When Was Your First Gay Kiss?

LegacyUser

At a club, my eyes met with another guy and we started talking. Eventually I kissed him and it was the most amazing kiss i ever had

Chuchoter

I know its like a year or more old but I like this thread! I was 13 and it was also the first time I ever got drunk (I'm actually not a big drinker, that always makes me sound like some kind of baby alcoholic). Basically there was 4 of us and the other two were daring each other to kiss and then myself and the other girl beat them to it. Not fantastically romantic, but it was still a pretty great kiss :P I remember the awful sense of realization the next day when I was like woah that was way better than it was supposed to be.

littlehedgehog

Oh good god! My first gay kiss..

Well.

I was 17, and OMG so IN LOVE with my English Internet girlfriend (I know, I know - the shame). She came over to Dublin for a couple of days to see me, and I made the epic journey up from the country to stay in the hotel with her.

It was December, and we went to see Love, actually (still my favourite Christmas movie!). We walked along the boardwalk, and I gave her my jacket because she was cold.
Literally a billion perfect romantic moments for a first kiss passed. She'd been in Ireland for 10 hours by this point.
We get back to the hotel room, and I (sitting on my own bed - oh yes, I was that terrified of girls, I'd claimed the other bed, AND slept in it both nights) texted her saying her eyes were beautiful (she'd this terrible habit of closing her eyes in every single picture ever). She told me to get over there, so I did.
To be honest, my mind was in a total and utter terrified, excited fog. It took me about 10 minutes to actually kiss her.. I can't remember how good or bad it was, as my brain was in total meltdown and my entire body was going absolutely mental with the nerves!

Then a couple of months later she did terribly in her exams, and blamed me.. I was dumped. Heartbroken for, oh, days!

shannon_tek

God that first kiss. Jaysus screwed me over.:eek:

In 6th class 12 at the time with my best friend in the swimming pool changing room. totally out of the blue said we would try it.
It was good. cant really remember it only that i pulled away.
Wanted to do it again but he took up smoking. something i hate.
But i dunno has left me scared i feel. i just cant seem to kiss anyone. unless im pissed of in water. 2 Gf's and i like barely kissed them. ha ha

I wanted the perfect first kiss. But na i c***ed it up

brainyneuron

First kiss with a boy-13 on holidays in Kerry
First kiss with a girl-26 :o In Dublin during the summer (2010). Was up in Dublin for the weekend meeting up with some of my boardsie buddies. We ended up in the Dragon nightclub one of the nights and I started dancing with a girl who was really pretty but tiny (about 5 foot or maybe smaller!). Made a move to kiss her (cos she wasn't going to!), and it was nice but didn't last very long as she was quite shy and I couldn't tell whether she was enjoying it/having fun or not! Glad I had the nerve/courage to do it though!! Roll on girl number two :):D
I did actually have another 'encounter' with a girl off an internet dating site a few years ago, but was really nervous, hated it and basically all she wanted to do was have sex, while I wanted to take things slow (it being my first gay experience). So I don't count this at all

brian93

17 years old with a much older man, and it was beautiful. and we're still in love

even to other gay people a 35 year age gap would sound really weird, but i love it... and him

KnifeWRENCH

I'd just turned 20, and it was the classic "drunken shift in a club" :rolleyes: and despite that highlight, that night was an absolute disaster so it's not really a fond memory.

SilverCircle

Age 13 with my neighbour and friend Paul, same age. Progressed to sex and went on for 6 years on and off. Thought I was in love, but in hindsight I was in lust. Tragically he died suddenly age 47 just 3 years ago after being married and separated. Will always have a place for him in my heart.

Vojera

I met a girl when I was 20 at a houseparty of a mutual friend and she was upset about something so I took her into the kitchen and made her lots of coffee and we talked for hours and when she was leaving I walked her home and got her number "so I could let her know I got home safe". I really really wanted to kiss her then because she was so gorgeous and I really felt we had a spark, but I thought I would have been taking advantage of her upset state.

We texted loads over the next few weeks and met up loads as friends for dinner and cinema and then I invited her to my house for dinner and to stay over. All night I was thinking to myself "just do it, just kiss her" and I couldn't work up the courage. You could have cut the tension between us with a knife but neither of us was brave enough. When it came time to go to sleep, I was letting her have my bed and I was going to sleep in my housemate's spare bed, but she asked me would I stay in with her, so I did. The two of us crammed into a single bed and still nothing happened. I was so angry with myself for not taking the chance. It was so awkward, all I wanted to do was curl myself against her body and instead I spent the night awake trying not to give into myself and just snuggle in.

The next morning we got up, went downstairs for breakfast and just before I had to head off for work I just blurted out "I want to be more than friends with you", and she laughed and said she wanted the same. We kissed then for the first time and it was magic.

We're still together six years later and she's still the only girl I've ever kissed and the only one I'd ever want to.

Rick_

That's lovely Vojera. Such a sweet story.

keepkeyyellow

15 outside the number 6 platform in Hueston. It was magical. Guy's a twat though.

Coeurdepirate

Vojera wrote: »

I met a girl when I was 20 at a houseparty of a mutual friend and she was upset about something so I took her into the kitchen and made her lots of coffee and we talked for hours and when she was leaving I walked her home and got her number "so I could let her know I got home safe". I really really wanted to kiss her then because she was so gorgeous and I really felt we had a spark, but I thought I would have been taking advantage of her upset state.

We texted loads over the next few weeks and met up loads as friends for dinner and cinema and then I invited her to my house for dinner and to stay over. All night I was thinking to myself "just do it, just kiss her" and I couldn't work up the courage. You could have cut the tension between us with a knife but neither of us was brave enough. When it came time to go to sleep, I was letting her have my bed and I was going to sleep in my housemate's spare bed, but she asked me would I stay in with her, so I did. The two of us crammed into a single bed and still nothing happened. I was so angry with myself for not taking the chance. It was so awkward, all I wanted to do was curl myself against her body and instead I spent the night awake trying not to give into myself and just snuggle in.

The next morning we got up, went downstairs for breakfast and just before I had to head off for work I just blurted out "I want to be more than friends with you", and she laughed and said she wanted the same. We kissed then for the first time and it was magic.

We're still together six years later and she's still the only girl I've ever kissed and the only one I'd ever want to.

Should be moved to the 'What gives you hope' thread tbh. Such a great story!

Locker10a

Mine was with another student in the gym in school over a year ago when i was in 5th year!
Ended up in the office having sex on the desk! :eek: !!! Ive had a few more experiences since but the the best part is a few of my friends have recently lost their virginity and think their the sh1t !
Little do they know ive done it all and way before they did aswell!!! They all think im pure innocent and havent done a thing with anyone !! hahah

Killer_banana

I was fifteen or sixteen when I first kissed a girl. Knew I was bi for almost a year and was out quite a while as well. A friend had a few of us over for drinks and me and my best friend were sitting talking in the sitting room while the rest of our friends were in the kitchen. I can't remember what we were talking about (except there was a lot of drunken 'I love yous' involved) but I really just wanted to kiss someone, anyone, so ended up kissing her. The details are a bit fuzzy but think I may have actually said 'Can I kiss you?' Was quite good up until she bit my tongue. =P

It didn't actually mean anything to either of us. We've known each other since primary school and I've never thought of her in a romantic way. Was just me needing a kiss and her feeling like experimenting. Still it's a fond memory for me since it reminds me of a certain time in my life that was fun for so many reasons. God I sound so old and I'm not even nineteen yet...

manna

I just typed an incredibly long reply and it got lost in the ether of error messages.
To summarise:

It was a friend from back home when I was 20. I hadn't seen her in ages and we went out for a couple of drinks. I ended up coming out to her, and she admitted to having a crush on me in school. It was amazing, but really screwed up our friendship for a while.

Now things are back on track, and that blew away any doubts I had about myself.

LegacyUser

Paddy C wrote: »

That's lovely Vojera. Such a sweet story.

Yes. I kissed a girl when i was 14 years old and i liked that.

PJelly

At the age of 17 in the G (17 year olds in the G?! WHAT?!) about 4/5 months ago. Wish I was a *little* bit more sober (Nerves led to me drinking slightly faster than normal!) but it was still great, and unexpected.
About 30 seconds into it I realised what I was doing. "Holy **** this is my first kiss!"

Moon Indigo

Just stumbled over this thread brought it back to me that first time nervous stomach feeling. I was 17 and I meet her online (she was older & wit boyfriend) so we arranged to meet for the first time. We sat in her car on the beach and an awkward silence ensued. The car light was on and we went for the kiss but we both went too red and embarrased so we left it. I really wanted to kiss her as it was the reason we were there and the only time she might get away.
I never even thought of him or her as cheating to be honest. Anyway we waited and I just got up the nerve and went for it. It wasnt the best kiss as it was so confined etc but it blew me away. Any doubts I had before disappeared and I knew I was Lesbian. I came out less than a year later
It didn't work out for many reasons and havent seen her in ten years but yeah like they sat you never forget that first time.