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I'm too pickey.

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  • #52
    jy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭jy


    i love snakes :)


  • #53
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    jy wrote: »
    The matching hypothesis by Goffman (1952)

    I think you might find this research interesting, I have a few female friends, but unfortunately there is a little resentment in most of them for reasons you can guess

    It is interesting, but I'm not really in agreement with it- most of my female friends are better looking than their boyfriends, whereas in my case, my boyfriend would be seen as better looking than me (I'm not being all "oh I'm so ugly" here, I just mean that my OH has a great body, good face- I need to lose a few stone and I've an alright face, so I would imagine my OH would be classed as more attractive than me)

    Anyway, are you saying that because you are good looking (and I'm not saying you're not, I'm taking your word for it), you should only look for someone equally good looking? Because if that's the case I actually feel sorry for you more than anything else. I mean Brad Pitt is obviously more attractive than me but I would not be into him at all. Not my taste. So just cos you're good looking doesn't mean someone should fancy you.

    As regards your female friends- do they resent you because they see how fussy you are regarding women, or do they resent you because something either has happened between you and one of them, or they wish something would happen but you think they're not good looking enough?


  • #54
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Sounds like a classic case of low self-esteem. You're placing way too much emphasis on looks(yours & women’s) as you have no confidence in your personality & you don't think anyone could ever possibly love you.

    I imagine you spend a lot of time in the gym & looking in the mirror telling yourself how great looking you are and that women will find you really attractive & you brag about how you can get any women but its your choice not to get into a relationship because all the women are 'fat slags'.

    You so afraid of meeting a real woman you might have to impress with more than just your looks, so you go for foreign woman you can't talk to women just after a one night stand. Go to a councillor, sort out your self-esteem issues, take up a hobby like surfing, and you’ll soon realise that there are lots of great women out there.


  • #55
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    jy banned for a month.


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