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    #32
    tba
    Registered Users Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭tba


    You were meant to be in bed resting!

    See what happens when you disobey the doctors orders!?


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    #33
    Clareman
    Moderators, Sports Moderators, Regional Midwest Moderators Posts: 23,961 Mod ✭✭✭✭Clareman


    shellyboo wrote: »
    I don't get it...?

    Jack-Daniels-FlaskeGlass-15.jpg

    Just a play on the Op's username and a drink that's nice on it's own, with ice, with coke, with cranberry juice, with west coast cooler, basically, it's just nice :)


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    #34
    shellyboo
    Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Clareman wrote: »
    Jack-Daniels-FlaskeGlass-15.jpg

    Just a play on the Op's username and a drink that's nice on it's own, with ice, with coke, with cranberry juice, with west coast cooler, basically, it's just nice :)

    Oh righto. Sorry, brain borked today.


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    #35
    charmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭charmer


    Just wanna ask a (kinda) related question...

    Ok we've come to the conclusion that men **** and watch porn in a relationship, both of which are ok.

    What I wanna know is do people agree with me that spending like €100 a month on those dirty text lines (when u have a perfectly good gf whose both willing and able) is crossing the line?


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    #36
    Clareman
    Moderators, Sports Moderators, Regional Midwest Moderators Posts: 23,961 Mod ✭✭✭✭Clareman


    charmer wrote: »
    Just wanna ask a (kinda) related question...

    Ok we've come to the conclusion that men **** and watch porn in a relationship, both of which are ok.

    What I wanna know is do people agree with me that spending like €100 a month on those dirty text lines (when u have a perfectly good gf whose both willing and able) is crossing the line?
    I think the line is similar to the difference between a kink and a fetish?

    A kink is using a feather to tickle your partner, a fetish is using a chicken


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    #37
    shellyboo
    Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    charmer wrote: »
    What I wanna know is do people agree with me that spending like €100 a month on those dirty text lines (when u have a perfectly good gf whose both willing and able) is crossing the line?

    Eh, yes. That's so far over the line that the line is but a distant memory.


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    #38
    charmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭charmer


    Clareman wrote: »
    I think the line is similar to the difference between a kink and a fetish?

    A kink is using a feather to tickle your partner, a fetish is using a chicken

    Hmmm well he never tried to introduce a chicken to the bedroom.. but it's the sort of thing I wouldn't put past him!

    Thnks for the reassurance peoples! (I kicked his ass to the kerb after all that):)


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    #39
    randylonghorn
    Registered Users Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    charmer wrote: »
    What I wanna know is do people agree with me that spending like €100 a month on those dirty text lines (when u have a perfectly good gf whose both willing and able) is crossing the line?
    0_o

    It's somewhat weird ... and more than a bit stupid to boot.

    I wouldn't spend 50 cent on them when single!! :D


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    #40
    cool username
    Closed Accounts Posts: 40 ✭cool username


    Personally I think men get turned on a lot easier than women, its not like he wants to be with other women he just wants to look at boobs. My boyf looks at porn if i'm gone for the night and I don't think I'd be pissed if he did it when I was sick. Obviously he wouldn't be getting any from me... Just think of it as blowing off steam... :rolleyes:


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    #41
    Mrs JackDaniels
    Registered Users Posts: 172 ✭✭Mrs JackDaniels


    Hi all just to say thanks for all the eye openers, I've built a bridge and got fcuk over it. Prob just be extra cranky cos I'm sick :(


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    #42
    Professey Chin
    Registered Users Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    charmer wrote: »
    Just wanna ask a (kinda) related question...

    Ok we've come to the conclusion that men **** and watch porn in a relationship, both of which are ok.

    What I wanna know is do people agree with me that spending like €100 a month on those dirty text lines (when u have a perfectly good gf whose both willing and able) is crossing the line?
    charmer wrote: »
    Hmmm well he never tried to introduce a chicken to the bedroom.. but it's the sort of thing I wouldn't put past him!

    Thnks for the reassurance peoples! (I kicked his ass to the kerb after all that):)
    In the space of 13 minutes. Holy Crap :eek:


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    #43
    charmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭charmer


    Ultimate Chin wrote: »
    In the space of 13 minutes. Holy Crap :eek:

    :pac:nah broke up with him months ago but I just wanted to see what other peoples' reactions would be to the sh*t that went on!

    Especially a guy's p.o.v bcoz when it happened for some reason I was too embarassed to tell anyone, I think I felt like it was a reflection on me not being sexy/exciting enough, now I just feel like he's a dirty eejit:P


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    #44
    tallaght01
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,778 ✭✭✭tallaght01


    Look, I don't really wanna get too involved in this. I was really just read it because it was about porn.

    But, if it's any consolation, I see why you're upset. Sure, guys knock one off all the time. But, at the end of the day you've realised your boyfriend was getting his sexual kicks from other women.

    Now, as blokes, the rest of us can say that says nothing about his feelings for you. But, as a girl, that can be hard to understand. A bit like how I don't really get how some girls need love and rosepetals and all the bollacks before they can have an orgasm.

    I don't really have a point to make. I'm just saying that I think some people are making you out to be a bit of a nutcase. But I do understand where you're coming from, if that helps. I also think a lot more girls feel the same way, than would admit here. I once got a total bollocking off a gf when she asked if I ever wanked. She went postal when i said I did sometimes.


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    #45
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


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    QUOTE=tallaght01;60323593]
    A bit like how I don't really get how some girls need love and rosepetals and all the bollacks before they can have an orgasm.


    rosepetals?? you're obviously hanging out with the wrong kinda girls ;)

    I once got a total bollocking off a gf when she asked if I ever wanked. She went postal when i said I did sometimes.
    [/QUOTE]

    ahem. sometimes??;)


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    #46
    tallaght01
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,778 ✭✭✭tallaght01


    sam34 wrote: »
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    rosepetals?? you're obviously hanging out with the wrong kinda girls ;)



    ahem. sometimes??;)

    Yea, "sometimes"....as in most, but certainly not every, hour of the day :P


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    #47
    Quality
    Registered Users Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    Its normal behaviour...

    Plus he is keeping his sperm fresh for you...:D


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    #48
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    tallaght01 wrote: »
    Yea, "sometimes"....as in most, but certainly not every, hour of the day :P

    hmmmmmmm, i wonder :p


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    #49
    GirlInterrupted
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,440 ✭✭✭GirlInterrupted


    Mrs JackDaniels wrote: »
    Just caught my bf **** to porn on the net while I'm sick in bed now is it just me or have i a right to be feeling really pissed off, hurt and upset?
    Mezcita wrote: »
    No to all three.

    I'm glad the OP has been reassured that nothing that reflects on her has happened here, but she does seem to have been a little picked on in this thread.

    She has a right to her own feelings, even if others don't agree with them.


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    #50
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    GirlInterrupted wrote: »
    I'm glad the OP has been reassured that nothing that reflects on her has happened here, but she does seem to have been a little picked on in this thread.

    She has a right to her own feelings, even if others don't agree with them.

    In fairness she asked the question, she wanted an answer and the answer was a resounding negative. She accepted that she was pissed for no major reason and seems to have gotten over it.

    I would think that the only thing she should be offended by her BF watching Pron is if it is something illegal or immoral. OR if the "actress" looks like a younger version of herself.

    Other than that pron is just a catalyst for the release basically. (That sounds disgusting doesn't it!!! Sorry.):o


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    #51
    Mrs JackDaniels
    Registered Users Posts: 172 ✭✭Mrs JackDaniels


    minidazzler wrote: »
    In fairness she asked the question, she wanted an answer and the answer was a resounding negative. She accepted that she was pissed for no major reason and seems to have gotten over it.

    I would think that the only thing she should be offended by her BF watching Pron is if it is something illegal or immoral. OR if the "actress" looks like a younger version of herself.

    Other than that pron is just a catalyst for the release basically. (That sounds disgusting doesn't it!!! Sorry.):o

    bollox


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    #52
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Mrs JackDaniels wrote: »
    bollox

    :confused:

    Wait, are you saying my post is Bollox, or are you stating "Bollox"(Part of that is true?"

    Damn 3 am confusion!!


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    #53
    Clare Bear
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,613 ✭✭✭✭Clare Bear


    minidazzler wrote: »
    :confused:

    Wait, are you saying my post is Bollox, or are you stating "Bollox"(Part of that is true?"

    Damn 3 am confusion!!

    Or maybe she's calling you a bollox :pac:


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    #54
    Bendihorse
    Registered Users Posts: 1,017 ✭✭✭Bendihorse


    You could watch some with him OP...


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    #55
    BlackWizard
    Registered Users Posts: 3,282 ✭✭✭BlackWizard


    My girlfriend thinks it's similar to me cheating. I can somewhat understand where she might be coming from with that but maybe she's taking it one step too far.

    But I don't live with her at the moment. So eh.. wtf. :confused:

    Women are complicated. She says it's "fine, no seriously it's okay :) ". And I know she is pissed off at me and will be moody all week until I do something really nice for her. I've no idea what happens if I don't do anything nice :(

    I wonder if gay couples relationships are this complicated and take so much effort...


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    #56
    JC 2K3
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,794 ✭✭✭JC 2K3


    Eh, my gf is quite rational and easygoing. Girls aren't all nutcases....


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    #57
    shellyboo
    Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    BlackWizard wrote: »
    My girlfriend thinks it's similar to me cheating. I can somewhat understand where she might be coming from with that but maybe she's taking it one step too far.

    But I don't live with her at the moment. So eh.. wtf. :confused:

    Women are complicated. She says it's "fine, no seriously it's okay :) ". And I know she is pissed off at me and will be moody all week until I do something really nice for her. I've no idea what happens if I don't do anything nice :(

    She sounds just lovely :pac:

    Her attitude would be fairly common, I reckon. Don't see the sense in it myself. If my bf told me I wasn't allowed masturbate or watch porn I'd laugh. The very idea of someone else telling me the ways in which I can and cannot touch my own body is a bit laughable, really. Porn is a separate issue though.

    JC 2K3 wrote: »
    Eh, my gf is quite rational and easygoing. Girls aren't all nutcases....

    I beg to differ. Some of us are just better at hiding it than others :P


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    #58
    coffee_cake
    Registered Users Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭coffee_cake


    BlackWizard wrote: »
    and will be moody all week until I do something really nice for her. I've no idea what happens if I don't do anything nice :(

    You start questioning why you're with someone so manipulative ?

    p.s. if you're not living with her, just don't bring it up? none of her business anyway if she refuses to discuss it


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    #59
    tonsiltickler
    Registered Users Posts: 249 ✭✭tonsiltickler


    Is it not better for him to have a shim sham than be out somewhere cheating on you? He's done nothing wrong!When you feel better give him something better than any porn!


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    #60
    Mrs JackDaniels
    Registered Users Posts: 172 ✭✭Mrs JackDaniels


    tonsiltickler wrote: »
    Is it not better for him to have a shim sham than be out somewhere cheating on you? He's done nothing wrong!When you feel better give him something better than any porn!

    Good point


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    #61
    moe_sizlak
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 883 ✭✭✭moe_sizlak


    shellyboo wrote: »
    She sounds just lovely :pac:

    Her attitude would be fairly common, I reckon. Don't see the sense in it myself. If my bf told me I wasn't allowed masturbate or watch porn I'd laugh. The very idea of someone else telling me the ways in which I can and cannot touch my own body is a bit laughable, really. Porn is a separate issue though.




    I beg to differ. Some of us are just better at hiding it than others :P

    a girl who watches porn , does such a creature really exist


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