girls coming onto guys

Yourself

stupidusername wrote: »

Ironically enough, you're the one guy I wasn't coming onto in here....

Maybe thats what happened with the other 20 girls too :eek:

BumbleB

Yourself wrote: »

Before (this thread) I was quite dismissive of any minor attention/effort guys gave me but I was so much more aware of everyone last night, :pac:

Why was that ? Interesting ?. JC if some people would actually open their eyes there would be a lot less Irish women are b**ches threads.aid this before .I'm repeating myself The bar counter and the smoking area is gold for meeting people.Irish women aren't b**ches it just when the wrong approach is used.

Yourself

BumbleB wrote: »

Why was that ?. JC if some people would actually open their eyes there would be a lot less Irish women are b**ches threads.aid this before .I'm repeating myself The bar counter and the smoking area is gold for meeting people.Irish women aren't b**ches it just when the wrong approach is used.

For the passing "hi" Id just figured one of the following:

~he's saying hi to anyone/everyone its not that he likes me particularly (fishing with a net rather than a line)
~he's not interested enough to talk to me properly
~did he say something?
~he's not talking to me but someone close by
~by the time Id realised, he had passed by
~or if he's really hot Id think he couldnt possibly like me and was taking the p*ss for a comical 'she thinks she could have me' reaction

Im not sure if the rest of that post was aimed at me because Im not sure what you mean

clarke1991

stupidusername wrote: »

my face just isn't naturally smiley, if ya get what i mean?

Though I was self conscious whenever I did smile after that.

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i get what you mean exactly:P, im a guy, there about 2 weeks ago i was in the nightclub and i guess my face just isn't smiley:(! but anyway, one of the lads was talking to this girl he went to school with. while he was chatting away, myself and one of the other lads were chatting away and one of yer wans friends came over to us and said, completley out of the blue, 'god, ye look awful depressed'! couldn't help but laugh in fairness but after that i try to smile sometimes but keep thinking that i look like an awful tool when i do !

she also started rubbing up against me from behind a few minutes after i was talking to her.. as in the first few posts at the start of this thread, i knew what she was doing, i just wasn't interested as the other fella was upset as he lost a close relation during the week..

BumbleB

Yourself wrote: »

if the rest of that post was aimed at me because Im not sure what you mean

Not at all aren't yourself doing fabulous !!! , me ranting bout ****e again .

Yourself

clarke1991 wrote: »

'god, ye look awful depressed'!

She probably hit the nail on the head with that comment! :rolleyes:

she also started rubbing up against me from behind a few minutes after i was talking to her.. as in the first few posts at the start of this thread, i knew what she was doing, i just wasn't interested as the other fella was upset as he lost a close relation during the week..

Maybe ye can reconvene at a more suitable date!

BumbleB wrote: »

It's not , me ranting bout ****e again

Okay so ...there there Bumble!

stupidusername

clarke1991 wrote: »

i get what you mean exactly:P, im a guy, there about 2 weeks ago i was in the nightclub and i guess my face just isn't smiley:(! but anyway, one of the lads was talking to this girl he went to school with. while he was chatting away, myself and one of the other lads were chatting away and one of yer wans friends came over to us and said, completley out of the blue, 'god, ye look awful depressed'! couldn't help but laugh in fairness but after that i try to smile sometimes but keep thinking that i look like an awful tool when i do !

Grrr.... it's just pisses me off when people say that. like, if you've a reason to smile you will! Maybe I'm just not enough of a frickin air head that smiles and laughs at everything! grrr.

BumbleB wrote: »

Maybe you lost all your mojo.:p...

I wasn't flirtin with him cos he seems like a bit of an eejit, sayin i had 20 girls in one night... who does that. so don't you worry lovey, i got my mojo....;)

Oh and I read what you said about your goatee in tLL thread.... better grow one for the beers ..... but then again, maybe it'd be too dangerous..

cocoa

Haha, lovin' this thread, lots of pearls of wisdom mingled with excellent anecdotes

I'm an extremely smiley guy myself, often get comments like 'you're smiling an awful lot tonight', it's just the way I am, really enjoy having a bit of a smile and a giggle to/at myself if there's not much else going on =P

But even though I'd be mostly smiling anyway I think comments like 'if only you'd smile' or 'you look awful depressed' are ridiculous. If someone wants me or anyone else to smile, they should earn it by saying/doing something cool/funny/nice not by whinging about it!

That said, I can't recommend smiling enough, it genuinely does make you feel happier / more upbeat *, even if it's forced at first. And people around react to it and everyone's mood goes up

* within reason, obviously not a suggestion for someone who's grieving or whatever, but to lift a mood from just ok to great, perfect. Also there have been studies into this and the link between feelings and their display is bidirectional, not one way

That's all, carry on with ye're pulling now =P

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

Grrr.... it's just pisses me off when people say that. like, if you've a reason to smile you will! Maybe I'm just not enough of a frickin air head that smiles and laughs at everything! grrr.

Or it will never happen ,well it really has.

I wasn't flirtin with him cos he seems like a bit of an eejit, sayin i had 20 girls in one night... who does that. so don't you worry lovey, i got my mojo....;)

The wez was a good ole spot in the day in fairness.I actually meant to quote yer man.

Oh and I read what you said about your goatee in tLL thread.... better grow one for the beers ..... but then again, maybe it'd be too dangerous..

Are you stalking me ?.

It really happened ,not since though ,can't really top that I was kinda in total confusion.

Hey its the weekend , any girls thinking about coming onto guys?.Don't be shy:).

stupidusername

BumbleB wrote: »

Are you stalking me ?

Some might call it enjoying you.....
Seriously though, no I'm not.I wrote on that thread too, so I got an email, as one does.

Oh how I wish I could stalk you though.... rawr...!

It really happened ,not since though ,can't really top that I was kinda in total confusion.

Was she pretty though? that is quite weird. maybe it was a bet... or maybe you're just that gorgeous?!

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

Some might call it enjoying you.....
Seriously though, no I'm not.I wrote on that thread too, so I got an email, as one does.

Oh how I wish I could stalk you though.... rawr...!

Youll need night vision goggles and a fast shutter action camera to catch me

Was she pretty though? that is quite weird. maybe it ,was a bet... or maybe you're just that gorgeous?!

Yea she was pretty ,pretty weird. Probably was a bet, never entered my mind until you mentioned it.Either way it was really good ,I liked !!!!!!!!! .I had my fun.

stupidusername

BumbleB wrote: »

Youll need night vision goggles and a fast shutter action camera to catch me

already have them...... don't you worry

BumbleB wrote: »

Yea she was pretty ,pretty weird. Probably was a bet, never entered my mind until you mentioned it.Either way it was really good ,I liked !!!!!!!!!.I had my fun.

You like girls randomly kissing you eh? hmmmm...... you do realise I'm going to tLL meet up too.... ya? I see what you're getting at

stupidusername

I miss the flirting.....

I'm just thinking though, is flirting just innuendo a lot of the time? besides that, it's just being friendly surely?

And Yourself, did anything happen with the butcher fella??

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

I miss the flirting.....

I'm just thinking though, is flirting just innuendo a lot of the time? besides that, it's just being friendly surely?
??

The flirt Is the dance .

Yourself

stupidusername wrote: »

I miss the flirting.....

I'm just thinking though, is flirting just innuendo a lot of the time? besides that, it's just being friendly surely?

And Yourself, did anything happen with the butcher fella??

Didnt get to the butchers yet, crazy busy weekend! I'll pop in tomorrow, it'll be quieter then too! no word from other bloke but like said here probably not looking for anything or just a one nighter, s*cks for me tho

BumbleB wrote: »

The flirt Is the dance .

Flirting is also sometimes foreplay...life is short!

ps. anyone else hate the 'wink' icon? looks like the eyelid has closed over the bottom part of the eye, as if the closed lid was baggy or something! hahaha perhaps its just me

BumbleB

Yourself wrote: »

Flirting is also sometimes foreplay...life is short!

ps. anyone else hate the 'wink' icon? looks like the eyelid has closed over the bottom part of the eye, as if the closed lid was baggy or something! hahaha perhaps its just me

trust you and your dirty mind to pick up on that Lol ! Yep I agree the wink looks like the wink from a durty oul fella .

stupidusername

Yourself wrote: »

Didnt get to the butchers yet, crazy busy weekend! I'll pop in tomorrow, it'll be quieter then too! no word from other bloke but like said here probably not looking for anything or just a one nighter, s*cks for me tho

Flirting is also sometimes foreplay...life is short!

Ah don't mind him. obviously not worth it. ooh hope the butchers goes well for ya.


I'd like to be more confident to flirt a lot IRL. problem is i suppose that it might work, on someone i'm not interested in. There's a distinct lack of good looking men around these parts.... so not like i can flirt with some one i might like

Galvasean

stupidusername wrote: »

There's a distinct lack of good looking men around these parts....

Really?
I like those odds......

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

Really?
I like those odds......

Well come on over here then...... maybe send on a picture first

Galvasean

Not satisfied with my Avatar?
Actually when is this LL thing? Havent been to that forum in what seems like ages. And are blokes allowed attend? Last time I was there everyone was giving out that too many blokes were going to the beers.

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

Not satisfied with my Avatar?
Actually when is this LL thing? Havent been to that forum in what seems like ages. And are blokes allowed attend? Last time I was there everyone was giving out that too many blokes were going to the beers.

Well as much as your avatar shows everything I like in a man, I was hoping for a close up.....

The LL date hasn't been decided on yet. There's loads of lads already after saying they're going to go... you should come along

Oh god I'll be worn out with my flirting between you and BumbleB

Galvasean

I suppose it's only fair if I post a pic since you asked...

stupidusername

oh.


Oh I see.



Am, ok, ......... maybe don't come visit then....














LOL, jk!

Galvasean

Better or worse?

stupidusername

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

WORSE!



MY EYES, THEY BURN!!!!!
:eek:

Galvasean

*pulls out an emergency pic of Leonardo DiCaprio and hopes somebody believes me*

stupidusername

Nah........ don't believe you. and it wouldn't help anyway......wouldn't be into him myself...

so you going to go along to tLL beers?

AND to keep on topic (ahem) do you have any stories about girls coming on to you to share with us?

Galvasean

stupidusername wrote: »

Nah........ don't believe you. and it wouldn't help anyway......wouldn't be into him myself...

Really? Well I'll be damned.

stupidusername wrote: »

so you going to go along to tLL beers?

Depends on when its on. Probably though.

stupidusername wrote: »

AND to keep on topic (ahem) do you have any stories about girls coming on to you to share with us?

Ah yes the topic. I actually have an example from last night. I was out and bumped into somebody from work and we were talking. A friend of hers was very flirty with me. However I was a tad freaked out in that she knew a lot about me despite us having never met before. Must have been sussing me out on facebook :eek:

So a tip for the girls, that aint sexy!

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

Ah yes the topic. I actually have an example from last night. I was out and bumped into somebody from work and we were talking. A friend of hers was very flirty with me. However I was a tad freaked out in that she knew a lot about me despite us having never met before. Must have been sussing me out on facebook :eek:

So a tip for the girls, that aint sexy!

Ya, that's a little creepy. Though would having looked at your boards posts be considered the same... ??

Kinda flattering though, I suppose.

Galvasean

I wouldn't say the boards posts is quite the same. I'm one of those people that stands by everything I say on these boards. Heck I get spotted by strangers every once in a while who yell "Galvasean!" to see if I'll look around.
I often check people's boards posts to 'suss them out' so to speak, to see exactly what kind of a person is adding me as a friend etc.
I just found the Facebook thing a little bit creepy. I know it's technically public too but I wasnt expecting my back n' forths witha work colleague were being monitored.

edit: maybe creepy isn't the right word. 'Odd' is probably a better choice.

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

I wouldn't say the boards posts is quite the same. I'm one of those people that stands by everything I say on these boards. Heck I get spotted by strangers every once in a while who yell "Galvasean!" to see if I'll look around.
I often check people's boards posts to 'suss them out' so to speak, to see exactly what kind of a person is adding me as a friend etc.
I just found the Facebook thing a little bit creepy. I know it's technically public too but I wasnt expecting my back n' forths witha work colleague were being monitored.

edit: maybe creepy isn't the right word. 'Odd' is probably a better choice.

I wouldn't do that, well I don't really know what you look like, and I don't know how to pronounce your username anyway.

I can creep away so, and not feel like a creep - teehee. I know what you mean about the facebook thing, I would kinda find it odd if someone i'd never met.... oh wait. no that has happened. And I didn't find it odd. For some reason because it was someone that had read my posts here it wasn't as odd as I would find it if it had been on facebook. hmmm.

So are you going to send me a proper picture of yourself? Or am I going to have to wait til the meet up..?

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

Oh god I'll be worn out with my flirting between you and BumbleB

LOL ! (a little one).



Wonder where is Yourself ,did she run off to live in bliss forever with butcher boy ?.;)

stupidusername

BumbleB wrote: »

LOL ! (a little one).

Wonder where is Yourself ,did she run off to live in bliss forever with butcher boy ?.;)

Only a little one.... awh...


Let's hope she's been swept off her feet away to some exotic location being romanced to within her inches of her life!

Would you like to do some romancing BumbleB?

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

Only a little one.... awh...


Let's hope she's been swept off her feet away to some exotic location being romanced to within her inches of her life!

Would you like to do some romancing BumbleB?

I would indeed my dear , its funny that the minute as I read romance on your post my Italian neighbours are screaming at each other and shes throwing delph at him ,its a fairly normal occurance round here.

stupidusername

BumbleB wrote: »

I would indeed my dear , its funny that the minute as I read romance on your post my Italian neighbours are screaming at each other and shes throwing delph at him ,its a fairly normal occurance round here.

You could romance me so, if you like..... Though maybe we could get a picture of you too, to balance things out, as galvasean has done.....

I have neighbours like that too, you hear them almost constantly, if they're not shagging (terribly loudly) they're fighting (terribly loudly)....

BumbleB

stupidusername wrote: »

You could romance me so, if you like..... Though maybe we could get a picture of you too, to balance things out, as galvasean has done.....

I'm afraid to, you might reject me as I have a hunchback, and I have only 1 of my own teeth.

stupidusername

BumbleB wrote: »

I'm afraid to, you might reject me as I have a hunchback, and I have only 1 of my own teeth.

But that sounds like my ideal man!

Ah no, I know it's hard to put yourself out there... hasn't worked out too well for myself..

Yourself

BumbleB wrote: »

Wonder where is Yourself ,did she run off to live in bliss forever with butcher boy ?.;)

Didn't make it to the butchers again today because I wasn't well I bet every butcher is watching this thread with quiet anticipation! hahaha

stupidusername wrote: »

Let's hope she's been swept off her feet away to some exotic location being romanced to within her inches of her life!

Sounds sweet, hopefully that will be his initial reaction...to sweep me off my feet!

stupidusername wrote: »

I have neighbours like that too, you hear them almost constantly, if they're not shagging (terribly loudly) they're fighting (terribly loudly)....

hahaha! love it! I remember a place I rented before and the walls were like paper, could hear the couple at it and used to make sex noises back at them hahaha it was a fun game

Galvasean

stupidusername wrote: »

So are you going to send me a proper picture of yourself? Or am I going to have to wait til the meet up..?

I'll probably slap one up closer to the meet up date. There's a few in that Know Your Loungers thread. Good luck finding them though.

edit: actually the same pics are in the Know Your Nocturnals thread in the Nocturnal forum. You might have better luck there as the thread is smaller.

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

I'll probably slap one up closer to the meet up date. There's a few in that Know Your Loungers thread. Good luck finding them though.

edit: actually the same pics are in the Know Your Nocturnals thread in the Nocturnal forum. You might have better luck there as the thread is smaller.

Found it! In case anyone wants it here it is.

Galvasean

stupidusername wrote: »

Found it! In case anyone wants it here it is.

Sweet merciful Jeebus, you work fast! :eek:

stupidusername

Galvasean wrote: »

Sweet merciful Jeebus, you work fast! :eek:

My speed impresses you eh? I work fast when I want to..... teehee. fantastic tan (or should I say tanfastic?)

Yourself

Galvasean wrote: »

I wouldn't say the boards posts is quite the same. I'm one of those people that stands by everything I say on these boards. Heck I get spotted by strangers every once in a while who yell "Galvasean!" to see if I'll look around.
I often check people's boards posts to 'suss them out' so to speak, to see exactly what kind of a person is adding me as a friend etc.
I just found the Facebook thing a little bit creepy. I know it's technically public too but I wasnt expecting my back n' forths witha work colleague were being monitored.

edit: maybe creepy isn't the right word. 'Odd' is probably a better choice.

stupidusername wrote: »

I wouldn't do that, well I don't really know what you look like, and I don't know how to pronounce your username anyway.

I can creep away so, and not feel like a creep - teehee. I know what you mean about the facebook thing, I would kinda find it odd if someone i'd never met.... oh wait. no that has happened. And I didn't find it odd. For some reason because it was someone that had read my posts here it wasn't as odd as I would find it if it had been on facebook. hmmm.

So are you going to send me a proper picture of yourself? Or am I going to have to wait til the meet up..?

I think Galvasean (possibly pronounced Galva-Sean) is going to be taking back the "standing by everything he says" comment, and found your archiving skills a bit frightening stupidusername! hahaha! (ps I was going to call you stupid there for short but realised that might cause offence!)

BumbleB wrote: »

I'm afraid to, you might reject me as I have a hunchback, and I have only 1 of my own teeth.

Gave us a sneak peek at Bumble's hat fetish too in the below link...heeheehee!

stupidusername wrote: »

Found it! In case anyone wants it here it is.

Galvasean wrote: »

Sweet merciful Jeebus, you work fast! :eek:

hahaha! dont mess with stupidusername!

So Galva, is your hair long or short these days?

Galvasean

Yourself wrote: »

I think Galvasean (possibly pronounced Galva-Sean)

Correctomundo.

Yourself wrote: »

So Galva, is your hair long or short these days?

Longest it's been in years. And surprisingly yellow too.

Yourself

Galvasean wrote: »

Correctomundo.

Yay me! *air five*

Longest it's been in years. And surprisingly yellow too.

Awh! I liked it short! do you tie it back or resemble Jebus?

Yellow eh? that doesn't sound good!

BumbleB

Yourself wrote: »

Gave us a sneak peek at Bumble's hat fetish too in the below link...heeheehee!

Thanks Sean , GAME OVER .

Cheaters ! , I love hats. I'm an ex bboy and we all love hats, especially baseball hats.I have 3 trillion of them.

BTW Theres a more recent one in the very last page of the Know Your Loungers thread.

Galvasean

Yourself wrote: »

Yay me! *air five*

Yup, I've heard some odd pronounciations; "Gal-vis-ee-in" "Glass-nev-in" "Gav-is-con"

Yourself wrote: »

Awh! I liked it short!

I'm under strict instructions from my female friends NEVER to cut it again.

Yourself wrote: »

do you tie it back or resemble Jebus?

If anything it resembles this guys hair:

Yourself wrote: »

Yellow eh? that doesn't sound good!

Well, maybe not yellow, but blondish, like this guy:

Yourself

BumbleB wrote: »

Thanks Sean , GAME OVER .

Cheaters ! , I love hats. I'm an ex bboy and we all love hats, especially baseball hats.I have 3 trillion of them.

BTW Theres a more recent one in the very last page of the Know Your Loungers thread.

which this one? Is the top of your head cut off because youre wearing a crazy hat? I like hats too! Once had a house party which turned into a hat party because I had so many! hahaha! Wouldnt say I had THREE trillion though, probably more like 2.98 trillion! :pac:

Yourself

Galvasean wrote: »

Yup, I've heard some odd pronounciations; "Gal-vis-ee-in" "Glass-nev-in" "Gav-is-con"



I'm under strict instructions from my female friends NEVER to cut it again.



If anything it resembles this guys hair:




Well, maybe not yellow, but blondish, like this guy:

Are they your friends or just trying to chat you up? (ref: original post)

That long/short is alright with me!

blondish, like that guy? he's pretty cute

Galvasean

Yourself wrote: »

Are they your friends or just trying to chat you up? (ref:original post)

You mean the girls who dont want me to cut my hair? Friends. They better not be trying to chat me up. :mad:

Yourself wrote: »

blondish, like that guy? he's pretty cute

Crap, should have used a less attractive person. Now when you see me you'll be all like, "Ah, but he's not as nice as that blonde guy with the stick".