Men-what attracts you to a girl on a night out?

thirtythirty

Based on the "manly" replies of most on this I now have a collective image of a bar of David Brents tryin to chat birds up!

jameshayes

A bit of the oul eye contact flurting is the one that gets me

yupyup7up

if shes good lookin, not a skank and doesnt come across a gowlbag. then im down

--Kaiser--

Good body and nicely dressed. Not too much make-up. Smiles, eye contact and being a bit flirty.

stateofflux

dressing differently to all the other uniformly dressed girls in a club....

looking like she does'nt give a damn if any anyone comes up to her,

not fat,

not sexually repressed or trying to play games...direct (ie. takes 'excuse me, i have to say you have a great ass'...as a compliment rather than an insult)

knows what she wants ....

basically linda fiorentino in 'the last seduction'.....

Porkpie

Someone who looks pleasant and approachable. I will watch how a girl interacts with her friends. Does she have a nice 'air' about her? Facial expressions and body language are so important. Does she look like she has a good sense of humour? Smiling? If she looks any way grumpy I won't go near her.

Is she looking around the odd time or is she totally engrossed in conversation with her mates? I need a signal to approach. I will only do this if I get a smile and good eye contact. She would have to be reasonably attractive but not stunning looking - more likely to be b!tchy and high maintanence tbh and I'd be just the 20th guy to be laughed at. That's probably not completely fair but I'm just being honest here, I've experienced too many of the 'b!tchy beautiful' type.

I will NEVER approach women who are dancing with their mates. When women are dancing together I find it a bit excluding. To me, it sends out a signal "go away, we're doing our own thing". I'm not really into dancing with women anyway. I'm much more likely to charm women with my mouth (talking, that is).

What else....oh yeah, clothes. If a girl is wearing really revealing clothing (boobs out, skirts up to the arse) I won't go near her. Don't get me wrong, I am a red blooded male and I do love to see a bit of boobies and legs but when you can practically see nipples and knickers that just looks cheap IMO. Class is the key thing here. I would prefer a girl's appeal to be whispered rather than shouted.

If she's talking to a bloke, I don't care if it's a friend or not, how am I supposed to know? Not worth it. I don't want to be a c0ck blocker anyway.

Extreme drunkeness is a MAJOR turn off. And shouting. No need to tell the whole pub what you think of Cheryl Cole's dress. Again, class is so important.

Oh yeah, her mates. Do they look like b!tches? Even if she's nice, will they tell you to fcuk off?

Almost forgot, hen nights. I avoid them like the plague.

OutlawPete

horsebox1977 wrote: »

a size 12 is fat

If she's 4 foot tall, maybe ..

ScumLord

A woman with good child baring hips is what I look for, that and feminine hands that are slender yet strong enough to pull a calf out a cow at 4 in the morning.

Warfi

spottyelephant wrote: »

Based on the "manly" replies of most on this I now have a collective image of a bar of David Brents tryin to chat birds up!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CebMtVe_YiQ

David's second blind date with a 'bird' who's obviously beneath him :pac:.

Cringe comedy at it's best

xmcp

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

Well yeah tehy ahve to be funny, smart, intelligent, good looking, charming...or Asian.

:-)

All those pretty Chinese girls concentrate in Dublin as well, ye lucky fcuks! I've to pull out the street game to try and get a date with them, no luck yet.

I was out in Kehoes off Grafton Street there a while ago when 3 walked in and got a drink, was just going over to chance my arm but was beaten to it by three tall rugby-playing types. They were over in 10 seconds, lot of competition!

dilligaf73

Smile! Have to be approachable

ChewChew

dilligaf73 wrote: »

Smile! Have to be approachable

Just the smile for you?

dilligaf73

I didn't say that was all there was too it! The question was "what attracts you to a girl on a night out?"

No smile no beginning to "meaningful" dialogue

The Master

ChewChew wrote: »

Just the smile for you?

It helps make the awkward approach a little bit easier

Eyes do it for me:pac:

oisinmc14

A girl who makes moves on you not vice versa

TEMPLAR KNIGHT

A pulse...

anonymous_joe

If I'm honest, where I am is often first and foremost. Nothing that starts in somewhere like Coppers will last more than a night/day.

Obviously hot girls are hot. Clothes etc are often a clue as to what someone can be like.

Someone you can talk to is pretty much the only massive thing you need.

captainspeckle

horsebox1977 wrote: »

a size 12 is fat

funkyjebus wrote: »

Agreed, size 12 is fat 8 is perfect, might sway me to a 10 if very pretty and curvy as appose to plumpy. But i'd take a 10 over a 6 most days

Its people like ye that cause eating disorders. hope ye know that.

phill106

captainspeckle wrote: »

Its people like ye that cause eating disorders. hope ye know that.

actually you see the same ad's with 6 packed men laying on beaches every day, yet there is a much lower percentage of eating disorders in men. so wouldnt that make it due to some womens desire to please, rather then what men think of women?
I just thought of the diet coke guy for instance. Yet i resisted the urge to stick my fingers down my throat! go figure....

dilligaf73

LittleNipper wrote: »

Eyes do it for me:pac:

Have to agree with that statement.

iregk

captainspeckle wrote: »

Its people like ye that cause eating disorders. hope ye know that.

No its the likes of hello & ok magazine that cause women to have eating disorders and correct me if I'm wrong but not many guys read those. Women are the cause of their own eating disorders nobody else. As a poster said, the amount of aftershave, diet coke etc... ads featuring men without a pick on them yet strangely not many men have eating disorders!

A Dub in Glasgo

horsebox1977 wrote: »

a size 12 is fat

funkyjebus wrote: »

Agreed, size 12 is fat .

^^^^

MIN2511

Interesting read; a few questions come to mind.

1. Why is it that most men need to be inebriated before they approach a lady?
2. In nightclubs & bars, it's mostly crowded-how does one know a guy is interested?
3. Not all lads hanging around women are their boyfriends! Why don't you ask?
4. Why do men hang around after being rejected(respectfully i must ask)?


I have more questions to ask

twinytwo

longshanks wrote: »

its nice if she the ability to hold a decent conversation





while my dick or balls or both are in her mouth and shes playing with my ring

omg... how i lol'd... thanks longshanks i had to leave my lab in fits of laughter:D

twinytwo

phill106 wrote: »

actually you see the same ad's with 6 packed men laying on beaches every day, yet there is a much lower percentage of eating disorders in men. so wouldnt that make it due to some womens desire to please, rather then what men think of women?
I just thought of the diet coke guy for instance. Yet i resisted the urge to stick my fingers down my throat! go figure....

wrong...

iregk

MIN2511 wrote: »

1. Why is it that most men need to be inebriated before they approach a lady?

Because you don't talk about football, good music or the arse on your one over there so when were sober your conversation bores us to tears and we'd rather talk with our mates. When were drunk we want to get laid!

MIN2511 wrote: »

2. In nightclubs & bars, it's mostly crowded-how does one know a guy is interested?

He's looking at you and in particular your chest and he may give you the tip of the cap smile and a wink

MIN2511 wrote: »

3. Not all lads hanging around women are their boyfriends! Why don't you ask?

As has been said, were not cockblockers. If a guy is talking to a woman its more trouble than its worth, we'll go somewhere else.

MIN2511 wrote: »

4. Why do men hang around after being rejected(respectfully i must ask)?

If you didn't come out and brutally honestly say "F**K OFF" then there is a chance we may charm you and turn you. Its a game and were playing 1 on 1, unless your mates also interested of course.

MIN2511

iregk wrote: »

Because you don't talk about football, good music or the arse on your one over there so when were sober your conversation bores us to tears and we'd rather talk with our mates. When were drunk we want to get laid!

Not this girl! I love football, watch nearly every United game. I watch GAA as well; i did go to every Dublin game this year in my jersey! I also talk UFC, play poker, and yeah i can take jokes!!!
Right, so you only chat up women when you wan't to get laid?! You must be getting laid a whole lot! :O

iregk wrote: »

He's looking at you and in particular your chest and he may give you the tip of the cap smile and a wink

My chest doesn't define me, i am a person first before a piece of meat!

iregk wrote: »

As has been said, were not cockblockers. If a guy is talking to a woman its more trouble than its worth, we'll go somewhere else.

No worries....

iregk wrote: »

If you didn't come out and brutally honestly say "F**K OFF" then there is a chance we may charm you and turn you. Its a game and were playing 1 on 1, unless your mates also interested of course.

That would be very rude, not my style...

twinytwo

MIN2511 wrote: »

Not this girl! I love football, watch nearly every United game. I watch GAA as well; i did go to every Dublin game this year in my jersey! I also talk UFC, play poker, and yeah i can take jokes!!!
Right, so you only chat up women when you wan't to get laid?! You must be getting laid a whole lot! :O


My chest doesn't define me, i am a person first before a piece of meat!


No worries....


That would be very rude, not my style...

wow i didnt think a girl like you existed...well apart from the dublin bit:pac:

zootroid

Being approachable, looking like they're enjoying themselves. And being confident doesn't mean trying to be smart, you'll just look petty and to be honest a little slagging isn't something I find attractive.

Nice smile, nice eyes, slim figure will do it for me.

Hootanany

A nice Rack

fitness fan

Approachable has to be one of the biggest things.If she doesn't look approachable men don't bother

funkyjebus

Hootanany wrote: »

A nice Rack

I believe you'll find that the correct and technical terms is......boobies:p

the_syco

MIN2511 wrote: »

That would be very rude, not my style...

That'd be leading them on.

Fracture

A woman that i would approach would have to be nice looking (not a typical blonde with big boobs etc), dressed nice, looks like she is enjoying herself, has a nice smile. I talking back as much as you are talking to her and is'nt sourrounded by loads of friends.

iregk

MIN2511 wrote: »

Not this girl! I love football, watch nearly every United game. I watch GAA as well; i did go to every Dublin game this year in my jersey! I also talk UFC, play poker, and yeah i can take jokes!!!
Right, so you only chat up women when you wan't to get laid?! You must be getting laid a whole lot! :O

This could be the start of something beautiful. A/S/L? I know the S/L part however stats would be appreciated!

MIN2511 wrote: »

My chest doesn't define me, i am a person first before a piece of meat!

Absolutely couldn't agree more however in the late dark recesses of a drunken night out clubbing we've no idea what kind of a person you are from across the room. There are a number of possible candidates so we need something to narrow them down.

MIN2511 wrote: »

That would be very rude, not my style...

Fair play however we can be persistent. Remember we want to leave when you say no in a nice subtle way however once the smaller member of our bodies senses this he ups the anti and forces us to stay there. You think its us, no its all him!

raptorman

Fracture wrote: »

A woman that i would approach would have to be nice looking (not a typical blonde with big boobs etc), dressed nice, looks like she is enjoying herself, has a nice smile. I talking back as much as you are talking to her and is'nt sourrounded by loads of friends.

What's wrong with big breasted blondes:(

Johnnnybravo

lol this thread actually makes it sound like people on here would have the social skills to pick and pull a burd Now we all know thats highly unlikely

Fracture

raptorman wrote: »

What's wrong with big breasted blondes:(

lol nothing, boobs arn't something that would make me go for a girl.

aDeener

camel toe

ScumLord

Johnnnybravo wrote: »

lol this thread actually makes it sound like people on here would have the social skills to pick and pull a burd Now we all know thats highly unlikely

The McCann's would beg to differ.

RMD

Bluntly, who has the biggest tits and smallest clothes.

IR240474

When she laughs at my jokes, not forced, like when I fart on her face.

This is love!!!

Cheeky_gal

horsebox1977 wrote: »

a size 12 is fat

funkyjebus wrote: »

Agreed, size 12 is fat

Good look getting laid boys

speedboatchase

Well definitely not too much make-up and must be approachable are the first two things - otherwise you don't look natural, probably very insecure and put up a front and don't act genuine. So someone needs to look natural, fresh and come across as a genuinely friendly and nice person. After that I prefer "cute" girls who are a bit of craic (don't need to much prodding for conversation etc) and lookwise I'd agree that a 10 is perfect. You don't want too much meat on the bones but at the same time you don't want her to an intimdating body, six pack or something! If a girl has all that I'd automatically be interested and then it's a case of seeing how compatible we are after a quick chat

Porkpie

speedboatchase wrote: »

Well definitely not too much make-up and must be approachable are the first two things - otherwise you don't look natural, probably very insecure and put up a front and don't act genuine. So someone needs to look natural, fresh and come across as a genuinely friendly and nice person. After that I prefer "cute" girls who are a bit of craic (don't need to much prodding for conversation etc) and lookwise I'd agree that a 10 is perfect. You don't want too much meat on the bones but at the same time you don't want her to an intimdating body, six pack or something! If a girl has all that I'd automatically be interested and then it's a case of seeing how compatible we are after a quick chat

Same here. I just absolutely adore the cute look. Someone who looks really pleasant and good natured, whom you could never imagine saying "fcuk off ya pr!ck!"

Mal-Adjusted

Porkpie wrote: »

Same here. I just absolutely adore the cute look. Someone who looks really pleasant and good natured, whom you could never imagine saying "fcuk off ya pr!ck!"

+1 Cute girls ftw

SoWatchaWant

TheZohan wrote: »

I would have kept my head down if I was you, pity you had to act the jack the lad.

Nice! Horatio Caine one liner over here;)

MIN2511

Lol, i guess there's a reason why majority of the posters here are still single...
We are caught up looking for the 'one' hehehehehe... Does the one really exist?

raptorman

Yes.