Trivial things that totally turn you off someone

starlit

Wazdakka wrote: »

• Fussy Women.

ooooh you mean me! lol

CdeC

Giselle wrote: »

If they mention they 'seen' something instead of 'saw'. Or if they say they 'would of' done something instead of 'would have'.

I don't get this.

I've seen Vs I saw

would've sounds a lot like would of so I say that.????

CdeC

snuggles285 wrote: »

ooooh you mean me! lol

No ****, that list is quite comprehensive but have to agree with a lot of them.

df1985

bad kisser, nothing more disappointing!

starlit

Yaw bad kisser but then again that can be worked on!! It can be fun! Yes bad grammar can be a no no sometimes!

Jake Rugby Walrus666

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

People who refer to women in such derogatory terms as "bitch".

bitch is a great word. so is chick

Lumen

snuggles285 wrote: »

Short height

Redundant use of words.

xoxyx

Lumen wrote: »

Redundant use of words.

Redundant word use.

Lumen

xoxyx wrote: »

Redundant word use.

Not understanding the difference between verbosity and redundancy.

FatherLen

this thread is making me horribly self conscious.

Wazdakka

xoxyx wrote: »

Redundant word use.

Redundant wordage.

prinz

Wazdakka wrote: »

Redundant wordage.

Red.

Wazdakka

prinz wrote: »

Red.

.

xoxyx

Lumen wrote: »

Not understanding the difference between verbosity and redundancy.

Attempting to stifle my poetic license.

Jake Rugby Walrus666

xoxyx wrote: »

Attempting to stifle my poetic license.

those with stifled licences.

xoxyx

Jake Rugby Walrus666 wrote: »

those with stifled licences.

Not liking people with stifled licences.

af_thefragile

Smoking.
Taste of music.
Accent.
Making noises when eating...

scarymoon1

skanger accent. Cute guy I used to see around work and then I heard him talk - the appeal went a little bit after that!

af_thefragile

Oh and also that hint of OCD.
Ya know when they need everything to be a certain way...
Like
"don't move that table, i like it there"
"but I just wanna put my glass on it while I sit here, I'll put the table back later"
"you are not putting the glass on the table!!"

Stuff like that. They can't tolerate a messy room. Need everything to be clean and tidy all the time. It just drives me nuts!!

Wagon

snuggles285 wrote: »

• Dirty hands
• Baldy
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men!
• Inconsiderate jokes
• Bad breath
• Horrible teeth
• Smelly feet
• Side burns
• Without a doubt smoking stench
• No dress sense
• No common sense acts like a child
• Know it all
• Gods gift
• Full of oneself
• Splashes the cash
• Boaster
• Lies and makes up stories
• Wears Jewellery
• Overly religious
• Not ambitious
• No motivation
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird
• Not house trained
• Poor conversationalist
• Control freak
• Poor education/no job
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)
• Has emotional baggage/too needy!

So to summarise, you essentially want a loving, lasting relationship with the world's best vibrator. Well good luck with that.

Show me a sound, good looking woman with a mind of her own, good sense of humour, is up for a laugh and has a nice pair of legs, then i wouldn't care if she enjoyed eating toothpaste on toast.

eilo1

Wagon wrote: »

Show me a sound, good looking woman with a mind of her own, good sense of humour, is up for a laugh and has a nice pair of legs, then i wouldn't care if she enjoyed eating toothpaste on toast.

Well let me introduce myself :P

• Good looking
• Confident
• Sociable

How would I ever approach them? :P

starlit

Wagon wrote: »

So to summarise, you essentially want a loving, lasting relationship with the world's best vibrator. Well good luck with that.

Show me a sound, good looking woman with a mind of her own, good sense of humour, is up for a laugh and has a nice pair of legs, then i wouldn't care if she enjoyed eating toothpaste on toast.

I'm sorry I don't need a vibrator...a real man is what I need!
If you want sound...mind of her own....up for a laugh...legs... other things questionable then ya I am your girl! lol

But then again...men are only looking for a girl with good looks or brains not usually the two together!

af_thefragile wrote: »

Oh and also that hint of OCD.
Ya know when they need everything to be a certain way...
Like
"don't move that table, i like it there"
"but I just wanna put my glass on it while I sit here, I'll put the table back later"
"you are not putting the glass on the table!!"

Stuff like that. They can't tolerate a messy room. Need everything to be clean and tidy all the time. It just drives me nuts!!

ya don't like bossy control freaks...i like messy!!

stupidusername

TBH snuggles I don't think your list is that bad. I mean most of the stuff is obvious stuff that most people would agree with.

mikom

snuggles285 wrote: »

• Dirty hands
• Baldy
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men!
• Inconsiderate jokes
• Bad breath
• Horrible teeth
• Smelly feet
• Side burns
• Without a doubt smoking stench
• No dress sense
• No common sense acts like a child
• Know it all
• Gods gift
• Full of oneself
• Splashes the cash
• Boaster
• Lies and makes up stories
• Wears Jewellery
• Overly religious
• Not ambitious
• No motivation
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird
• Not house trained
• Poor conversationalist
• Control freak
• Poor education/no job
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)
• Has emotional baggage/too needy!

Lol

shampon

stupidusername wrote: »

TBH snuggles I don't think your list is that bad. I mean most of the stuff is obvious stuff that most people would agree with.

you also must be gagging for a ride.

starlit

My list is at least somewhere what realistic even though I might be disqualifying some suitors...:o

Jaxxy

snuggles285 wrote: »

My list is at least somewhere what realistic even though I might be disqualifying some suitors...:o

It might be realistic to you, yes.

poppyvalley

SubrbanOblivion wrote: »

Facial hair on guys
bald heads

Dirty fingernails..the first thing I notice

Dravokivich

snuggles285 wrote: »

My list is at least somewhere what realistic even though I might be disqualifying some suitors...:o

hmmm... lets see how the average bloke scores here so...

• Dirty hands wash'em regularly
• Baldy hair's not long, but not short, quite thick too...
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men! I'm about 5'10 - 6' ish haven't had my height measured since I was about 14
• Inconsiderate jokes I can be a bit of a prick when joking around, but do have limits... sometimes they are a bit further then the limits of others...
• Bad breath brush my teeth regularly every day, bad breath isn't caused by bad hygene...
• Horrible teeth Most of'em are straight... couple of'em are gone...
• Smelly feet What would you be doing down there?
• Side burns Full beard...
• Without a doubt smoking stench Regular Cigar smoker... thinking of getting into pipe smoking as well...
• No dress sense I wear clothes, not back to front or inside out...
• No common sense acts like a child I have my moments...
• Know it all Only when I do know what I'm talking about, when I don't I accept reasonable possiblities put forward.
• Gods gift There isn't 1 as far as I'm concerned.
• Full of oneself Don't have enough to fill.
• Splashes the cash Don't have enough to splash
• Boaster I've no shame in being proud of anything I've acheived, just as I'd expect from others
• Lies and makes up stories Got no time for bullshít
• Wears Jewellery Never really been my kinda thing
• Overly religious more so underly...
• Not ambitious Got plans... but they're a bit simple...
• No motivation I get things done
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird No problem travelling, being able to afford it is another matter, I see it more so as a luxury
• Not house trained What are we dogs?
• Poor conversationalist I talk some...
• Control freak Never intend on being in a position where I dominate someone (unless they wanted it)
• Poor education/no job Sometimes people don't figure out problems like this until much later on, some day I may find what I know now and the skills I've aquired are absolutely worthless. How rich is my education then?
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)None I've been told about
• Has emotional baggage/too needy! Everyone is carrying something...

so... realistic?

Seems idealistic to me.

Princess Peach

I praise you snuggles! I could also make a gigantic list, because I am extremely judgmental and picky.

Maybe why I'm single.....

starlit

Dravokivich wrote: »

hmmm... lets see how the average bloke scores here so...



so... realistic?

Seems idealistic to me.

oooooh but good to get a male perspective.:cool:

oh boys, I'm very judgmental when it comes to it too Princess Peach!

Dravokivich

snuggles285 wrote: »

oooooh but good to get a male perspective.:cool:

oh boys, I'm very judgmental when it comes to it too Princess Peach!

No worries, was just saying is all.

kowloon

I can't help but think any list I made would reek of double standards.

Jaxxy

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having standards, or set expectations from a possible love interest. In the areas that matter. Some things matter more to others of course, it's all down to personal choice. But these lists aren't trivial qualities in a person, as the OP stipulated in the beginning. These lists are like letters you'd write to Santa Claus or Mary Poppins.

InTheTrees

Princess Peach wrote: »

I am extremely judgmental and picky.

Maybe why I'm single.....

"Maybe"??

maxextz

ciggie smoke smell and the worst is bo.like wtf its just water and soap it wont kill you.if i can smell it surely they can.:mad:

Wazdakka

Feelings, stanards, lists of qualities wanted in a perspective significant other..
When the hell did this place turn into TLL?

Tits or GTFO!!!

sandmanporto

snuggles285 wrote: »

• Dirty hands
• Baldy
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men!
• Inconsiderate jokes
• Bad breath
• Horrible teeth
• Smelly feet
• Side burns
• Without a doubt smoking stench
• No dress sense
• No common sense acts like a child
• Know it all
• Gods gift
• Full of oneself
• Splashes the cash
• Boaster
• Lies and makes up stories
• Wears Jewellery
• Overly religious
• Not ambitious
• No motivation
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird
• Not house trained
• Poor conversationalist
• Control freak
• Poor education/no job
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)
• Has emotional baggage/too needy!

Ever consider the reality you may end up alone at Christmas:rolleyes:
Are you moody? Thats a big no no for me anyway

sandmanporto

snuggles285 wrote: »

• Dirty hands
• Baldy
• Short height, needs to be taller than me not just an inch or two but at least more than 6 inches taller than me! I’ve nearly always fancied taller men!
• Inconsiderate jokes
• Bad breath
• Horrible teeth
• Smelly feet
• Side burns
• Without a doubt smoking stench
• No dress sense
• No common sense acts like a child
• Know it all
• Gods gift
• Full of oneself
• Splashes the cash
• Boaster
• Lies and makes up stories
• Wears Jewellery
• Overly religious
• Not ambitious
• No motivation
• Not willing to travel too much of a home bird
• Not house trained
• Poor conversationalist
• Control freak
• Poor education/no job
• Has kids (I know harsh…I just can’t be with someone who has gone through that already, I want to have kids with someone who hasn’t had one)
• Has emotional baggage/too needy!

I think with that list of requirements you would have to be a rocket scientist, czech model with a high income!
Good luck in life, I'd even hate to be your grandson!

starlit

sandmanporto wrote: »

Ever consider the reality you may end up alone at Christmas:rolleyes:
Are you moody? Thats a big no no for me anyway

Won't be alone for christmas but won't have a partner for christmas....I'm a little moody sometimes but I get over it! :pac:

Joe10000

Was going out with a girl years ago who was lovely but she walked like a duck, eventually had to call it a day.

Quack.

stupidusername

well if this is everyone's reaction to snuggles' list I guess I'm going to be alone for a long time too.... :rolleyes:

Jaxxy

Ah in fairness to Snuggles she always gets a hard time and always takes it on the chin. If she wasn't so fussy I'd marry her myself.

starlit

sandmanporto wrote: »

I think with that list of requirements you would have to be a rocket scientist, czech model with a high income!
Good luck in life, I'd even hate to be your grandson!

No, I'm none of the above. I'm your average Irish girl! I've not met a man I want babies with yet! never mind a grandson lol!

sandmanporto

snuggles285 wrote: »

Won't be alone for christmas but won't have a partner for christmas....I'm a little moody sometimes but I get over it! :pac:

well nobodys perfect. with a list like yours, i'd say your pretty darn agitated at anything! I think you ruled out every man there? Are you a militant feminist by any chance?

Wagon

snuggles285 wrote: »

No, I'm none of the above.I'm your average Irish girl! I've not met a man I want babies with yet! never mind a grandson lol!

I guessed that somehow...

Jaxxy

sandmanporto wrote: »

well nobodys perfect. with a list like yours, i'd say your pretty darn agitated at anything! I think you ruled out every man there? Are you a militant feminist by any chance?

Are you a Christian alarmist by any chance?

sandmanporto

snuggles285 wrote: »

No, I'm none of the above. I'm your average Irish girl! I've not met a man I want babies with yet! never mind a grandson lol!

Well dont have kids until you feel a bit more content! Please!

sandmanporto

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

Are you a Christian alarmist by any chance?

No I am agnostic as it turns out? And why do you ask?