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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    How about this scenario:

    You're in a war and you and your friend are both injured, him far more gravely than you. The doctor on site makes a split second decision and stitches the two of you together. You then find yourself in a situation where if you detach another human from your body, you'll survive but he'll die. Does he then forfeit his human rights?

    Heh :) I wouldn't like the idea of having my friend being attached to me either. But I suppose i know my friend, I am their friend for a reason because I like them. They can stay as long as they don't laugh at me when I pee.

    I don't know my foetus. I don't care about whats growing inside me, no-one else knows whats growing inside me. I have the potential to make plenty plenty more of that thing, if I do not want it to be in me for 9 months then have to squeeze it out my fanny then I will get rid of it one way or another. Unfortunatley the only current option in this country is one that will endanger my own life (bar travelling).
    But the thing is, I am a Girlfriend, Sister, Daughter, Friend, Neice, etc....I am in society and will be missed if I die, the foetus isn't. Only I will suffer potential emotional consequences of it's termination.


  • Registered Users Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    In that case the woman finds herself in the unfortunate situation that there is a human being growing inside her who has just as much of a right to life as she does.

    Well that's just the point isn't it? It's not accepted that the human inside her has as much rights. Otherwise abortion wouldn't be acceptable anywhere.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    http://www.abortionno.org/Resources/fastfacts.html
    Number of abortions per year: Approximately 42 Million
    Number of abortions per day: Approximately 115,000

    42 million 'lifestyle choices' per year.

    In a population of 6 billion, does anyone really give a **** about that amount of aborted potential lives?


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    WindSock wrote: »
    Heh :) I wouldn't like the idea of having my friend being attached to me either. But I suppose i know my friend, I am their friend for a reason because I like them. They can stay as long as they don't laugh at me when I pee.

    I don't know my foetus. I don't care about whats growing inside me, no-one else knows whats growing inside me. I have the potential to make plenty plenty more of that thing, if I do not want it to be in me for 9 months then have to squeeze it out my fanny then I will get rid of it one way or another. Unfortunatley the only current option in this country is one that will endanger my own life (bar travelling).
    But the thing is, I am a Girlfriend, Sister, Daughter, Friend, Neice, etc....I am in society and will be missed if I die, the foetus isn't. Only I will suffer potential emotional consequences of it's termination.

    Now that's a different point altogether. Now you're arguing that it's ok to kill a human being as long as you don't know it and it doesn't effect others, which brings back the question of is it ok to kill homeless people or people who live alone in the woods?

    And now you'll of course have to admit now that it's not as simple as abortion is ok because it can't survive outside your body?

    I have a response that invalidates pretty much every one of these arbitrary lines people draw ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    Malari wrote: »
    Well that's just the point isn't it? It's not accepted that the human inside her has as much rights. Otherwise abortion wouldn't be acceptable anywhere.

    The global South seems to reject barbarism more than the the global North.
    http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/56/AbortionLawsMap-NoLegend.png

    It may not be accepted by certain societies. Then again several things weren't accepted by certain societies that we now find appalling. It's not much of an argument. People are able to justify vile things when they want to.

    WindSock: 42 million deaths. It's the Holocaust 7 times over in a single year.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,794 ✭✭✭JC 2K3


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    there is a human being growing inside her who has just as much of a right to life as she does.
    I don't agree that it has as much a right to life as she does.

    I don't think a minimally sentient human being, who is very early in development, should be considered more important than an adult.

    I think that to be a person, to be granted human rights, requires more than to be alive by biological definition.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,857 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    There was a thread in PI a while ago about a couple that agreed that if the girl should get pregnant, she would have an abortion, as neither of them were ready to have a child.

    She got pregnant, but changed her mind about the abortion, and now the chap is f*cked.

    Hope that doesn't put you off sex :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Malari wrote: »
    Well that's just the point isn't it? It's not accepted that the human inside her has as much rights. Otherwise abortion wouldn't be acceptable anywhere.

    People used to convince themselves that it was ok to enslave black people because they weren't really people. Back in the day the majority of people saw nothing immoral with it at all

    My point being that just because there's a debate doesn't mean both sides have equal merit. The way I see it, people convince themselves that a foetus doesn't really have rights not based on any kind of evidence but on the fact that they simply don't want it to have rights


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    JC 2K3 wrote: »
    I don't agree that it has as much a right to life as she does.

    I don't think a minimally sentient human being, who is very early in development, should be considered more important than an adult.

    I think that to be a person, to be granted human rights, requires more than to be alive by biological definition.

    Why is that though other than that definition makes life a lot easier? I prefer to go with what's actually true rather than what I want to be true, regardless of how inconvenient that might be

    Edit: no one's saying the foetus is more important, it's as important


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,794 ✭✭✭JC 2K3


    But "rights" are not scientific or evidence based in any way. They're a bunch of arbitrary ideals. Why shouldn't they then be conferred in an equally arbitrary manner?

    EDIT: There's no universal truth that says all humans should have human rights from the moment of conception.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,353 ✭✭✭Goduznt Xzst


    Ok pro-lifers, I'm going to open up a question to you which I'd be interested in getting as many answers as possible.

    Say you get your way and all the abortion clinics are closed down and abortion is made illegal.

    If it was found that a woman had had an illegal abortion what should happen to her? How should she be punished for her crime?


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    JC 2K3 wrote: »
    But "rights" are not scientific or evidence based in any way. They're a bunch of arbitrary ideals. Why shouldn't they then be conferred in an equally arbitrary manner?

    Now that's a very dangerous road to go down..........


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Ok pro-lifers, I'm going to open up a question to you which I'd be interested in getting as many answers as possible.

    Say you get your way and all the abortion clinics are closed down and abortion is made illegal.

    If it was found that a woman had had an illegal abortion what should happen to her? How should she be punished for her crime?

    We already have laws to cover such a circumstance. It's called murder. The point you're trying to make only works if you assume that a woman getting an abortion is doing nothing wrong, just like all pro choice arguments

    Edit: sorry to clarify, I'd treat them the same way a woman who kills her new born is. They're considered less responsible because their heads are a mess from hormones.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 861 ✭✭✭KeyLimePie


    I'm 100% against abortion unless there's a case where the child will be stillborn, or by giving birth both the mother and/or child will die.

    But then again I haven't a womb so I can't really be telling women what to be doing with themselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    Now that's a different point altogether. Now you're arguing that it's ok to kill a human being as long as you don't know it and it doesn't effect others, which brings back the question of is it ok to kill homeless people or people who live alone in the woods?

    And now you'll of course have to admit now that it's not as simple as abortion is ok because it can't survive outside your body?

    A homeless loner can survive without the need to be attached to me. A person outside of my body is abstract from me. I wouldn't kill a person unless they posed a threat to me.

    A foetus is not a person. A person is shaped by the society and environment it lives in.

    A foetus is somethig that grows in a womb. It has a life, the same way a piece of chicken I ate for lunch did, and the fly that hit my windscreen last week.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,353 ✭✭✭Goduznt Xzst


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    We already have laws to cover such a circumstance. It's called murder. The point you're trying to make only works if you assume that a woman getting an abortion is doing nothing wrong, just like all pro choice arguments

    So the woman should be charged with first degree murder in the situation that she hires a doctor to abort her fetus?

    Vimes, where do you stand on ECPs?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    WindSock wrote: »
    A foetus is not a person. A person is shaped by the society and environment it lives in.

    This is baseless though, this is just saying because the foetus is less developed than me it isn't a human life. The entire thread is full of these kind of notions. They don't have any bearing on what is actually a human though. Just because a toddler mightn't be able to play the piano doesn't mean that it isn't a human deserving of equal respect to the rest of humanity.
    WindSock wrote: »
    A foetus is somethig that grows in a womb. It has a life, the same way a piece of chicken I ate for lunch did, and the fly that hit my windscreen last week.

    Animal life != human life. Chicken and flies aren't a part of humanity. The foetus is. If anyone wants to argue about vegitarianism feel free, I personally won't be for obvious reasons :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    WindSock wrote: »
    A homeless loner can survive without the need to be attached to me. A person outside of my body is abstract from me. I wouldn't kill a person unless they posed a threat to me.
    I know that. I brought up the homeless person idea to show that it's not ok to kill someone as long as it doesn't affect anyone and I brought up the injured friend attached to you idea to show that it's not ok to kill someone just because they can't survive without you. I'm trying to show how each of the pro choice arguments is flawed in it's own special way
    WindSock wrote: »
    A foetus is somethig that grows in a womb. It has a life, the same way a piece of chicken I ate for lunch did, and the fly that hit my windscreen last week.
    why do you think that though, other than that's what you want to be the case?
    So the woman should be charged with first degree murder in the situation that she hires a doctor to abort her fetus?

    Vimes, where do you stand on ECPs?

    Sorry I edited my post to say she should be treated the same way as a woman who kills her new born. Culpable but less so based on the fact that their head is messed up

    I don't know what an ECP is

    Election commission of pakistan? :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    Jakkass wrote: »
    This is baseless though, this is just saying because the foetus is less developed than me it isn't a human life. The entire thread is full of these kind of notions. They don't have any bearing on what is actually a human though. Just because a toddler mightn't be able to play the piano doesn't mean that it isn't a human deserving of equal respect to the rest of humanity.

    A toddler or a disabled person are people that are in society. They have the ability to survive by those who can and want to help them. They are not inside someones body.
    Animal life != human life. Chicken and flies aren't a part of humanity. The foetus is. If anyone wants to argue about vegitarianism feel free, I personally won't be for obvious reasons :D

    I'm just saying that a life is a life. Life as a biological concept. I am not saying a chicken or a fly are as important as a human. They are living organisms that can die as easily as they were created.
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    I know that. I brought up the homeless person idea to show that it's not ok to kill someone as long as it doesn't affect anyone. I'm trying to show how each of the pro choice arguments is flawed in it's own special way

    There are no single areas in which a pro-choice argument can tackle, they are a collection of many different areas, imo.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,353 ✭✭✭Goduznt Xzst


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    Sorry I edited my post to say she should be treated the same way as a woman who kills her new born. Culpable but less so based on the fact that their head is messed up

    Yes but that has to be ascertained on a person by person basis does it not? Unless diminished capacity is proven should the law state that a woman who has aborted a fetus be charged with Murder in the first degree?

    Do you think every woman who has an abortion does so because "their head is messed up" and for the same reason as a woman who kills their babies after birth?
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    I don't know what an ECP is

    Emergency Contraceptive Pill (aka morning-after-pill)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    WindSock wrote: »
    There are no single areas in which a pro-choice argument can tackle, they are a collection of many different areas, imo.

    The way I see it there are so many pro choice arguments because they're trying to rationalise to themselves something they know deep down is wrong. People have an amazing ability to convince themselves of something when they desperately want it to be true


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    The way I see it there are so many pro choice arguments because they're trying to rationalise to themselves something they know deep down is wrong. People have an amazing ability to convince themselves of something when they desperately want it to be true


    The way I see it, there are no black and white answers to topics like these. Thats why there will always be argument. You are either on one side or the other. I've engaged with you before on this subject, and I think we both resolved to agree to disagree :) (bit of a cop-out on my behalf, but I must get back to work)


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Emergency Contraceptive Pill (aka morning-after-pill)

    Ah I see. That's a bit of a grey area to me. It's been shown that it generally takes a few days for the sperm to actualy fuse with the egg so I'd be tentatively for it. I can even see some merit in the idea of abortion before the foetus has the capacity to feel pain but there are two problems there, the first being that we have no idea when that point is and the second being that the one thing we're pretty sure of is that it's before the point that most women actually go through with the abortion


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    WindSock wrote: »
    The way I see it, there are no black and white answers to topics like these. Thats why there will always be argument. You are either on one side or the other. I've engaged with you before on this subject, and I think we both resolved to agree to disagree :) (bit of a cop-out on my behalf, but I must get back to work)

    I on the other hand think that it's very much black and white but there is argument because many people wish it wasn't so black and white so they convince themselves it's not

    But I suppose we'll have to agree to disagree :)

    Wait I don't agree to that!!1!1!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Gazza22


    Right and wrong doesn't come into the equation, it's a personal choice and one which is made on the basis of where you are in life and whether this pregnancy has come at a time when you are emotionally, financially etc secure.


  • Registered Users Posts: 35 ilikerashers


    Is abortion not about choice? Choice of the individual responsible for what is their own body. How can you dictate someone else’s decisions on something which at that point is wholly part of them?

    The poll's interesting above, shows 2 thirds in favour of abortion yet this thread is dominated by long and well defined if not misguided points in favour of what is a denial of human rights of the mother. And a foetus does not have rights, a child is born at birth. You can spend as long as you want arguing that a sperm or an egg or foetus with a heart or a liver or a finger or 2 legs or whatever qualifies in your own brain.
    As for the comments on rape victims having to give birth, I’m glad I don’t live in such a sheltered world. It’s embarrassing to live in a country which harbours such backward notions.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,225 ✭✭✭Ciaran500


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    The way I see it there are so many pro choice arguments because they're trying to rationalise to themselves something they know deep down is wrong. People have an amazing ability to convince themselves of something when they desperately want it to be true
    Bull****. Complete and utter bollocks, the same argument is trotted out by religious people cause they can't see the other side of an argument. Just cause you feel so strongly one way about something doesn't mean someone else can't feel just as strongly the other way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    WindSock wrote: »
    A toddler or a disabled person are people that are in society. They have the ability to survive by those who can and want to help them. They are not inside someones body.

    We have no reason to suggest that existence within society has ever defined human life before and it certainly doesn't biologically. This is just another attribute x that people put on what is human life so as to justify it's destruction.
    WindSock wrote: »
    I'm just saying that a life is a life. Life as a biological concept. I am not saying a chicken or a fly are as important as a human. They are living organisms that can die as easily as they were created.

    Humans can actually die rather easily outside of the womb too. It certainly doesn't mean that we should be the ones carrying it out though on others of our own species. Human life as a biological concept is also distinct from chicken life or fly life unless you are a vegitarian that is.
    WindSock wrote: »
    There are no single areas in which a pro-choice argument can tackle, they are a collection of many different areas, imo.

    When they start to give a decent reason for permitting killing that cannot be reasoned outside the womb I will be all ears (or eyes given that it is a forum). All of the reasons that people give can be justified outside of the womb too in circumstances that most reasonable people would reject.


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    Yes but that has to be ascertained on a person by person basis does it not? Unless diminished capacity is proven should the law state that a woman who has aborted a fetus be charged with Murder in the first degree?

    Do you think every woman who has an abortion does so because "their head is messed up" and for the same reason as a woman who kills their babies after birth?

    It'd have to be decided on a case by case basis just like all crime. But one thing I always note in these debates is that the overwhelming majority of woman go through an awful lot of emotional turmoil and soul searching before going through with it. And it usually stays with them for the rest of their lives, many women regret it and many even commit suicide

    But the position of pro choice people is generally that it's just a clump of cells that can be removed with no moral problems. Their actions and their statements don't match up, no one has ever soul searched over having an in grown toe nail removed or committed suicide over a haircut, unless it was a particularly bad one :P

    The way I see it if a woman feels an ounce of guilt or regret over an abortion then she didn't actually believe what she was saying but went ahead anyway, and that makes her culpable


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,353 ✭✭✭Goduznt Xzst


    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    That's a bit of a grey area to me.
    Sam Vimes wrote: »
    I on the other hand think that it's very much black and white

    What??? :confused:

    You clearly don't think it is black and white, as you said you are gray on the subject of ECPs. Some pro-lifers would be appalled at this stance. You are saying that there is merit in aborting a fetus before it can feel pain.

    The only difference between your stance and mine is where the lines in the sand are drawn. Your stance is just another shade of gray to mine. Which is why pro-choice is the only acceptable option as no one person should enforce their shade of gray on another persons individual freedoms.


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