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Would You Have Sex On A First Date

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    #92
    Rabies
    Registered Users Posts: 15,258 ✭✭✭✭Rabies


    Yup.
    Do it often. I don't view the girl any different if its the first date and we end up in bed. We both want it, so its fine.
    Girls need sex too. They like to get off just as much as we do. But we can be a little bit more forward on the matter.


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    #93
    homerun_homer
    Registered Users Posts: 7,025 ✭✭✭homerun_homer


    Yes. It's happened on dates and non-dates.

    If it was someone I really liked and wanted to see something long term happen then I would appreciate it not happening so soon.


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    #94
    NothingMan
    Registered Users Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    snyper wrote: »
    Sex, isnt a target


    I don't know, I often aim for various parts of her.


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    #95
    Motley Crue
    Registered Users Posts: 6,382 ✭✭✭Motley Crue


    Great conversation in this thread. Nice to see it has sparked some debate, and some damn funny comments, but in all seriousness I'm quite literally ashamed at the guy who said that relationships start with sex go nowhere.

    For one, I've been dating the same girl for 5 years....going on six...I'm living with her, and that relationship started with sex....and continued with it as well:eek:

    And my friend told me yesterday he met a girl on holiday, slept with her, and the word he used is that he is now 'mesmerized' with her and hasn't felt the same about a girl in years. The fact she lives across the other side of the country hasn't stopped him, and he's counting the days until she, ahem, comes. They really like each other and its going really well for him. I personally have never seen him happier and I've known him since we were 12.

    And I bet the girl from the other story would let you sleep with her on the first date - except you'd have to pay 4.5K


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    #96
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    snuggles285 wrote: »
    sex on a first date....NEVER!:eek:
    Bit of oral?


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    #97
    Apolloyon
    Registered Users Posts: 322 ✭✭Apolloyon


    No. I like to take things slow and get to know her first. I'm just old-fashioned I guess!


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    #98
    Uriel.
    Registered Users Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭Uriel.


    Yes and have previously.

    No issue with it. No issue with waiting for it either. No negative opinion of a girl who sleeps with someone on a first date.

    Sure it's all a bit of fun. The poster who said, there is nowhere for a relationship to go after sex, needs to put his Jedi costume away.


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    #99
    beans
    Registered Users Posts: 1,886 ✭✭✭beans


    Sex first, then first date


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    #100
    kfallon
    Registered Users Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    Defo sex on the first date...and maybe a little tugjob in the morn from her....as a 'thank you'!!!


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    #101
    Viper_JB
    Registered Users Posts: 1,260 ✭✭✭Viper_JB


    Motley Crue wrote: »
    And my friend told me yesterday he met a girl on holiday, slept with her, and the word he used is that he is now 'mesmerized' with her and hasn't felt the same about a girl in years. The fact she lives across the other side of the country hasn't stopped him, and he's counting the days until she, ahem, comes. They really like each other and its going really well for him. I personally have never seen him happier and I've known him since we were 12.

    While I'm honestly the worst person in the world for it, I think situations like this have a tendency for creating the whole "candle that burns twice as bright for half as long" or at least it has in my experience, unexpectedly sleep with someone on first night...feel just like the best in the world the day after, then after a few weeks it's pretty much ssdd again.


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    #102
    WindSock
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    10th date. Each date leading up to it must be more exciting and expensive than the last so it can build up to an exciting crescendo of disappointment when we finally hop in the sack :cool:


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    #103
    arybvtcw0eolkf
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    Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.


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    #104
    Abrasax
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    WindSock wrote: »
    10th date. Each date leading up to it must be more exciting and expensive than the last so it can build up to an exciting crescendo of disappointment when we finally hop in the sack :cool:


    10 dates, each more expensive than the last?

    High maintenance much?


    I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.


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    #105
    Uriel.
    Registered Users Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭Uriel.


    Amia High Bellows wrote: »
    Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.

    Eugh, just threw up in my mouth :p


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    #106
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Amia High Bellows wrote: »
    Sure, but it doesn't & can not compare to sex in a loving relationship.
    quit it... making love is only an expression that 15/16yr old girls use so they don't feel like tarts when they sleep with someone.

    Sex is sex!


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    #107
    Uriel.
    Registered Users Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭Uriel.


    Abrasax wrote: »
    I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.

    mmmm might be an issue for the girl, just sleeping on your first date is not gonna leave much of an impression. Sounds kinda boring, would you not even stretch to a bowl of soup in a local coffee shop then go home for a nap?? :P


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    #108
    arybvtcw0eolkf
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    Uriel. wrote: »
    Eugh, just threw up in my mouth :p

    Thats always an option too - but I hate a spitter.


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    #109
    Abrasax
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    Uriel. wrote: »
    just sleeping on your first date is not gonna leave much of an impression. Sounds kinda boring,

    Speak for yourself.


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    #110
    YFlyer
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    kfallon wrote: »
    Defo sex on the first date...and maybe a little tugjob in the morn from her....as a 'thank you'!!!

    I like the wake up calls myself.


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    #111
    Abrasax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 977 ✭✭✭Abrasax


    YFlyer wrote: »
    I like the wake up calls myself.

    If that was my wake up call, I'd keep hitting the snooze-button.


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    #112
    Celly Smunt
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    Abrasax wrote: »
    If that was my wake up call, I'd keep hitting the snooze-button.
    yeah just punch her in the face and tell her to get the fúck


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    #113
    Abrasax
    Closed Accounts Posts: 977 ✭✭✭Abrasax


    pmcmahon wrote: »
    yeah just punch her in the face and tell her to get the fúck
    Not quite what I meant.


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    #114
    kfallon
    Registered Users Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    When the alarm goes off she should know it's time to reach for the baby oil!

    Even better is when they start yanking you off as you're still asleep, wake up to a lovely little treat!


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    #115
    WindSock
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    I'm male. So, yeah, sleeping on the first date wouldn't be an issue.

    Shouldn't be an issue for anyone if that's what both parties want.


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    #116
    weiland79
    Registered Users Posts: 3,307 ✭✭✭weiland79


    I was on a first date last night. We were at it like animals all night in my car. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K45o6hEY97Y


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    #117
    Abrasax
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    WindSock wrote: »
    Shouldn't be an issue for anyone if that's what both parties want.

    Well then, assuming that's what both parties want, I'd have no issue with it.


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    #118
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    The girl I am currently "whatevering" with, not sure what to call it TBH, I had sex with before I went on a date with her, then asked her on a date.

    So, Yeah, I would have sex on the first date.


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    #119
    arybvtcw0eolkf
    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    minidazzler wrote: »
    The girl I am currently "whatevering" with, not sure what to call it TBH, I had sex with before I went on a date with her, then asked her on a date.

    So, Yeah, I would have sex on the first date.

    You'd sex with her before the first date ya durty pagan fooker :p

    'High Five' [Jedward style].


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    #120
    Bob the Seducer
    Registered Users Posts: 1,178 ✭✭✭Bob the Seducer


    This is really a thinly-veiled, who's up for a one night stand survey, isn't it? :pac:


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    #121
    minidazzler
    Registered Users Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Amia High Bellows wrote: »
    You'd sex with her before the first date ya durty pagan fooker :p

    'High Five' [Jedward style].

    And for Maximum epicniess, first time was on a Ferris wheel at Oxegen. I hate that it was because it sounds unbelievable! ha


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