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i have been with some shemales..

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  • 06-03-2010 2:27pm
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    i have been with some shemales (3)in my life im 36,i have NEVER fancy a guy,,,,im just wondering ,i love women,and shemales,,does that make me bi,as i said before im not in to guys ,,,,i know my tag name says bi,but i would nt touch a guy,,thanks for your veiws


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    bisligoboy wrote: »
    i have been with some shemales (3)in my life im 36,i have NEVER fancy a guy,,,,im just wondering ,i love women,and shemales,,does that make me bi,as i said before im not in to guys ,,,,

    Yes, it makes you bi.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,035 ✭✭✭Sir Ophiuchus


    *sigh*

    It doesn't actually necessarily make you bi. For the record, nothing "makes" you bi. Or gay. Or anything else. Sexual orientation is a convenient label that people use about themselves. You're only bi if you consider yourself bi.

    Being into "shemales" doesn't mean you would be into guys generally, and it doesn't mean you're not attracted to women. I'd label your sexual interests "queer" (in the value-neutral sense) and leave it at that. But, as I've said, your own interpretation of your sexuality is most valid.

    Is this worrying you? I'm just curious as to why you'd ask otherwise.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 842 ✭✭✭Weidii


    Is a shemale an ftm or mtf?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,035 ✭✭✭Sir Ophiuchus


    As I understand it, the latter, but not fully transitioned.


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,920 ✭✭✭✭stephen_n


    It means you like shemales!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,759 ✭✭✭Killer_banana


    The thing people don't seem to get it that sexual orientation isn't set int stone. You are whatever you identify as. Some gay people date people of the same sex and transgender members of the opposite sex and identify as gay even though some people would htink that makes them bi or pansexual. I'm identify as bisexual and have been attracted to transgender individuals in the past which to some people means I'm pansexual not bisexual but I see myself as bisexual so thats what I am.
    It may seem a bit confusing but that's how I see it anyway.


  • Registered Users Posts: 20,978 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    I wouldn't consider you to be bisexual. For you to be gay or bi, I would consider you to have a physical and emotional attraction to men and masculinity. Considering you're not at all interested in men, only women with "appendages", I would consider you to be straight with a fetish.


  • Registered Users Posts: 41,062 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    what's pansexual?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexual
    Pansexuality (also referred to as pans), or omnisexuality[1] is a sexual orientation, characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, or sexual desire towards people, regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. Some pansexuals suggest that they are gender-blind; that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.


  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Killer banana hit it right on the dot. We can't apply the label of bi to you as we don't know what part of a transgendered woman you are sexually attracted to.
    You may love women, and like penis, but hate masculine faces and bodies. In which case you're straight with a fetish.
    Or you may be using transgenderists as a stepping stone for latent homosexual tendencies. In which case you may be bi or even gay in denial.

    labels = nonsense


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2 bisligoboy


    thanks to everyone for theyre veiws,,the reason why im asking is because it was a long time ago when i lived in amsterdam,,i was in my 20s ,,i still like look at porn of them,,and women ,,,see i got married,had kids,,i wouldnt cheat on my wife love her ,,i was just interested in your veiws wich were very mature answers ,,i feel that after reading them, im more in to fetish of it,,i just acted on it ,once again thanks


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,018 ✭✭✭shoegirl


    Sounds more like a fetish to me really.


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