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For womens in their 30s, how young is too young?

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    #32
    DaveSlats
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭DaveSlats


    I went from being with a woman 12 years younger than me to a woman 14 years older than me. A 26 year age swing.

    In both cases the relationship had no future because of the age gap.

    Take a 15 year age gap.

    One is 35, one is 20 - a bit odd.

    One is 45, the other is 30. Maybe.

    One is 45, the other is 60. Back to odd.

    There is a short window where that kind of age gap doesn't matter, but generally speaking you would have to look at other motives beyond the romantic with a big age gap.

    And not all of them mentally healthy.


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    #33
    lin lin
    Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭lin lin


    DaveSlats wrote: »
    I went from being with a woman 12 years younger than me to a woman 14 years older than me. A 26 year age swing.

    In both cases the relationship had no future because of the age gap.

    Take a 15 year age gap.

    One is 35, one is 20 - a bit odd.

    One is 45, the other is 30. Maybe.

    One is 45, the other is 60. Back to odd.

    There is a short window where that kind of age gap doesn't matter, but generally speaking you would have to look at other motives beyond the romantic with a big age gap.

    And not all of them mentally healthy.
    wow 26 years, they could have been mother and dau..... omg, they were mother and daughter weren't they?!!..


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    #34
    DaveSlats
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭DaveSlats


    Lin Lin,

    No, they were not mother and daughter.

    However, the older woman was older than the younger womans mother.

    The younger woman was older than the older mothers children.

    Very confusing.

    Ever heard the song 'I am my own grandpa'?

    A bit like that.


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    #35
    DaveSlats
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭DaveSlats


    Got that wrong, it still confuses me.

    The younger woman was younger than the older womans children.

    One of whom was quite attractive.

    It was at that stage that I got my coat.


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    #36
    lin lin
    Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭lin lin


    thanks, you did right i'd say


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    #37
    DaveSlats
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭DaveSlats


    Not only was the daughter of the older woman attractive, so was the mother of the younger woman.

    Now, I am not normally gay but the half-brother of the younger womans mother did something for me, as did his wife who was a cousin of the older woman.

    Too much too young.


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    #38
    SV
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Rojomcdojo wrote: »
    An 18 year old bloke would wanna be pretty desperate to be gettin' involved with an auld wan.

    Dunno about that, some of us prefer it to be honest.
    Nothing to do with being desperate.


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    #39
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    I was asked out by an 18yr old a while ago (and I’m just 30). Very cute guy but just couldn’t do it. All I could picture was talking about Cascada’s new cd or how many bebo mates he had.


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    #40
    Nerin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,523 ✭✭✭✭Nerin


    Kiera wrote: »
    I was asked out by an 18yr old a while ago (and I’m just 30). Very cute guy but just couldn’t do it. All I could picture was talking about Cascada’s new cd or how many bebo mates he had.

    You're 30?!


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    #41
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Nerin wrote: »
    You're 30?!
    Take it to Helpdesk!


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    #42
    Nerin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,523 ✭✭✭✭Nerin


    Kiera wrote: »
    Take it to Helpdesk!

    :p i don't think the admins can help...unless...hmmm.


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    #43
    ChocolateSauce
    Registered Users Posts: 2,892 ✭✭✭ChocolateSauce


    21 wasn't too young for a number of 30+ women I've met ;).


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    #44
    Oh The Humanity
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Oh The Humanity


    Night of passion=19+

    Relationship=25+


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    #45
    wudangclan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,883 ✭✭✭wudangclan


    Khannie wrote: »
    Half + 6, rounding up. That'd be my rule. 7 is cack. I don't see any problem with a 30 year old dating a 21 year old for example ((30 / 2) + 6).

    +1


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    #46
    prinz
    Registered Users Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    shellyboo wrote: »
    Every woman, once she hits the age of 30, is suddenly hit with the realisation that they can never again date anyone under the age of 25 years and four months.

    Or maybe I made that up, and it varies from woman to woman. There is no norm.


    :eek: Shelllyboo, jackpot just made it, you've got a slim window to make a move, I'll be off the market soon ;)


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    #47
    Nerin
    Registered Users Posts: 10,523 ✭✭✭✭Nerin


    wudangclan wrote: »
    +1

    17? >_>


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    #48
    Dardania
    Registered Users Posts: 3,612 ✭✭✭Dardania


    Kiera wrote: »
    I was asked out by an 18yr old a while ago (and I’m just 30). Very cute guy but just couldn’t do it. All I could picture was talking about Cascada’s new cd or how many bebo mates he had.

    Casc-who?!
    Oh The Humanity wrote: »
    Night of passion=19+

    Relationship=25+

    This sounds fair...


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    #49
    Turd Ferguson
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭Turd Ferguson


    Khannie wrote: »
    Half your age + 6 is the golden rule. The engineer in me loves it.

    I do half my age - 6....it works for me


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    #50
    mink_man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,454 ✭✭✭mink_man


    ah i finally can see some of the posts of the famous turd ferguson ive heard so much about!


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    #51
    makehersquirt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭makehersquirt


    When I was 24, I met a 42 yo woman who became my lover. She is a good looking woman, thin, fit and very appreciative of my actions. I still meet up with her the odd time to 'catch up'. She did teach me stuff although nearly ate me alive at first!

    Also, kinda got it on with a 18 yo spanish girl there 2 years ago. nothing serious though. I was 28 at the time so thats 10 years younger & 18 years older than me, a 28 year swing but isnt as mad as it sounds. I did educate the young wan though.


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    #52
    AlmightyCushion
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,069 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    poloballs8 wrote: »
    if anyones looking for a good poke in the fanny

    This guy is a keeper, ladies.


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    #53
    netwhizkid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,558 ✭✭✭netwhizkid


    28 + 41 = 69 :cool:


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    #54
    ardinn
    Registered Users Posts: 4,246 ✭✭✭ardinn


    Didnt read all the posts here but when I was 23 i was with a 41 yr old - Note for Males - I would STRONGLY reccommend it.
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    http://slaneyfishing.com




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    #55
    fabbydabby
    Registered Users Posts: 1,313 ✭✭✭fabbydabby


    Khannie wrote: »
    Half your age + 6 is the golden rule. The engineer in me loves it.
    Yeah? How old is he?


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    #56
    sceptre
    Registered Users Posts: 19,608 ✭✭✭✭sceptre


    amacachi wrote: »
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Half_Plus_Seven_Graph_2.JPG Fairly sure that's the law.
    Excellent, my current relationship will be acceptable to society in four years time then when my child woman hits 26.


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    #57
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    AlmightyCushion wrote: »
    This guy is a keeper, ladies.
    As is makehersquirt. Torn I am. Torn. :(


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    #58
    blinding
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,466 ✭✭✭blinding


    ardinn wrote: »
    Didnt read all the posts here but when I was 23 i was with a 41 yr old - Note for Males - I would STRONGLY reccommend it.
    This should be mandatory for all young men and probably would be benificial to young women as the young men would be given a good education.


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    #59
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Too young come when it becomes illegal really. So move to Mexico:D


    I wouldn't mind and in fact would appreciate an older woman who could teach me more. It's not like I am dying to get into a marriage for the next 10 years. So at 20 I would go for a woman up to the age of 45 or so. However I have no qualms about going slightly over that.

    But that's me, I have friends who would not be so keen on anyone more than a year older than them.

    I would consider myself quite mature with a very childish streak when I want to but usually mature so I could handle it. I have friends who are immature enough to think anyone that lets them put their dick in them more than once is their true love.


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    #60
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    I don't mind if a woman 12 years older then me or 9 years younger then me :D


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    #61
    wudangclan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,883 ✭✭✭wudangclan


    Snow-Monkey wrote:
    or 9 years younger then me :D

    i hope you're older than 25 so!


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