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Who gets laid more?

  • 01-11-2009 9:32pm
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Edit: The fact that my ex went to a party last night and was probably getting tag teamed by midnight has nothing to do with this...


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Can we clarify that your female?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,059 ✭✭✭Pacing Mule


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Unless they are hooking up with themselves lesbian style then I'm pretty sure it balances out between men and women ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Most men would get up on the crack of dawn after x amount of drinks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    huh


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Unless they are hooking up with themselves lesbian style then I'm pretty sure it balances out between men and women ;)

    or else there's a handful of blokes banging all of them


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Edit: The fact that my ex went to a party last night and was probably getting tag teamed by midnight has nothing to do with this...


    maybe your friends are sluts?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    stovelid wrote: »
    Most men would get up on the crack of dawn after x amount of drinks.

    I wouldn't. I'm very particular about women.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    How is this news to you?

    Supply and demand. Guys want a ride and women control the supply. Its easy for a woman to get her hole but it might not be with someone she wants though.

    BTW, try not to think about what your ex is up to. You're just torturing yourself.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Voltex wrote: »
    maybe your friends are sluts?

    well why would you insult them, I mean if I could take the opportunity to get laid each time I went out I'd be all over it


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,111 ✭✭✭Jesus Juice


    Well,as long as a woman is easy she can get off with anyone.

    Of course they get laid more!!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    BTW, try not to think about what your ex is up to. You're just torturing yourself.

    I can't help it I am trying my best :(


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    well why would you insult them, I mean if I could take the opportunity to get laid each time I went out I'd be all over it
    so whats stopping you?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Voltex wrote: »
    so whats stopping you?

    I'm a bloke, as someone said in a previous post, women control the supply


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    super-rush wrote: »
    I wouldn't. I'm very particular about women.

    http://www.thefreedictionary.com/most


  • Registered Users Posts: 13 Laptop1


    stovelid wrote: »
    Most men would get up on the crack of dawn after x amount of drinks.

    Dawn is a bit early in the morning, isn't it :pac:


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    Well thats life...women have a nack for sensing guys who feel sorry for themselves...and its not an attractive trait!

    Maybe your just hyper sensitive to people copping off at the moment.

    Anyway...buck up...start being confident!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    stovelid wrote: »

    Yeah i know what you said. I wasn't getting at you or anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,322 ✭✭✭Mad_Max


    Where do these friends of yours hang out? Idle curiosity :p


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Mad_Max wrote: »
    Where do these friends of yours hang out? Idle curiosity :p

    Parties in Donnybrook. One of them is a DJ on a nationwide Radio Station. Thought I was in there for a bit, next thing I know she's wearing the face off some other guy ffs.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Voltex wrote: »
    Well thats life...women have a nack for sensing guys who feel sorry for themselves...and its not an attractive trait!

    Maybe your just hyper sensitive to people copping off at the moment.

    Anyway...buck up...start being confident!!

    Believe me I'm doing my best to put on a facade and pretend to be happy right now!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    Op...I doubt your gonna get the answers you want in AH...try PI


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 21,666 Mod ✭✭✭✭helimachoptor


    Women have the power. Even the ugliest girl has power over a man. Women choose to go home with a man, however there is a certain amount of luck needed for a man to go home with a woman.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    Women have the power. Even the ugliest girl has power over a man. Women choose to go home with a man, however there is a certain amount of luck needed for a man to go home with a woman.

    now..lets not get too carried away!!
    FFS...men need to retain some dignity!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Voltex wrote: »
    Op...I doubt your gonna get the answers you want in AH...try PI

    I'm fine i just need to get on with it, in time it'll all come good I'm sure


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    in time it'll all come good I'm sure

    I'm sure she did, unfortunately...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    stovelid wrote: »
    I'm sure she did, unfortunately...

    well at least I banged some better looking birds than her behind her back before she dumped me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    well at least I banged some better looking birds than her behind her back before she dumped me

    I'm beginning to feel sorry for her now


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,580 ✭✭✭Voltex


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    well at least I banged some better looking birds than her behind her back before she dumped me
    ahhhaaaaa.....*all sympathy evaporated*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,848 ✭✭✭soundsham


    afterposting sucks


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,171 ✭✭✭Neamhshuntasach


    I had to cut back on going out as it was costing me a fortune getting taxi's home from strange women's houses.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 340 ✭✭jif


    brilliaNZ wrote:
    seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man?
    because they are the ones who get to say NO


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,597 ✭✭✭anniehoo


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    well at least I banged some better looking birds than her behind her back before she dumped me
    Oh look...your tiny violin is smashed in little bits all over the floor..by me!Woops!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,123 ✭✭✭stepbar


    You should insist she leaves you home the next morning.... just like a sycobitch did to my friend...... the fcuking wagon....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    stovelid wrote: »
    Most men would get up on the crack of dawn ..

    And what's wrong with that? Pic


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,271 ✭✭✭irish_bob


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Edit: The fact that my ex went to a party last night and was probably getting tag teamed by midnight has nothing to do with this...

    any women could go out tonight and if they so wished , could have thier kicks , this isnt at all the case with men

    women choose to be celebete , men have it thrust upon them


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,817 ✭✭✭pebbles21


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    Parties in Donnybrook. One of them is a DJ on a nationwide Radio Station. Thought I was in there for a bit, next thing I know she's wearing the face off some other guy ffs.


    Please dont tell me it was THIS DJ!!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    i really like Marian


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35 Thought Bubble


    super-rush wrote: »
    I wouldn't. I'm very particular about women.

    Agreed. But eh, with the mens and not the wimmins. It's a purely personal thing of course, but when not in a relationship, I'd much prefer to revisit my old faithful, friends with benefits, who I know, like and trust then go home with some randomer I met for an hour at a party.

    And just so I can use one of my favourite phrases, going back to the whole supply and demand thing, a male friend of mine used to say about all those 'easy girls' out there, 'why would I buy the cow, when I can get the milk for free'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Nico22 wrote: »
    And what's wrong with that? Pic

    I'd ride her :pac:

    *lubes up*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Nico22 wrote: »
    And what's wrong with that? Pic
    I would, in a heartbeat!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭redorblack


    stepbar wrote: »
    You should insist she leaves you home the next morning.... just like a sycobitch did to my friend...... the fcuking wagon....


    Please explain? Sounds promising ha ha


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,717 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    I was at a party last night and all the single girls I knew at it hooked up with random blokes. I wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone as I have just come out of a relationship but it seems to me like women seem to score an awful lot more than your average man? Any female friends i have always hook up with someone when they go out or go to parties. And when I shared flats with girls they would always be bringing home strange men, much more so than I would or any blokes I've lived with have done!
    It just seems to me like they have a lot more partners than most men these days? Am I right? Wrong? Bitter?

    Edit: The fact that my ex went to a party last night and was probably getting tag teamed by midnight has nothing to do with this...
    I didn't tag team nobody!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 431 ✭✭aido179


    I didn't tag team nobody!

    you should have!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    however there is a certain amount of luck needed for a man to go home with a woman.
    Nah, good looks should do it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 235 ✭✭enry


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    or else there's a handful of blokes banging all of them

    correct:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Aidric wrote: »
    Nah, good looks should do it.

    Good looks should do it but they don't. Come on, I have a ton of mates who get knocked back and insulted when they ask girls out. It's laughable the way girls on a Friday and Saturday night treat guys that just say 'Hello' to them.

    I'm not single, but I go out with my gf and single friends quite a bit. I'm around single girls and guys all night and it's quite astonishing how cruel girls can be to guys.

    You will hear a lot of women say ''The guys that come up to them are only out for one thing" and while that may be the case you could still give the benifit of the doubt for two minutes and see if maybe they wanna ask you out or something.

    Women have no concept of how hard it us for guys to chat up women on a night out or the guts that it takes. Nine times out of ten you are are going to get blanked at best. I see guys at the weekend get treated like crap and insulted for showing the slightest interest in a girl.

    The typical Friday or Saturday night in Dublin is girls having guys giving them attention from the moment they leave their home until the moment they return. You will see guys that I would say are 9/10 on looks trying to chat up women who are far far below that level.

    Not all girls are like that but the vast majority are. They take male attention for granted like it's their God given right.

    My gf's best friend last week had a guy come up to her and as he was just about to say 'Hello' to her she just turned her back to his face. You could see she may as well of slapped him for she made him feel.

    I just smiled at him to kinda say 'Don't worry about it mate, she's pi**ed' or whatever but she wasn't. That's a 'move' that I have seen girls do quite a bit to guys actually. It has happened to myself quite a bit over the years also. Like saying 'Sorry I'm with someone' is too hard.

    When it comes to attention from the opposite sex it is simply a woman's world.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    enry wrote: »
    correct:D

    Don't pretend you're one of them..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,370 ✭✭✭GAAman


    Girls says to a fella "Come on lets go f*ck" she wakes up beside him in the mornin

    Fella says to a girl "Come on lets go f*ck" he wakes up beside the bars of the jail cell while awaiting his charges of rape to be finalised :rolleyes::eek::)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,558 ✭✭✭netwhizkid


    I find as a guy that when women decide they want it they will get it, whether what they get is memorable for them is another thing. When and if a guy wants some it is more of a challenge. However it is not as hard for us fellas either as alot of male defeatists proclaim, dressing nice, smelling nice, being stylish and unique, talking the talk and getting to know the inside of a womans head also has alot to do with it, however the golden rule is just be yourself and be natural, don't overtry it and use a little reverse psychology also.

    The last girl I slept with we went out on the town, I f'd off away from to another bar with some mates and left her with her gf, then we met up at the club, talked a little and left her to the masses, lines of desperate men hit on her throughout the night and she even snogged one of them close by me as I could feel her frustration with me growing.

    End of the night I gave her and her gf a lift home (having sobriety increases our chances massively). Then she came into mine and after a coffee and some chit chat, I showed her to my guests room. (what sort of creep takes advantage when a girl is tipsy and tired plus anyway drunken sex = FAIL).

    Next morning, she came down and I cooked her a nice breakfast and we really connected, and then as they say the fireworks began. Having a passionate Sunday afternoon beats the crap out of a 5 minute fumble on a Saturday night anyday.

    Basically I think its a two way street and give a woman what she wants and she will reward you in return.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,494 ✭✭✭citizen_p


    its not exactly hard for a woman to get with a man.....


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