Trivial things that totally turn you off someone

Oranage2

Has anybody said "fat & ugly" yet?

Thinspired

Oranage2 wrote: »

Has anybody said "fat & ugly" yet?

Not really trivial things though, are they? If you're fat and ugly you probably don't stand a chance even if you chew with your mouth closed/mind your manners/ smell lovely/ are open-minded when it comes to music/don't pick your nose etc.

You're essentially doomed.

Novella

I'm just gonna put this out there... It is not, "People that do X/Y/Z", it's "People who". PEOPLE WHO!

Snakeblood

bazmaiden wrote: »

3 nipples

2 nipples, but if they're both on one side.

bodice ripper

orourkeda wrote: »

Bisexual are we?

yes

tommyhaas

For me it would be a turn off if me GF earned more then me

FoxT

- Can't drive competently
- eats with mouth open
- silent in bed.
- wears cheap pink tracksuits....with big belly flap hanging out
- moustaches
- Says Yaarigh when means "Are you Alright, Darling"

If she earned more than me, I would be happy out but it would be no compensation for any of the above.

sollar

Thinspired wrote: »

I'd run a mile from even the likes of Brad Pitt if I caught him:
- chewing with his mouth open
-loudly slurping his tea/coffee/anything
- refusing to use a knife at meals and instead hacking away with the side of the fork or shoving huge bits of food in without cutting them up
- licking his lips freakily (think Kevin McCloud from Grand Designs, shudder)
- saying I done, I seen, or ESPECIALLY 'pecifically' instead of specifically
- using big words out of context because he can't be bothered to find out the proper meaning
- wearing the crotch of his jeans somewhere around his knees
- picking constantly at dry skin on his lips
- biting his nails (especially if they're dirty!)
- spitting, it's an utterly VILE habit
-coughing/sneezing without putting his hand/tissue in front of his mouth
-belching on purpose (it's not funny) or belching without saying excuse me
- continuously sniffling instead of getting off his arse to get a tissue and blow his nose

I'll stop now before I seem completely neurotic...
No wait - guys who talk with food in their mouth, ugh!

Some women are mental.... such a list , especially no 3.

stupidusername

Dravokivich wrote: »

Moaning (not the kinky kind)

guess that's me out then drav



tried to find the post to quote it but someone there said something about people pronouncing 'specifically' like 'pecifically', what is this about?? I had a lecturer who used to say this, and for some reason she used to use it an awful lot, which made it ten times worse. It's not a fricking word! :mad:

I used to be very put off people / guys not able to spell very well, but I've softened up on that a bit. I mean I like my men to be intelligent but hey some people just have some problems with spelling. Though I do like to see some effort to get things right.

sollar

People who bore you with stories of their children and OH

Women who have to get lifts everywhere because they are afraid to drive their own car in the snow

Far too much make up

BO

nermal15

-Spitting
-Cockiness
-Condescension
-Loafer-type shoes, anything with a square toe
-Faux-American accent
-Gelled hair
-Lynx
-Music/film/tv snobbery.

lamai

hairy nipples

Ectoplasm

jokettle wrote: »

men who pull their tshirt up and scratch their belly. Just.....no.

Funny...my ex used to do that and I loved it He'd slide his hand under lifting the shirt just a little bit and idly scratch his belly while he was thinking about something and it made me want to jump him, every time!

Lumen

EMF2010 wrote: »

Funny...my ex used to do that and I loved it He'd slide his hand under lifting the shirt just a little bit and idly scratch his belly while he was thinking about something and it made me want to jump him, every time!

Shirt lifter eh?

Saila

Giselle wrote: »

Or if they say they 'would of' done something instead of 'would have'.

wow you can tell that just by listening to those words?, how about would've

shampon

S***** who think there lives are like an episode of the hills.

AgileMyth

Thinspired wrote: »

I'd run a mile from even the likes of Brad Pitt if I caught him:
- chewing with his mouth open
-loudly slurping his tea/coffee/anything
- refusing to use a knife at meals and instead hacking away with the side of the fork or shoving huge bits of food in without cutting them up
- licking his lips freakily (think Kevin McCloud from Grand Designs, shudder)
- saying I done, I seen, or ESPECIALLY 'pecifically' instead of specifically
- using big words out of context because he can't be bothered to find out the proper meaning
- wearing the crotch of his jeans somewhere around his knees
- picking constantly at dry skin on his lips
- biting his nails (especially if they're dirty!)
- spitting, it's an utterly VILE habit
-coughing/sneezing without putting his hand/tissue in front of his mouth
-belching on purpose (it's not funny) or belching without saying excuse me
- continuously sniffling instead of getting off his arse to get a tissue and blow his nose

I'll stop now before I seem completely neurotic...
No wait - guys who talk with food in their mouth, ugh!

This list is so efficacious.

shampon

Thinspired wrote: »

I'd run a mile from even the likes of Brad Pitt if I caught him:
- chewing with his mouth open
-loudly slurping his tea/coffee/anything
- refusing to use a knife at meals and instead hacking away with the side of the fork or shoving huge bits of food in without cutting them up
- licking his lips freakily (think Kevin McCloud from Grand Designs, shudder)
- saying I done, I seen, or ESPECIALLY 'pecifically' instead of specifically
- using big words out of context because he can't be bothered to find out the proper meaning
- wearing the crotch of his jeans somewhere around his knees
- picking constantly at dry skin on his lips
- biting his nails (especially if they're dirty!)
- spitting, it's an utterly VILE habit
-coughing/sneezing without putting his hand/tissue in front of his mouth
-belching on purpose (it's not funny) or belching without saying excuse me
- continuously sniffling instead of getting off his arse to get a tissue and blow his nose

I'll stop now before I seem completely neurotic...
No wait - guys who talk with food in their mouth, ugh!

Jesus Love, you must be gagging for a ride.

hypervalve

The phrase "thanking you" annoys me for some reason.

Whenever someone says it I say "welcoming you"

lazernuts

Religious people
Astrology believers
Mispronunciation
Thin upper lips
Goths (don't worry, you'll grow out of it)

shampon

lazernuts wrote: »

Religious people
Goths (don't worry, you'll grow out of it)

Too True.

Dravokivich

stupidusername wrote: »

guess that's me out then drav

Na.. you just discuss agressively!

:pac:

stupidusername

Dravokivich wrote: »

Na.. you just discuss agressively!

:pac:

ya positive spin.... I like it

Princess Peach

Guys that wear chains and diamond earrings. Like a repellent for me!

Jake Rugby Walrus666

If the bitch says 'there' when the context of the sentence clearly shows that she should say 'their'.

Dravokivich

stupidusername wrote: »

ya positive spin.... I like it

Yer welcome!

AdMMM

Jake Rugby Walrus666 wrote: »

If the bitch says 'there' when the context of the sentence clearly shows that she should say 'their'.

How the hell can you tell?!

Dravokivich

AdMMM wrote: »

How the hell can you tell?!

duh... when she's not pointing "there."

scoll

Being clingy.

Jaxxy

Jake Rugby Walrus666 wrote: »

If the bitch says 'there' when the context of the sentence clearly shows that she should say 'their'.

People who refer to women in such derogatory terms as "bitch".

newbee22

If someone does not spell words properly in text messages that really annoys me. People who don't know the difference between there/their/they're :(:(

Victor Meldrew

Tattoos and too much Make-up. And D4 accent on Working-class vocabulary. Be who you are.

However, bitching about people behind their backs and general gossip trumps all. But that's not Trivial.

eilo1

Men who speak over you or interrupt your sentences.

People who have to be right all the time.

People who have to have the last word.

No table manners for example speaking with your mouth full, chewing with mouth open.

Football obsession :mad:

Last but not least - no I do not think your cool because you are in a band/play guitar/are an artist/have a soft side that nobody understands!

Dean820

If the first question they ask is: "What car do you drive?"

Bye bye.

Snakeblood

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

When I fancy someone, sometimes something fairly fickle will totally kill it for me. For example guys putting knifes into their mouths to suck food off. Anyone else got something fairly innocuous that makes their heart sink and lose the buzz for someone.

When they say 'Get away from me you horrible creep, it's obvious you've never touched a woman in your life'. Major turnoff right there.

zenno

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

When I fancy someone, sometimes something fairly fickle will totally kill it for me. For example guys putting knifes into their mouths to suck food off. Anyone else got something fairly innocuous that makes their heart sink and lose the buzz for someone.

yeh i hate it when i meet a woman at a party and i ask her will she play the classical guitar or acoustic and she say's she doesn't know how to play the guitar now thats fickle. but fortuately the other day a woman did take the offer of playing and she was excellent so it worked out for me. amazing woman.

"fairly innocuous" would be listning to a woman talk about x-factor all day thats my main one. or how she looks in her new clothes. Boooooring. yawn.

Guill

Them having a penis usually turns me off........usually.....

zenno

Guill wrote: »

Them having a penis usually turns me off........usually.....

thats shocking ??? why ?.

Guill

zenno wrote: »

thats shocking ??? why ?.

Cause i have one

zenno

Guill wrote: »

Cause i have one

cough cough eh he **** ok point taken

Seaneh

smoking. Not really trivial I guess. Could be the hottest girl on the planet, put a cigarette in her hand and I will instantly find her repulsive.

jimthemental

Seaneh wrote: »

smoking. Not really trivial I guess. Could be the hottest girl on the planet, put a cigarette in her hand and I will instantly find her repulsive cool.

FYP

Funny enough even though I was until recently a smoker I definitely prefer non smoking women.

gustavo

People who dismiss the Simpsons as being for children because it's animated

PrincessLola

Jake Rugby Walrus666 wrote: »

If the bitch says 'there' when the context of the sentence clearly shows that she should say 'their'.

You popular with the ladies Jake?:rolleyes:
Personally I hate it when men make generalisations about women and call them 'dumb' or 'silly' or 'bitch' simply for being a woman.

xoxyx

hypervalve wrote: »

The phrase "thanking you" annoys me for some reason.

Whenever someone says it I say "welcoming you"

Awwww. I do that. Thought it was friendly.

I hate it when guys wear stupid runners with the laces really tight. Especially if they're tied in a bow. It just leaves me cold.

prinz

xoxyx wrote: »

I hate it when guys were stupid runners with the laces really tight. Especially if they're tied in a bow. It just leaves me cold.

You what? You hate it when guys tie their shoelaces or is this a particular type of runner?

AAAAAAAHHH

AnneFrank wrote: »

yes of course it's serious the minute a girl does it any attraction i had is gone,id never use the c word either by the way,and i agree on the nose picking thing it's disgusting !!

What in particular is wrong with that word? It's just a cunting word.

xoxyx

prinz wrote: »

You what? You hate it when guys tie their shoelaces or is this a particular type of runner?

No. They can tie their shoelaces, but don't tie them real tight and have the bow sticking out. It always makes me think of Screech from Saved by the Bell. Especially white runners. Ugh!

And actually, those toe runners - like gloves for the feet. They're just awful looking!

starlit

• Dirty hands
• Baldy
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men!
• Inconsiderate jokes
• Bad breath
• Horrible teeth
• Smelly feet
• Side burns
• Without a doubt smoking stench
• No dress sense
• No common sense acts like a child
• Know it all
• Gods gift
• Full of oneself
• Splashes the cash
• Boaster
• Lies and makes up stories
• Wears Jewellery
• Overly religious
• Not ambitious
• No motivation
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird
• Not house trained
• Poor conversationalist
• Control freak
• Poor education/no job
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)
• Has emotional baggage/too needy!

Wazdakka

• Overly fussy women.