Has porn influenced your attitudes towards and expectations of sex?

KnifeWRENCH

D.R cowboy wrote: »

This is conservative catholic Ireland again:rolleyes:

No, this is a teenage/young adult forum. Mature discussion about sex is welcome. Going into details about your "sex life" for the purpose of bragging isn't.
Also, PM me in future if you have a problem with mod decisions (unless you want a banning, of course.)

This a general note to everyone btw: obviously you have to talk about sex in a thread about porn, but don't go into too much detail or say anything which would be inappropriate for this forum.

randylonghorn

Piste wrote: »

I was going to post this thread in the sex discussion thread, but I think it merits its own thread. From reading this thread on women's attitude to porn I saw a lot of people mention that young lads these days expect young girls to do everything they see porn stars do, and that young girls feel under pressure to act like porn stars.

I think it has introduced the possibility of activities which their parents' generation probably never dreamed of at that age ... which can be both a good and a bad thing.

Piste wrote: »

I would have thought that young guys would be so glad to get the leg over they wouldn't care what it's like instead of acting out the entire Kama Sutra!

Whatever gave you that idea? :pac:

Tbh, I think that's still pretty true for most young lads / beginners ... and many are probably greatly relieved that they are not expected to last 45 minutes while probing every orifice in turn, or stimulate the woman to convulsing screaming multiples every time, or adopt weird spreadeagled positions which have more to do with camera access than anyone's pleasure, or indeed to be ever ready to dive in regardless of how public / risky / cold the locale.

Aisling(",) wrote:

oh and some girls watch porn i do occasionally.;)

Indeed. Some even watch it with their guys.

That usually leads to good things!

Ginja Ninja wrote: »

Also,studies show[I'm to lazy to get a link for ye] that guys have a higher libido[sex drive] which is why men primarily watch porn whereas women prefer "soft" porn[mild references like sex and the city and desperate housewives] focussing more on the emotional side.

I think it's more a difference in what tends to tickle the libido tbh ... I've known girls with higher sex drives than any man, and I really doubt the age-old wisdom that on average guys have a higher libido. It probably tends to be more obvious in us all right ... and I don't just mean the physical manifestation! :P

Aisling(",) wrote: »

aha!

now things are a lot easier to grasp;)

Wonderful response!!!

Aisling(",)

randylonghorn wrote: »

Wonderful response!!!

ive learnt from the best:P