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Trying to freeze out "friends"

  • 15-06-2009 07:31PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey
    I have a problem with trying to freeze out so called friends out of my life! Around feburary of last year i was raped, i had exams and that so i pretty much blocked it out of my life until this feburary where i confided in these friends. i didnt get any help until after i had a nervous break down around 2 weeks later this was not at all pretty!! ended up screaming at the girl for 2 hrs. they froze me out afterwards. Im getting help for everything and my councellor even pursuaded me to try and make amends with these girls which i did and it was basically thrown back into my face . The thing is now Im back home for the summer and keep running into them!!and they've been telling anyone who will listen not to trust anything I say!! one even had the cheek to ask my mother did i get a new car even though i just met her there and she completely ignored me!!!!! Im getting so flustrated and down about the whole thing!!Anyone have any words of wisdom that would help???


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  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    Hi,

    While I am a firm believer that nothing lasts forever, I get the feeling that you still want this friendshp to work, right? As such, your friends and you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with each other about what is happening. At the moment, you are communicating with them from a a large distance, and your cncerns/worries are not being interpretted/heard. Well, they MUST be heard.

    Arrange a time/date to have a serious talk wth them, and outline all of your worries about what has been happening. Surely these 'friends' can't be so cruel as to deny you this chance.

    Take care,
    Kevin


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