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GTFO!
I just wouldn't really consider oral an STI risk. Not _really_ like. Not the same way that penetrative sex is for example.
For a change Khannie I am going to disagree with you on this.....oral sex is also risky If someone has ghonnorea(sp?)....do you really wanna go there.....0 -
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Cold sores are herpes!
My understanding, which may be wrong, but I don't think so, is that fanny / willy herpes and mouth herpes don't mix.
Logging off for the night, so don't abuse me and expect a response.
generally speaking, most herpes occuring in/on the mouth are herpes simplex type 1 and those occuring down below are type 2.
but you can get either type in either place.0 -
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This would include kissing then. Cold sores are a sexually transmitted disease.
kissing would included in my kissing number clearly:rolleyes:! As sam34 points out warts are mix'n'match so to speak, you can get them from oral or kissing.
As the only person I've told my number to is my doc. the number is more accurate if you include all people you've had any sexual contact with. And if asked by a partner that would be the number I'd give. However although your chances are clearly increased from multiple partners, you just need to sleep with one person to catch anything.
Also a lil off topic but this may be odd but I keep a actual notebook containing my sexual history if you will, am I alone in this?
And I have when engaging in a manogamous relationship, insisted on the partners being screened even though protection was always used. {I have a regular check-up/screening with my gyno}
Yes, reading it back i see how odd and sad I am. :rolleyes:0 -
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So, to answer the actual question - I just count intercourse partners, because for me oral-only does not exist. If I was with someone, I was with them. And I'll tell anyone asking my real number (as long as they're just being nosey and not asking for the wrong reasons).
go on then, how many? Nah, I'm only kiddin!!
I know what you mean about differentiating, like if ya've gone as far as oral with someone, why not have sex. In a lot of ways oral is more intimate.
I guess it depends on a person perception of what is intimate, and what is maybe reserved for an OH only, what's ok for a one night stand, what's ok for casual dating. It'll differ from person to person.
There are other reasons why a person might go the oral/grope route only and not have sex with a person but I'd think they'd apply in pretty limited circumstances.0 -
dearg lady wrote: »go on then, how many? Nah, I'm only kiddin!!
I know what you mean about differentiating, like if ya've gone as far as oral with someone, why not have sex. In a lot of ways oral is more intimate.
I guess it depends on a person perception of what is intimate, and what is maybe reserved for an OH only, what's ok for a one night stand, what's ok for casual dating. It'll differ from person to person.
There are other reasons why a person might go the oral/grope route only and not have sex with a person but I'd think they'd apply in pretty limited circumstances.
Hmm, I can sort of get on board with the idea of some things only being reserved for a proper partner, but for me in that case it would actually be oral. I dunno... I just find it waaaaaaay more intimate than penetrative sex. That's to do with my own circumstances though, I used to have trouble performing oral and it took me ages to get over that, so it's a big deal to me to trust someone enough to do it with them.
Thinking about it more, I guess it's really just my own issues that have me thinking that way.0 -
Hmm, I can sort of get on board with the idea of some things only being reserved for a proper partner, but for me in that case it would actually be oral. I dunno... I just find it waaaaaaay more intimate than penetrative sex. That's to do with my own circumstances though, I used to have trouble performing oral and it took me ages to get over that, so it's a big deal to me to trust someone enough to do it with them.
Thinking about it more, I guess it's really just my own issues that have me thinking that way.
Personally I would consider oral more intimate too, I think a lot of people would. I mean, you're gettin very very close and personal with someone! That said, my number differs but for a whole other reason I'm not about to go into here 0 -
I understand why people find oral more intimate, personally I don't. But if I'm having any "sexual relations" with someone I want to be fairly comfortable with them to begin with.
I wouldn't be interested in their intercourse number, to be honest, if I wanted to know I'd want to know their sexual relations number. maybe because my numbers differ. I've had sexual relations with more people than intercourse.
Not intentionally, it just ended up that way. I personally prefer oral, I love intercourse..it's just down the line on my to do list when I'm with someone. Saying that it's not that I put sex off, I never intend to put it on the long finger it, it just happens.
.. It's difficult to explain. 0 -
Not intentionally, it just ended up that way. I personally prefer oral, I love intercourse..it's just down the line on my to do list when I'm with someone. Saying that it's not that I put sex off, I never intend to put it on the long finger it, it just happens... It's difficult to explain.
Can I just ask a possibly weird question? Not being antagonistic. What would happen that would mean you'd have sexual relations with a guy but not go on to have sexual intercourse with him? Like, are these guys you'd have been seeing and then stop seeing or just casual partners?0 -
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No ask away,
It's not that I won't have intercourse or have to wait, its more of a case of opportunity. I.e we spend a night together and we don't have intercourse, simply as we start doing something else a few times and then afterwards he's too tired, and in the morning we've no time, or possible we just have oral in the morning (wake up).
These would mainly be men I'd be seeing, I have had open realtionships and O.N.S's as well though. It's mainly due to opportunity/time, I live at home with parents who have a strict no guests policy, My last serious BF was in the same situation so there were less chances to have sex.
I don't have a policy of relations leading to sex, it just depends on what we both want at the time and then if we stop seeing each other we may only have had realtions. :rolleyes: Like I say, in no way intentional, some times it just happens that way.0 -
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No ask away,
It's not that I won't have intercourse or have to wait, its more of a case of opportunity. I.e we spend a night together and we don't have intercourse, simply as we start doing something else a few times and then afterwards he's too tired, and in the morning we've no time, or possible we just have oral in the morning (wake up).
These would mainly be men I'd be seeing, I have had open realtionships and O.N.S's as well though. It's mainly due to opportunity/time, I live at home with parents who have a strict no guests policy, My last serious BF was in the same situation so there were less chances to have sex.
I don't have a policy of relations leading to sex, it just depends on what we both want at the time and then if we stop seeing each other we may only have had realtions. :rolleyes: Like I say, in no way intentional, some times it just happens that way.
Ok, cool. Just interested in how it happens! I tend to be rather single-minded til I get what I want :P0 -
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Me too, when the passion kicks in logic and willpower go out the door. 
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