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Gender divide with religious beliefs

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    .I didn't bother to address your last question because you used the phrase "new Atheism" and last time I checked there was nothing "New" about not believing in the Sky Man.

    I have taken the liberty of highlighting some of your own text that I feel is important. Many believing does not mean Scientists believing. Rape may indeed be natural, as is murder, and indeed so is Cancer. Just because it's perfectly natural doesn't mean it is desirable or in any way shape or form promoted by Science.

    Science, as far as I'm aware, has absolutely no preference about what roles parents take or even what family unit is preferable. So seriously, what's your beef with Science and why bash it so hard on such flim flam claims?

    Ok your right,I shouldn't have used the word 'New',Of course there is nothing new about not believing in a God.

    I was talking about what seems to be this ascendant idea of recent times, linking atheism with a warped Darwinism. Its something that Dawkins himself has commented on numerous times. That Darwin is being abused to reinforce sexist,racist,right wing ideals.

    Many atheists abuse Darwin's doctrine making it as damaging to women as the bible has even been.
    If men are bigger,stronger,its survival of the fittest, and Darwinian discourse is being used to defend anti-social behavior such as rape and murder. Yet this is not what Darwin was alluding to at all!
    If you read some of the scientific evolutionary theory books out there on the market today,there a lot worse than the old testament ever was. Yet most of them are based on opinion rather than subjective fact.

    While I wouldn't consider evolutionary theory to be science at all it seems to have taken over from the bible as the new atheist doctrine. You can see that on every thread on Boards,where non-scientists quote sexist crap about women as nurturer man as provider. However, the profound sex inequality found in many human societies has never been proven to be based in biology.

    Maybe you think this is not relevant to the topic at hand and perhaps it is not,but its one reason I could think that would make women turn to the Virgin Mary over silly fertility hip to waist ratio's.

    Obviously the lack of access to education that many religious women have is a much more pertinent factor.

    Some Links discussing how sexism in the Atheist community may be isolating women:
    http://www.thefword.org.uk/blog/2010/03/sexism_in_the_a
    http://skeptifem.blogspot.com/2009/11/bill-maher-and-white-dude-privilege-of.html


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


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    While I'm not disagreeing with the observation, it's possible that there are other factors there. The vast majority of religions are patriarchal and mostly outright misogynistic, so when it comes to religious fanaticism it's no surprise that those fronting it and those who are most vocal are male.

    When you get down into the rank and file of the likes of Westboro, there seems to be just as many insane women as there are men.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 446 ✭✭sonicthebadger*


    panda100 wrote: »

    While I wouldn't consider evolutionary theory to be science at all it seems to have taken over from the bible as the new atheist doctrine. You can see that on every thread on Boards,where non-scientists quote sexist crap about women as nurturer man as provider. However, the profound sex inequality found in many human societies has never been proven to be based in biology.

    Thanks for your considered reply. But I still have one question, if not evolution then what? Where do you disagree with the theory of evolution?

    I have read extensively on the subject of evolution and I think there is little there to disagree with if we just read the science and not the opinions. Your disagreement with evolution sounds like a disagreement with an abused and bastardised version of the theory but not actually the theory itself. Nowhere does it say in the theory that the female of the species must be some sort of nurturer and the male must be the provider.
    In fact it indicates that for complex animals such as ourselves with young who are essentially defenseless for over a decade after birth a very large and complex social network is necessary for the survival of the gene to the next generation. Genes without the programming for this social behaviour or with limited capacity for it are not as likely to survive.

    So the "traditional family unit" we hear so much about is actually not enough for the protection and raising of offspring in the vast majority of situations, a much larger community is needed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭sponsoredwalk


    panda100 wrote: »
    While I wouldn't consider evolutionary theory to be science at all...

    Well you'd be coming into conflict with the greater majority of the practicing scientific community on that one ;)

    That's fine, it's your opinion & is incorrect as it may be, with respect to reality, I can't allow you to use elitist straw-man arguments about Bill Maher
    & Christopher Hitchens in order to claim there is some atheistic movement & that this supposed movement has womens interests denigrated in some manner.

    People admitting they are atheists does not enter them into some club, first off.
    The idea that we all join together & invent some club rules is ignorant at best.
    If you actually believe that then you haven't thought about this concept deeply enough.
    The only tie linking atheists together is
    that they do not believe there is a woman/man in the sky.

    Now, as it happens more scientifically literate people tend to call themselves atheists. That, however, does not include everyone.

    Still, those that do believe science is correct in it's fundamental premise,
    i.e. that we are ignorant about how the world works but we have a
    self-correcting method that has inbuilt humility, creativity & ignorance as it's guiding forces to understanding it,
    do not make absolute statements as ultimate truth because science never claims itself to be so audacious.
    Basically if you do find people claiming as such they are inventing their own fantasy construct in the name of science, & history has plenty of
    examples of people being shown wrong for doing this.

    If you knew more about the basic premise of science you'd be able to see that without ignorantly bandying about sweeping labels...

    Why am I so angry? Because you're claiming science is being used to
    propagate misogynistic beliefs. This is false.
    It's ignorant people who use pseudoscience to pass off their lies.
    If you knew anything about real science you would never have said what you said.

    So, basically you have fallen into a far deeper trap created by ignorant men who have falsely used science to put women down.
    Condemn science and atheists because a few people have spouted nonsense, smart move...

    I really would need to see your sources for these pop-science books spouting off material worse than the bible...
    In fact, if you would show us detailed passages that condemn women in the name of science I'm pretty confident
    I'll find more credible information contradicting what you've said.
    If not, I'd appreciate you showing me this material even more
    because there may or may not be some truth to it.
    Probably not, still though I'd love to actually read it.

    If you knew anything about anthropological work you'd know that women gathering seeds etc... provided most of the nourishment for ancestral diets.
    Hunting was not the main source of food in their diets so if we're to believe
    that it was women who gathered the seeds as men hunted that still does not give men some special place.
    These antiquaited ideas are fresh only in the minds of ultra left-wing feminists and in men trying to use some ignorance to their advantage.
    Oddly enough this ignorant idea is used to condemn vegetarians too
    and it's also science that has shown we can live on vetarian diets.
    Anthropological work has also discovered matriarchical vegetarian cultures
    (Iroquoi Indians of North America for example)

    that kind of put down two false assumptions in one ;)

    You have to remember that it is science that discovered we all ultimately
    depend on women through the passage of maternal mitochondria and it's
    the science of evolution that explains how we can trace this back.
    Hardly some idea propagated by mysoginistic atheists...

    Science says very little about how women ought to be.
    Basically psychology is the area that tends to make sweeping statements
    but these are often proven false or as culturally created constructs.
    My favourite example is the current arguments about women in science.
    If you look at my last post about STEM test scores being the same it's
    cultural biases that tend to cause less women to be confident in entering engineering & physics etc...
    Science has something to say about this, namely the very enterprise of
    showing that men and women's test scores are about the same is science
    & flies in the face of culturally created ideas about women being destined
    to somehow fail in the hard sciences...

    So, basically science has very little to say on how women ought to be.
    Now, if atheists are trying to use some arguments to denigrate women
    they need to be questioned.

    Also, Christopher Hitchens and Bill Maher do not speak for anyone but themselves, if feminist blogs are going to try to
    a) use this fantasy of an atheist movement
    b) say these are the movements spokespeople
    c) tell us there is an anti-women bias in science and these movements

    then I think we can call feminism dead.

    No, wait...

    ...I think we should call the foolish authors of these articles for what they are, fools...
    and not go off bandying about labels about the whole feminist movement, see what I mean...;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,397 ✭✭✭Herbal Deity


    panda100 wrote: »
    I was talking about what seems to be this ascendant idea of recent times, linking atheism with a warped Darwinism. Its something that Dawkins himself has commented on numerous times. That Darwin is being abused to reinforce sexist,racist,right wing ideals.
    ???

    I don't deny that it may be happening, but I certainly haven't come across it, and I don't think it's hugely prevalent in mainstream society.

    It certainly wouldn't be a reason why women in general aren't atheists.

    You seem to be talking about atheism as if it's a product or something. Surely people arrive at their atheism through realization of the irrationality of religion? Sure, the publicity Dawkins etc. get these days might have given a handful of people the last push they needed to abandon the faith they were brought up in, but it's by no means the sole reason why people convert to atheism.


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Rayne Stocky Mandrill


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    Maybe we just found better things to do :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,090 ✭✭✭jill_valentine


    Somebody has to make Richard and Christopher their damn dinners.

    ...

    Listen, you can hear Emmeline Pankhurst screaming at me from the non-Afterlife.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Also, Christopher Hitchens and Bill Maher do not speak for anyone but themselves, if feminist blogs are going to try to
    a) use this fantasy of an atheist movement
    b) say these are the movements spokespeople
    c) tell us there is an anti-women bias in science and these movements

    then I think we can call feminism dead.

    No, wait...

    ...I think we should call the foolish authors of these articles for what they are, fools...
    and not go off bandying about labels about the whole feminist movement, see what I mean...;)

    It is a bit rich alright, for someone proclaiming to be a femininist to turn around and try lump all atheists into a nice pigeonhole.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,856 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    panda100 wrote: »
    While I wouldn't consider evolutionary theory to be science at all it seems to have taken over from the bible as the new atheist doctrine. You can see that on every thread on Boards,where non-scientists quote sexist crap about women as nurturer man as provider. However, the profound sex inequality found in many human societies has never been proven to be based in biology.

    lulz

    methinks you're letting your feminist ideology cloud your appraisal of the facts.

    Jakkass tends to do the same thing when it comes to morality; "I don't want it to be true" ends up being warped into "It's not true" in his head.

    Evolutionary psychology is currently the best model we have for understanding human behaviour, but you are free to propose an alternative, or falsify EP if you're so inclined.

    Just because rape or misogyny or tribal warfare are 'natural' does not mean that we have to endorse them. We tend to go "against nature" on a regular basis, hence life expectancy has been on the increase for decades now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    Dave! wrote: »
    lulz

    methinks you're letting your feminist ideology cloud your appraisal of the facts.

    Jakkass tends to do the same thing when it comes to morality; "I don't want it to be true" ends up being warped into "It's not true" in his head.

    Evolutionary psychology is currently the best model we have for understanding human behaviour, but you are free to propose an alternative, or falsify EP if you're so inclined.

    Just because rape or misogyny or tribal warfare are 'natural' does not mean that we have to endorse them. We tend to go "against nature" on a regular basis, hence life expectancy has been on the increase for decades now.

    I don't think this is the forum to discuss evolutionary psychology. I feel it pointless having a debate with people who feel rape is 'natural' and so we have to fight against what is natural.
    I was just suggesting a possible linkage to what has become a watered down, distorted view and abused sexist version of evolutionary theory and its association with atheism.Popular media seems hellbent on associating the two,probably something to do with the famous faces of atheism being evolutionary biologyists.

    I put forward two links of women discussing what they feel to be sexist undertones in the Atheist 'community', with links to the lack of access women have to education,the lack of female atheist role models which may make women cling to Mary and The saints.
    Yet we have various posts saying there is something innate in women's brains that make them believe in a higher being?! Serious nonsense which makes what should be an interesting discussion,utterly pointless.


    I think another huge factor in why women tend to be more religious is the community aspect of it. My mother,for example, was a stay at home mum. Her involvement with the church in London was probably her main social outlet. While my dad had his Golf club and office friends,my mum,like most women had the sporting world's and business worlds closed off to her.

    Similar story with my best friends mother who is a Hindu in India. The temple is the one place she can go and make friends, with other mothers who are isolated to the home all day.
    There to me seems to be a lot of social factors that would make women not want to shake their understanding and belief in God, as they get too much out of religion for it to be taken away.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 446 ✭✭sonicthebadger*


    panda100 wrote: »
    I don't think this is the forum to discuss evolutionary psychology. I feel it pointless having a debate with people who feel rape is 'natural' and so we have to fight against what is natural.

    So explain what is not natural about it. Or what is not natural about being eaten alive by a shark, or dying of Cancer or HIV.

    Also please note, while you try to tar me as some kind of rape loving person who isn't worth discussing anything with, I have put rape in the same box as violent assault; being eaten alive; and death by disease.
    panda100 wrote: »
    I think another huge factor in why women tend to be more religious is the community aspect of it. My mother,for example, was a stay at home mum. Her involvement with the church in London was probably her main social outlet. While my dad had his Golf club and office friends,my mum,like most women had the sporting world's and business worlds closed off to her.

    Similar story with my best friends mother who is a Hindu in India. The temple is the one place she can go and make friends, with other mothers who are isolated to the home all day.
    There to me seems to be a lot of social factors that would make women not want to shake their understanding and belief in God, as they get too much out of religion for it to be taken away.

    This is an excellent point. The social aspect has a huge role to play in keeping a religion alive I think. Humans are very social animals, any belief that can facilitate or piggyback on that is on a winner in terms of adherents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Of course we have to fight what is natural. The great thing about being human is we have the ability to rise up above our natural tendencies for the greater good. Natural does not always mean good. Being eaten by a pack of wolves is about the most natural thing that can happen to a person. We still avoid it though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    Galvasean wrote: »
    Of course we have to fight what is natural. The great thing about being human is we have the ability to rise up above our natural tendencies for the greater good. Natural does not always mean good. Being eaten by a pack of wolves is about the most natural thing that can happen to a person. We still avoid it though.

    I don't know where your writing from,but sitting here in Limerick in the 21st century, getting eaten by a pack of wolves is not the most natural thing that can happen to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭mohawk


    panda100 wrote: »

    I think another huge factor in why women tend to be more religious is the community aspect of it. My mother,for example, was a stay at home mum. Her involvement with the church in London was probably her main social outlet. While my dad had his Golf club and office friends,my mum,like most women had the sporting world's and business worlds closed off to her.

    Similar story with my best friends mother who is a Hindu in India. The temple is the one place she can go and make friends, with other mothers who are isolated to the home all day.
    There to me seems to be a lot of social factors that would make women not want to shake their understanding and belief in God, as they get too much out of religion for it to be taken away.

    Really good point. Humans are social creatures who strive to fit in and no one wants to be left out in the cold by questioning the status quo.

    Men and women are very different so is it possible that women have a greater desire for feeling like when they die they go to heaven. Do women need this comfort more then men?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    panda100 wrote: »
    I don't know where your writing from,but sitting here in Limerick in the 21st century, getting eaten by a pack of wolves is not the most natural thing that can happen to me.

    Pedantic sidestepping of the point much?


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Rayne Stocky Mandrill


    panda100 wrote: »
    I don't think this is the forum to discuss evolutionary psychology. I feel it pointless having a debate with people who feel rape is 'natural'

    I don't think ducks rape each other because it's *not* natural...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    panda100 wrote: »

    Many atheists abuse Darwin's doctrine making it as damaging to women as the bible has even been.
    If men are bigger,stronger,its survival of the fittest, and Darwinian discourse is being used to defend anti-social behavior such as rape and murder. Yet this is not what Darwin was alluding to at all!
    If you read some of the scientific evolutionary theory books out there on the market today,there a lot worse than the old testament ever was. Yet most of them are based on opinion rather than subjective fact.

    Sorry if you're going to come out with crap like this you're going to have to back it up with something

    Who's defending rape and murder? Using evolution to explain rape and murder does not justify or even defend them. I've only read about the rape and evolution notion once in a book about evolutionary psychology called Human Instinct by Robert Winston, and he went to painstaking detail explaining how it in no way justifies rape.

    scientific evolutionary theory books worse than the old testament? which ones have you read?


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 53,181 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    Using evolution to explain rape and murder does not justify or even defend them. I've only read about the rape and evolution notion once in a book about evolutionary psychology called Human Instinct by Robert Winston, and he went to painstaking detail explaining how it in no way justifies rape.
    steven pinker discusses rape in the blank slate and challenges the argument that it's about power. you might not agree with him, but it's worth a read.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,858 ✭✭✭Undergod


    panda100 wrote: »
    It always astounds me how many of my female friends still have a belief in God considering all that organised religion has done to suppress us.

    The actions of a human organization are not evidence for any God's non-existence.

    But yeah, the OP is balls.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    Sorry if you're going to come out with crap like this you're going to have to back it up with something

    Who's defending rape and murder? Using evolution to explain rape and murder does not justify or even defend them. I've only read about the rape and evolution notion once in a book about evolutionary psychology called Human Instinct by Robert Winston, and he went to painstaking detail explaining how it in no way justifies rape.

    scientific evolutionary theory books worse than the old testament? which ones have you read?

    A Natural history of rape, Evoloution of desire,Taking Sex differences seriously , Sperm wars........There all bestselling books right there beside 'The Selfish gene' on Amazon.com
    http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dus-stripbooks-tree&field-keywords=sperm+wars&ih=3_1_2_1_0_1_2_0_0_1.140_75&fsc=-

    Have you read any of these books? I can honestly say from a females perspective they do not make for pleasant reading.

    It enrages me when I see it taken as fact in popular discourse when their claims about human desires and behaviours can only be speculative
    Read anything from 'Time' to The Ladies Lounge any given day of the week and you'll see people defending sexist behaviour because its somehow 'innate' in us, like men are programmed to like big breasts and men are programmed to be promiscous?!
    A trait cannot be human nature if it does not have a genetic component, and so far there is no proof of a gene for a desire of big breasts!

    I completly appreciate that there would be evoloutinary psychologists who would disagree with the mysoginistic undertones in these books. However,unfortunately these are not the ideas taken up by mainstream discourse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭sponsoredwalk


    Dave! wrote: »
    Evolutionary psychology is currently the best model we have for understanding human behaviour, but you are free to propose an alternative, or falsify EP if you're so inclined.

    Evolutionary psychology is not the best method we have for understanding human behaviour,
    it can only tell us so much before it turns into a "just-so" story.
    I think you must have meant sociobiology, but even then you can't get too far due to lack of proof.
    It becomes internal logic & can be used to facilitate contradicting explanations as well.
    Basically it can be used to explain nearly everything &, therefore, explains nearly nothing.
    Psychology & sociology would be the areas that would have more concrete to say, I would think.
    It's worth researching the counter-arguments to this young science.

    Just as evolutionary psychology fails, so do psychology & sociology too when you try to tell somebody what
    human nature is, or should be, and arguing that war, rape & tribal warfare are natural is not something I'd accept so easily.
    Black people were naturally inferior 200 years ago, women were naturally inferior 60 years ago, and still are according to most atheists apparently :rolleyes::p,
    so if you're trying to argue that rape, pillaging & murder are natural you've got to explain why over the last 500 years or so the levels of rape,
    murder & pillaging have cut dramatically & continue to drop.

    The very fact these things are dropping so dramatically, that people are communicating on a global scale etc...
    would tend to indicate that we don't even know what our nature is or what we are capable of & a look at history would certainly confuse you more
    if you looked at the root causes for most wars etc...

    Unfortunately, in keeping with that trend of evolutionary psychology & sociobiology to make up "just-so" stories we're reading them
    in this thread by the people arguing that rape is innate in us.
    What is the actual argument?
    The argument about rape & evolution being intertwined is that rape confers an evolutionary advantage to those who committed rape
    in the past thereby passing their genes into the next generation.
    Could someone please tell me how this indicates that it is innate in human nature?
    The only way I can see this happening is if we use evolutionary psychology's foolish mode of inquiry in that we'll explain every single
    characteristic of human nature with some million year process seeing as we've got so much time in the past & so little evidence.
    It sound's plausible... But then we'd all be rapists because of the rape genes our ancestors bestowed onto us... :pac:
    Referencing Steven Pinker as challenging the power theory of rape isn't enough because I can reference passages where he argues
    from a 1990's modern American person's perspective & not a scientists when he argues in favour of prisons & sexism as necessary.
    Even his debate with Elizabeth Spelke on why women are not in the top sciences is totally couched in modern cultural bias &
    totally unfair by using male dominated history to advance his arguments.
    I've already given studies showing no differences between male & female intellect in tests that matter
    so it's most likely cultural bias that leads to the divide. Innate...?

    That doesn't mean Steven Pinker is a misogynistic atheist hell bent on ruining women, he isn't.
    If you read him you'll see that so I hope nobody comes away from this with that idea.


    So, the argument about evolution and rape is really a trivial issue.
    Rape does confer an evolutionary advantage if the rapist succeeds in getting his/her genes into the next generation
    but that says absolutely nothing about it being innate or desirable.
    From an evolutionary standpoint it's getting your genes into the next generation that matters most but
    until someone can show me how that means we're all rapists at heart I'm stumped...

    The only thing that makes rape natural, as opposed to be inbuilt into human nature, is that a subset of every species does it.
    Still, that says zilch about it being inbuilt in human nature.
    For all we know it's abnormally high levels of testosterone or something that leads some members of a particular species to actually commit rape.
    panda100 wrote: »
    I can honestly say from a females perspective they do not make for pleasant reading.

    I can honestly say that from a male's perspective I don't like people telling me that rape is somehow innate in me & is lurking just below the surface.
    However, I don't fight the idea just because I don't like it, I think about it & don't let my fear about it get in the way of understanding it.
    If it somehow turned out to be unequovically true, there's no point in denying it was a factor in the past but, simply by choice, it doesn't have to be now...
    I think the idea of science, i.e. being objective, is scaring you because people may end up creating some ignorant bias against women.
    Science is not about that & "taking sex differences seriously" is not something we can avoid doing because we just don't like it.
    As far as I can see, it's science that has shown women are not naturally inferoir, black people are not inferior, minority groups etc...
    in an intellectually satisfying way even though we have a history of some devious people attempting to castigate all these minority groups.
    (Not to say anything about the social movements, I mean from a biological standpoint!).
    I wouldn't worry about this because it's scientists honesty that has fleshed out all the BS and continues to do so.
    That said, you have to give up this idea of popular discourse being out to get women.
    It's science to publish these kinds of books & you've made no point except that you don't like it.
    If you don't, this one minute video will tell you what you can do ;)
    I haven't seen any substantial malevolence against women or social castigation because of these books & even if it did occur that doesn't
    make it right. It's not mine or the authors fault if people misunderstand the ideas/arguments and detrimentally use them.
    panda100 wrote: »
    It enrages me when I see it taken as fact in popular discourse

    ...


    ...unfortunately these are not the ideas taken up by mainstream discourse.

    Popular discourse, where would we be without it :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    steven pinker discusses rape in the blank slate and challenges the argument that it's about power. you might not agree with him, but it's worth a read.

    Well he could be right about that. I sincerely doubt he argues that makes rape ok. If rape was 100% about enjoying the sexual aspect it wouldn't legitimise rape one little bit.
    panda100 wrote:
    A Natural history of rape, Evoloution of desire,Taking Sex differences seriously , Sperm wars........There all bestselling books right there beside 'The Selfish gene' on Amazon.com
    http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_no...0_1.140_75&fsc=-

    Have you read any of these books? I can honestly say from a females perspective they do not make for pleasant reading.

    It enrages me when I see it taken as fact in popular discourse when their claims about human desires and behaviours can only be speculative
    Read anything from 'Time' to The Ladies Lounge any given day of the week and you'll see people defending sexist behaviour because its somehow 'innate' in us, like men are programmed to like big breasts and men are programmed to be promiscous?!
    A trait cannot be human nature if it does not have a genetic component, and so far there is no proof of a gene for a desire of big breasts!

    I completly appreciate that there would be evoloutinary psychologists who would disagree with the mysoginistic undertones in these books. However,unfortunately these are not the ideas taken up by mainstream discourse.

    Have you read them? I just get this horrible feeling you are misunderstanding the authors. Saying there is a genetic reason someone is more likely to do something does not justify the person doing it.

    For example you said it annoys you if people say men are programmed to be promiscuous. Well the amount of sperm they produce would suggest being programmed to promiscuous genetically would certainly be evolutionarily advantageous. I certainly believe they are "programmed" that way(I also think women are 'programmed' to be promiscuous btw) Now I think you are afraid this means men being promiscuous/unfaithful is acceptable. It doesn't! we are not controlled by our genes.


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