Girls are "friendlier" during a recession...

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:29pm #1

So I get a shout from one of the lads on Saturday afternoon inviting me out for a "large" one with about 6 of them on Saturday night. They're apparently heading to a certain relatively upmarket club, donning the designer suits, as is their way (Know them from college, they're all 24-28, work in very solid jobs considering, or live on dod's money, but that's beside the point). Haven't been out with this set of lads in about a year so what the heck, my finest goes on too and out we pop.

So... we get to club X and from the get go the lot of us/them are attracting attention from various groups of (hot) girls. This goes on all night, it wasn't even a challenge (in single man's terms). Long story short we were each asked by several different girls on several different occasions throughout the night to buy various girls drinks, their friends drinks, etc... Moreso the other lads, as I'm not single and wasn't mixing it up as much as them. One of the lads was even invited back to a girl's house (who he'd only been talkin to for 5 minutes!), but he had to pay for the taxi (~€50)!?!

I honestly felt like I was back in that Phuket gogo bar at times, I haven't seen anything like this in Dublin before.

So... Have single (hot) girls in Ireland dropped their standards in the name of a free ride (so to speak)? - Or has the recession moved the ethics goalposts for one-night gold-diggery by an alarmingly noticeable amount?

Lads? Any similar experiences?

biko · 23-02-2009 4:31pm

They asked you to pay their drinks and the taxi, it's recession alright.

anonymousjunkie · 23-02-2009 4:32pm

Ah here. You can't go putting up a post like that and not tell us which club you were in!!

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:32pm

fair shout then... Krystle

RxQueen · 23-02-2009 4:33pm

maybe them girls where just easy , recession times or not

tribulus · 23-02-2009 4:33pm

Café En Seine

edit: bah

CountingCrows · 23-02-2009 4:33pm

Club X = Coppers

23-02-2009 4:33pm

You dress up as a pack of sleazes to hit the town, flash the cash and get the girls.

Then you complain that those girls are only attracted by the drinks/money etc?

Seriously- what were you after? A nice girl to take home to the mammy and then marry or a shag?

twinytwo · 23-02-2009 4:33pm

consultech wrote: »

So I get a shout from one of the lads on Saturday afternoon inviting me out for a "large" one with about 6 of them on Saturday night. They're apparently heading to a certain relatively upmarket club, donning the designer suits, as is their way (Know them from college, they're all 24-28, work in very solid jobs considering, or live on dod's money, but that's beside the point). Haven't been out with this set of lads in about a year so what the heck, my finest goes on too and out we pop.

So... we get to club X and from the get go the lot of us/them are attracting attention from various groups of (hot) girls. This goes on all night, it wasn't even a challenge (in single man's terms). Long story short we were each asked by several different girls on several different occasions throughout the night to buy various girls drinks, their friends drinks, etc... Moreso the other lads, as I'm not single and wasn't mixing it up as much as them. One of the lads was even invited back to a girl's house (who he'd only been talkin to for 5 minutes!), but he had to pay for the taxi (~€50)!?!

I honestly felt like I was back in that Phuket gogo bar at times, I haven't seen anything like this in Dublin before.

So... Have single (hot) girls in Ireland dropped their standards in the name of a free ride (so to speak)? - Or has the recession moved the ethics goalposts for one-night gold-diggery by an alarmingly noticeable amount?

Lads? Any similar experiences?

Dude..... you got played

Terry · 23-02-2009 4:34pm

Are you sure it wasn't a strip club?

Wagon · 23-02-2009 4:35pm

Can't say I have experienced that. I dress like a medevil peasent so most girls are just as big as bitches as they were before the recession. I like it that way. Means I can go out and have a piss up without going into the whole routine of shallow chit chat which causes me to drink slower.

Krystle! What did you expect?!

stovelid · 23-02-2009 4:36pm

consultech wrote: »

Long story short we were each asked by several different girls on several different occasions throughout the night to buy various girls drinks, their friends drinks, etc...

consultech wrote: »

but he had to pay for the taxi (~€50)!?!

The girls are having to radically lower their standards in order to cover their drink and transport costs.

It's known as recessionary downscaling.

tribulus · 23-02-2009 4:37pm

00112984 wrote: »

You dress up as a pack of sleazes to hit the town, flash the cash and get the girls.

Then you complain that those girls are only attracted by the drinks/money etc?

Seriously- what were you after? A nice girl to take home to the mammy and then marry or a shag?

Lol, would wearing runners and tracksuit bottoms be considered unsleazy?

Smart Bug · 23-02-2009 4:37pm

Your friends have D4 accents, right (edit: roish)? 'cos that is the only way to score upper class whores girls in Krystle.

Poor humble mullah like me wouldn't even get in the door :mad:

And glad of it too!

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:39pm

00112984 wrote: »

You dress up as a pack of sleazes to hit the town, flash the cash and get the girls.

Then you complain that those girls are only attracted by the drinks/money etc?

Seriously- what were you after? A nice girl to take home to the mammy and then marry or a shag?

8 posts for the first defensive oestro-post. Boards is slipping.

twinytwo wrote: »

Dude..... you got played

I didn't buy anything for anyone; Moreover I got free entertainment from them all night.

23-02-2009 4:42pm

tribulus wrote: »

Lol, would wearing runners and tracksuit bottoms be considered unsleazy?

Full suit in a club = sleazy, TBH.
Now, that doesn't mean runners and tracksuit bottoms either but we've all seen men in suits in clubs. They're either complete sleazes or it's their first time out since their confirmation and the suit still fits their 14" necks.

Suits were probably shiny too. Uuuuugh! Probably all looked like a herd of estate agents.

Plus, Krystle was always full of money-grabbing Katy French wannabes. Nothing new there.

AnonoBoy · 23-02-2009 4:42pm

That sounds amazing.

I'd love to head out for a night and buy loads of girls that I don't know drinks.

Sounds fantastic.

kmick · 23-02-2009 4:45pm

AnonoBoy wrote: »

That sounds amazing.

I'd love to head out for a night and buy loads of girls that I don't know drinks.

Sounds fantastic.

You can even pay for their taxis home as well.

Noopti · 23-02-2009 4:46pm

consultech wrote: »

So... Have single (hot) girls in Ireland dropped their standards in the name of a free ride (so to speak)? -

Obviously they have....

Dragan · 23-02-2009 4:47pm

The vital piece of information we are missing here is how many of your mates scored?

Wagon · 23-02-2009 4:47pm

kmick wrote: »

You can even pay for their taxis home as well.

Hell, you might even be friends after you do!

Blazer · 23-02-2009 4:48pm

Dragan wrote: »

The vital piece of information we are missing here is how many of your mates scored?

Probably none of them...they all got played...been there..seen that..not done that

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:49pm

00112984 wrote: »

Full suit in a club = sleazy, TBH.
Now, that doesn't mean runners and tracksuit bottoms either but we've all seen men in suits in clubs. They're either complete sleazes or it's their first time out since their confirmation and the suit still fits their 14" necks.

Suits were probably shiny too. Uuuuugh! Probably all looked like a herd of estate agents.

Plus, Krystle was always full of money-grabbing Katy French wannabes. Nothing new there.

I personally don't make a habit of wearing a suit out, and I wasn't on Saturday. I however don't see a problem with it, seeing as we had been to dinner etc too.

You sound very bitter/defensive or something, for reasons which I dont (want to) know; I was only looking for a respectable male opinion, which you don't seem cut out to give, regardless of what gender you are.

You also sound like you don't know any males who even own a suit.

topper75 · 23-02-2009 4:51pm

Posh people in Dublin have such a fun time. I'd love to be one.

/stares longingly at Dublin on a map on the wall/:(

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:52pm

Dragan wrote: »

The vital piece of information we are missing here is how many of your mates scored?

Most of them. Probably 5/6. In fairness it's not like it was difficult for them though. Was a really odd night, Krystle sure as shít wasn't like that last time I was there...

Noopti · 23-02-2009 4:54pm

consultech wrote: »

I personally don't make a habit of wearing a suit out, and I wasn't on Saturday. I however don't see a problem with it, seen as we had been to dinner etc too.

You sound very bitter/defensive or something, for reasons which I dont (want to) know; I was only looking for a respectable male opinion, which you don't seem cut out to give, regardless of what gender you are.

You also sound like you don't know any males who even own a suit.

....MEN ok?....stop referring to us all as MALES! This isn't a BBC Nature Documentary, although going by your account of the night, that could well have been.

Rb · 23-02-2009 4:54pm

It's nothing to do with recession, you go to any "upmarket" bars, dress well and act confidently and you'll notice you'll get a load of attention.

It's because the women there for a very specific men reason i.e to meet men with fat wallets, regardless of how they look.

Wagon · 23-02-2009 4:54pm

consultech wrote: »

You also sound like you don't know any males who even own a suit.

I don't own one. And I have to admit 1234567890 or whatever his name is makes a good point. People in clubs tend to be **** full stop.

ejmaztec · 23-02-2009 4:54pm

AnonoBoy wrote: »

That sounds amazing.

I'd love to head out for a night and buy loads of girls.

Sounds fantastic.

fyp

rossie1977 · 23-02-2009 4:54pm

consultech wrote: »

Long story short we were each asked by several different girls on several different occasions throughout the night to buy various girls drinks, their friends drinks, etc...

if they had asked to buy yous drinks it would be different story

consultech · 23-02-2009 4:55pm

topper75 wrote: »

Posh people in Dublin have such a fun time. I'd love to be one.

/stares longingly at Dublin on a map on the wall/:(

I'm not posh by any stretch in fairness, and tbh the lads aren't that posh with the exception of one of em. They just put on a huge front with the gladrags and the hoochies seemed to lap it up, that's all I'm sayin. I've just never seen it with such uniform response b4 (outside of Bangkok/Amsterdam).

Noopti · 23-02-2009 4:57pm

consultech wrote: »

They just put on a huge front with the gladrags and the hoochies seemed to lap it up, that's all I'm sayin.

*Facepalm*

Smart Bug · 23-02-2009 4:57pm

consultech wrote: »

I'm not posh by any stretch in fairness, and tbh the lads aren't that posh with the exception of one of em. They just put on a huge front with the gladrags and the hoochies seemed to lap it up, that's all I'm sayin. I've just never seen it with such uniform response b4 (outside of Bangkok/Amsterdam).

Hmm

*dusts off 70s frilly shirt & flares*

Maybe it's about time to give this old boy a run-out

23-02-2009 4:57pm

consultech wrote: »

I personally don't make a habit of wearing a suit out, and I wasn't on Saturday. I however don't see a problem with it, seen as we had been to dinner etc too.

You sound very bitter/defensive or something, for reasons which I dont (want to) know; I was only looking for a respectable male opinion, which you don't seem cut out to give, regardless of what gender you are.

You also sound like you don't know any males who even own a suit.

*signing* Someone didn't get some... someone didn't get some... :rolleyes:

Seriously, though, my point was that you all went out looking like you had cash to splash and were then approached by women who only seemed interested in that. You lot provided the bait and they took it. Wasn't that the aim of the whole thing? I know you mentioned that you're in a relationship and weren't looking to score but were your friends?

I'm not in the least bit bitter or defensive but I've seen it so many times over my (single) years. Pack of guys in suits in a club trying to look nonchalant when, in all likelihood given the fact that it was Krystle, there were probably several other groups of men with the exact same "tactic".

It's like complaining about going to somewhere like Copper's and being asked "are you a guard/nurse" all night. Horses for courses...

petethebrick · 23-02-2009 5:06pm

Buying girls loads of drinks in order to score them is gay. Whatever about wearing suits. If you're not ugly and a sociable enough person it's simple enough to score in dublin on a night out.

vinylbomb · 23-02-2009 5:06pm

Surely the title for this thread should be "Girls in Krystle are gold-diggier during a recession"?

If they were friendlier they may even have a conversation, not invite you to blow your readies (if nothing else) on them.

When they start offering to buy you drinks, then start blowing your trumpet.
Until then, consider yourself one of the masses.

miaowsky · 23-02-2009 5:07pm

rossie1977 wrote: »

if they had asked to buy yous drinks it would be different story

A bit off topic, but i've done that before on a night out.

Back on topic, I hate girls like that, I work in a club and they just bat their fake eyelashes and expect everyone to fall at their feet. I say feel sorry for the lads who think they're in with a chance!

AnonoBoy · 23-02-2009 5:09pm

vinylbomb wrote: »

blow your readies

That phrase conjures up some manner of bizarre cereal based sex act. Ugh!

consultech · 23-02-2009 5:09pm

vinylbomb wrote: »

Surely the title for this thread should be "Girls in Krystle are gold-diggier during a recession"?

Quotation marks = Euphemism

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Dragan · 23-02-2009 5:13pm

Rb wrote: »

It's nothing to do with recession, you go to any "upmarket" bars, dress well and act confidently and you'll notice you'll get a load of attention.

It's because the women there for a very specific men reason i.e to meet men with fat wallets, regardless of how they look.

Pretty much. Next time you guys go in don't buy and drinks and see how far your personalities get you!!!

In places like that it won't be very far.

Unless you're me.

Of course.

vinylbomb · 23-02-2009 5:14pm

Somebody is getting ped-an-tic!!!

Not received the congratulation you felt your male sexual prowess deserved?

Were you wearing Sex Panther? 60% of the time...............

MIN2511 · 23-02-2009 5:15pm

Krystle regular myself i would agreee with ya...

These girls are screaming "Come take me" dressed in barely no clothes, make up to the nines and i am not kidding... designer handbags and shoes... etc yet they can't afford to buy themselves drinks...

Plus, they always ring Brian to ask for free entry! Jeez!!!! It's only a tenner!

AnonoBoy · 23-02-2009 5:17pm

MIN2511 wrote: »

Plus, they always ring Brian to ask for free entry! Jeez!!!! It's only a tenner!

That's not the point - it's all about rockin' the guest list for these birds.

*swish* *swish* *swish* to the top of the queue "Oh me? I'm on the guestlist!"

vinylbomb · 23-02-2009 5:18pm

I haven't actually been in there yet but I guess it would be along the same sort of lines of Reynards and Lillies 4/5/6 years ago?
Or am I way wide of the mark?

Wagon · 23-02-2009 5:21pm

vinylbomb wrote: »

I haven't actually been in there yet but I guess it would be along the same sort of lines of Reynards and Lillies 4/5/6 years ago?
Or am I way wide of the mark?

If you mean a sham of a place attended by mainly **** then no, you're spot on

MIN2511 · 23-02-2009 5:24pm

AnonoBoy wrote: »

That's not the point - it's all about rockin' the guest list for these birds.

*swish* *swish* *swish* to the top of the queue "Oh me? I'm on the guestlist!"

Ah "guest list" hehehhe lol...

makes mental note to get on the guest list:D

vinylbomb wrote: »

I haven't actually been in there yet but I guess it would be along the same sort of lines of Reynards and Lillies 4/5/6 years ago?
Or am I way wide of the mark?

Lillies and Reynards are members only after 11 and before 11 it's guest list/tenner as far as i remember...
My mate dated a guy who was a member so we always got in... fooking membership costs 1.5k per anum or so for each:mad:

drunkymonkey · 23-02-2009 5:28pm

00112984 wrote: »

Full suit in a club = sleazy, TBH.
Now, that doesn't mean runners and tracksuit bottoms either but we've all seen men in suits in clubs. They're either complete sleazes or it's their first time out since their confirmation and the suit still fits their 14" necks.

Or reenacting 'Night at the Roxbury'.

James T Kirk · 23-02-2009 5:41pm

Thank Christ I dropkicked that scene a few years ago. Memories are flooding back. The horror... the horror...

vinylbomb · 23-02-2009 5:44pm

Wagon wrote: »

If you mean a sham of a place attended by mainly **** then no, you're spot on

Thats what I was aiming at alright, I don't think I could have expressed it quite so succinctly though.

MIN2511 · 23-02-2009 5:47pm

James T Kirk wrote: »

Thank Christ I dropkicked that scene a few years ago. Memories are flooding back. The horror... the horror...

Ah shssshhh you loved it!!!

Tbh i go to these places once every 2nd/3rd month tbh i prefer pubs and my latest fave place to hang out is the bar with no name right beside Hogans... good atmosphere...

Note: if you want to score, go elsewhere... Sorta place to go with mates and have a good laugh

stovelid · 23-02-2009 5:49pm

Dragan wrote: »

The rhetorical piece of information we are missing here is how many of your mates have ever scored?

Fixed.

Girls are "friendlier" during a recession...

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