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I'm becoming unhappy with my karate club.

  • 03-04-2010 9:06pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭


    I started karate about 3 or 4 months ago. When I joined, I told the sensei that I have shin splints and can't do anything that involves jumping up and down, as that makes the pain flare up again so badly that I can't walk properly. He said that was fine and I shouldn't do anything that will adversely affect me. I was glad to find out that the only jumping is in the warm up, where you're supposed to start off by jumping up and down vigorously for about 5 minutes. I would just march on the spot during this time. However, soon my sensei began insisting during the warmups that I jump. I keep reminding him of my shin splints, I don't know whether he forgets or what but he's always insistent that I join in. I'm often left in such pain afterwards that I can't walk without severe pain for a week. So this is the first thing I'm not happy about.

    The second thing is the gradings. I went to my first last week. It was 4 and a half hours of non-stop really energetic karate, because we all have to participate in a 4 and a half hour non-stop lesson whilst the other people are being graded. Me and some of the other adults are really unfit and above our ideal weight. One woman fainted during the 4 and a half hour lesson. After about 3 hours, I could feel the blood draining out of my head and I knew I would faint soon, so I left the mat and went to get some water and sit down for 20 minutes, before returning. A few other people did the same, including a couple of black belts and some children. The next time I went to class, my teacher had a bit of a go at me for leaving the mats. I explained that I was unfit, lacking in stamina and had been close to fainting. He said that was no excuse and that if the little kids can last for 4 and a half hours without a break, then I could too. He knows full well that a woman had fainted at the grading because he was the one who attended to her when she collapsed. I'm so angry about this, first being told off like a child, and secondly for the lack of consideration shown.

    Am I right to be annoyed by these things or is it expected in martial arts that you only listen to your sensei, not to what your body is telling you? I was really enjoying the actual karate, but because of the warm ups and the gradings, which will be every 3 months, I'm getting really put off from going. I now regularly skip class because I can't face the pain I'll be left in from the warm ups, and I'd rather never get a coloured belt than have to do another 4 and a half hour grading.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,549 ✭✭✭✭cowzerp


    Bad coach from what i read off you, plus a danger to the participants, tough training is great but if people are fainting thats neglect, leave and dont waste your time with this chancer, there is other clubs that will take care of you out there.

    Rush Boxing club and Rush Martial Arts head coach.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    Unfortunately this is the only karate club anywhere near where I live, and I've already paid for a full year in advance.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,621 ✭✭✭yomchi


    Most definitely a bad coach. Sounds like he knows nothing about sports specific warm ups, safe training or even people skills.

    You've no chance of getting your money back i would say. Cut your losses while your body is still intact.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 187 ✭✭Ug Lee


    Unfortunately this is the only karate club anywhere near where I live, and I've already paid for a full year in advance.

    How much did you pay in advance if you don't mind me asking?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    OP, dump your coach and look for another club (doesn't need to be Karate?) in your area.

    Another little bit of advice I'll give you, look after your physical fitness outside of the club as, if you don't your going to find learning any Martial Arts a struggle - however that doesn't excuse your coaches actions.

    What part of the country are you located, and have you looked through the club stickies in the forum for a club in your area?.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    I'm in the UK. The club I go to is the only club in my area, it covers the entire county with classes in 6 towns in the county. The one in my town has 3 classes a week. I've been to a couple of the classes in another town, the warm up is the same everywhere, they said it's the standard karate warm up for the whole country. However, in the other class they don't badger me to jump in the warm up. I just can't make it to that town too often.

    I paid £325 for the whole year. You can go to as many classes as you want for that, in any town in the county, there are multiple clases every day but the only really convenient ones for me to get to are the 3 a week in my town.

    I am starting to get into shape in my spare time, it's just a combination of having just finished university where I did no exercise for 4 years, plus a thyroid problem which is causing muscle weakness and tiredness, make a 4 and a half hour non-stop grading too much for me, and too much for many other people by the looks of it.

    The thing is, aside from the warm ups, the gradings and being told off, I like the actual karate and I get on well with the other people in the club. Years ago I tried kung fu and I wasn't so keen on it. The only other martial arts club in my town is some weird thing I had never heard of before (can't remember what it's called now) and it's an inconveniently long distance away. I want to stay with this club, I just don't want to be told off or pressured into participating in things that aren't suitable for me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    Hi Stormwarrior,

    It sounds to me that your instructor is not well versed in physical education, even if he is good at karate. It's unsafe to train so hard that you faint, and it's unwise to jump around a lot if you suffer shin splints. Maybe he doesn't grasp this, and maybe he is employing a tactic of reducing the class size through harsh criticism; after all he's got his money from you, right?

    Normally I would advise that you find another club, or even another MA, but you've ruled that out. So here's an idea: Pace yourself. What I mean is don't put so much effort into the techniques, until you know you are fit enough to manage them. This is a compromise which I would be loathe to suggest in other circumstances, but you seem to be in a situation where the instructor is not catering for your level of fitness nor your injury, so take control yourself. Yes, he may criticise you for not showing spirit, but as you get fitter you can adjust your pace and effort, and incrementally push yourself harder at each class.

    As for the jumps.... don't do them. There are kata which have jumps in them, but in each case it is possible to perform a non-jumping alternative move. There is no sense in training a defensive art which damages you.

    Focus on the technical aspects of the karate. The centering of your effort through your abdomen (hara), the position of the hips, the breathing, your balance, the head position and so on. When you are not "pushing" yourself the opportunity to focus on these increases, so you can improve quite rapidly. In fact as you learn these aspects of karate the effort required to do "strong" techniques reduces, and you will find it easier to train.

    One more thing,.... as you change your training to compensate for your instructor's lack of understanding, keep an eye out for a new club starting near you!!

    Cheers,

    Z.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 158 ✭✭YamaMotoYama


    Unfortunately this is the only karate club anywhere near where I live, and I've already paid for a full year in advance.

    You paid for annual club membership *or* for the year's classes?

    Its very strange if you have paid for a years tuition in advance!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    You can either pay £40 a month, or £325 for the whole year, and go to all the classes for that. I paid for the year, I guess it's an annual membership. I don't think the teacher is trying to reduce the class size because he's got his money. My teacher isn't the owner of the club, the owner gives classes in another branch of the club in a different town. Anyway, as far as the jumping in class goes, I'm going to tell the teacher again that I won't be doing that any more because of the shin splints and if he keeps going on about it I'll either try and make it to the classes in the other town or ask for a refund (not sure if they'd give one but worth a try). I'm still not happy about the 4 and a half hour gradings though, if I need to have a break during another one and don't get graded because of it, I won't bother going any more. I'm really unhappy about all this as I do enjoy the actual karate but this stuff is making going to class seem like a burdensome chore rather than fun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 158 ✭✭YamaMotoYama


    Where are you based?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    In the UK.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 56 ✭✭snowcrazie


    There is a syndrome that most men who do martial arts suffer from.... similar to a god complex. I'd say you keep going to your classes and just stand up for yourself. I've been in classes where I have fainted, where my sensei kncoked my out (accidentilt while trying to shock my into paying attention), I was winded by a forty year old man (I was a young female college student) and I've had my nose broken.... but I keep going becuase I love it. Stand up for yourself.

    You get tired, walk to the back and sit down. (of course bow out first)
    You need a drink, excuse yourself and get one.
    You don't want to jump, do your own stretches while they jump.

    If your sensei has a problem with any of this then - in front of the class - explain that your not feeling well or you can't preform that exercise due to medical reasons. He shouldn't talk back or persist with bad behaviour.

    Sensei can be terrible, they always think they know best (as one my self i can say this :P) just remember you know whats best for you and your not in school, you don't have to do what your told if you don't think its good for you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    snowcrazie wrote: »
    There is a syndrome that most men who do martial arts suffer from.... similar to a god complex.

    Most men?? Is that not a very simplistic broad statement? I've met hundreds of men and women involved in martial arts, and most have been very sincere and modest people. I've met a few from the "god brigade" too, but they were always in the minority, and they included both men and women.

    Z


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    snowcrazie wrote: »
    Stand up for yourself.

    You get tired, walk to the back and sit down. (of course bow out first)
    You need a drink, excuse yourself and get one.
    You don't want to jump, do your own stretches while they jump.

    If your sensei has a problem with any of this then - in front of the class - explain that your not feeling well or you can't preform that exercise due to medical reasons. He shouldn't talk back or persist with bad behaviour.

    Well, one major problem with this. They say that although we have to do the 4 and a half hour grading each time, we are also constantly being graded on everything we do in class, and I mean everything. If I refuse to jump in the warm ups and leave the mats during the gradings, they can refuse to put me up a grade, and I'll always be stuck learning white belt moves. I actually really hate going now, I wish I hadn't paid for the year in advance. If I hadn't, I'd not go back. I really dread class days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    Well, one major problem with this. They say that although we have to do the 4 and a half hour grading each time, we are also constantly being graded on everything we do in class, and I mean everything. If I refuse to jump in the warm ups and leave the mats during the gradings, they can refuse to put me up a grade, and I'll always be stuck learning white belt moves. I actually really hate going now, I wish I hadn't paid for the year in advance. If I hadn't, I'd not go back. I really dread class days.

    It is not uncommon to tell students that they are being graded on the basis of everything they do, but I have never encountered a club where that is intended to mean that you cannot protect yourself physically. The intention (in any club where I have trained) is that proper etiquette is followed i.e. discipline, control, respect for the Dojo Code, etc. None of this precludes a student opting not to jump in order to protect his injuries (of course, the instructor should be made aware of this before the class). I suggest you try to continue training, but at all times taking whatever steps are necessary to protect your injuries, and not to push yourself so hard that you pass out!! What's the worst can happen??? They ask you to leave?? I think as things stand you'll end up doing that yourself anyway. Stand up for yourself, train to get what YOU want out of it.

    Z.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    My sensei says that the main thing I'm being graded on at this level is spirit, and if I don't participate fully in the warm up and I leave to have a rest during the gradings, then I am not showing sufficient spirit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,549 ✭✭✭✭cowzerp


    My sensei says that the main thing I'm being graded on at this level is spirit, and if I don't participate fully in the warm up and I leave to have a rest during the gradings, then I am not showing sufficient spirit.


    ok if it means so much to you that you get injured, then do as he says, he is a moron at best-he is also leaving himself wide open for liability as he is getting you to risk injury even though you have pre warned him..

    If you continue to train here then you deserve what happens..

    Take the good advise and find a club that have your interests at heart

    Rush Boxing club and Rush Martial Arts head coach.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    cowzerp wrote: »
    ok if it means so much to you that you get injured, then do as he says, he is a moron at best-he is also leaving himself wide open for liability as he is getting you to risk injury even though you have pre warned him..

    If you continue to train here then you deserve what happens..

    Take the good advise and find a club that have your interests at heart

    Paul, I couldn't agree with you more.

    OP, I find it hard to understand why you've stuck with this idiot coach. I know you've sunk a years subs into the club, but you've said your prepared to lose it - do that and move onto another club, even if that mean's choosing another style. And do it before you've made more than just a financial investiment to this club & idiot coach.

    If you stick it out, as Cowzer said - you deserve whatever happens.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,621 ✭✭✭yomchi


    cowzerp wrote: »
    ok if it means so much to you that you get injured, then do as he says, he is a moron at best-he is also leaving himself wide open for liability as he is getting you to risk injury even though you have pre warned him..

    If you continue to train here then you deserve what happens..

    Take the good advise and find a club that have your interests at heart

    + 1.

    Don't let Stockholm syndrome take over


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,534 ✭✭✭FruitLover


    if I don't participate fully in the warm up and I leave to have a rest during the gradings, then I am not showing sufficient spirit.

    I'd agree with this to some extent, but not to the point of physical injury. There's no reason you couldn't be given an alternative exercise to the jumping portion of the warm-up if you have a medical problem (although if it's that much of a problem, you should probably speak to a physio to try to get it resolved).

    Your fitness level is your responsibility (and you should aim to improve this long-term to be able to keep up with the more intensive training sessions), but your instructor should be more understanding of someone who has just begun training and hasn't become accustomed to long sessions.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    I'm not, I haven't been in weeks, I want a refund but I'm not sure I'll get one. I don't want to waste hundreds of pounds.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 158 ✭✭YamaMotoYama


    My advice is get your shins sorted before you sign up for any more classes anywhere... Karate is a physical activity and if you shins are at you that much, maybe you should have invested money sorting them before signing/paying up for classes.

    (Sorry if I sound unsympathetic - but if you are in that much pain... surely signing up for Karate classes (and paying a year in advance) wasn't a good idea)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,266 ✭✭✭MysticalSoul


    Perhaps get a doctors note stating the fact that you have shin splints, and can't do high impact activities such as jumps - it may help for him to take you seriously on this particular aspect anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 158 ✭✭YamaMotoYama


    Perhaps get a doctors note stating the fact that you have shin splints, and can't do high impact activities such as jumps - it may help for him to take you seriously on this particular aspect anyway.

    Or just go to the doc with your shin splints and get them sorted :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 826 ✭✭✭Jason McCabe


    Is there any BJJ in ur area? This would not involve any high impact on the shins as most of the work is done on the ground.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    Karate is a physical activity and if you shins are at you that much, maybe you should have invested money sorting them before signing/paying up for classes.

    (Sorry if I sound unsympathetic - but if you are in that much pain... surely signing up for Karate classes (and paying a year in advance) wasn't a good idea)

    As I have said, the karate itself is not a problem at all, it is the 20 minutes of non-stop jumping in the warm up that is the problem, and he had agreed that I could sit that out before I joined.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,534 ✭✭✭FruitLover


    he had agreed that I could sit that out before I joined.

    Rather than sitting it out, I'd recommend doing alternative warm-up techniques (e.g. jogging on the spot). I'd also put forward that if the warm-up consists entirely of jumping around, your instructor has not done his homework. Activity-specific exercises should always be part of a warm-up (for example, I'll generally end a warm-up with some light kicks, slow lunging punches, etc).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 158 ✭✭YamaMotoYama


    FruitLover wrote: »
    Rather than sitting it out, I'd recommend doing alternative warm-up techniques (e.g. jogging on the spot). I'd also put forward that if the warm-up consists entirely of jumping around, your instructor has not done his homework. Activity-specific exercises should always be part of a warm-up (for example, I'll generally end a warm-up with some light kicks, slow lunging punches, etc).

    Fully agree here - you should to be warmed up before doing any class.

    There are plenty of non-impact excercises that should not aggrivate your shins... squats, push ups, step lunges, sit ups, resistance training, core excercises (the plank), tricep dips... and that could be attempted.

    Any stretching will require to you to be warmed up beforehand.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    Anyway it's sorted now, I spoke to the owner of the club about it. He agreed that the instructor should never have pressured me to perform the unsuitable warm-up, and said that the instructor knew a different warm-up for people with leg injuries that he should have got me to do. He also said that I was right to take time out during the grading when I felt faint and no-one should be pressured to continue against what their own body is telling them. He apologised about that instructor and said he will refund me for the remaining period.

    It's not only me who complains about that instructor, one woman has a neck injury from a car crash and complained to me that she was made to do unnecessarily dangerous things, and I saw him being far too aggressive with some students in class. For example, we were once in pairs practising a move where you bring your opponent to the floor. Every low-grade was working with a black belt and all of the black belts practised it with us safely so that weall performed the move properly and no-one got hurt. But the instructor can get very macho and OTT, and he grabbed the girl he was practising with and threw her down so roughly that she bashed her head really hard and had to be taken out for medical attention. He always insists that we be as aggressive as possible to each other, even the young kids, people often got hurt, like when he set 2 kids, a girl aged about 10 and a boy aged about 13, to spar against each other. The girl was new and very small, she was scared and didn't want to do it. The instructor insisted and as they sparred, the boy was getting rough and the girl didn't know what to do, the instructor egged the boy on until the girl ended up crying on the floor with an eye injury and was too scared to come back. Anyway I'm glad it's all sorted for me now.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 104 ✭✭hohojojo


    i am sorry but i don't see were you are coming from with the grading you say you don't want to be stuck at white belt level but if your not ready for a grading which is your choice ie your unfit well then i would think your not ready to move up grade that was one of the first question i was asked when i started karate am i doing it to get fit or for grades my answer at the time was to get fit but now i do want the grade but i don't want to cheat and so i will not be even considering going until i am fit enough and ready

    but i am sorry to say but as far as i can see you don't realise karate is a disapline not just a past time i know your instructor wasn't great but by the sound of your mails you just want to rush through when you are unready to move forward properly

    i am sorry to sound unsimpatetic but untill you get your fitness up you might either want to wait for going for grade or just go to a gym and that way you no one will tell you what to do


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭DaBrow


    Anyway it's sorted now, I spoke to the owner of the club about it. He agreed that the instructor should never have pressured me to perform the unsuitable warm-up, and said that the instructor knew a different warm-up for people with leg injuries that he should have got me to do. He also said that I was right to take time out during the grading when I felt faint and no-one should be pressured to continue against what their own body is telling them. He apologised about that instructor and said he will refund me for the remaining period.

    It's not only me who complains about that instructor, one woman has a neck injury from a car crash and complained to me that she was made to do unnecessarily dangerous things, and I saw him being far too aggressive with some students in class. For example, we were once in pairs practising a move where you bring your opponent to the floor. Every low-grade was working with a black belt and all of the black belts practised it with us safely so that weall performed the move properly and no-one got hurt. But the instructor can get very macho and OTT, and he grabbed the girl he was practising with and threw her down so roughly that she bashed her head really hard and had to be taken out for medical attention. He always insists that we be as aggressive as possible to each other, even the young kids, people often got hurt, like when he set 2 kids, a girl aged about 10 and a boy aged about 13, to spar against each other. The girl was new and very small, she was scared and didn't want to do it. The instructor insisted and as they sparred, the boy was getting rough and the girl didn't know what to do, the instructor egged the boy on until the girl ended up crying on the floor with an eye injury and was too scared to come back. Anyway I'm glad it's all sorted for me now.

    This is a serious breach of Karate Teaching...

    Why is this instructor still being allowed to teach classes if he is this aggressive?

    The Club owner should suspend him and replace the man, I don't like what I'm hearing from this Monsterous character...

    My Instructor can be very strict but he would not stoop to such a level... He appears to enjoy watching this from the sound of things.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    hohojojo wrote: »
    i am sorry but i don't see were you are coming from with the grading you say you don't want to be stuck at white belt level but if your not ready for a grading which is your choice ie your unfit well then i would think your not ready to move up grade that was one of the first question i was asked when i started karate am i doing it to get fit or for grades my answer at the time was to get fit but now i do want the grade but i don't want to cheat and so i will not be even considering going until i am fit enough and ready

    but i am sorry to say but as far as i can see you don't realise karate is a disapline not just a past time i know your instructor wasn't great but by the sound of your mails you just want to rush through when you are unready to move forward properly

    The reason I didn't want to be stuck at white belt level is because then I would never learn anything beyong the basic punch, kick and 3 blocks they are teaching at that level. My reason for learning karate was self-defence, I didn't care about the belts, I just wanted to learn as much as possible to protect myself. My point was that you don't need a 4 and a half hour grading to get graded. I did kung fu when I was at university and there were never official grading sessions for that, the instructor just gave you a belt and moved you up when he could see that you had learnt what you needed to know. I didn't want to "rush through," I would be happy to stay at white belt while my skills were lacking, but just didn't want to participate in unnecessarily long drawn out sessions where you aren't allowed a break even if you're feeling faint, where you aren't allowed to get a drink for hours on end.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    DaBrow wrote: »
    This is a serious breach of Karate Teaching...

    Why is this instructor still being allowed to teach classes if he is this aggressive?

    The Club owner should suspend him and replace the man, I don't like what I'm hearing from this Monsterous character...

    My Instructor can be very strict but he would not stoop to such a level... He appears to enjoy watching this from the sound of things.

    What I mentioned about him is just the tip of the iceberg. He once knocked a man out in class with a karate chop. The man passed right out and banged his head on the floor. One time when the low grades were paired up with black belts to practise a move, I was watching my partner demonstrate the move when the instructor came up behind me and smacked me round the head really hard (so hard that my ear was still ringing the next day). He said it was to teach awareness of one's surroundings, and to show that we should always be on guard. He was always doing stuff like that, one of his favourite things is to go up to people during class and kick them in the legs so hard that they fall over. He says it's to teach strength, but really all it ever seemed to do was result in most of the class having their legs black with bruises. And his actions were almost always directed towards women. Apart from the time he knocked that bloke out, every time I remember him kicking or throwing someone unnecessarily hard, or encouraging other males to hit or kick someone with unnecessary force, the person on the recieving end was almost always female. The whole thing just seemed like pointless violence, I went there to learn how to avoid getting hurt, not to gain as many injuries as possible.

    He always told us that the most important thing is to be aggressive, and that is even more important than learning the moves correctly. He actually said that, and it was pretty obvious because even the higher grades who had recieved belts were still doing basic things wrong.

    I know that martial arts classes don't have to be like that because I did kung fu at university, and my kung fu instructor was completely different. He was gentle and stressed the importance of the spiritual aspect of martial arts, he managed to teach us without anyone getting hurt, the warm-up was safe and low-impact and he always insisted that people take breaks and have a drink regularly.

    As for why my class mates are still attending this club, it's simple - this is the only karate club in the county, there's nowhere else to learn it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,188 ✭✭✭Doug Cartel


    I was watching my partner demonstrate the move when the instructor came up behind me and smacked me round the head really hard (so hard that my ear was still ringing the next day). He said it was to teach awareness of one's surroundings, and to show that we should always be on guard.
    Two things.

    1) This isn't going to teach you anything other than to be a paranoid ball of nerves who's defences go up at the slightest thing. A quality that I think actually makes you more likely to get into a fight.

    2) Somebody is going to kick his head in someday for doing this.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭DaBrow


    What I mentioned about him is just the tip of the iceberg. He once knocked a man out in class with a karate chop. The man passed right out and banged his head on the floor. One time when the low grades were paired up with black belts to practise a move, I was watching my partner demonstrate the move when the instructor came up behind me and smacked me round the head really hard (so hard that my ear was still ringing the next day). He said it was to teach awareness of one's surroundings, and to show that we should always be on guard. He was always doing stuff like that, one of his favourite things is to go up to people during class and kick them in the legs so hard that they fall over. He says it's to teach strength, but really all it ever seemed to do was result in most of the class having their legs black with bruises. And his actions were almost always directed towards women. Apart from the time he knocked that bloke out, every time I remember him kicking or throwing someone unnecessarily hard, or encouraging other males to hit or kick someone with unnecessary force, the person on the recieving end was almost always female. The whole thing just seemed like pointless violence, I went there to learn how to avoid getting hurt, not to gain as many injuries as possible.

    He always told us that the most important thing is to be aggressive, and that is even more important than learning the moves correctly. He actually said that, and it was pretty obvious because even the higher grades who had recieved belts were still doing basic things wrong.

    I know that martial arts classes don't have to be like that because I did kung fu at university, and my kung fu instructor was completely different. He was gentle and stressed the importance of the spiritual aspect of martial arts, he managed to teach us without anyone getting hurt, the warm-up was safe and low-impact and he always insisted that people take breaks and have a drink regularly.

    As for why my class mates are still attending this club, it's simple - this is the only karate club in the county, there's nowhere else to learn it.

    I can speak from experience as I used to live in the UK... I find that very hard to believe.

    Please PM exactly where in the UK you live... I can do you a favour by looking for something else.

    Quite frankly, I think you and your classmates should tell the club owner that either the instructor goes or you all leave... A Class is there to help you learn in a secure and safe environment free of intimidation.

    This instructor resembles an Abusive Husband and the class returning each lesson due to the fear of leaving what you have; it is like Battered Housewife syndrome.

    The only thing this sensei is doing is committing assault and psychological torture with impunity


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  • Registered Users Posts: 369 ✭✭Kaizer Sosa


    He sounds like the evil sensei from Karate Kid! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    DaBrow wrote: »
    I can speak from experience as I used to live in the UK... I find that very hard to believe.

    Please PM exactly where in the UK you live... I can do you a favour by looking for something else.

    Quite frankly, I think you and your classmates should tell the club owner that either the instructor goes or you all leave...

    Which part is hard to believe? Thanks, but I don't want to do martial arts any more after this. Two girls who started at the same time as me have already left. The others want to learn enough to put up with it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    OP, is there absolutely no other style of karate in your area?.

    How about another style entirely, ie Judo, Jiu Jitsu, Muay Thai etc?.

    It would be a shame to see someone put off martial arts entirely down to the actions of one individual.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    in my experience karate instructors who spend a long time in warm ups,do so to fill up the time,simply because they have a limited knowledge of the art they are teaching,i still train at a karate club, i am now 70yo and i have been training since 1967,over 40years


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    The instructor insisted and as they sparred, the boy was getting rough and the girl didn't know what to do, the instructor egged the boy on until the girl ended up crying on the floor with an eye injury and was too scared to come back. Anyway I'm glad it's all sorted for me now.

    This man isn't fit to teach a martial art. If the owner is paying the club insurance cost then he may want to reconsider allowing him to teach anymore.

    You are better out of it. If a good MA club opens in your area, don't let this experience put you off trying another art. Needless to say, paying for a year in advance is not a great idea.

    Z.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    There is a kung fu club but it is more than twice as expensive, which is why I chose the karate club. Anyway, I don't want to do martial arts any more.

    Getz, I think there could be something in that. Often if people asked him a question about what wewere doing in class he didn't know the answer, and would have to find out for next time.


  • Site Banned Posts: 5,676 ✭✭✭jayteecork


    You know what to do - use what he taught you against him and kick the sensei's ass!

    I have a feeling it could be this guy.

    karate-kid-sensei-finish-him.jpg

    Just listen to this song and go into the dojo and kick his ass m8!
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Qae_TUTeGo


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭opinion guy


    What I mentioned about him is just the tip of the iceberg. He once knocked a man out in class with a karate chop. The man passed right out and banged his head on the floor. One time when the low grades were paired up with black belts to practise a move, I was watching my partner demonstrate the move when the instructor came up behind me and smacked me round the head really hard (so hard that my ear was still ringing the next day). He said it was to teach awareness of one's surroundings, and to show that we should always be on guard. He was always doing stuff like that, one of his favourite things is to go up to people during class and kick them in the legs so hard that they fall over. He says it's to teach strength, but really all it ever seemed to do was result in most of the class having their legs black with bruises. And his actions were almost always directed towards women. Apart from the time he knocked that bloke out, every time I remember him kicking or throwing someone unnecessarily hard, or encouraging other males to hit or kick someone with unnecessary force, the person on the recieving end was almost always female. The whole thing just seemed like pointless violence, I went there to learn how to avoid getting hurt, not to gain as many injuries as possible.

    He always told us that the most important thing is to be aggressive, and that is even more important than learning the moves correctly. He actually said that, and it was pretty obvious because even the higher grades who had recieved belts were still doing basic things wrong.

    I know that martial arts classes don't have to be like that because I did kung fu at university, and my kung fu instructor was completely different. He was gentle and stressed the importance of the spiritual aspect of martial arts, he managed to teach us without anyone getting hurt, the warm-up was safe and low-impact and he always insisted that people take breaks and have a drink regularly.

    As for why my class mates are still attending this club, it's simple - this is the only karate club in the county, there's nowhere else to learn it.

    My God he really does sound like the guy from the Karate Kid.

    Hmmm also strikes me - this sounds like very old school mentality. I remember years ago as a kid being forced to do push ups on my knuckles and such stuff when I really didn't want to. And this kind of mentailty that your teacher has reminds me very much of harcore training in Angry White Pajamas (thou less severe). Its this 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger' bull that people buy into.

    What amazes me most about your story is that this guy is leaving himself open to legal action on several fronts - wreckless endangerment perhaps? Sexual discrimination perhaps ? Simple old assault and battery even.
    hohojojo wrote: »
    i am sorry but i don't see were you are coming from with the grading you say you don't want to be stuck at white belt level but if your not ready for a grading which is your choice ie your unfit well then i would think your not ready to move up grade that was one of the first question i was asked when i started karate am i doing it to get fit or for grades my answer at the time was to get fit but now i do want the grade but i don't want to cheat and so i will not be even considering going until i am fit enough and ready

    but i am sorry to say but as far as i can see you don't realise karate is a discipline not just a past time i know your instructor wasn't great but by the sound of your mails you just want to rush through when you are unready to move forward properly

    i am sorry to sound unsimpatetic but untill you get your fitness up you might either want to wait for going for grade or just go to a gym and that way you no one will tell you what to do

    He didn't say he wasn't fit enough to grade. He said he wasn't fit enough to train like a demon whilst waiting 4.5hours to grade. Honestly very, very few could train solid for four hours. I mean you can run a marathon in less than 4 hours even as an amateur. Even elite athletes wouldn't train for four hours continuously - its just plain bad for you.
    Also - there is something called punctution. Use it.


    OP if shin splints is a big problem for you, and it sounds like it is, maybe look into Aikido. Aikido warm ups generally involve a lot of stretching, knee-walking and rolling if memory serves (I don't remember jumping - thou I could be wrong).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    Also - there is something called punctution. Use it.

    You spoil a good post with this stupid shit, give it over.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    Hmmm also strikes me - this sounds like very old school mentality. I remember years ago as a kid being forced to do push ups on my knuckles and such stuff when I really didn't want to.

    He said that his old karate teacher many years ago used to go around the class kicking the students, so I guess that is where he learnt it from.

    He didn't say he wasn't fit enough to grade. He said he wasn't fit enough to train like a demon whilst waiting 4.5hours to grade.

    I'm a she, so even more reason why I don't appreciate being smacked around the head and kicked by some massive black-belt bloke! I told the instructor when I joined that I had recently left university where I had done almost no exercise for 4 years and was incredibly unfit. He was like, "Oh that's fine, you can of course always work at your own pace here," but then backtracked as soon as I had paid!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭opinion guy


    You spoil a good post with this stupid shit, give it over.

    Hmmm point taken. Would not have said that had I not found the persons post to be quite judgemental.
    I'm a she

    Oh my apologies StormWarrior! I missed that detail! Hmmm I'm sorry for your bad experiences. Hope you can find something. You know regarding the shin splints - for a while their I did some Tai Chi on account of joint issues - gotta say it was very enjoyable. Very, VERY chillaxing. But if I had my choice I would do Iwama style Aikido - I just don't know of anyone in Ireland teaching that. But if you are in the uk you can find it


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