and will go into the greatest details with their mates....but i think when it actually comes to talking to their partners about sex that most blokes have a long way to go.
    Well maybe I've just been good at picking out my 'victims' or I'm just too easy too please.
    But of course a lot of blokes will think like that, too many men wouldn't even be able to tell if you came or not. Nothing worse than the 4 second one night shag that ends with a sighs on his part and a moan, and not a good moan, on my part.... And then they got the nerve to ask you after 'was it good for you'?

    But I think younger men are better at talking about sex, especially if you start the conversation, I got no problems with telling the bloke exactly what I like and what I want, if you don't ask you don't get.


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  • #112
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    Kya1976 wrote: »
    , I got no problems with telling the bloke exactly what I like and what I want, if you don't ask you don't get.

    I wish all women were as direct! It's nice to have a vested interest shown and to see a woman take responsibility for her enjoyment.


  • #113
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    who007 wrote: »
    I wish all women were as direct! It's nice to have a vested interest shown and to see a woman take responsibility for her enjoyment.
    not sure if I see it as a 'responsibility' it's more as a selfish act i think:)


  • #114
    who007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    Kya1976 wrote: »
    not sure if I see it as a 'responsibility' it's more as a selfish act i think:)

    lol - what I mean is, more enjoyable for both when both people are enjoying the sex. If woman is't enjoying it there's no point in her complaining if she is leaving the guy in the dark. If she "takes responsibility" by explaining her needs then you're back to both partners feeling good.

    And apart from that it's a damn turn-on! :D


  • #115
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    who007 wrote: »
    lol - what I mean is, more enjoyable for both when both people are enjoying the sex. If woman is't enjoying it there's no point in her complaining if she is leaving the guy in the dark. If she "takes responsibility" by explaining her needs then you're back to both partners feeling good.

    And apart from that it's a damn turn-on! :D
    right, I'm glad we cleared that up:p


  • #116
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    who007 wrote: »
    well when you put it like that....

    :D

    Yup and those turning 25 this year were born the year Kill 'Em All was released.

    who007 wrote: »
    I wish all women were as direct! It's nice to have a vested interest shown and to see a woman take responsibility for her enjoyment.

    Ha so many men say that then get all deer in head lights and freak or flee.
    Kya1976 wrote: »
    not sure if I see it as a 'responsibility' it's more as a selfish act i think:)

    It certainly is a way of whittling out the faint of heart and those who can't communicate about sex before you even kiss them.


  • #117
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    Thaedydal wrote: »


    It certainly is a way of whittling out the faint of heart and those who can't communicate about sex before you even kiss them.
    perverts step this way please:D
    but seriously yeah I'm old and I hate wasting my time so yeah that method seem to work well.


  • #118
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Kya1976 wrote: »
    perverts step this way please:D
    but seriously yeah I'm old and I hate wasting my time so yeah that method seem to work well.


    Your starting to remind me of some one only not quite shore who


    Oh thats it Anne Robinson :P


  • #119
    Kya1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,879 ✭✭✭Kya1976


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Your starting to remind me of some one only not quite shore who


    Oh thats it Anne Robinson :P
    ewwwwwwwwww play nicely now


  • #120
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Kya1976 wrote: »
    ewwwwwwwwww play nicely now


    well your as blunt as her :)


    :D


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  • #121
    john almighty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭john almighty


    Madame Razz wrote: »
    In Turkey you see a lot of Western women in their 50s/60s with local men in their mid twenties at the most.

    In this case you are referring to sex tourism. It's the old problem with the currency exchange. Sex tourists take advantage of it everywhere and it's a genderless problem - men and women do it all over the world... see the documentary on Cathal O’Searcaigh in Kathmandu and subsequent debate..

    it may be the case that they had the inclination anyway, just couldn't afford it at home ..?


  • #122
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    Zombie thread.

    Locked.

    Maple.


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