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What to wear a a first date.
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25-05-2010 7:57pm#1
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Why should they not wear flats on a date? I don't wear heels at all myself and don't consider them to be essential for any ocassion. I also don't see whats wrong with wearing goth or wacky coloured nail varnish if that's what the OP is into then that's fine, being yourself and happy should be the priority. If he likes you as a person and has a good time he's not gonna give a damn if you're wearing black nail varnish, who knows maybe he'd like you even more so for it
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That's true, there's nothing wrong with it at all. I was just remembering some dates I had been on and maybe was getting too specific with detailsWhy should they not wear flats on a date? I don't wear heels at all myself and don't consider them to be essential for any ocassion. I also don't see whats wrong with wearing goth or wacky coloured nail varnish if that's what the OP is into then that's fine, being yourself and happy should be the priority. If he likes you as a person and has a good time he's not gonna give a damn if you're wearing black nail varnish, who knows maybe he'd like you even more so for it
Don't wear anything you're not comfortable wearing of course. By suggesting she wear heels, it's just because I think they're sexier than flats, but, like I said, if she's not comfortable with that, then she shouldn't do it. 0 -
At the risk of going slightly OT a lot of guys I know aren't into heals at all, a lot of guys aren't into the high maintenace look that tends to go with them and wouldn't find them sexy. My boyf for example really doesn't like heels on girls (which is handy
) and would find that a major turn-off, he also hates straightened hair, uggs, curves and many other things that suit me equally well. My point is that if you're compatable as people he'll like you and your style more than likely. A goth guy would probably love a goth girl wearing goth nail varnish for example. That's why it's so important to just be yourself. I've gone down the road of trying to change my style to suit/impress boyfriends and it doesn't work for very long.
What sort of dress have you got in mind OP? Do you know the guy already or is it a blind date/stranger etc??0 -
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At the risk of going slightly OT a lot of guys I know aren't into heals at all, a lot of guys aren't into the high maintenace look that tends to go with them and wouldn't find them sexy. My boyf for example really doesn't like heels on girls (which is handy) and would find that a major turn-off, he also hates straightened hair, uggs, curves and many other things that suit me equally well. My point is that if you're compatable as people he'll like you and your style more than likely. A goth guy would probably love a goth girl wearing goth nail varnish for example. That's why it's so important to just be yourself. I've gone down the road of trying to change my style to suit/impress boyfriends and it doesn't work for very long.
What sort of dress have you got in mind OP? Do you know the guy already or is it a blind date/stranger etc??
In fairness, the OP was obv just asking how casual/dressy to look, not wondering if she should entirely change her style and go goth for a date, whereever that crazy notion came from! Saying "wear what you're comfortable in" doesn't really work. I'm comfprtable in sweatpants and a hoodie but there's a time and a place. Context trumps comfort (to an extent, of course! ), a mon avis.Went for a meal. Just wore skinny jeans + top + heals. Went really well!
I do wear dark nail polish but that doesn't make me a goth! I can't even remember who brought up the goth thing in the first place!
Glad it went well! Bet you didn't think twice about your outfit once you'd arrived, haha.
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