Would You Have Sex On A First Date

WindSock

10th date. Each date leading up to it must be more exciting and expensive than the last so it can build up to an exciting crescendo of disappointment when we finally hop in the sack :cool:

arybvtcw0eolkf

Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.

Abrasax

WindSock wrote: »

10th date. Each date leading up to it must be more exciting and expensive than the last so it can build up to an exciting crescendo of disappointment when we finally hop in the sack :cool:

10 dates, each more expensive than the last?

High maintenance much?


I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.

Uriel.

Amia High Bellows wrote: »

Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.

Eugh, just threw up in my mouth

smash

Amia High Bellows wrote: »

Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.

quit it... making love is only an expression that 15/16yr old girls use so they don't feel like tarts when they sleep with someone.

Sex is sex!

Uriel.

Abrasax wrote: »

I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.

mmmm might be an issue for the girl, just sleeping on your first date is not gonna leave much of an impression. Sounds kinda boring, would you not even stretch to a bowl of soup in a local coffee shop then go home for a nap?? :P

arybvtcw0eolkf

Uriel. wrote: »

Eugh, just threw up in my mouth

Thats always an option too - but I hate a spitter.

Abrasax

Uriel. wrote: »

just sleeping on your first date is not gonna leave much of an impression. Sounds kinda boring,

Speak for yourself.

YFlyer

kfallon wrote: »

Defo sex on the first date...and maybe a little tugjob in the morn from her....as a 'thank you'!!!

I like the wake up calls myself.

Abrasax

YFlyer wrote: »

I like the wake up calls myself.

If that was my wake up call, I'd keep hitting the snooze-button.

Celly Smunt

Abrasax wrote: »

If that was my wake up call, I'd keep hitting the snooze-button.

yeah just punch her in the face and tell her to get the fúck

Abrasax

pmcmahon wrote: »

yeah just punch her in the face and tell her to get the fúck

Not quite what I meant.

kfallon

When the alarm goes off she should know it's time to reach for the baby oil!

Even better is when they start yanking you off as you're still asleep, wake up to a lovely little treat!

WindSock

I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.

Shouldn't be an issue for anyone if that's what both parties want.

weiland79

I was on a first date last night. We were at it like animals all night in my car. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K45o6hEY97Y

Abrasax

WindSock wrote: »

Shouldn't be an issue for anyone if that's what both parties want.

Well then, assuming that's what both parties want, I'd have no issue with it.

minidazzler

The girl I am currently "whatevering" with, not sure what to call it TBH, I had sex with before I went on a date with her, then asked her on a date.

So, Yeah, I would have sex on the first date.

arybvtcw0eolkf

minidazzler wrote: »

The girl I am currently "whatevering" with, not sure what to call it TBH, I had sex with before I went on a date with her, then asked her on a date.

So, Yeah, I would have sex on the first date.

You'd sex with her before the first date ya durty pagan fooker

'High Five' [Jedward style].

Bob the Seducer

This is really a thinly-veiled, who's up for a one night stand survey, isn't it? :pac:

minidazzler

Amia High Bellows wrote: »

You'd sex with her before the first date ya durty pagan fooker

'High Five' [Jedward style].

And for Maximum epicniess, first time was on a Ferris wheel at Oxegen. I hate that it was because it sounds unbelievable! ha

arybvtcw0eolkf

minidazzler wrote: »

And for Maximum epicniess, first time was on a Ferris wheel at Oxegen. I hate that it was because it sounds unbelievable! ha

I'd say the money shot hit about 2000 people!.

Pherekydes

steve06 wrote: »

For the girls that say no... surely it's better to find out if you're sexually compatible before you get into any form of relationship.

You find out you're compatible or not the first time?

I always thought that things improve with practise...

Lots of it.

WindSock

Abrasax wrote: »

Well then, assuming that's what both parties want, I'd have no issue with it.

Yeah but you stated you had no issues with it, because you are a guy :P

I don't think the issues are down to a persons gender, just more if you are a thrill of the chase / get to know a person a bit better before hopping on each other. Either way, if a person thinks less of another because of either preference then they are an idiot, imo.

minidazzler

Amia High Bellows wrote: »

I'd say the money shot hit about 2000 people!.

Ferris wheels last less than 5 minutes!

Lux23

I have done but thats only because I may have fancied the person but knew their personality wasn't a match.

If I am really interested in someone than I will try and get to know them but as some posters may already know doesn't really work for me either.

NothingMan

minidazzler wrote: »

Ferris wheels last less than 5 minutes!

That sucks, you could only fit in 2 shags.

Abrasax

WindSock wrote: »

Yeah but you stated you had no issues with it, because you are a guy :P

Some guys fit the stereotype, on some issues.

I was merely stating how this guy felt, without precluding any other gender.

I don't think the issues are down to a persons gender, just more if you are a thrill of the chase / get to know a person a bit better before hopping on each other.

I'm sure it happens all the time, where the lady offers to sleep with the guy and he says, assuming it's a girl he would sleep with, 'You know what, I never do this on the first date, I'm more of a getting-to-know-you-first type of guy'.

Either way, if a person thinks less of another because of either preference then they are an idiot, imo.

Yes.

kfallon

Everyone needs a no strings attached ride every now and then. As the fella says,

"When you come, you go!"

Jaxxy

kfallon wrote: »

Everyone needs a no strings attached ride every now and then. As the fella says,

"When you come, you go!"

Exactly. And as someone else has already said, women have needs too. If a woman wants to have sex she can have it, she shouldn't have to deny herself just because the man she's dating (or anyone else for that matter) might think it's off-putting.

RachPie

Being one of the select few old romantic types that are left in this world, along with some form of respect for myself - nah lad. Thrill of the chase and all that!

Celly Smunt

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

Exactly. And as someone else has already said, women have needs too. If a woman wants to have sex she can have it, she shouldn't have to deny herself just because the man she's dating (or anyone else for that matter) might think it's off-putting.

women think too much

Jaxxy

RachPie wrote: »

Being one of the select few old romantic types that are left in this world, along with some form of respect for myself - nah lad. Thrill of the chase and all that!

What has sleeping with someone on the first date got to do with self-respect?

minidazzler

RachPie wrote: »

Being one of the select few old romantic types that are left in this world, along with some form of respect for myself - nah lad. Thrill of the chase and all that!

Is that saying people who have sex on the first date have no respect for themselves?

Personally, I respect people who don't deny themselves the pleasures they want more than those who do.

kfallon

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

Exactly. And as someone else has already said, women have needs too. If a woman wants to have sex she can have it, she shouldn't have to deny herself just because the man she's dating (or anyone else for that matter) might think it's off-putting.

Well said, if it's two consenting adults then what's the problem. Everyone has needs and there should be no hang ups about jumping into bed with someone if both (or possibly more) parties are up for it (oooo matron)

Carlos_Ray

Yes, but it would also be the last date. I prefer women that are a bit of a challenge and have a bit of class about them. Men are hunters. Whats the point of being a hunter if your prey throws itself at you? A meal worked for always tastes better.

starlit

steve06 wrote: »

Bit of oral?

No. They be lucky to get a kiss if we click! The guy might be lucky enough to get hj but thats about it!

ibarelycare

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

Yes, but it would also be the last date. I prefer women that are a bit of a challenge and have a bit of class about them. Men are hunters. Whats the point of being a hunter if your prey throws itself at you? A meal worked for always tastes better.

Lol....:rolleyes:

Celly Smunt

snuggles285 wrote: »

No. They be lucky to get a kiss if we click! The guy might be lucky enough to get hj but thats about it!

thats a chance i'm willing to take

minidazzler

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

Yes, but it would also be the last date. I prefer women that are a bit of a challenge and have a bit of class about them. Men are hunters. Whats the point of being a hunter if your prey throws itself at you? A meal worked for always tastes better.

You are a very odd man? You would give up the chance to be with a girl who is comfortable enough with herself to have sex on the first date and never see her again?

It's not a hunt to get women, they like sex too, if you're doing it right. I pity your view of women.

WindSock

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

Yes, but it would also be the last date. I prefer women that are a bit of a challenge and have a bit of class about them. Men are hunters. Whats the point of being a hunter if your prey throws itself at you? A meal worked for always tastes better.

Oh yeah.

...And Women are gatherers and like to collect as many nuts as possible...

kfallon

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

Whats the point of being a hunter if your prey throws itself at you? A meal worked for always tastes better.

Once got 2 Big Macs for the price of 1, the free one tasted just as good as the other one

starlit

pmcmahon wrote: »

thats a chance i'm willing to take

:eek:

Celly Smunt

snuggles285 wrote: »

:eek:

i'll show you loving baby

RachPie

If it's a first date, chances are you hardly know the person? Personally, and note the use of personally here, I prefer to get to know someone before I do anything like that with them. I'm not one for one night stands, but I'm not a prude. I think too highly of myself to throw myself around like that. But I couldn't really care if anyone else does, just the way I am!

starlit

pmcmahon wrote: »

i'll show you loving baby

:rolleyes:

Thomas828

I'm not sure I'd even kiss on a first date. But then maybe that's just me.

Celly Smunt

RachPie wrote: »

If it's a first date, chances are you hardly know the person? Personally, and note the use of personally here, I prefer to get to know someone before I do anything like that with them. I'm not one for one night stands, but I'm not a prude. I think too highly of myself to throw myself around like that. But I couldn't really care if anyone else does, just the way I am!

tight.

RachPie

I don't deny myself anything. It's all down to personal choice, I don't care if you do or you don't, I just think too highly of myself to jump into bed with someone I hardly know.

Celly Smunt

snuggles285 wrote: »

:rolleyes:

you like mountain strolls?

Celly Smunt

RachPie wrote: »

I don't deny myself anything. It's all down to personal choice, I don't care if you do or you don't, I just think too highly of myself to jump into bed with someone I hardly know.

its just skin and cum..