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Why do men do it?
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I was just explaining why men do it. I wasn't trying to offend anyone
I think it's natural to check out a person you think is attractive. But looking and STARING are two different things.
I like butts. I will quietly check out a guy with a nice butt and some swagger walking down the street. But the fact that I am a butt-liking female doesn't make me feel entitled to 1) stare, 2) whistle, or 3) yell out something like "ooh, I'd tap that" -- all for the sake of some biological imperative. And I certainly would not stare at a co-worker's butt every day, per the situation described by the OP. Yet a surprising number of men think it is appropriate or acceptable to do all of the above - simply because they are male and (theoretically) fascinated by boobs.0 -
southsiderosie wrote: »I think it's natural to check out a person you think is attractive. But looking and STARING are two different things.
I like butts. I will quietly check out a guy with a nice butt and some swagger walking down the street. But the fact that I am a butt-liking female doesn't make me feel entitled to 1) stare, 2) whistle, or 3) yell out something like "ooh, I'd tap that" -- all for the sake of some biological imperative. And I certainly would not stare at a co-worker's butt every day, per the situation described by the OP. Yet a surprising number of men think it is appropriate or acceptable to do all of the above - simply because they are male and (theoretically) fascinated by boobs.
Mmmmm yeah ...we do
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Just back in from another crap movie
I couldn't give a flying fook if I caught any guy over the age of 12 - actually, scratch that 12... 9 - having a quick peep at my rack. It's normal.
I think the women that have posted apart from your good self know fine well it is normal and that is why they are going from looking at boobs to honking it in the street and lewd comments.
Let's stick to the topic.
The OP is comlaining about being looked at and I have to be honest here and respectful at the same time which will be hard but ..
From the tone of the OP I dodn't think she minds at all. In fact I think she is flattered and enjoying the attention.
Men look at boobs the same way women look at tall men with broad shoulders. It's instinct.
If men keep looking it is then appreciation of said boobs. Life is short, take some pleasure in it - as I said before, one day you'll wish for those looks and wonder why they no longer happen.0 -
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I can't stop staring and then I realise I'm actually drooling.mmmmmmm tall men.
Men are not there for you to objectify.
How dare you stare at us.. you creepy pervert. I actually stoop when I walk cause of women like you looking at my tallness.
I used to go jogging and pervert women would see me and I would feel freaked out so I had to stop. Sometimes I even stay seated and at times have even crawled home so that women would not oggle my manly frame.
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southsiderosie wrote: »Is it appreciation if it isn't appreciated?
Yes. As If I appreciate your tits by looking at them then it makes not a blind bit of difference if you reciprocate the appreciation or not. Either way your breasts are now in my cerebral possession for masturbation purposes.southsiderosie wrote: »Why do so many men think being ogled is a compliment?
Because it us doing the ogling and so we are aware of the intention. Plus when we are ogled WE take it as a compliment.southsiderosie wrote: »It's one thing if you are on your way to a party dressed to the nines.
Ahh, but you see this is something 'most' women don't understand and will never listen to. Most men do not prefer women 'dressed to the nines' - we like women naturally beautiful and the less make-up the better.
Men are just as likely to find you irresistible when you are in tight jeans and t-shirt than if you have your best get-up on and all madeup for a night on the tiles. Men like you ...southsiderosie wrote: »being stared at to the point where you are not comfortable in your workplace or exercising in public - as previous posters have attested to - is ridiculous.
It'll pass ..southsiderosie wrote: »The justification .. it's instinct" is the same justification used in some cultures to put women in burkas.
Are you sure? I think they are opossed to exposed nipples, whereas - I'm for em, if anything 0 -
OutlawPete wrote: »Because it us doing the ogling and so we are aware of the intention. Plus when we are ogled WE take it as a compliment.
AH-HA! Herein lies the problem.
I will now refer to that great sage of gender dynamics, Chris Rock, who noted that while men are incapable of turning down sex ("a man is only as faithful as his options"), women are used to it, since in his words "Every man you've known since you were 13 was trying to **** you!"
Women get stared at and hit on ALL THE TIME. It gets tiresome. It's even worse when it happens in inappropriate situations, like at work. And a lot of women are nervous about "rocking the boat" or seeming bitchy, so they don't speak up about it, they just complain to their friends (or in online forums). Lucky for me, I am secure in my bitchiness, so I have no problems telling people to **** off.
Finally, I will make one more pop culture reference to prove my point. The brilliant tv show Mad Men is is large part a case study of gender dynamics in early 1960s Manhattan: the men in the ad agency in which the show is set felt perfectly free to ogle their secretaries, make lewd and sexist remarks, etc. Do we really think that a man's internal reaction to a magnificent creature like Joan Holloway has changed in the last 50 years? No. But the social norms of what is appropriate office behavior have. So keep your eyes to yourself, buddy, at least until happy hour. 0 -
southsiderosie wrote: »I will now refer to that great sage of gender dynamics, Chris Rock
Oh yes, Prof Rock who says Black People can never have wealth. They can be RICH, but only WHITE people can be wealthy.
Carry on ..southsiderosie wrote: », who noted that while men are incapable of turning down sex ("a man is only as faithful as his options"), women are used to it, since in his words "Every man you've known since you were 13 was trying to **** you!"
Yes, yes .. I agree with all his observations here, so what is your point??southsiderosie wrote: »Women get stared at and hit on ALL THE TIME. It gets tiresome. .. I'm feel so sorry for you. It must sooo hard for you. Life is so cruel sometimes it makes me weep.southsiderosie wrote: »a lot of women are nervous about "rocking the boat" or seeming bitchy, so they don't speak up about it, they just complain to their friends (or in online forums).
Yeah, SOME women compalin in online forums. I've read 'em .. a bunch of narcissistic stuck up precious little daddy's girls who need a good kick up the arse - the whole lot of them.southsiderosie wrote: »Lucky for me, I am secure in my bitchiness, so I have no problems telling people to **** off.
I'm sure you don't. You have no problem telling people to 'f**k off', as you so eloquently put it, becuase in this age you get away with it.
Would you tell a guy to '**** off' if you were alone in a strange place with not many around?? No, you wouldn't.
You would tell a guy to '****-off' cause you know society will bend over backwards to protect you. A bouncer will step in or another guy who wants to impress you prehaps but not because you deserve protection - please don't kid yourself on that score.0 -
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OutlawPete wrote: »Oh yes, Prof Rock who says Black People can never have wealth. They can be RICH, but only WHITE people can be wealthy.
Carry on ..
Yes, yes .. I agree with all his observations here, so what is your point?? .. I'm feel so sorry for you. It must sooo hard for you. Life is so cruel sometimes it makes me weep.
Yeah, SOME women compalin in online forums. I've read 'em .. a bunch of narcissistic stuck up precious little daddy's girls who need a good kick up the arse - the whole lot of them.
I'm sure you don't. You have no problem telling people to 'f**k off', as you so eloquently put it, becuase in this age you get away with it.
Would you tell a guy to '**** off' if you were alone in a strange place with not many around?? No, you wouldn't.
You would tell a guy to '****-off' cause you know society will bend over backwards to protect you. A bouncer will step in or another guy who wants to impress you prehaps but not because you deserve protection - please don't kid yourself on that score.
Your attitude toward women is funny outlaw!!! And by funny i mean weird!! Wonder why you bother with us at all! But whatever ...0 -
OutlawPete wrote: »Oh yes, Prof Rock who says Black People can never have wealth. They can be RICH, but only WHITE people can be wealthy.
Carry on ..
Yes, yes .. I agree with all his observations here, so what is your point?? .. I'm feel so sorry for you. It must sooo hard for you. Life is so cruel sometimes it makes me weep.
Yeah, SOME women compalin in online forums. I've read 'em .. a bunch of narcissistic stuck up precious little daddy's girls who need a good kick up the arse - the whole lot of them.
I'm sure you don't. You have no problem telling people to 'f**k off', as you so eloquently put it, becuase in this age you get away with it.
Would you tell a guy to '**** off' if you were alone in a strange place with not many around?? No, you wouldn't.
You would tell a guy to '****-off' cause you know society will bend over backwards to protect you. A bouncer will step in or another guy who wants to impress you prehaps but not because you deserve protection - please don't kid yourself on that score.
I "get away" with telling people to **** off because most men who make inappropriate comments to women are rarely called on their BS and are stunned when someone throws it back in their face. That and I am about 6' tall in heels.
Chivalry is dead, sweetie. If a woman has any sense, she won't put herself in a position where she needs a man to rescue her out of some sense of duty. According to the comments on this thread, they will be too mesmerized by her breasts to do anything anyway.
Finally, I am sorry to inform you that your comments doom you to having seven daughters, all of whom will be leered at every day on their way to school by creepy 40 year old men who are "just doing what comes naturally". Good luck.0 -
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southsiderosie wrote: »I "get away" with telling people to **** off because most men who make inappropriate comments to women are rarely called on their BS and are stunned when someone throws it back in their face. That and I am about 6' tall in heels.
Chivalry is dead, sweetie. If a woman has any sense, she won't put herself in a position where she needs a man to rescue her out of some sense of duty. According to the comments on this thread, they will be too mesmerized by her breasts to do anything anyway.
Finally, I am sorry to inform you that your comments doom you to having seven daughters, all of whom will be leered at every day on their way to school by creepy 40 year old men who are "just doing what comes naturally". Good luck.
LMAO!! And this is the post of the day!! Nuff said!
Night Outlaw:D:D 0 -
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brendansmith wrote: »I
Tidays!
I choose too see that as "one is not greater than 3 titties" .............and I concur0 -
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