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  • 04-04-2009 4:35pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey, long standing member but going unreged for this one. Basically I (a 20 y/o guy) was with a girl who is a friend of my friends about two months ago. I thought however it was just a once off thing. However we have been together four or five times since, and I am really starting to like her, and she obviously likes me to some degree at least. The thing is I've never been in a relationship before and we don't really text each other or anything, we just kind of get together on nights out etc. (we haven't had sex btw).

    I am really terrible at this kind of stuff, and I guess kind of shy as well so very hesitant to make a move in terms of forming a relationship. I'm not even able to tell if forming a relationship is the way she is thinking. My friends reckon that at this stage it is kind of time to find out what the story is, but I'm terrified to do so!

    Any advice?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Anyone? I'd really appreciate some advice! Thanks!


  • #3
    paperplanes
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭paperplanes


    If I was you I'd give her a text and maybe ask her to do something, like go to the cinema. As you say, she must like you to some degree, and it wouldn't be like a 'first date' thing at this stage either. Give it a go! :)


  • #4
    cantdecide
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    If I were you I'd just pick an opportune moment and lay your cards on the table. What about going for a walk?

    Tell her something like 'so we've kissed a couple of times and I think you know I like you. I've really gotten used to the idea of being with you but I don't know if you feel the same. I hope you do. We've gone with the flow until now but I think I want to make us a little more official. What do you think?'


  • #5
    prinz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Just tell her you'd like to see her during daylight hours to discount the possibility of her being a vampire.:D

    Go for it. Text, call, email whatever and just ask her out.Even a night out, where it's just the two of you meeting up, with no friends or groups. Talk to the girl.


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