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  • 03-07-2010 6:32pm
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    LegacyUser
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    my ex moved to Cavan some years ago to avoid the CSA in England - he has now shacked up with some woman and her 4 kids - he is on invalidity benefits fleecing the system for all its worth - there is a court order in place for him to pay £10.00 per week maintaince and a warrent out 4 his arrest for non payment of maintenance - he says he won't have to pay anything cause he's on benefits?? i have checked with the welfare people and they say this is incorrect but what do you think???


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    gaeilgegrinds1
    Registered Users Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭gaeilgegrinds1


    I'd shop him for fleecing...and then push for my money!


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    LegacyUser
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    I m on benifits myself and i pay 40 euro to my childs mother its just about manageable for me. I m pretty sure you've still got to contribute by law if your on benifits anyway. Tenner a week is nothing that guy is a disgrace to avoid paying it.


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    Klingon Hamlet
    Registered Users Posts: 2,738 ✭✭✭Klingon Hamlet


    He may be means tested but he still should contribute something. And he's a scumbag for running away like that, if you don't mind me saying. Give his address in Cavan to the CSA.


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    MojoMaker
    Registered Users Posts: 4,686 ✭✭✭MojoMaker


    Klingers, you don't know the full story. It's easy to over-compensate I know. We have no idea how much of a living hell the OP made for her former partner prior to this.


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    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    The OP said he was running from the CSA, that would suggest their relationship was well and truly over... :confused:


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    MojoMaker
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    Yep, it's just a comment though, we have no idea if it's true.


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    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Why bother replying to a thread if you are just going to rudely assume the OP is lying and make up responses accordingly? :confused:


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    Deliverance
    Registered Users Posts: 1,674 ✭✭✭Deliverance


    cjamchats wrote: »
    my ex moved to Cavan some years ago to avoid the CSA in England - he has now shacked up with some woman and her 4 kids - he is on invalidity benefits fleecing the system for all its worth - there is a court order in place for him to pay £10.00 per week maintaince and a warrent out 4 his arrest for non payment of maintenance - he says he won't have to pay anything cause he's on benefits?? i have checked with the welfare people and they say this is incorrect but what do you think???
    Look after your child and stop stressing over what this waster is doing, basically for the time being cut him out of your life. He will be back when he grows up a bit and is lonely because of his actions. Enjoy life and better yourself for you and your child.

    There are plenty of good guys out there. This guy is clearly from what you have said is not one of them, get him out of your life now if you can. You and your child will benefit lots by this action. Life is for living and kids make it even more so. Take this guy out of the picture for now and bring up your child without the bitterness that he is making. There is more to life, enjoy your child as much as they will enjoy you without this clown. Best of luck OP.


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    rebecca 30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭rebecca 30


    hey,

    My ex is on Illness benefits and I still get €40 each week, not that he wanted to pay it, the courts made him, I would keep phoning the police in his area to say that theres warrens out for him, the CSA can still chase him in Cavan for your money


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