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Cant stop fretting and hurting over her

  • 17-06-2010 1:04am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Can anyone tell me how to make this stop. Broke up with my first girlfriend about 2 years ago, have been with a lot of girls since, but any time I think of her with another man or being slutty or used or anything sex related not with me, I sweat and instantly get hot rushes and frustration type feelings of stress.
    I understand I have not moved on from her and have huge feelings for her but left her for the single life and can't go back, yet a part of me just wont let go and wants the door there open - is this simply the reason?
    Is the solution to do something that will guarantee no way back. I feel we could have an amazing relationship but just feel that it is 'broken' and I can't see myself going back to it as I would only wreck it with my messed up feelings.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Looks like you still really think about her alot? Love her?
    I don't know, I'm Female, so the sexual jealousy thing kind of escapes me.
    Emmm... Stress is not good for your health. Maybe put it in a letter to her, let her know
    that you feel that strongly still, and then see what happens.

    I'm sure if you both are supposed to be together the universe will somehow conspire to make it so.


  • #3
    April Attractive Velour
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    can'tstopit8 wrote: »
    but any time I think of her being slutty or used

    What on earth ? :confused:
    Look you obviously have an unhealthy preoccupation here, maybe you should talk to someone about it.
    Why did you break up


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi bluewolf what I meant was imagining her acting slutty, like doing things you'ld see in a porn ya know? and cmon be real here mate, we all know people act like whores in the bedroom, dont try to bend reality by saying girls dont act that way etc. Im fine with it thats life, but the thoughts of her acting that way with someone else cause the bad thoughts...your other question I already answered.


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