Why are women in bars/clubs so nasty?

Handsome Bob

CDfm wrote: »

The Recessionista Approach

Chat up line - wouldn't be "Can a refresh your drink ,Miss" by any chance?

Does it work better in some clubs and should the gentleman wear a suit and look suitably affluent?

My mates approach (not me of course) is to go smack bang into the middle of the dance floor at 1a.m and dance up beside females until finally one doesn't turn away in disgust.:pac:

Galvasean

Myggel wrote: »

Happened to a friend of mine in Cork. Nice guy, very respectful.He literally just went up to a girl, said a polite hi and she looked at him as if he just shagged her mum dad sister and dog, called him a loser, did the head roll and walked away.
He gave her a kick in the hole as she walked away. Literally lifted her off the ground

So his CV is:
- nice guy
- very respectful
- prone to the odd kick up the b-o-o-t-y.

newballsplease

i saw a girl at a bar before, her handbag was wide open, she was facing the other way, i saw her passport fags etc in it. i tapped her on the shoulder and told her she should probably close her bag coz god knows who might nic something. i was being nice( i thought), she looked at me like i had 4 heads and turned her back, she eventually did close it after a while. b atch

scanlas

Chill, who cares if women are rude in a nightclub, I have great nights out nearly all the time. If all women were nice in a nightclub that would be false and boring. I like it when a woman is rude to me, it's just another opportunity to have a fun conversation.

AnnieB82

I never knew women were that nasty. When guys chatted me up I was very flattered and never thought I was better or anything like that. The problem with me was that if I didn't like them - I found it hard to say no and would often give out my number and then panic. IMO my approach was worse as I was leading on (not intentionally though). Only once when this geriatric ( and I do mean 70+) asked me out to this dance did I manage to directly decline. I did however approach my current partner who was way too shy to talk to girls. I think if you like the look of someone you should talk to them regardless of your sex.

CDfm

AnnieB82 wrote: »

Only once when this geriatric ( and I do mean 70+) asked me out to this dance did I manage to directly decline.

Well dont go the Ballroom of Romance at the Burlington Hotel then:pac:

Harolds+

AnnieB82 wrote: »

I did however approach my current partner who was way to shy to talk to girls. I think if you like the look of someone you should talk to them regardless of your sex.

Fair play to you.

I wish there were more women out there like you and I think fellas should never be afraid to talk to women and vice versa (as per above). The nightclub/bar scene is a nightmare to anyone who wishes to make the first move but there are nice ways to display a "no thanks".

CDfm

I don't go to clubs but whats the motivation there really - to meet women or , get drunk or, meet drunk women and sleep with them.

Do girls who go clubbing get there early and get in for free and probably are tanked up before they arrive.

What do they say - something like " I wouldn't sleep with ya if ya were the only lunatic in the place left with enough money for chips n a taxi" or do they wait until you buy a few drinks first?

Stheno

CDfm wrote: »

Well dont go the Ballroom of Romance at the Burlington Hotel then:pac:

Heeheee this made me laugh, one of the blokes I work with made a bet we'd not guess where he'd been at the weekend recently.

After much guessing, turns out he'd been at the Ballroom of Romance in the Berkely (sp?) Court one Saturday night, was one of the youngest there (now he doesn't drink, and estimated the average age at 67), and he was all agog, he's a bit innocent tbh

That said, he'd no reports of rudeness!!! from man or woman

Armin_Tamzarian

nouggatti wrote: »

Heeheee this made me laugh, one of the blokes I work with made a bet we'd not guess where he'd been at the weekend recently.

After much guessing, turns out he'd been at the Ballroom of Romance in the Berkely (sp?) Court one Saturday night, was one of the youngest there (now he doesn't drink, and estimated the average age at 67), and he was all agog, he's a bit innocent tbh

That said, he'd no reports of rudeness!!! from man or woman

Lol, kinda reminds me of a place near O'Connel St. that my mates dragged me along to when I was 19.
Rumours I believe it was called,,, the horror, the horror....

Sammag

I haven't read all of the posts in this thread (too early in the day here to be reading 18 pages )

But as a woman I would often make comment when I lived back home in relation to "WTF is wrong with so many women in pubs and clubs in Dublin?!"

For example, I'd often stand in a queue for the loo in a pub like say - 'The Odeon' and the GLARES you'd get off some women staring you up and down would cut you in two :eek:
I would stand there flabbergasted especially when you'd catch them doing it and look at them in the face and you'd be given a massive "Fu*k you, who the f*ck do you think you are?!!" look complete with upper lip curl and a flick of the head. It's was NUTS. If you accidentally bumped into one on the way out of the loo and said 'Jesus really sorry!' and smiled etc. you'd be met with another 'Ugh get lost bi*ch' scowl... ?!?

Then you'd see others standing in the bars, flicking their hair, scanning the room - aka somewhere like 'The Capitol' on Georges St comes to mind, and they'd just emanate this really stand-offish, "Don't come near me boys, I'm so bloody stunning you couldn't have me even in your dream" attitude. All whilst plastering a grumpy, 'I'm above all this' nasty scowl on their faces.

I used to think "You know honey, you're a good-looking girl, maybe if you smiled just a tad, you'd do a heck of a lot more for yourself in the attraction department"

I don't get it at all. :rolleyes:

CDfm

Sammag wrote: »

I don't get it at all. :rolleyes:

Enough of your disasterous efforts to snare a man- what happens as a mating ritual in Oz?.

You obviously are sticking to this nice approach which gets you no-where.As you have admitted it hasn't worked for you. Men love moody and unpredictable women -its soo hot. In fact, I was out earlier and wasn't told "**** off you looser" my night was ruined. I held open a door and was so disappointed not being told " you lech -are you trying to look at my arse" that my evening was ruined.

You have very strange ideas.Thats why you are not getting it and I'm not surprised

Sammag

CDfm wrote: »

Enough of your disasterous efforts to snare a man- what happens as a mating ritual in Oz?.

You obviously are sticking to this nice approach which gets you no-where.As you have admitted it hasn't worked for you. Men love moody and unpredictable women -its soo hot. In fact, I was out earlier and wasn't told "**** off you looser" my night was ruined. I held open a door and was so disappointed not being told " you lech -are you trying to look at my arse" that my evening was ruined.

You have very strange ideas.Thats why you are not getting it and I'm not surprised

Pardon? *LOL*

Red Hand

CDfm wrote: »

Enough of your disasterous efforts to snare a man- what happens as a mating ritual in Oz?.

You obviously are sticking to this nice approach which gets you no-where.As you have admitted it hasn't worked for you. Men love moody and unpredictable women -its soo hot. In fact, I was out earlier and wasn't told "**** off you looser" my night was ruined. I held open a door and was so disappointed not being told " you lech -are you trying to look at my arse" that my evening was ruined.

You have very strange ideas.Thats why you are not getting it and I'm not surprised

Yes...it's so disappointing not to get even a "Did something just crawl down your throat and die".:pac:

CDfm

Jeremiah 16:1 wrote: »

"Did something just crawl down your throat and die".:pac:

Classy and sophisticated:pac: