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The Pregnant Womans Moan Thread.
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Pat McGhee wrote: »Need to vent!!!!
So Im getting married TODAY and I find out from another family member LAST NIGHT that my brother is bringing one of his kid's friends to my immediate family only wedding. Apparently he has some family issues and my brother's family have been granted temporary care.
Now Im sorry for the kid but the way my brother's going about this is inexcusable! Not only did he not ask me if the child could come, he deliberately told no one about him till Tuesday and when they asked if he asked me, he actually had the cheek to say he didnt need to! You dont get approved for foster care overnight so he's obviously known for weeks! Just didnt bother his arse coz he knew how I'd react.
Im raging!! I dont want a strange kid at my wedding! Who knows what kind of behavioural issues he has (junkie mother with a violent bf, dad died a year or so ago) and my brother's the type to throw a strop and not come today when I pull him on it. So my 24 person party could be down 7 people.
I should be happy today, instead Im upset and crying. ASSH*LE!!!
Pat I had an issue (something similar) with two of my now sil before my wedding last year. They ended up not coming as we wouldn't back down ( coz it was our only wedding day) in the end we felt the people who really wanted to be there where there to share our day with us, it was the sil who lost out (and they were raging with themselves for missing it after). Like you we had a small wedding, 20 people. Just remember today is about you and your other half, your promise to spend the rest of your lives together and the little bundle you are expecting in Sept.
At times like this you need to be a bit selfish and say sod them! Try not to let it upset you too much ( I know it's tough) but focus on the good things about today, plus the fantastic honeymoon tomorrow
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My moan is that i feel like my stomach is going to explode. Whatever way she turns just pushes it out. As long as she is moving,I'm happy, but sometimes i feel like i've no room left, and i'm only 27+4
also everytime i walk she bounces on my bladder, i went into town after work and had to go to the bathroom twice and even when i was on the bus home, i needed to go again. She kicks right on my bladder or urethra (sorry tmi) and it's like uncontrollable urge to pee n i am always paranoid about being absolutely bursting on a bus and having nowhere to go so was playing a game and counting cars to distract myself!!! it worked, but it was a long bus journey home!! also my appetite has gone down, i was enjoying eating lots but now i'm full after a glass of milk. i have quite a small torso (in length) so it's going to be awkward as she grows bigger haha! 0 -
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inlikeflynn86 wrote: »I had my first "bump touching" today off my mams friend who I'm not a big fan of...
I froze to the spot but I warned my mam if her or anyone does it again i wont be backwards about coming forwards.....
Seriously like dont invade my personal space grrrrr
Do you know I was just thinking earlier nobody has tried to touch my bump - I feel left out now!
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MurdyWurdy wrote: »Do you know I was just thinking earlier nobody has tried to touch my bump - I feel left out now!
It is horrible, rubbing and touching you without your consent. I have had people speaking to it randomly too. And just forcing their kids to touch it. Drives me mad!0 -
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How Strange wrote: »Oh dear mother of god if I wake up again in the morning and I'm still in my bed and not in hospital after giving birth I think I'll cry. On the spot. As soon as I open my eyes.
Today is my due date. Do you remember I said I felt I'd go before and how you could all laugh at my naivety if I was still here.... Well now you can!
This waiting is pure torture. It's the not knowing when that's the killer.
And I'm officially a great waddling elephant. To those of you who think you're big at 20, 25, 30 weeks etc let me just say you enter a whole new realm of bigness once you get to your due date. There's nothing blooming about it except that you're blooming massive.
Oh no HS! I'm kinda getting the same and I'm a week behind ya! This day(39+1) my last pregnancy my daughter was born by section - I had serious braxton hicks last night that I was convinced it was fate..... Fell asleep and just woke up now.... Not a pain o a twitch through out the night!! Why. Oh did you and have I convinced ourselves we were. Going early .... Bad idea!!!! Hope your not too uncomfy - the pressure is just cruel at this stage
try and rest as you really will be having that baby soon!!!!
I'm awful nervous cos having a sweep today.... Don't think I'd let him do it on,y he is worries about the scar..... He'll prob say no cervix too high and not ready can't do it! I'm not worried about the pain dutring it consist only20. Seconds but aim worried about thinking I'm. I labour constantly afterwards when I'm not!!!! Ill be fed up by Monday if it hasn't worked cos ill know then ill have to. Face another on thurs... Gonna try get myself really busy next week organising stuff.... Maybe my sock ðrawer...lol. All the main things are done! And I'm too tired minding A to do any decent cleaning!!!!0 -
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How Strange wrote: » DL Welcome to my club! Those babas are certainly being tough on us!
How long do you have left How Strange?
Oops just read it further up....fingers crossed for the next couple of days :-)0 -
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DL while I'm sure it won't make you feel much better, I was 12 days overdue heading for induction, seriously fed up as baby wasn't engaged and was sure I was going nowhere fast when bam I went exactly there super quick! Even went I went in initially cervix wasn't ready for action and an hours walk changed that! It literally can happen just like that, I know it's no consolation when you're feeling lousy but keep the chin up, you could go anytime!
It gives me hope!!
I just really don't want a section and if I haven't gone by 12 over it'll be a section then as cant be induced cos of the previous section! Had 2 hr walk ( v v v slow!!) today and started evening primrose oil! Booked acupuncture for Monday! Ill have tried my best anyway!
Hope baby digs is giving u some sleep and loadsa hugs!!0 -
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How Strange wrote: »Fair play on the 2hr walk DL! I can manage about 45 mins maximum and then I'm shattered.
I had really tough pressure pains all yesterday evening and then cramping later than night so I was just a little hopeful. Then after about 6 hours of serious discomfort it stopped.
Nothing much to report today and don't feel like anything is going to happen later.
I had bench breaks and was at snails pace!!!! Spent a lot of it holding A's hand as she can't walk without help yet so that describes the pace!! Lol!
That sounds v promising HS! It must mean ur bodies warming up - 6 hrs is a long ime! I have only managed 20 mins barely there cramps yesterday and not a twinge today! I actually feel like I'm in reverse! Only for her movements I'd be concerned! I kinda feel less pregnant than I did 2 weeks ago!
Hoping u don't have much longer HS, I'm in an orderly queue 0 -
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