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Feeling Isolated

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  • 13-04-2009 12:46am
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    LegacyUser
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    Hey guys, I typed up this post last night, but it didn't get posted for some reason. I am a registered user but I don't really want anyone finding out about this post so I'm going unreg.

    Anyways here is the thing. I am a 23 year old female. I have come-out of the closet in the last eight months to most people.There are still a few that don't know. Everyone has been fine about it really, as it isn't that big of a deal to anyone.

    But here is my problem. I have never had a girlfriend and I am still a virgin. I feel horribly embarassed about this, and I would really like to meet someone nice, but it just feels impossible. I feel as though I have done everything I am suppossed to do to meet other gay people. I have joined my lgbt society in college. I go to all the meetings, and have gone on nights out and stuff, but still I feel isolated and struggling. I have made a couple of friends from the group, but most of them already know each other a long time so I generally feel on the outside of things. I am worried that I wont really see any of them over the Summer break from college either so I will be back to being totally isolated. I just don't know what to do anymore. Can anyone offer any advice, or opinions on my situation?Thanks.


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