Boobs!

Mr. Incognito

Ohh how I love being approached by a jock... the room temperature drops below zero just before I reply

Totally off topic but after reading a few pages of women who are no doubt gorgeous complain about being insecure about their boobs you wade in that any time a sporty person approaches you, you decide to belittle him to make your insecure self feel better?

This is not to be applauded, this is to be pitied. I am sorry for wading in here, I was just feeling a bit sad at all these ladies, and I've seen it first hand with my ex who had amazing breasts but because she was a size 8 and a C/D would always wear clothes that hid them because she was so self conscious. It made me nothing but sad because I wanted her to wear clothes that showed them off, not for me but for her so that she could get over that hump. I never pushed it anyway.

Stroll into PI and you have women terrified of approaching men and men terrified of approaching women and people wrapped up in cocoons of insecurity that start threads like this and away you go bragging about treating people that approach you a certain way just because you percieve them as jocks.

Well, I hope you take a good look at your behaviour. And for the record I've been that guy approaching a girl and every so often I run into the "I'm too cool for school and I'm going to be rude to you girl". You are filed as a tool in the first 10 seconds and forgotten forever in the next 10 so for your information although it makes you feel better to treat people in a nasty way it feels a lot better to make friends.

engrish?

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

oh right so you have to be a nerd to be quite ? :rolleyes:

To be quite what?

Abi

Mr. Incognito wrote: »

you wade in that any time a sporty person approaches you

I didn't wade in at that precise post, how is that the only post you saw? And no, it wouldn't stop at someone specifically 'sporty'. Anyone who comes near me with a cheese-ball line, I'll answer them in whichever way I like. And I don't really care what you think of that, to be perfectly honest with you.

you decide to belittle him to make your insecure self feel better?

What?! About what?

engrish?

Abigayle wrote: »

Ohh how I love being approached by a jock... the room temperature drops below zero just before I reply

Don't judge too quickly! He could be a handsome bloke with razor sharp wit and be highly entertaining!

Snowie

engrish? wrote: »

To be quite what?

what I'm trying to say is just because a dude's quite and chilled out enjoying his pint and not saying much don't mean hes a nerd or a geek may just mean that he has nothing to say.... sorry that was a bad quote on quote thingy,

engrish?

Abigayle wrote: »

Anyone who comes near me with a cheese-ball line, I'll answer them in whichever way I like. And I don't really care what you think of that, to be perfectly honest with you.

Man, cheesy lines are hilarious (to overhear) could you give any examples? A bloke said to my cousin at her nightlink stop "How about you get my nightlink home instead" *wink*

Noffles

engrish? wrote: »

Don't judge too quickly! He could be a handsome bloke with razor sharp wit and be highly entertaining!

As most of us Jocks are....

engrish?

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

what I'm trying to say is just because a dude's quite and chilled out enjoying his pint and not saying much don't mean hes a nerd or a geek may just mean that he has nothing to say.... sorry that was a bad quote on quote thingy,

Ah I know, I was just taking the piss cos you spelt quiet wrong.

Abi

engrish? wrote: »

Don't judge too quickly! He could be a handsome bloke with razor sharp wit and be highly entertaining!

Indeed. Gay men can be a whoot :pac:

Snowie

engrish? wrote: »

Ah I know, I was just taking the piss cos you spelt quiet wrong.

There no winning with some people! I've made vast improvements with spelling and still get people like you throwing in little digs. :mad:

I'm climbing a clock tower..... with a gun !!!

Censorsh!t

Mine are quiet small (a B cup) and it's only really been bothering me lately.
It doesnt help that I have bad posture, and it looks like my tummy is bigger than my boobs, even though I'm pretty skinny. I should learn to stand straight...I wouldnt like big boobs as they'd look out of proportion to my body, but even if they were a wee bit bigger...
Being on the pill hasnt made them any bigger either:(

Otis Driftwood

Mr. Incognito wrote: »

Totally off topic but after reading a few pages of women who are no doubt gorgeous complain about being insecure about their boobs you wade in that any time a sporty person approaches you, you decide to belittle him to make your insecure self feel better?

This is not to be applauded, this is to be pitied. I am sorry for wading in here, I was just feeling a bit sad at all these ladies, and I've seen it first hand with my ex who had amazing breasts but because she was a size 8 and a C/D would always wear clothes that hid them because she was so self conscious. It made me nothing but sad because I wanted her to wear clothes that showed them off, not for me but for her so that she could get over that hump. I never pushed it anyway.

Stroll into PI and you have women terrified of approaching men and men terrified of approaching women and people wrapped up in cocoons of insecurity that start threads like this and away you go bragging about treating people that approach you a certain way just because you percieve them as jocks.

Well, I hope you take a good look at your behaviour. And for the record I've been that guy approaching a girl and every so often I run into the "I'm too cool for school and I'm going to be rude to you girl". You are filed as a tool in the first 10 seconds and forgotten forever in the next 10 so for your information although it makes you feel better to treat people in a nasty way it feels a lot better to make friends.

Ah now come on.

This

Abigayle wrote: »

Ohh how I love being approached by a jock... the room temperature drops below zero just before I reply

is obviously said tongue in cheek.

Maddison

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

There no winning with some people! I've made vast improvements with spelling and still get people like you throwing in little digs. :mad:

I'm climbing a clock tower..... with a gun !!!

Your fab hun, and your spelling is fine, we all make mistakes:)

Lux23

I am 5"8, size 14 with 34GG and I love my boobs. I really like it about a week before my period when they swell up and they just sit there all pert. I really am proud of them.

The Big Red Button

CathyMoran wrote: »

When I was about 20 a male friend who had a thing for me made a very cruel comment about them being slutty or something (I don't want to remember) when I wore a top where you could see a small amount of cleavage (but only because he was 6ft 4 in) so I tended to hide away from wearing anything that remotely showed them off.

It is only in recent years that I have got over that comment and I do show them off a small bit sometimes (a tiny bit of cleavage showing) and I would wear bickini's. I do have to wear fitted tops though as otherwise I would look huge. My husband has always been nice about my figure no matter what size I am but I do know that he loves my chest. That said, I would never go topless on a beach sunbathing.

Guys can be so cruel sometimes without even realising it! I remember one of my first nights out, when I was about 17 and a size 8-10, I walked by a couple of guys in a nightclub, wearing tight jeans. One of them started singing "I like big butts and I cannot lie." I think it was just to get a reaction, coz he tried chatting me up a few minutes later, but I took it so personally. For a couple of years after that, I'd only ever wear really baggy jeans or skirts that didn't show off my arse, and I'd wear low-cut tops just to distract attention away from that general area. Looking back I was way too over-sensitive about it Something like that wouldn't bother me a bit now!

Jules

nedtheshed, abigayle, engrish, snowmonkey, noffles

All banned for 24 hours for off topic posting, as per warning, and next people posting off topic will be a permaban.

Maddison

At the end of the day ladies we should be thankful for what we have, no matter how big, small they are they are ours

neuro-praxis

Am I the only woman who just doesn't care about her breasts? I've never given their shape or size much thought. I'm 5'11" tall, they're a DD, which should drop to a C-D as I lose more weight. They've never hurt my back and they've never seemed too big or too small. Meh. They're just breasts!

Fluorescence

Agh I hate my boobs! I'm size 12, 34B but lopsided One of my boobs is grand - pert and perky :P but the other one is saggy and horrible. It's really obvious and I get terribly self conscious about them Stoopid boobs....

pikachucheeks

I remember talking to some friends about our boobs a few years ago. They were all laughing about how they used to buy big-sized bras and stuff them, to make up for what they were lacking!

Made me quite sad, because I can't identify with any of that. I was flat as a wall until I was about 15! I didn't wear a bra because I didn't need one. Then one summer, my boobs suddenly grew to a big C cup.

I never got the natural progression! I just went from having nothing to having a lot!

CathyMoran wrote: »

I do have to wear fitted tops though as otherwise I would look huge.

I'm the same. If I wore loose clothing on top, I'd look MASSIVE. When I wear fitted tops, you can see that I'm actually quite slim and petite... with a considerable rack! I hate the way my boobs are so... unruly sometimes! I'd love to be able to get them to sit still!

Curvy Vixen wrote: »

Most men couldn't describe what my face looks like :D

You're happy about that?! I'd be seriously offended! I know some people like to stare, but if they were rude about it, I'd make sure they knew I wasn't happy!

I have big boobs, I'm aware of it. I hate when people come up to me and point this out! "Big" is not a compliment, it's a statement. I often wonder how they'd feel if I went up to them and said "Wow, you have a really big nose!"

I sometimes feel like having big boobs makes you a target. Girls glare at you, some men can objectify you, people think it's ok to judge you and ask you extremely personal questions.

I mean, if I saw a girl with small breasts, I wouldn't go up to her, point out she was small then ask her size, yet a lot of people feel it's ok to approach me! They think it's acceptable to ask me questions even my close friends would struggle to ask and sometimes, to go to the extent of grabbing me, without any sort of consent.

Maddison wrote: »

Thats the thing, I like that women wear clothes that accentuate their curves but It irks me when women flaunt & then proceed to complain about being commented on.

Not all women purposely flaunt though. Regardless of what I'm wearing, you can see my boobs. I can't hide them because they're impossibly big and they refuse to co-operate!

c_dog

big boobs are AWESOME!!!!

KiLLeR CoUCh

I like my boobs. One is a good cup size bigger than the other, so every time I buy a bra it's a toss up whether I go for a 34C and risk having one of them popping out, or a 34D and having one of them looking a little small and miserable.

Of course, none of that matters when I get my period, then neither of them fit into anything... :rolleyes:

Curvy Vixen

pikachucheeks wrote: »

You're happy about that?! I'd be seriously offended! I know some people like to stare, but if they were rude about it, I'd make sure they knew I wasn't happy!

You know what pikachucheeks, I'm probably a bit beyond that to be honest. It doesn't make me happy, it doesn't make me sad and it doesn't offend me. It just makes me laugh. There are far more things to get stressed about in life and that certainly isn't one of them

There are ways to ensure people know you're not happy about something without being rude and I wouldn't stoop to their level by being rude back to them. A simple finger under their chin to lift their eyes to yours and a funny comment is enough to get your point across and embarrass them.

And this will be controversial coming from a female I'm sure but I am in the camp of 'I can't (and don't want to) hide them because of their size.' If I am going out for the night and they are on show, then yes, I assume people will look at them. If it were a work situation it would be different but I did say in my post that when I go out, they come out...in a tasteful way

I'm blonde too so like to think along the same lines of the great Dolly Parton...." I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb... and I also know that I'm not blonde"

If people judge you for the way they look that says more about them than about you...and believe me, they are the ones who underestimate me and lose out in the end

Maddison

Not all women purposely flaunt though. Regardless of what I'm wearing, you can see my boobs. I can't hide them because they're impossibly big and they refuse to co-operate![/QUOTE]

My sister has DD's on a slim frame, for work/meal out she wears very pretty tops that you cant see everything, they certainly arent in any way baggy and they look great. But there are girls out there that wear tops that are designed to accentuate the cleavage and then whinge that a bloke wont look at her face:rolleyes:
There are some girls that are all about the boobs & wonder why people judge. My boobs to me are just another part of my body, I am happy as they are, I am lucky in a sense that I can wear most tops that reveal just enough boob without flaunting them. There are also women that draw attention to their cleavage & working in pubs Ive encountered them...I can remember one time I was working & a girl approached the bar, I happened to be looking in the direction of her chest, she declared ''they are real before you ask'' so I replied ''are they I wasnt actually looking at them but there appears to be ketchup on your top''. She then said ''oh right sorry, normally people do'' and I thought to myself Its probably cause you wear tops that wouldnt cover two eggs in a hankie let alone those.

pikachucheeks

I'm blonde as well!

I like the finger under the chin thing, must try that sometime!

It makes me laugh as well but I have to be honest, I do get saddened by how shallow people can be.

For example, I liked this guy for years, finally got talking to him on a night out. We sat down to have a chat, and he really couldn't have cared less about what I was saying. He spent the whole night basically looking down my top and telling me how "hot" I was. It's nice to know someone finds you attractive, but when they blatantly have no interest in you, other than on a shallow level, it's a bit sad!

Sometimes, things like that make me paranoid about my personality and makes me doubt if I'm actually anything more than ... boobs!

I think big boobs can be a lot to deal with. Like, I do get a considerable amount of attention, not to sound conceited or up myself, and it's hard for me to deal with, because I actually am quite a shy person!

But at the end of the day, I am who I am and I've been given this body. So I try my best to be happy with myself and to ignore negative opinions!

SeekUp

metaoblivia wrote: »

When I was young (like 13) and doing gymnastics, I HATED my boobs. I thought they were way too big and was determined to get a reduction as soon as I could.

Same situation here . . . I danced growing up, and I hated my breasts -- partly because I was really into ballet until I started getting the curves. I resented them and tried to ignore them until an older girl (with large breasts) advised that I start taking care of them, wearing a sports bra, etc., and they weren't going away! Then I started to begin to enjoy my breasts, and their contribution to my figure as a whole. Now I quite like them, size included. I'm a little worried about their weight and gravity's eventual toll, but *shrug* whaddayagonnado?

I think that some positive reinforcement during the developing stages goes a long way to feeling good about your breasts, and yourself in general.

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

There no winning with some people! I've made vast improvements with spelling and still get people like you throwing in little digs. :mad:

You really have made improvements, and it hasn't gone unnoticed.

minidazzler

pikachucheeks wrote: »

I sometimes feel like having big boobs makes you a target. Girls glare at you, some men can objectify you, people think it's ok to judge you and ask you extremely personal questions.

The current scene is basically Primary school all over again. The Slightest thing that's different is picked at by people who are either Jealous or just idiots.

In Primary School Glasses makes you a target.
In Adulthood Boobs make you a target.

People just don't like differences.


I was working at the festival last week with a few girlfriends working under me.

There was a girl with very ample cleavage that was quite visable who came through our gate. Soon as she passed out of earshot one of my Girl-friends said how much of a slapper the big boobed girl was.

I just looked at her with the strangest face, I couldn't understand it, I questioned her on it and she said. "Look at her, big tit's on her, OMG she's deffo a slut."

I was so surprized this friend said this, but the jealousy was obvious!!!

Back to my point, Any differences make you a target either because of jealousy or disgust, it happens.

All you can do is motor on and be proud of what you were given.

And to those with back problems due to your bust, try maintaining a proper posture, it has been known to help some friends of mine. Irish people as a whole have crap posture, which can lead to back problems.

Curvy Vixen

pikachucheeks wrote: »

I'm blonde as well!

I like the finger under the chin thing, must try that sometime!

It makes me laugh as well but I have to be honest, I do get saddened by how shallow people can be.

For example, I liked this guy for years, finally got talking to him on a night out. We sat down to have a chat, and he really couldn't have cared less about what I was saying. He spent the whole night basically looking down my top and telling me how "hot" I was. It's nice to know someone finds you attractive, but when they blatantly have no interest in you, other than on a shallow level, it's a bit sad!

Sometimes, things like that make me paranoid about my personality and makes me doubt if I'm actually anything more than ... boobs!

I think big boobs can be a lot to deal with. Like, I do get a considerable amount of attention, not to sound conceited or up myself, and it's hard for me to deal with, because I actually am quite a shy person!

But at the end of the day, I am who I am and I've been given this body. So I try my best to be happy with myself and to ignore negative opinions!

It is sad and shallow when people (okay some men) are like that but I see them as a 'Spanner-o-meter'. They tend to sort the tools out from the good guys pretty quickly They aren't called 'assets' for nothing!

I am guessing I am a bit older than you and all I can say is however big or small they are ladies, enjoy them! They are gonna change over the years and you might still love them but they'll never look as good as they do in your 20's and 30's....

Flaunt them, in a sexy way, and enjoy the smiles they give you and others

Dislike mine.
Im dispropotioned.
I'm a size 12 and a 34b!

Its not like I want massive sized boobs. . just normal.
A c or d cup is all im looking for. I would consider surgery in the future.

Avoiding Work

Hey people happy Friday!

I'm quite happy with mine. Size 8-10 and usually 34C. Just started a new pill and I can tell I'm gonna go up a size soon. I dont mind as they're still nice and pert

Agree with some of the comments though and its true if I had a smaller set I'd feel more comfortable wearing low cut tops as you do get the occasional smart remark / dirty look from other girls, and I dont think having blonde hair helps either!

But hey if it wasnt that it'd be something else feck 'em I say!

You can't please everyone so just be happy with what you got, everyone has their pet hates for eg. I like my boobs but dont like my skinny legs. Someone else might have great legs & not like their boobs.

T'would be a very boring world if we were all perfect all of the time just be glad everythings in working order

anucksunamun

At twelve i had d cups! and they've gotten bigger as the years have gone by, i dont suffer from back pain, and i don't hate the attention i get from men because of them, but i do hate the the negative attention i recieve from some women, as has been already mentioned here, I suppose as the years go by you get less stressed by it, try to ignore it, but ladies it comes down to one thing and one thing only... jealousy..:eek:

I genuinely hope OP you grow to love them, they are a part of you, a part of what makes you who you are. try to ignore the negatives, and get yourself fitted for a nice supportive bra that will lift them a little and take some of the weight off your back. big boobed sisters unite!

midlandsmissus

Maddison wrote: »

I am okay with my boob size Im a C cup so Its not too big not too small for my frame, as goldilocks would say...just right!!
What does grind on my nerves is when girls go around flashing their boobies,cry about the attention they get & question why people judge them. At the end of the day people are always going to make comments about how others look, if you want to be judged solely based on your intellect It aint gonna happen because unless you only speak to someone solely on the phone, your appearance is the first thing a person see's.

Go around flashing their boobies?

Believe me if you knew the time I spend in dressing rooms trying to find something that doesn't make me look busty, you wouldn't be so quick to generalise. If I wear a jumper/blouse/tshirt they still look huge.They are just not in proportion with my body. And as a shy person I HATE the attention. I've been getting looks from older pervy men since I was 14. I certainly don't go round flashing them.

Maddison

Midlandsmissus, you are completely losing my point. I am not critisizing women that wear low cut tops...I wear them myself. What I am saying is when women wear low cut tops & complain that their boobs are being looked at. This is prob gonna be a pretty crappy example....If you are sitting in a traffic jam & you are beside an accident....do you look....yes because Its there....Im not saying boobs are like an accident by the way Its just the nearest thing I could find to compare to. Im all for us ladies flaunting what we have but flaunting & complaining about attention is a whole other ball game.

midlandsmissus

anucksunamun wrote: »

At twelve i had d cups! and they've gotten bigger as the years have gone by, i dont suffer from back pain, and i don't hate the attention i get from men because of them, but i do hate the the negative attention i recieve from some women, as has been already mentioned here, I suppose as the years go by you get less stressed by it, try to ignore it, but ladies it comes down to one thing and one thing only... jealousy..:eek:

I genuinely hope OP you grow to love them, they are a part of you, a part of what makes you who you are. try to ignore the negatives, and get yourself fitted for a nice supportive bra that will lift them a little and take some of the weight off your back. big boobed sisters unite!

Love you anucksunamun! Yeah feck the jealousy. Happened to me again yesterday.I was out with my boyfriends female firends. One of them started remarking about how the barmaid was dressed really sluttily, and then said alot of people in the bar were dressed really sluttily. She turned and looked at me while she said it and I caught her in mid stare at my chest. I was wearin a jumper! It couldn't help but make you body concsious. But you're right I've got to learn to accept them.

CathyMoran

It is hard to dress big boobs - if you wear loose fitting clothes to hide them you will look fat, if you wear tight fitting clothes some people will pass comments and if you show even a hint of cleavage you get a remarkable number of men talking to your boobs...

midlandsmissus

Maddison wrote: »

Midlandsmissus, you are completely losing my point. I am not critisizing women that wear low cut tops...I wear them myself. What I am saying is when women wear low cut tops & complain that their boobs are being looked at. This is prob gonna be a pretty crappy example....If you are sitting in a traffic jam & you are beside an accident....do you look....yes because Its there....Im not saying boobs are like an accident by the way Its just the nearest thing I could find to compare to. Im all for us ladies flaunting what we have but flaunting & complaining about attention is a whole other ball game.

Yeah but how do you know they're flaunting, or just can't cover them up? For example if I wear a vest top it sits on my chest at the exact same level as a smaller breasted woman, but it looks like a much lower top as I have a bigger cleavage. That's why I rarely wear them. Even if you wear a t-shirt or whatever it can look really tight due to the big boobs. Its just hard to cover them up unless you wear a really baggy jumper.

Maddison

I am a woman & I love boobs of all shapes & sizes. The secret is embracing what you have....

Maddison

Okay....this is what my point is.....I dont care what size your cleavage or anyone elses is....what does bother me is when women wear revealing clothes & complain about being looked at. This thread is not just for big busted ladies Its for general conversation about boobs, as I have said we need to appreciate what we have been given which would include If you wear a low cut top, why complain about people looking???

midlandsmissus wrote: »

Yeah but how do you know they're flaunting, or just can't cover them up? For example if I wear a vest top it sits on my chest at the exact same level as a smaller breasted woman, but it looks like a much lower top as I have a bigger cleavage. That's why I rarely wear them. Even if you wear a t-shirt or whatever it can look really tight due to the big boobs. Its just hard to cover them up unless you wear a really baggy jumper.

sillyputty

I dislike my boobs (DD) - too big but i come from a long line of big breated women in my family.

I have lost a lot of weight recently and not a bit from my boob area - still the same bra size which gets me down sometimes because it feels like my weight loss is going backwards.

When i wear baggy loose tops i look bigger than i am - i wear tighter tops the boobs look huge. I think im looking out of proportion at the moment.

Maddison

Im sure you are gorgeous Sillyputty:) Be happy in your own skin....Its the only one you'll ever have

sillyputty

Maddison wrote: »

Im sure you are gorgeous Sillyputty:) Be happy in your own skin....Its the only one you'll ever have

Thanks, maybe in time i will stop feeling so "Top Heavy".

Maddison

sillyputty wrote: »

Thanks, maybe in time i will stop feeling so "Top Heavy".

It took me a long time to get used to how i look, Im no skinny minnie but Ive accepted that. I was a size 6-8 three years ago & It didnt suit my frame. I would like to lose some weight but can work on that but Im not going to let It get me down and nor will I allow anyone else to put me down. I have an answer for any smart alec remarks that someone might make:D

Dudess

Love my girls.

They're not gigantic but fairly big (C/D).

Hated them when I was younger - they made me feel self-conscious and I was all about having a waif-like figure... now I prefer a more shapely build.

Nevyn

Boobs are epic and mine specifically so, that is all.

Maddison

As sad as It sounds I love how mine jiggle when I walk, my sis had breast implants & hers just sit there lols!!

Dudess

I don't like how fake boobs look - yeah, they're just round and hard and... yuck-looking. Now I wouldn't think much of super-saggy ones either, but a natural large pair with a slight droopage to them (ya can't fight gravity - not fully anyway) look far better than fake tits, in my opinion.
Dita Von Teese's are fake but look amazingly real - she went for the teardrop option rather than the balloon one.

minidazzler

Dudess wrote: »

I don't like how fake boobs look - yeah, they're just round and hard and... yuck-looking. Now I wouldn't think much of super-saggy ones either, but a natural large pair with a slight droopage to them (ya can't fight gravity - not fully anyway) look far better than fake tits, in my opinion.
Dita Von Teese's are fake but look amazingly real - she went for the teardrop option rather than the balloon one.

Very true. Many women who go for augmentation go for the bigger cup, but then take the cheaper option of no teardrop, then you just get the Balloon boobs rather than anything resembling a natural breast.

e.g. a lot of Pron stars, they have huge boobs that you can tell are fake. Ms Von Teese, you wouldn't really call them fake, I would refer to them as Augmented rather than fake.

fits

Ms Von Tesse is rather beautiful in that shot.

I'm surprised at just how many people on this thread are D plus. It seems to be the norm rather than the exception these days. You wouldnt think it from the selection in the shops though. I hate buying bras.

Dudess

I think Arnotts is your only woman for bras - it's always a must when I visit Dublin.

FunnyFarm

I wish I could just accept what I have but the pain is unbearable at times, I have hunched shoulders with pain and back pain, muscle pain (not to mention breast pain), have to wear big tops so I don't look so ridiculous, do feel self-concious on nights out I would love to wear some lovely tops but I just can't. It's a serious operation a reduction not to mention expensive. If I try to wear nice tops I look desperate for attention cos everything is on view. I'm a size 10 and 5'1 and size 32 F. All in all its horrible:o