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what was the worst that was ever said to you
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princess-lala wrote: »No wonder John (my ex) done himself in
That was tonight, worst thing in my life
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princess-lala wrote: »No wonder John (my ex) done himself in
That was tonight, worst thing in my life
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Aids By Google wrote: »
Her ex (as in the guy that the relationship with has just ended) said this:princess-lala wrote: »No wonder John (my ex) done himself in
about a different ex of hers.
@princess-lala: I think that may be the worst thing I've ever heard. He has issues (to put it very mildly and very politely).0 -
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Hmmmm.....I don't really get a lot of guff these days, it would have happened moreso when I was younger. But I suppose there are two things that really get to me
1) When people my own age say I'm like an old man in the way that I act. It does hurt because I don't know, I always fear that sometimes I can't relate to people my own age. It especially hurts when the opposite sex says it. :P
2) When people slag the way that I talk. I have a lot of hesitance in my voice, I can't really control it when I feel uncomfortable. When I do put a bit a force into my voice people think I'm raising my voice at them, simply because they are so used to me talking with a low tone.
Anyway, I suppose these aren't the worst things one can hear. I've read the whole thread and damn, I can't believe how cruel some people can be. My heart goes out to you all. 0 -
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Wow some really awful stories here.
I used to be upset by people saying 'bad' things to me. I then realised that they probably treat everyone the same way, and that they're making their own lives really difficult with their constant negativity which they have to live with.
I only have to experience their negativity for a minute
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Things my older sister has said to me at different times
"You don't realize how little you factor into my life."
You're not even important enough for me to hate. I am completely apathetic and indifferent to you.
You're just like Dad.
(My father was physically abusive and an alcoholic. I am neither)
Suggested that I go to AA meetings.
(I rarely drink, and when I do, I don't drink to excess. I think she wants me to be an alcoholic so she can think less of me and label me. This is really creepy and icky to me, like something coming from a very dark place inside her.)
Oh c'mon just admit that you were a brat as a child.
When I told her things she said hurt me, she replied "You shouldn't have given me so much power."
These are things she said to me as an adult. I won't mention any of the childhood stuff cause that's enough.
For me putting a name to this -- bullying -- has empowered me. Identifying the behavior as bullying has helped me to see how inappropriate her behavior is. There's more to it than that, but I don't want to make this too long.
It's validating to hear other women on here who don't speak to a bullying sister. Like -- oh phew -- I'm not the only one who had to go to that extreme. It does seem extreme to me to have to cut family out of your life. There is something very wrong about the whole setup. But you can't fix the bully. You can only take care of yourself and you gotta do what you gotta do to keep yourself sane. We all deserve to be happy. Set boundaries. Keep the bullies on the outside. Keep the good people on the inside.0 -
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How is a ten year old supposed to respond to that! 
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