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Whats the most hurtful thing you've ever said to someone?

  • 28-04-2010 12:03am
    #1
    Registered Users Posts: 384 ✭✭


    I'm just wondering what the most hurtful thing you've ever said is, or someone has said to you.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    Is it in yet? :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 222 ✭✭keithg89


    was she drunk/blind/deaf


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Years ago when I was in 1st yr in secondary school, a lad in my class asked me out. I didn't fancy him at all and I'm afraid I ridiculed him in front of whatever random classmates were hanging about at the time. I can't remember half of what I said now but it was hurtful stuff and I do feel genuinely bad about it now when I think of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    I hate you, I hate your family, I hate your country, but most of all I hate your face!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,803 ✭✭✭El Siglo


    I once said this to a rather rude barmaid...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    "You're a good altar boy, but not the best I've had by a long shot".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,783 ✭✭✭Hank_Jones


    I used to say the most horrible things to my parents when I was a teenager, I was a right bastard.
    Think of the worst things you can think of a teenager saying and then multiply that by about 4.


  • Registered Users Posts: 949 ✭✭✭LoanShark


    In caternig college 10 years ago I was asked to taste something by a girl in the class..It contained Cinnamon (which I totally hate due to a night drinking AfterShock) I ended up spitting it out in front of her...I explained I didnt like cinnamon,But I tried the food again and ate it (it was good!) I told her so... But to this dayI still regret spitting the food out..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    i've said some horrendous things to people over the years.i get extremely angry when someone hurts my family/friends, so i always manage to blurt out the most awful home truths in a fit of rage :o


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 14,320 CMod ✭✭✭✭The Master


    No


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,425 ✭✭✭FearDark


    Once told a guy in "our group" he was a ****ing asshole and everyone in said group thought the same...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,942 ✭✭✭missingtime


    Apparently it wasn't what I said but the way I said it :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 670 ✭✭✭Tail Wagger


    Get up and get dressed and go! the wife will be here in 10 min's


  • Registered Users Posts: 949 ✭✭✭LoanShark


    You're that good you could do this for a living!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    With a cross of knowledge, sarcastic wit, and utter contempt I've the capacity to scar someone to their core. But I can't think of a reason why I'd want to do something like that :)




    /makes daisy chains


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,541 ✭✭✭anothernight


    Sorry but I got tired of faking it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,803 ✭✭✭El Siglo


    Abigayle wrote: »
    With a cross of knowledge, sarcastic wit, and utter contempt I've the capacity to scar someone to their core. But I can't think of a reason why I'd want to do something like that :)




    /makes daisy chains

    You could be worse...;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,494 ✭✭✭citizen_p


    ive told people to go and die when exetremly pissed off.... usually has the shock value that no other phrase can acheive
    i dont believe in bad words being bad.....being called a c**t etc... dosnt bother me and i dont see how it affects others...

    yea yea i know its scabby


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    I called a girl fat when I was 12 and I'm pretty sure she still remembers it 10 years later.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,068 ✭✭✭Bodhisopha


    I questioned a girls parenting skills and made her cry.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,803 ✭✭✭El Siglo


    Mousey- wrote: »
    ive told people to go and die when exetremly pissed off.... usually has the shock value that no other phrase can acheive
    i dont believe in bad words being bad.....being called a c**t etc... dosnt bother me and i dont see how it affects others...

    yea yea i know its scabby

    Don't know about that, Bruno has very scathing criticism of Liza Minnelli...
    "Liza Minnelli, do you wish her benign tumour or malignant tumour?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,424 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    Break a leg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,945 ✭✭✭✭scudzilla


    i do


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    I called a girl fat when I was 12 and I'm pretty sure she still remembers it 10 years later.


    I'd be more interested in hearing what she called you first.




    Have a nice day now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,663 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    "Your arse would look big in a ****ikng tent, now come on or we'll be late."

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 12,333 ✭✭✭✭JONJO THE MISER


    Your such a Miser.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,165 ✭✭✭Savage Tyrant


    I screamed at Thierry Henry that I hope he gets cancer in his bollocks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 527 ✭✭✭shuvly


    Have said a few bad things to my ma over the years..but in the spirit of ah..and the current love of super heroes..am now going ever so slightly off topic, as in things I should have said.."you must be the arithmetic man, you add trouble, subtract pleasure, divide attention and multiply ignorance"...loving your work guys!....(going to hide beneath a bush (!)...),,hit me..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    "I would say you're the second best priest in the country"


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    "No, I don't love you."

    Got a slap for that one. Well worth it IMO. :p


  • Moderators Posts: 8,725 ✭✭✭x PyRo


    I've said some things in my time that aren't fit to be posted here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    Abigayle wrote: »
    I'd be more interested in hearing what she called you first.




    Have a nice day now.
    Did this hit a nerve?

    It wasn't said directly to her it was just talking to the lads and she overheard. I was just using her for a cheap laugh.:o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,080 ✭✭✭McChubbin


    I once asked a teacher:
    "How's the diet going?"

    She was not amused...


  • Registered Users Posts: 770 ✭✭✭Dublindude69


    I told my son to take a good hard look in the mirror, that is why you use protection.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 720 ✭✭✭Des Carter


    Im not a racist but I once calleed this guy a really hurtfull word thats seriously frowned upon. Its extremely racist and I hate myself for using it.

    Im not racist but I said it anyways. I persume you know which one - it has a couple of Gs a N and an R. also has an I and an E





































    ya I called him a GINGER.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 18,300 ✭✭✭✭Seaneh


    "I'm sorry, I just don't ever see myself being in love with you"

    Oh lord, there were tears, and I felt like a cu*t for weeks later.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Tea_Bag


    When my house mate asked me if I had seen where she might have placed her hoodie, I replied "you probably ate it"

    SHE is very selfconcious about her weight.

    I've also no idea why I said it, and for no reason either.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,100 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    I told someone that the world would be a much better place if his father had ejaculated into a sock instead of procreating with his mother on the night he was conceived. We're still good friends mind.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,358 ✭✭✭seraphimvc


    said to my mate lol

    'you are so heavy' or

    'oh my (point his chest) you have man boobs!!'


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,628 ✭✭✭SRFC90


    McChubbin wrote:
    I once asked a teacher:
    "How's the diet going?"

    She was not amused...

    Yo Chub, this ain't the thread for explaining how we got our usernames. Use srch tool plz, thnx.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    Did this hit a nerve?

    It wasn't said directly to her it was just talking to the lads and she overheard. I was just using her for a cheap laugh.:o

    Oh not in the least. Just thought I'd ask ;)


  • Registered Users Posts: 807 ✭✭✭Jenneke87


    I told my best friend she´s married to a spineless, helpless, psycho


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    I told my wife her friend was a nosy, interfering b***h

    Oh, how we laughed


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    Reading this thread reminded me of something awful I said to my Dad when I was around 12. It was totally out of order and only now I see how much he was going out of his way to take care of me.

    Sorry Dad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,161 ✭✭✭✭M5


    When are you due?















    she wasnt :-(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    never really actually said anything very hurtful

    have thought up plenty of scathong b*tchy nasty comments though


  • Moderators, Regional North East Moderators Posts: 12,739 Mod ✭✭✭✭cournioni


    You're so ugly, your crossed eyes are your most attractive feature.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,861 ✭✭✭Irishcrx


    Jesus, i've said and done some awful things when I was a teenager. Being a sarcastic f*** all the time generally does end up hurting people. I once asked a girl who was really self conceince about her looks "Why the long face" , she had a head like an oval, she ran out crying. Later me and a few mates were isolated from a party she was having, we managed to trick her to letting us in and stole all their drink. I once told a girl that I wanted to be with her cause I was hammered and wanted a shag and she says "Now please don't just wake up in the morning and dump me again" "No problem babe I said"

    11 am next morning..."Hey *** , cheers for last night but I was just hammered and wanted a ride, you were ****e anyway, later"...god I could go on..

    I'm much nicer these days...honestly..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 489 ✭✭Trashbat


    Anything seriously hurtful i've said has been thoroughly repressed and is no longer in my accessible memory, but there was one accidental hurtful incident i remember well.

    I was working as a security Guard in a High street shop that caters for a larger market. Above that shop was a seperate shop that sold standard size clothing.

    A woman approached me and asked: "What stock do they have upstairs?"
    I replied :"Oh, upstairs is for normal people"
    This was met with a cold stare.
    To redeem myself I then said: "But they do have maternity clothes upstairs"

    It was totally unintentional but i was mortified for the poor woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,710 ✭✭✭Speak Now


    If i could care less i would!


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