Being stalked, kinda.

mary01

tinkerbell wrote: »

Phone providers never block numbers, I don't even think it can be done. I tried to get a number blocked before (crazy psycho stalker girl) but they couldn't do anything, however I reported it to the gardai and they had a word with her, didn't hear from her after that then.

Actually they do. Had a similar problem for a few months with a guy I gave my number to one night. Eventually had to get Meteor to block him from texting and calling me. Been a few weeks since and no texts so it can be done.

K-9

xxxchloexxx is dlofnep shocker.

SIX PACK

Does he smoke Pot im guessing yes. i think he has Skitsophrenia!!! PS. how could you be so daft to giv this Psychopath your number?

GirlOfGlass

I actually thought this post was a mess when it got to the part about him pulling at his hair. A tad creepy.

He sounds like the type that likes to kill people for fun.

Dante

Three words:

I AM GAY

DAMO72

Give him a blow job and then let him bang you in the hole. You never know you might like it ,and if you find out that you do like it please PM me

DAMO72

DAMO72 wrote: »

Give him a blow job and then let him bang you in the hole. You never know you might like it ,and if you find out that you do like it please PM me

Thats the guy right there Dlofnep!

ottostreet

you should post him some anthrax!

Brendog

Imma let you finish....but John Lennon had one of the best stalkers of all time!!

Crocadiles bit off my face.......

Cheeky monkey

Divert his calls to the Dell helpline

Pdfile

Larianne wrote: »

Careful what you wish for!

shut up and open your curtins :cool:

Dublin_Gunner

dlofnep wrote: »

He was in the pub. I'm going to bed now. I feel like my private moments have been violated.

Don't. Fall. Asleep.

thebigbiffo

tell him you're moving to yemen

the_syco

ottostreet wrote: »

you should post him some anthrax!

What happens if he likes it, and sends back some Iron Maiden?

dlofnep

No texts today as of yet. I kinda feel sorry for him in one respect, but afraid of him in another! He was buying everyone drinks last night, obviously with intent of fitting in. The guy genuinely must be lacking friends, but I can see why!

I feel kinda bad posting this thread now, because I know he's genuine. But he's lacking some serious social skills, and he was getting seriously paranoid about everything again last night. I'd say he had a fair shíte upbringing to put him in the state of mind that he's in, but I don't fancy him tagging along with me for the summer. I work all week and like to relax. When I go out, I want to go out with my friends.

I said I might be heading out this weekend and he asked if he could come along. I told him I'm going out with some friends. He said "Grand, text me so!". I'm trying to be nice, but he's not getting the hint. I think he's annoying all of my mates too.

Gah!!!!

caseyann

He has got your number and trying to wind you up now because you didnt reply to any of the calls or texts.

Your example.
He text how are you?
You didnt reply so sarcastically.
He said i am great thanks

caseyann

dlofnep wrote: »

No texts today as of yet. I kinda feel sorry for him in one respect, but afraid of him in another! He was buying everyone drinks last night, obviously with intent of fitting in. The guy genuinely must be lacking friends, but I can see why!

I feel kinda bad posting this thread now, because I know he's genuine. But he's lacking some serious social skills, and he was getting seriously paranoid about everything again last night. I'd say he had a fair shíte upbringing to put him in the state of mind that he's in, but I don't fancy him tagging along with me for the summer. I work all week and like to relax. When I go out, I want to go out with my friends.

I said I might be heading out this weekend and he asked if he could come along. I told him I'm going out with some friends. He said "Grand, text me so!". I'm trying to be nice, but he's not getting the hint. I think he's annoying all of my mates too.

Gah!!!!

He might settle in a bit,has he got a job or in college? He may be just lonely and lacking in confidence around a group of people who know eachother a while.People do weird things when nervous.Set him up with a girl
That is nice of you

dlofnep

caseyann wrote: »

He might settle in a bit,has he got a job or in college? He may be just lonely and lacking in confidence around a group of people who know eachother a while.People do weird things when nervous.Set him up with a girl
That is nice of you

He doesn't have a job. It's beyond being lonely. I genuinely feel sorry for him. But he seems very unstable. You'd have to meet him to understand. He's just one of those people I don't feel comfortable around. I think everyone kinda feels the same.

Zillah

You should post his number here and we will all send him messages asking how he has been and if we can come out on the weekend with him.

Kintarō Hattori

I always thought you were a guy. Politely but firmly ask him to stop texting you.

caseyann

dlofnep wrote: »

He doesn't have a job. It's beyond being lonely. I genuinely feel sorry for him. But he seems very unstable. You'd have to meet him to understand. He's just one of those people I don't feel comfortable around. I think everyone kinda feels the same.

Still very nice of you to feel compassion for him.:)
Give him another chance,if you are going clubbing you dont have to talk with him and see how he fairs.
Is he alone no family or anything?
I reckon his first initial desperation of finding someone who was nice to him kinda made you uncomfortable.Perhaps?

caseyann

Kintarō Hattori wrote: »

I always thought you were a guy. Politely but firmly ask him to stop texting you.

He is a guy.

dlofnep

caseyann wrote: »

He is a guy.

*flexes*

Caoimhín

caseyann wrote: »

Still very nice of you to feel compassion for him.:)
Give him another chance,if you are going clubbing you dont have to talk with him and see how he fairs.
Is he alone no family or anything?
I reckon his first initial desperation of finding someone who was nice to him kinda made you uncomfortable.Perhaps?

Fúck that. Beat him to a messy pulp.

thebullkf

dlofnep wrote: »

I don't want to be overly descriptive here, as he might be reading... I was sitting in a waiting room last week, things were moving slowly - so I was chatting to some random guy while I waited to be called. He seemed friendly enough - Said he was new in town and didn't really know anyone yet. So being the friendly dlofnep that I am, I invited him along for a few pints with some of my friends.

That's when everything started to get weird. He started randomly putting his head in his hands, ripping at his hair for no apparent reason. He kept getting paranoid about everything. I just figured it was a bad day. I wish I could go in into detail to the weird stuff he was saying, but I'm genuinely weary incase he reads this thread. Let's just say, he's as crazy as codshít.

He asked me to text him the next time we were heading out for pints. I was a bit hesitant - and didn't have my phone with me, so I said to text his number onto me and I'd save it. Terrible move!!!!

Ever since then, he has been ringing me and texting me everyday. I haven't answered the phone. It's getting to the point where he's having conversations with himself through text messages.

For example, he will text me asking how I am - I don't respond, but he sends me another text saying "I'm doing great, thanks!" - as if I had actually responded to his text. It's getting really freaky. He rang me at 4am the other night, texting me straight afterwards saying that some girl is annoying him with random texts, and that it's getting on his nerves. Why would I care - I barely knew the guy from 20 minutes! Why text send me annoying texts, about someone sending you annoying texts?

I dunno what to do with this guy. I'm genuinely a friendly person, probably too friendly. I hate being an arsehole to people - but I need to seriously cut ties with this guy. He knows where my local pub is, and will definately pop in. I can see this all going downhill from here..

don't dismiss one of your strength's,maybe he was from that 'smelly kip' you were talking about:rolleyes:

Superbus

Brendog wrote: »

Imma let you finish....but John Lennon had one of the best stalkers of all time!!

And we all know how that ended.

Sound Bite

if you feel you cannot ask him to stop, try sending a message to his number pretending its meant for someone else.

Something like Hi X, "Y keeps texting me way too often, would much prefer it he would tone it down abit. Seems like a nice guy but its annoying my boyfriend that he's in such frequent contact etc. Any ideas what I should say to him?"

Might shame him into stopping

The_Joker.

Tell him you're a priest.

And text him 'The leviticus 18' quote from the bible everymorning

Kintarō Hattori

caseyann wrote: »

He is a guy.

OOOOoowww...... penny drops.

Kev_ps3

Tell him your gay and you've got aids and you want to **** him

Dyr

dlofnep wrote: »

No texts today as of yet. I kinda feel sorry for him in one respect, but afraid of him in another! He was buying everyone drinks last night, obviously with intent of fitting in. The guy genuinely must be lacking friends, but I can see why!

I feel kinda bad posting this thread now, because I know he's genuine. But he's lacking some serious social skills, and he was getting seriously paranoid about everything again last night. I'd say he had a fair shíte upbringing to put him in the state of mind that he's in, but I don't fancy him tagging along with me for the summer. I work all week and like to relax. When I go out, I want to go out with my friends.

I said I might be heading out this weekend and he asked if he could come along. I told him I'm going out with some friends. He said "Grand, text me so!". I'm trying to be nice, but he's not getting the hint. I think he's annoying all of my mates too.

Gah!!!!

Here's the terrible thing, if he's some genuinely mad sociopathic bastard who's aware of what he's at you can take steps with a clear conscience, but if he's an unfortunate bastard who's deperately fighting against himself just to try to fit in anywhere then anything you do will make you feel like a complete c**t.

Although he sound's like he is'nt mentally stable so proceed with extreme caution.:eek: I'd listen to my instincts if I didnt feel comfortable around him.

darragh o meara

Ok as someone who has been there this is what you SHOULD do:

1. If he texts you send him a reply and be firm about it that you would like all communications to stop immediately and if they dont you will refer the matter to the gaurds.

2. If he still persists store all the messages and contact the gardai and lodge an official complaint.

3. If the calls and texts persist report each and every one of them to the gardai. In most cases the gaurds will ring the number and speak to him or leave a message advising him to stop. This will usually sort it out. If it doesnt they will visit him and put him wide to the fact he is being investigated for being a nuisense.

4. If all else fails ring your mobile provider and ask that they bar all calls and texts from his number.

Hope this helps. I know what it feels like nd it can be very scary, but you need to be strong and put him in his place.

dlofnep

dlofnep wrote: »

He doesn't have a job. It's beyond being lonely. I genuinely feel sorry for him. But he seems very unstable. You'd have to meet him to understand. He's just one of those people I don't feel comfortable around. I think everyone kinda feels the same.

Just get the man a prostitute.

greenmachine88

It would be easy to just lose him and get on with your life but wouldn't it be great to actually help him out and introduce him to a few people, you should bring him along a couple of times when you're going out and if it doesn't work out then it's best to leave it, how does he behave in general is he mostly strange or is it sporadic?

dlofnep

greenmachine88 wrote: »

It would be easy to just lose him and get on with your life but wouldn't it be great to actually help him out and introduce him to a few people, you should bring him along a couple of times when you're going out and if it doesn't work out then it's best to leave it, how does he behave in general is he mostly strange or is it sporadic?

I wouldn't trust him with my dog, basically.

dlofnep

dlofnep wrote: »

I wouldn't trust him with my dog, basically.

Bring him to a boards beers and leave him there.

Has a hint of Father Stone about him.

consultech

Pittens wrote: »

OP, why do you think he reads boards?

He sounds as if he does fit the boardsie character profile fairly closely tbh.

michael222

dlofnep wrote: »

I don't want to be overly descriptive here, as he might be reading... I was sitting in a waiting room last week, things were moving slowly - so I was chatting to some random guy while I waited to be called. He seemed friendly enough - Said he was new in town and didn't really know anyone yet. So being the friendly dlofnep that I am, I invited him along for a few pints with some of my friends.

That's when everything started to get weird. He started randomly putting his head in his hands, ripping at his hair for no apparent reason. He kept getting paranoid about everything. I just figured it was a bad day. I wish I could go in into detail to the weird stuff he was saying, but I'm genuinely weary incase he reads this thread. Let's just say, he's as crazy as codshít.

He asked me to text him the next time we were heading out for pints. I was a bit hesitant - and didn't have my phone with me, so I said to text his number onto me and I'd save it. Terrible move!!!!

Ever since then, he has been ringing me and texting me everyday. I haven't answered the phone. It's getting to the point where he's having conversations with himself through text messages.

For example, he will text me asking how I am - I don't respond, but he sends me another text saying "I'm doing great, thanks!" - as if I had actually responded to his text. It's getting really freaky. He rang me at 4am the other night, texting me straight afterwards saying that some girl is annoying him with random texts, and that it's getting on his nerves. Why would I care - I barely knew the guy from 20 minutes! Why text send me annoying texts, about someone sending you annoying texts?

I dunno what to do with this guy. I'm genuinely a friendly person, probably too friendly. I hate being an arsehole to people - but I need to seriously cut ties with this guy. He knows where my local pub is, and will definately pop in. I can see this all going downhill from here..

The problem is with you, now before you start kicking my ass and calling me names etc etc please listen to what i have to say, irst you need to talk to him one to one in a public place. Then tell him this -- look pal stop texting me and callig me your are starting to give me the creeps, and if you dont stop you will take this to the police for stalking, put the crap into head, and make him think about it.

You know if you cant control your life then its you thats in trouble, he just a male thats got the hots for you, thats all.

A bit of girl power is required here i think, many a girl told me to take a jump, then they said that i walked away best way for me at that time.

Michael

consultech

dlofnep wrote: »

Do I give off a feminine vibe?

Kinda yeah. Probably in no small part due to the chatting up of strange men and giving them your phone number thing.

MitchKoobski wrote: »

dfolnep which is your local? I'll pop in during the week, be even weirder, and then he'll stay the fewk away.

We've got a weird-off folks!!!

dlofnep

Another text. Ugh.. This is getting old.

michael222

dlofnep wrote: »

Another text. Ugh.. This is getting old.

Thats it you need to take charge on this before it ends in tears

Michael

CiaranMT

Block the number. Seemplez.

michael222

CiaranMT wrote: »

Block the number. Seemplez.

Bad advice

You need to take conrol of your life, and dont let others control what you do.

Thats most important, for you, not him.

Michael

Eddie Ere

You've stayed fairly quiet throughout this entire thread OP. What do you want to achieve? Cut all ties or wait and hope he changes for the best? Can you give vague examples of how awkward and paranoid he is?

Shanotheslayer

dlofnep wrote: »

Another text. Ugh..

Maybe you should text me back then? Ffs

tallaghtoutlaws

michael222 wrote: »

.

A bit of girl power is required here i think, many a girl told me to take a jump, then they said that i walked away best way for me at that time.

Michael

You do realise the OP is male right?

dlofnep you are going to have to man up and tell this dude he is creeping you and if he doesn't stop it you will talk to the Guards. I know you probably feel sorry for the guy and all but if he does turn out to be some sort of psycho you will regret not taking some sort of action.

dlofnep

Yeah, that's the only reason I really haven't told him to feck off - I feel sorry for him. Dlofnep has a heart, but he also has a 6th sense!

michael222

dlofnep wrote: »

Yeah, that's the only reason I really haven't told him to feck off - I feel sorry for him. Dlofnep has a heart, but he also has a 6th sense!

Well its you that has the issue not him.
And started this thread.

Michael

tallaghtoutlaws

dlofnep wrote: »

Yeah, that's the only reason I really haven't told him to feck off - I feel sorry for him. Dlofnep has a heart, but he also has a 6th sense!

I get you bit at what point do you draw a line on your generosity and kindness?