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Is it worth it?

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    #32
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    LeoB wrote: »
    Its difficult to comment fairly without knowing the people involved.

    I dont like your partners attidtude at all. While you are the boys father I think you have no right to arrive back on the scene. This could cause mayhem in their life and in yours.

    Quite true, I've no right to waltz back in and I'm not intending to, if I could manage to find out what the boys mother is thinking and if she would agree then that would be of help. Then of course I would need to know what the boy himself thinks... it would be pointless causing hell in my own home and then finding out that either the boy, his mother or both don't want anything to do with me.


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    #33
    metrovelvet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    You might also consider that the first attempt might meet failure. It might take several tries. After all no one will take you seriously after a ten year absence.


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    #34
    LegacyUser
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    For the sake of my marriage I'm going to leave it for a while and see how things can develop a little more slowly, I seem to be pushing it too much and it's causing the inevitable problems.

    Making things worse isn't going to help me so I'll take it slower.


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    #35
    LeoB
    Registered Users Posts: 4,254 ✭✭✭LeoB


    sweepnswerve wrote: »
    For the sake of my marriage I'm going to leave it for a while and see how things can develop a little more slowly, I seem to be pushing it too much and it's causing the inevitable problems.

    Making things worse isn't going to help me so I'll take it slower.

    Dammed if you do Dammed if you dont.

    Still think your partner is a little unreasonable. Good luck with whichever course you decide.


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    #36
    Shelli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Shelli


    10 years no contact, living in a different country, and the mothers husband has been there since day one??

    There is a very high possibility the child doesn't even know the husband is not his biological father.


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    #37
    metrovelvet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,376 ✭✭✭metrovelvet


    Tick tock tick tock tick tock....

    That is one big bomb under your carpet.


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