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Into her, Just not THAT into her

LegacyUser · 2009-03-31 11:06:47

Here’s the thing, Been dating my girlfriend for the past five months, and I’m having a really nice time. We got very serious very fast , practically moving in together on and off though not officially .. The thing is I don’t think I’m as into her as she is into me. I care for her deeply, miss her when she’s not around, but…

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31-03-2009 12:06pm

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Here’s the thing,
Been dating my girlfriend for the past five months, and I’m having a really nice time. We got very serious very fast , practically moving in together on and off though not officially .. The thing is I don’t think I’m as into her as she is into me. I care for her deeply, miss her when she’s not around, but as for spending the rest of my life with her, I just don’t know. She on the other hand is talking 20 years down the road stuff and it’s freaking me out a bit. I never want to hurt her and she would be fairly fragile emotionally. Though I do love her I just don’t feel the passion I felt with previous exes and now I’m in too deep to tell her that. I don’t want to split up with her we get on great, but I don’t want to lead her on either. I’m enjoying myself, but feel we have different expectations of the relationship. Should I just go with the flow and hope that my feelings will change, or cut my losses now, which I think would be a strange thing to do considering we are having fun and getting along well.

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