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What should the penalty be for illegal abortions?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭b3t4


    ntlbell wrote: »
    so what you're saying is, ok they might be murdering/killing but can we not just brush that fact under the table lets ignore that part so we can get on with just doing it?

    I see.

    You're all in favour of forced pregnancies then. I see.

    A.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    b3t4 wrote: »

    You know what I've learnt over the years. rape has not and will not go away whether there are 40 million threads like this or not. It's still there whether you like it or it. It still happens. It's been happening for thousands of years.

    So, you know what I think, let's just get over it and help these vunerable rapists.
    look how silly your argument looks when i replace abortion with rape. and that's because, as i keep saying, it only works if you assume there's nothing wrong with abortion. i don't accept that assumption so i won't accept any point made based on it
    b3t4 wrote: »
    Whatever about this 'baby' that doesn't exist in actuality, can we not simply look after the women who do or women simply mechanical incubators and nobody told me about it???

    A.
    and this is of course the point of contention. in the opinion of anti abortionists it does exist, so we will never agree on anything until we agree on that point


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    b3t4 wrote: »
    You're all in favour of forced pregnancies then. I see.

    A.

    not exactly, i'm against the killing of babies. not quite the same thing


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    can you answer my question for me b3t4, no one seems to want to:


    1. pro abortionists claim that the foetus is just a clump of cells, it's not a person and so killing it is not murder and there are no moral objections to it


    2. but as i'm sure you will agree, having an abortion is an extremely traumatic event for the woman. she will wrestle with it and most likely feel guilt for the rest of her life and some even commit suicide


    point 1 and point 2 are contradictory are they not? if it's just a clump of cells, why is it any more traumatic than getting an ingrown toenail removed? seems to me that these women don't actually believe what they're saying and are just desperately trying to convince themselves because they don't want a child.

    no?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,288 ✭✭✭✭ntlbell


    b3t4 wrote: »
    You're all in favour of forced pregnancies then. I see.

    A.

    No like sam I am against the murdering of the innocent.

    If the mothers life is not in danger then I don't see any reason for taken someone else's life

    big difference.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    2. but as i'm sure you will agree, having an abortion is an extremely traumatic event for the woman. she will wrestle with it and most likely feel guilt for the rest of her life and some even commit suicide


    point 1 and point 2 are contradictory are they not? if it's just a clump of cells, why is it any more traumatic than getting an ingrown toenail removed? seems to me that these women don't actually believe what they're saying and are just desperately trying to convince themselves because they don't want a child.

    no?

    No. There is no conclusive evidence of "post-abortion syndrome".

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28050494/from/ET/
    "Based on the best available evidence, emotional harm should not be a factor in abortion policy. If the goal is to help women, program and policy decisions should not distort science to advance political agendas," added Vignetta Charles, a researcher and doctoral student at Johns Hopkins who worked on the study.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    No. There is no conclusive evidence of "post-abortion syndrome".

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28050494/from/ET/

    i never said it was a mental illness but if they have any more remorse or feeling of guilt from an abortion than a hair cut then they don't actually believe it's just a clump of cells.

    you couldn't possibly say that women generally have absolutely no problem getting an abortion and will give it no more thought than a hair cut could you?


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    i never said it was a mental illness but if they have any more remorse or feeling of guilt from an abortion than a hair cut then they don't actually believe it's just a clump of cells.

    Ah, fair enough. I see your point but I don't think anyone sees an abortion like getting their hair cut. What they see it as a group of cells that has the potential to grow into a human being.

    Just because it's a hard decision doesn't mean it isn't the right one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,778 ✭✭✭tallaght01


    taconnol wrote: »
    No. There is no conclusive evidence of "post-abortion syndrome".

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28050494/from/ET/

    That study (or meta-analysis) compared longterm health outcomes.

    Sam34 would know better than me, but you still still get postpartum depression (post natal depression) after an abortion if it's late enough, though it's not necessarily a long term illness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    Ah, fair enough. I see your point but I don't think anyone sees an abortion like getting their hair cut. What they see it as a group of cells that has the potential to grow into a human being.

    Just because it's a hard decision doesn't mean it isn't the right one.

    but then you have to ask yourself why is it a hard decision. the stated position of the pro abortionists is that it's just a clump of cells and therefore can be removed without any problems.

    their entire case is based on that statement but if that statement is true then there should be no second thoughts whatsoever. it should be just like getting a haircut or an ingrown toe nail removed

    if it's a hard decision for them then they don't truly believe that it's just a clump of cells so what they've actually done is made a conscious decision to kill a baby. personally i find that despicable and i can't understand how anyone can justify it to themselves


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    but then you have to ask yourself why is it a hard decision. the stated position of the pro abortionists is that it's just a clump of cells and therefore can be removed without any problems.

    their entire case is based on that statement but if that statement is true then there should be no second thoughts whatsoever. it should be just like getting a haircut or an ingrown toe nail removed

    if it's a hard decision for them then they don't truly believe that it's just a clump of cells so what they've actually done is made a conscious decision to kill a baby. personally i find that despicable and i can't understand how anyone can justify it to themselves

    Hang on - I don't think you can lump all pro-abortionists in together. They're not a homogenous group and there are many varying opinions among them. It's very easy to critique a movement if you take the most extreme stance within that movement.

    As I said earlier, I don't see it just as a group of cells but as a group of cells that has the potential to grow into a human being. That still doesn't mean I see it as a baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    if it's a hard decision for them then they don't truly believe that it's just a clump of cells so what they've actually done is made a conscious decision to kill a baby. personally i find that despicable and i can't understand how anyone can justify it to themselves

    Yes, I don't like to be lumped in with "pro-abortionists" because I don't agree with a lot of what's being said here on both sides.

    I actually think very early term abortions are done by women who have more compassion for the unborn that women who wait around till the 23rd week.

    Of course you've made a conscious decision to prevent yourself having a baby. Or kill a baby, as you say it.

    It's very telling that you "can't understand" how women can justify doing it. That is the crux of it for me. You just can't understand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    This thread has decended into two men dictating an over simplistic, archaic view of abortion, clapping each other on the back and interjecting the word murder in copy and paste format to anyone who tries to disagree with them.

    In short, this is not a rational debate. The thread really should be locked at this stage, it'll only continue in this vein

    or in vain.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,012 ✭✭✭✭thebman


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    can you answer my question for me b3t4, no one seems to want to:


    1. pro abortionists claim that the foetus is just a clump of cells, it's not a person and so killing it is not murder and there are no moral objections to it


    2. but as i'm sure you will agree, having an abortion is an extremely traumatic event for the woman. she will wrestle with it and most likely feel guilt for the rest of her life and some even commit suicide


    point 1 and point 2 are contradictory are they not? if it's just a clump of cells, why is it any more traumatic than getting an ingrown toenail removed? seems to me that these women don't actually believe what they're saying and are just desperately trying to convince themselves because they don't want a child.

    no?

    You've obviously never had an ingrown toenail removed :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    Hang on - I don't think you can lump all pro-abortionists in together. They're not a homogenous group and there are many varying opinions among them. It's very easy to critique a movement if you take the most extreme stance within that movement.

    As I said earlier, I don't see it just as a group of cells but as a group of cells that has the potential to grow into a human being. That still doesn't mean I see it as a baby.

    ah but you see it's not something that has the potential to grow into a baby like a sperm, it's something that is currently developing into a baby. it's a potential baby in the same way as a baby is a potential adult ;)

    to me the justification of "it's ok to kill it because it doesn't yet meet my definition of a baby" is the same as "it's ok to kill a child immediately after it's born because it hasn't experienced the world yet so it's not really a person". it's just a convenient definition that fits what you want to be true. the foetus is a human being. it may not have developed a brain yet and it may not match you consider valuable as a person but it's a human being and it has human rights (or it should, unfortunately not everyone agrees). but you don't want it to have rights because that's too much hassle for you so you come up with rationalisations and convince yourself that it doesn't

    edit:another example of such a convenient definition from history would be: "they're only black so they're not really people, therefore it's not immoral to enslave them". exactly the same thought processes are used to justify slavery as to justify abortion


    if people don't just see it as a clump of cells, if they see it as something more, how can they justify killing it?
    Malari wrote: »
    Of course you've made a conscious decision to prevent yourself having a baby. Or kill a baby, as you say it.
    you say that as if it's nothing. someone has made a decision to kill a baby and you don't have a problem with that :confused:
    Malari wrote: »
    It's very telling that you "can't understand" how women can justify doing it. That is the crux of it for me. You just can't understand.

    then explain to me how someone who isn't absolutely sure that the foetus is just a clump of cells can justify killing it. i think i already do understand it. women want the foetus to be just a clump of cells because they don't want to have a child so they convince themselves that it is. evidence doesn't come into it, they want it to be true, therefore it is
    This thread has decended into two men dictating an over simplistic, archaic view of abortion, clapping each other on the back and interjecting the word murder in copy and paste format to anyone who tries to disagree with them.

    In short, this is not a rational debate. The thread really should be locked at this stage, it'll only continue in this vein

    or in vain.

    there's nothing over simplistic or archaic about "murder is wrong", it's a universal truth.

    and the reason i use the word murder is because that's what it is

    edit:also there is quite a lot of rational debate here. your description of the thread is completely inaccurate. it attempts to dismiss everything we're saying without actually proving us wrong.....because you can't prove us wrong ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    brim4brim wrote: »
    You've obviously never had an ingrown toenail removed :P

    you're right it's far more traumatic than any abortion :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    you say that as if it's nothing. someone has made a decision to kill a baby and you don't have a problem with that :confused:

    I don't have a problem with it, as long as it's in my womb and it's only about 8 weeks old. That's not to say I take it lightly. I don't want to have an abortion, but I don't want to be pregnant more.
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    then explain to me how someone who isn't absolutely sure that the foetus is just a clump of cells can justify killing it. i think i already do understand it. women want the foetus to be just a clump of cells because they don't want to have a child so they convince themselves that it is. evidence doesn't come into it, they want it to be true, therefore it is

    Again, I have just stated that I DON'T just see the foetus as a clump of cells, and yet you say you understand how women justify abortions by calling it a clump of cells.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Malari wrote: »
    I don't have a problem with it, as long as it's in my womb and it's only about 8 weeks old. That's not to say I take it lightly. I don't want to have an abortion, but I don't want to be pregnant more.
    right. i have a kid and i love him but i want to be carefree and go travelling more. can i kill him?

    why 8 weeks? is it not a human being before 8 weeks?

    edit:also, what gives you the right to decide when another human being has value and when it can be discarded?
    Malari wrote: »
    Again, I have just stated that I DON'T just see the foetus as a clump of cells, and yet you say you understand how women justify abortions by calling it a clump of cells.

    but if a woman kills something that is not just a clump of cells, that is a human being in the process of developing (just like a baby is), then surely she has just committed premeditated murder? the only way i can see of justifying it is by completely dehumanising it, ie thinking it as a clump of cells. if you have not completely dehumanised it then you are killing a human, no?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    right. i have a kid and i love him but i want to be carefree and go travelling more. can i kill him?

    why 8 weeks? is it not a human being before 8 weeks?

    edit:also, what gives you the right to decide when another human being has value and when it can be discarded?

    Why do you keep asking me the same question? I keep saying, yes of course it's a human. I'm saying 8 weeks, because I'm guessing that would be about the limit of when you could be pregnant without knowing it.

    The law gives me the right, in countries where I can legally travel to. Who's to say if you didn't grow up in a time when slavery was commonplace you wouldn't have a problem with it? Sure, maybe in hundreds of years time abortion will be completely outlawed and maybe if I lived in such a time I wouldn't have one, or I would take even more precautions not to become pregnant. But I don't live in those times. I live now, when abortion is not a moral absolute because if it was everyone would be against it.


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    but if a woman kills something that is not just a clump of cells, that is a human being in the process of developing (just like a baby is), then surely she has just committed premeditated murder? the only way i can see of justifying it is by completely dehumanising it, ie thinking it as a clump of cells. if you have not completely dehumanised it then you are killing a human, no?

    In my brain, yeah I would have to say I'm killing a human, but a lot of women wouldn't say that. Not everyone thinks the same way, or needs to justify their actions with the same thought process you use. That was my initial point - not all pro-abortionists use the same argument.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Malari wrote: »
    Why do you keep asking me the same question? I keep saying, yes of course it's a human.
    i keep asking the same question because i am unable to comprehend how someone can justify killing another human being! i thought that they had just completely dehumanised the foetus so that they didn't think of it as a human but if that's not the case for some women then those women are quite simply murderers and should be punished just like any other murderer
    Malari wrote: »
    I'm saying 8 weeks, because I'm guessing that would be about the limit of when you could be pregnant without knowing it.
    ah so the child becomes valuable as a human being immediately after the time you find out about it and kill it. now that's a very handy definition. Should a woman who finds out at 9 weeks or 10 be prevented from getting one?
    Malari wrote: »
    The law gives me the right, in countries where I can legally travel to. Who's to say if you didn't grow up in a time when slavery was commonplace you wouldn't have a problem with it? Sure, maybe in hundreds of years time abortion will be completely outlawed and maybe if I lived in such a time I wouldn't have one, or I would take even more precautions not to become pregnant.
    we're not arguing what's legal, we're arguing what's right. Legality doesn't necessarily say anything about whether something is right or not
    Malari wrote: »
    But I don't live in those times. I live now, when abortion is not a moral absolute because if it was everyone would be against it.
    you'll find that just because certain people don't think something is wrong does not mean that it is not 100% definitely wrong.

    for the second time in this thread i point someone's attention to this group:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NAMBLA

    they believe that children are sexual beings and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex with them. they campaign to legalise paedophilia. just like people who are pro abortion, they convince themselves that what they're saying is right despite the fact that they are clearly wrong

    so thinking paedophilia is wrong is not a moral absolute. does that mean we should allow them to rape children?
    Malari wrote: »
    In my brain, yeah I would have to say I'm killing a human, but a lot of women wouldn't say that. Not everyone thinks the same way, or needs to justify their actions with the same thought process you use. That was my initial point - not all pro-abortionists use the same argument.

    i really don't know how to reply to that. you acknowledge that you're killing another human being and you can somehow rationalise that that is acceptable. did no one ever teach you that it's not ok to kill people :confused:


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    ah but you see it's not something that has the potential to grow into a baby like a sperm, it's something that is currently developing into a baby. it's a potential baby in the same way as a baby is a potential adult ;)

    to me the justification of "it's ok to kill it because it doesn't yet meet my definition of a baby" is the same as "it's ok to kill a child immediately after it's born because it hasn't experienced the world yet so it's not really a person". it's just a convenient definition that fits what you want to be true. the foetus is a human being. it may not have developed a brain yet and it may not match you consider valuable as a person but it's a human being and it has human rights (or it should, unfortunately not everyone agrees). but you don't want it to have rights because that's too much hassle for you so you come up with rationalisations and convince yourself that it doesn't


    I could similarly accuse you of using "rationalisations" and trying to "convince" yourself of certain things to justify your opinion but I would consider that to be condescending.

    I've put across my point of view. We can argue til the cows come home but we're never going to agree on this point.

    BTW - you should read up on Peter Singer - you'd totally hate him because he's a consequentialist, not a moralist.

    Edit: Damn, I think you've actually changed my mind...I can't argue that a foetus is not a living thing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    I could similarly accuse you of using "rationalisations" and trying to "convince" yourself of certain things to justify your opinion but I would consider that to be condescending.
    I wouldn't say rationalisations apply to my argument. People generally rationalise when they want something to be true because they don't like the alternative but i don't like the idea of forcing women to bring babies to full term, i'd much rather believe that a foetus is a useless clump of cells because that would make life so much easier for everyone. But i just can't console my conscience with it. It's "an inconvenient truth" to quote al gore
    taconnol wrote: »
    Edit: Damn, I think you've actually changed my mind...I can't argue that a foetus is not a living thing.
    stop the presses!!!!! This is a first in the history of internet discussion boards :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Btw, I think one of the main reason's that I'm so against abortion is that my natural mother gave me up for adoption as a new born. She was in college and couldn't look after a child.

    My parents (not to be confused with the woman who gave birth to me) are the best parents you could possibly hope for but they couldn't have children so my natural mother gave a childless couple the greatest gift that it's possible to give another person.

    if my natural mother had thought differently, I wouldn't be here trying to convince you that abortion is wrong, I'd be medical waste.

    There are thousands of couples out there just like my parents who would do anything to have a child but they're forced to search abroad because of all the women in Ireland today who are terminating their pregnancies. And I think that's an awful shame


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 155 ✭✭willy wonka


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    Btw, I think one of the main reason's that I'm so against abortion is that my natural mother gave me up for adoption as a new born. She was in college and couldn't look after a child.

    if my natural mother had thought differently, I wouldn't be here trying to convince you that abortion is wrong, I'd be medical waste.

    There are thousands of couples out there just like my parents who would do anything to have a child but they're forced to search abroad because of all the women in Ireland today who are terminating their pregnancies. And I think that's an awful shame

    Agree totally - How can human beings be reduced to medical waste?

    I came across this siteand it was very upsetting to read. Here are some quotes from women who have had abortions:
    I had an abortion in january 2004 - i can still recall every detail and it still hurts like crazy everytime I think about it - I have gotten a lot of help since then and have come a long way but it is the biggest regret of my life and I fear I will never have amy more children of my own - I call myself angel as a nickname as that is what I named my baby afterwads - my little Angel looking down on me.

    I encouraged my daughter to have an abortion. To this day she feels emotional pain. I regret for 2 reasons. The child no doubt would have been a blessing and things would have worked out. Also, killing is a terrible thing to live with, especially killing of your own blood.
    i had an abortion 2 and a half years ago and it was the biggest mistake of my life, i did not want to get it done only my boyfriend said it was for the best because our relationship was only new and we might no last well we lasted up to 5 months ago when i just found out i was pregnant again and he left me.it made me realise i should of kept that baby and got rid of him!Sometimes it feels like this baby is making up for the last baby because i feel so guilty.but i no this baby still wont ease the pain.
    I had the decision of having an abortion made for me and I went along with it. I can't really remember the details, maybe I've blocked them out. I can only remember the guilt, the loneliness and the smart comments and anger from my family...sorry I'm going on a bit but I've never really talked about this before. I wrote a poem which i've attached below if you'd call it that but it was something going through my head one day and so I wrote it down. I've also thought tonight that my child...wish I could have known the sex so at least I'd have a name for him or her instead of calling it nothing if you know what I mean...anyway my girl or boy would have been 19 this year and been born in the same month as my birthday. Take care.

    Of course there are going to be women who didn't regret their decision but reading these was heartbreaking. As you can see ALL the women referred to the loss as a baby or a child. Why would you want women to suffer like this. I believe having an abortion must be like removing part of your soul.

    Also the article refers to a report by Researchers at the University of Oslo who report the long lasting effects of abortion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,090 ✭✭✭jill_valentine


    Well, I was pro-abortion in literally all cases of birth until I saw that clever use of bolding.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    stop the presses!!!!! This is a first in the history of internet discussion boards :P
    Hah, believe it or not this is about the 4th time my mind has been changed on something due to discussions with other Boardsies. I'm all about debating things.

    However, my acceptance that a foetus is a living thing, doesn't mean I don't agree with abortion in some cases. I also have serious reservations over making abortion illegal as it forces women to have risky procedures, often leave the abortion until later in the pregnancy and travel away from her home to avail of the service.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    Hah, believe it or not this is about the 4th time my mind has been changed on something due to discussions with other Boardsies. I'm all about debating things.

    However, my acceptance that a foetus is a living thing, doesn't mean I don't agree with abortion in some cases. I also have serious reservations over making abortion illegal as it forces women to have risky procedures, often leave the abortion until later in the pregnancy and travel away from her home to avail of the service.

    And the counter argument i always use in that case is that heroin is illegal and it forces people to get it from scumbags who could have cut it with anything but that doesn't mean that heroin should be made legal - because heroin is a bad thing

    And no one's actually forcing them to get abortions, the idea of the law is to stop them. I just think that "the law's being broken anyway so you should just make it legal" is a very poor argument because, as with most pro abortion arguments, it makes the assumption that there's nothing wrong with abortion. That statement doesn't make any sense if you apply it to any law except abortion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,996 ✭✭✭✭nacho libre


    taconnol wrote: »
    Hah, believe it or not this is about the 4th time my mind has been changed on something due to discussions with other Boardsies. I'm all about debating things.

    However, my acceptance that a foetus is a living thing, doesn't mean I don't agree with abortion in some cases. I also have serious reservations over making abortion illegal as it forces women to have risky procedures, often leave the abortion until later in the pregnancy and travel away from her home to avail of the service.

    Interesting. I say interesting because before i read your message i was about to post asking had anyone from either side of this debate ever had their minds changed by these discussions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Interesting. I say interesting because before i read your message i was about to post asking had anyone from either side of this debate ever had their minds changed by these discussions.

    I was very surprised tbh. We're all very entrenched in our positions. It always comes back to the same few arguments and the same few rebuttals. I'm right though :pac:


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    And the counter argument i always use in that case is that heroin is illegal and it forces people to get it from scumbags who could have cut it with anything but that doesn't mean that heroin should be made legal - because heroin is a bad thing

    And no one's actually forcing them to get abortions, the idea of the law is to stop them. I just think that "the law's being broken anyway so you should just make it legal" is a very poor argument because, as with most pro abortion arguments, it makes the assumption that there's nothing wrong with abortion. That statement doesn't make any sense if you apply it to any law except abortion

    No,I'm saying abortions shouldn't be banned just because we think that abortions shouldn't happen. It's silly and childish. You have to look at the reality of the situation, and not just look down from a moralistic perch and say "OK, I'm happy because abortions are illegal", while all around you, illegal abortions are happening, women's mental and physical health is being jeaporised and rape victims are being forced to bear children they don't want.

    The reason I mentioned Singer earlier is because he's a consequentalist and so am I. I would rather that abortions don't happen. But I'm not simple enough to think that just banning them is the best thing. If a woman really wants an abortion, she will have it, regardless of whether it is illegal or not. Surely the 7,000 Irish women who have abortions every year is evidence enough of this.

    So I don't think making things "illegal" just because you like the idea of a society where this sort of thing is banned and then people will stop having abortions and the whole problem will go away, is just incredibly simplistic. Has heroin gone away? No. Has making prostitution illegal made it go away? No Making something illegal or not, really doesn't make these issues just go away.

    Edit: nacho libre, I've changed my opinion insofar as I cannot argue that a foetus is not a living thing but I am still opposed to making abortion illegal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,288 ✭✭✭✭ntlbell


    taconnol wrote: »

    So I don't think making things "illegal" just because you like the idea of a society where this sort of thing is banned and then people will stop having abortions and the whole problem will go away, is just incredibly simplistic. Has heroin gone away? No. Has making prostitution illegal made it go away? No Making something illegal or not, really doesn't make these issues just go away.

    No one is stupid or childish enough to think to making something ilegal will stop it, it's not illegal in Ireland and it still goes on. as does the usage of heroin but that doesn't mean we should make it legal because people are doing it.

    To start saying it's ok to commit murder is going down a very dangerous road.

    The same way it would be if we made heroin legal and people started growing up where it was fairly normal to go have a few pints go back to a friends house and bang up.

    twisting both these arguments around is just pointless.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    So I don't think making things "illegal" just because you like the idea of a society where this sort of thing is banned and then people will stop having abortions and the whole problem will go away, is just incredibly simplistic. Has heroin gone away? No. Has making prostitution illegal made it go away? No Making something illegal or not, really doesn't make these issues just go away.

    Edit: nacho libre, I've changed my opinion insofar as I cannot argue that a foetus is not a living thing but I am still opposed to making abortion illegal.

    You're right, heroin and prostitution etc hasn't gone away but that's not an argument for legalising it. With abortions, the victim is out of sight and out of mind. It can't look you in the eye and fight back so it's easier to convince yourself that there actually is no victim.

    Pretty much every law on the statutes has been broken millions of times, from murder to rape to theft and no one would ever suggest "sure people are raping people anyway and they have to hide in dangerous bushes so lets make it easier on them and legalise it". And the reason no one would ever suggest that is because there is an obvious victim. With abortion you may not be able to see the victim but it still exists


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    OK look, my problem is this. I don't like the idea of the rights of a child being more important than the rights of a grown adult woman.

    There are a lot of cases in the US where anti-abortion laws have been used against women, who had no intention of having an abortion. I'm just not comfortable with that concept.

    And I still stand by my point on legalisation. There are no benefits to legalising murder, rape etc. However, there are clear and definite benefits to legalising drugs, prostitution and abortion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    OK look, my problem is this. I don't like the idea of the rights of a child being more important than the rights of a grown adult woman.
    It's not that they're more important, it's that the right to life supersedes the right to comfort. The woman is not going to die by having the baby so i don't see why she should be allowed kill it out of convenience.

    Could you justify a situation where you could save someone's life by getting up and walking away from the tv but you said "i have no obligation to you and your rights aren't more important than mine"?

    Of course if the woman's life is actually in danger that's a whole different kettle of fish
    taconnol wrote: »
    There are a lot of cases in the US where anti-abortion laws have been used against women, who had no intention of having an abortion. I'm just not comfortable with that concept.
    How do you mean?
    taconnol wrote: »
    And I still stand by my point on legalisation. There are no benefits to legalising murder, rape etc. However, there are clear and definite benefits to legalising drugs, prostitution and abortion.
    there is at least one benefit to legalising murder but one you mightn't think of. If murder is illegal then murderers go to jail and leave their wives and families to fend for themselves. Often children are left with no parent because they're in jail. If murder was legal we wouldn't have this problem. But you would never suggest that murder should be made legal because the murderer has committed and heinous act and deserves to be punished for it. Again, your argument only works if you make the assumption that abortion is not wrong, which i don't accept


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,288 ✭✭✭✭ntlbell


    taconnol wrote: »
    OK look, my problem is this. I don't like the idea of the rights of a child being more important than the rights of a grown adult woman.

    how about them just been of equal importance?

    would that not sit well with you?


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    It's not that they're more important, it's that the right to life supersedes the right to comfort. The woman is not going to die by having the baby so i don't see why she should be allowed kill it out of convenience.
    Sure, I don't agree with convenience but you've used the word "comfort" in a very vague way.
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    Of course if the woman's life is actually in danger that's a whole different kettle of fish
    Ah, I was under the impression you were anti-abortion in all cases.
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    How do you mean?



    As a woman, this video is very disturbing to watch.

    I'd just like to say that my father was put up for adoption so I may be one generation removed, but I am in a similar situation to you. It still doesn't impact on my attitude towards women's rights. I think you would feel differently about this if you were a woman and genuinely experienced the notion that your body is somehow public property and the state can force you to do something with your body that you don't want to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    Sure, I don't agree with convenience but you've used the word "comfort" in a very vague way.
    I wasn't sure exactly what word to use. Basically i mean that the woman isn't going to die so her rights aren't being ignored, they just don't give her the right to kill someone else because their right to life is equal
    taconnol wrote: »
    Ah, I was under the impression you were anti-abortion in all cases.
    If it's a choice between the mother and the child, i'll generally choose the mother. It's a triage situation where you have to choose one of them and anyway, in the vast majority of cases that could be considered abortion and not birth the foetus will die anyway if the mother dies

    taconnol wrote: »
    As a woman, this video is very disturbing to watch.
    I'm not sure why the law even got involved. She wanted the child so why all the force :confused:

    Also, at that stage we're not talking about a foetus that can be mistaken for a clump of cells, we're talking about a fully functional human being that can live outside the mother's body. Why should her right to not have a c section (or whatever the problem was, i didn't quite get it) supersede someone else's right to life?
    taconnol wrote: »
    I'd just like to say that my father was put up for adoption so I may be one generation removed, but I am in a similar situation to you. It still doesn't impact on my attitude towards women's rights. I think you would feel differently about this if you were a woman and genuinely experienced the notion that your body is somehow public property and the state can force you to do something with your body that you don't want to do.

    You know you're right, if i was a woman i'd probably feel differently but that actually supports my point. A woman can't be objective because the problem directly affects her. She's terrified of having a child with all the problems that causes so of course she's more likely to support the argument that she shouldn't have to do it. That doesn't mean the argument is correct, it means fear has pushed her towards that point of view


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    You know you're right, if i was a woman i'd probably feel differently but that actually supports my point. A woman can't be objective because the problem directly affects her. She's terrified of having a child with all the problems that causes so of course she's more likely to support the argument that she shouldn't have to do it. That doesn't mean the argument is correct, it means fear has pushed her towards that point of view
    I would have to totally reject this. A woman may have fears and feel a lot of emotions but it does not mean that she is not capable of making a rational decision, or one that is not right for her. I could equally argue that because of your situation, your opinion on abortion is equally affected. As it stands, I don't think your opinion on abortion is invalid, just because of where you came from.

    To be honest, this thread has really make me question how I feel about abortion-and I'm a self-professed feminist! I think I need to go away and think about it. Thanks for the chat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    taconnol wrote: »
    I would have to totally reject this. A woman may have fears and feel a lot of emotions but it does not mean that she is not capable of making a rational decision, or one that is not right for her. I could equally argue that because of your situation, your opinion on abortion is equally affected. As it stands, I don't think your opinion on abortion is invalid, just because of where you came from.

    To be honest, this thread has really make me question how I feel about abortion-and I'm a self-professed feminist! I think I need to go away and think about it. Thanks for the chat.

    I didn't mean to suggest that a woman is incapable of making a rational decision, just that she's more likely to make the decision that's easier for her, the same as anyone would regardless of the issue

    Thank you too :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    axel rose wrote: »
    wow...I wonder how many of our anti abortion posters have actually been in the position of chosing whether or not to have an abortion. How many of our posters have organised adoptions for themselves?
    Yea making something illegal really solves the problem :rolleyes:. Punishing desperate women is even more appropiate.........

    I know this is a reductio ad absurdum argument, but this is one that has to be made.

    Making stealing illegal really solves the problem? However it still warrants punishment even if the problem is not solved entirely.

    Abortion is illegal in Irish law as currently the majority of the Irish population have deemed it unethical, and the Irish government has pledged to vindicate the rights of the unborn as well as those of the mother.

    There are two sets of rights to be considered, the rights of the mother and the rights of the child, and arguably the rights of input from the father should also be considered so three.

    I think that a prison penalty would be warranted in the case of abortions in which the mothers life is not threatened. However arguably this should be applied to the right to travel also.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    What about a doctor who got heroin for someone who would have likely gone to a dealer anyway? Should he be let off?

    So long as he wasn't making a profit from it I'd also hate to see him in jail cell for what you just mentioned.
    As i keep saying, that logic only works if you assume there's nothing wrong with abortion, which anti abortionists don't accept

    Well. . . .yes, and the title of the thread situted in humanities is "What should the penalty be for illegal abortions?". If it were a legal discussion I wouldn't have given that answer.
    now that's an odd concept :confused:

    You get punished or not depending on the method used to kill the foetus? Surely it either has a right to life or is a clump of cells that can be discarded? Are there ways that i can kill you without being prosecuted?

    As I said, its a grey area. I guess I see the foetus as the woman's property up to a certain point. And to a woman who wants a child it's emotionally valuble property.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    taconnol wrote: »

    To be honest, this thread has really make me question how I feel about abortion-and I'm a self-professed feminist! I think I need to go away and think about it. Thanks for the chat.

    Feminism did not support abortion until the 1960s when it focused [too much imo] itself on reproductive rights. Earlier feminists such as Susan B Anthony were anti-abortion.

    [QUOTE=Bottleofsmoke]
    . I guess I see the foetus as the woman's property up to a certain point. And to a woman who wants a child it's emotionally valuble property.[/QUOTE]

    You know the irony would be funny if it werent so tragic. Feminist use this argument to justify abortion, and its the same argument men used to justify violence towards women for decades.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,012 ✭✭✭✭thebman


    Feminism did not support abortion until the 1960s when it focused [too much imo] itself on reproductive rights. Earlier feminists such as Susan B Anthony were anti-abortion.



    You know the irony would be funny if it werent so tragic. Feminist use this argument to justify abortion, and its the same argument men used to justify violence towards women for decades.

    Well women don't live inside men.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    Feminism did not support abortion until the 1960s when it focused [too much imo] itself on reproductive rights. Earlier feminists such as Susan B Anthony were anti-abortion.
    Yes. One of the reason they were anti-abortion was because they saw it as another way for men to control women's bodies and fertility. And, the argument you state below - ie they didn't want to treat any other person as their property, as had been done to women for so long.
    You know the irony would be funny if it werent so tragic. Feminist use this argument to justify abortion, and its the same argument men used to justify violence towards women for decades.
    Ahem..some feminists. :) . For the vast majority of women, it's about being in control of their own bodies and fertility and not being forced into motherhood.

    I was thinking about this subject and how last year, people were talking about making it illegal for a pregnant woman to drink/smoke etc. If we are willing to force a woman to carry a baby to term, surely under the same logic, we are also willing to do this?

    How do people feel about this?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    taconnol wrote: »

    Ahem..some feminists. :) . For the vast majority of women, it's about being in control of their own bodies and fertility and not being forced into motherhood.

    I was thinking about this subject and how last year, people were talking about making it illegal for a pregnant woman to drink/smoke etc. If we are willing to force a woman to carry a baby to term, surely under the same logic, we are also willing to do this?

    How do people feel about this?

    If they dont want to be mothers there is adoption.

    As long as abortion is legal then there is no sense in making it illegal to kill your feotus with alcohol and cigarettes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,012 ✭✭✭✭thebman


    If they dont want to be mothers there is adoption.

    As long as abortion is legal then there is no sense in making it illegal to kill your feotus with alcohol and cigarettes.

    That's like saying as long as you have the death sentence, there is no point in making murder illegal.

    I'll get my gun :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    thebman wrote: »
    That's like saying as long as you have the death sentence, there is no point in making murder illegal.

    I'll get my gun :)

    Why? If your argument is its her property she can do what she likes with it then she can fumigate it and drown it in alcohol if she likes.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 6,376 Mod ✭✭✭✭Macha


    If they dont want to be mothers there is adoption.
    There are estimated to be over 40 million abortions a year? Do you really want an extra 40 million children in orphenages/state care? The world already has millions of children that are never adopted.
    As long as abortion is legal then there is no sense in making it illegal to kill your feotus with alcohol and cigarettes.
    Abortion is only legal in a few circumstances in Ireland.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    taconnol wrote: »
    There are estimated to be over 40 million abortions a year? Do you really want an extra 40 million children in orphenages/state care? The world already has millions of children that are never adopted.

    Your solution is genocide?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    So long as he wasn't making a profit from it I'd also hate to see him in jail cell for what you just mentioned.
    but you'd have to ask yourself why was he doing it and should he have been doing it. tbh i wouldn't like to see him go to jail either because with heroin, the person he's giving it to is a consenting adult and chooses to take it. personally i wouldn't think he'd done anything wrong at all, i used that example because most people wouldn't see it that way. but the unborn child is not a consenting adult and doesn't want to die
    As I said, its a grey area. I guess I see the foetus as the woman's property up to a certain point. And to a woman who wants a child it's emotionally valuble property.
    and that again is where we differ. as someone already said, that was the argument used to subjugate women, it was also the argument used to subjugate black people and it's now the argument used to subjugate the unborn. i sincerely hope that in a few years we look back on that argument with the same disgust as we do the other two. a human cannot be another human's property, whether they've grown a brain yet or not
    thebman wrote: »
    That's like saying as long as you have the death sentence, there is no point in making murder illegal.

    I'll get my gun :)
    it's really not the same thing at all tbh. firstly there would be no sentence, death or otherwise if it was legal so your statement makes no sense. and if the argument is that the foetus is the property of the woman she should be allowed to whatever she wants to it, be it kill it by sucking it out or severely injure it with cigarettes and alcohol. as pro abortionists say, it doesn't matter what it might potentially become in the future, all that matters is that right now the foetus is not a person and has no rights
    taconnol wrote: »
    There are estimated to be over 40 million abortions a year? Do you really want an extra 40 million children in orphenages/state care? The world already has millions of children that are never adopted.
    maybe if abortion wasn't such an easy option people would be a bit more careful. and tbh, yes, i would rather that. killing 40 million human beings because it would be too much hassle to have them around reminds me of something that i don't want to mention for fear of Godwinning the thread


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