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Men-what attracts you to a girl on a night out?

  • 06-12-2009 11:23pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 57 ✭✭smileyxx


    This has been bugging me for a while:P

    Some girls I know, all with average looks get all the men, while others with average looks get none!

    Apart from looks, what is it?

    Is it niceyness, confidence or wha?:o


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  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    I'm going to guess at .... boobs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,555 ✭✭✭Gillington


    Her purse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    Sluttiness, and a nice bottom.

    Giggity.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,942 ✭✭✭Danbo!


    Inability to make rational decisions


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,473 ✭✭✭R0ot


    Skirt, not blonde, longish hair, female. 3 of 4 would do. :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    The design of her facial hair.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,836 ✭✭✭Sir Gallagher


    Desperation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭Browney7


    Easyness


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭brendansmith


    Beers


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,376 ✭✭✭54kroc


    I'm always attracted to the girls who look like they would suck a golf ball through a garden hose.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 943 ✭✭✭Rebel021


    R0ot wrote: »
    Skirt, not blonde, longish hair, female. 3 of 4 would do. :D
    Add big boobs and I'm a happy man:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Well groomed in a smart dress or fit looking in a top /blue jeans /black boots ,nice ass, any hair colour and a smile :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 346 ✭✭deepriver


    smileyxx wrote: »
    This has been bugging me for a while:P

    Some girls I know, all with average looks get all the men, while others with average looks get none!

    Apart from looks, what is it?

    Is it niceyness, confidence or wha?:o

    I think approachability has a lot to do with it, then after that willingness to talk and then maybe if the girl gives some indication she is interested..

    niceness more so than confidence I would think


  • Registered Users Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Tommy_NDX


    Her alcohol intake.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,692 ✭✭✭Jarren


    her car


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,258 ✭✭✭✭Rabies


    Depends on how close it is to lights on


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,108 ✭✭✭Lirange


    Difficult question if you assume all things being equal in the physical attribute department. It could come down to how they carry themselves, do they have a sense of humour, are they not up themselves, do they seem non threatening, are they neurotic or are they comfortable with themselves, and so on. It could be many things depending on the girl and the men/environment in question. Apologies for my non answer. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,051 ✭✭✭Whosbetter?


    A nice arse & a great smile to begin with.

    The ability to have a good conversation is good too.

    Knowledge of albums from The Who would be a great bonus!:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    R0ot wrote: »
    Skirt, not blonde, longish hair, female. 3 of 4 would do. :D


    Three out of four you say. That reminds me.. I haven't seen Kazobel in a while.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭longshanks


    its nice if she the ability to hold a decent conversation





    while my dick or balls or both are in her mouth and shes playing with my ring


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6 EimearCritchley


    cork45 wrote: »
    I'm always attracted to the girls who look like they would suck a golf ball through a garden hose.
    ha ha ha ha ha ha ha


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,102 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Desperate, lonely and emotionally fragile.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Serious answer: Not being a complete cunt when I talk to you.

    Other than that: boobies.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,454 ✭✭✭mink_man


    where am i


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,675 ✭✭✭ronnie3585


    The smell of want.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭smk89


    The presence of a vagina


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 255 ✭✭Lemondrop kid


    Lirange wrote: »
    Difficult question if you assume all things being equal in the physical attribute department. It could come down to how they carry themselves, do they have a sense of humour, are they not up themselves, do they seem non threatening, are they neurotic or are they comfortable with themselves, and so on. It could be many things depending on the girl and the men/environment in question. Apologies for my non answer. ;)
    deepriver wrote: »
    I think approachability has a lot to do with it, then after that willingness to talk and then maybe if the girl gives some indication she is interested..

    niceness more so than confidence I would think

    Assuming your question is real (and i suspect it is) the above are the reasons.
    1/ The majority of men are terrified of talking to women / ie rejection
    2/ Most men will approach someone not too threatening.
    That simple


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭SoWatchaWant


    Terry wrote: »
    Serious answer: Not being a complete cunt when I talk to you.

    Other than that: boobies.

    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,595 ✭✭✭Mal-Adjusted


    (.)(.)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,051 ✭✭✭Whosbetter?


    Also ladies, lay off this obsession with being a size zero.

    Posh Spice is not an acceptable role model for anybody!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Only gays think that's cool.

    Real men think that a size 12 is about right.:cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭longshanks


    Assuming your question is real (and i suspect it is) the above are the reasons.
    1/ The majority of men are terrified of talking to women / ie rejection
    2/ Most men will approach someone not too threatening.
    That simple

    are you the real lemondrop kid?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    Let it go ffs.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,210 ✭✭✭argosy2006


    Also ladies, lay off this obsession with being a size zero.

    Posh Spice is not an acceptable role model for anybody!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Only gays think that's cool.

    Real men think that a size 12 is about right.:cool:
    she should do a add for mcguire and pattersons


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭blackbetty69


    Fizman wrote: »
    The design of her facial hair.

    sure whatever ur into..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    I would have kept my head down if I was you, pity you had to act the jack the lad.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    Now I rarely use this, so I hope you are aware of its significance.
    :rolleyes:

    I quit moderating AH. I did not quit posting here.

    Back on topic; Women, stop wearing revealing clothes and then whining when some dude tries to chat you up.
    No, I am not saying that wearing revealing clothes is an excuse for rape. There is no excuse for rape.
    What I am saying is that if you wear revealing clothes to a club, then men are going to try and chat you up. Shocking. I know.
    Stop pretending that you are completely unaware of this. We know that you know.

    What's that you say?
    You want to go to a club and not be hit on my horny blokes?
    Yeah, that's never ever going to happen. Deal with it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 55 ✭✭The Shark


    When there not sitting around man hateing..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭upmeath


    Red socks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    Just them being in said place attracts me to them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,727 ✭✭✭Nozebleed


    its nice if a woman smiles at you..rarely happens unortunately.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 220 ✭✭Kristian_


    A smile:) and a sense of humur:D which is often very hard to come across! A squeezable bum always helps too!;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,261 ✭✭✭HalloweenJack


    Chances of a ride.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,587 ✭✭✭Xinkai


    The ones i can actually get up the balls to talk to usually do it for me :D

    Also Ass.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Confidence!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    Emotionally fragile wimmen are my fortay.

    *slicks back oily hair with flick-knife*

    Or when they don't have a scoul on their face that becomes fiercer the closer you get to them.

    Meh, as long as they're not drunk or a mutt I usually try and strike up a conversation, though that usually ends in one of the following ways:

    A) They talk & flirt with you, they'll hang around all night with you hoping you'll buy drinks for 'em, and then at the end of the night mention that they have a boyfriend, wait for your reaction and then hop into a taxi (That's happened 3 out of the past 5 times I've been out, so fùck the lot of ye!)

    B)You're getting on sound with the girl before her sour-faced friend drags her away, never to be seen again :mad:

    C) Her boyfriend walks up to ye (Stabbing him is optional, though not recommended.)

    D) She has zero personality and just spits acid at ya. (Man, some wimmen are just angry, angry people.)

    OR

    E) You start a conversation with her, get on brilliant with her but, alas she has a boyfriend and insists setting you up with her Picasso-looking friend. :(

    EDIT: Heh heh, actually just remembered when a mate of mine started a conversation with an English girl, she started making fun of him so naturally that pissed him off and he made fun of her back.............................cue her shouting for her boyfriend to hit him.

    Striking a conversation with a girl is like a Pick N' Mix bag, you dunno what the hell is gonna happen. :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 633 ✭✭✭Warfi


    Duggy747 wrote: »
    E) You start a conversation with her, get on brilliant with her but, alas she has a boyfriend and insists setting you up with her Picasso-looking friend. :(

    :D:D:D Hilarious description!!

    With regard to the rest of your post, you've had really bad luck. Change the places you go to, very hard to meet someone in a club anyway (the older you get). I've met some right loons in nightclubs, I don't bother trying to meet anyone in them anymore. Waste of time


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,620 ✭✭✭Grudaire


    smk89 wrote: »
    The presence of a vagina

    Hole and a heartbeat surely!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 539 ✭✭✭piby


    Magnets


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 72 ✭✭loglogbarkbark


    I love chatting to fellas in smoking areas I have no problems chatting to anyone no matter what they look like because I honestly go for personality.What pisses me off is some men feel because they have talked to you it's fully their right for you to head down an ally down with them and when you say no they make you feel like a tease. whats wrong with exchanging numbers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Cliste wrote: »
    Hole and a heartbeat surely!

    I hate anything that starts with 'This is AH' ...but a heartbeat doesn't really seem high up on the list of requirements.


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