Nightclub advice

stupidusername

My advice would be to come off completely uninterested in everything going on around you. Enjoy yourself, and chat to your friends, and let all pressure that's on you go for the night. If you see someone you like, talk to them. If you want to do more, then do.




But do wear that green hat. That sounds sexy

And I wouldn't consider being the type of person to have one night stands as being something to aspire to....

Sod'o swords

Stay around till the end, when hope seems lost don't forget the half two rule many lads go by.

LC2010HIS

Sod'o swords wrote: »

Stay around till the end, when hope seems lost don't forget the half two rule many lads go by.

please explain this rule?
(I am a girl :rolleyes:)

johnmcdnl

just takes a bit of confidence if your a girl... if you want to pull for the sake of pulling just chance that drunken eijit falling round the place... if you want something a bit class it's just gonna be the same pretty much...

90% of lads aren't too fussy unless their taken - just go and have a good time and you'll get lucky if you try too.. a few drinks and it'll get rid of any nerves... just go with it and try to be confident and you'll get what you what :pac::pac::D:D

but the main thing - have fun

vipervillain

ahhhhh the half 2 rule
many a night you find yourself standing on the bar

highlydebased

You'll be pulled without even trying.

Just have fun!

LC2010HIS

You know when you hear guys saying like 'ahh I was so **** faced last night I shouldn't have ****ed that girl,'





....I could be that mistake!


:D:DGotta love Superbad

stupidusername

LC2010HIS wrote: »

You know when you hear guys saying like 'ahh I was so **** faced last night I shouldn't have ****ed that girl,'





....I could be that mistake!

Again, is this an ambition...?

LC2010HIS

stupidusername wrote: »

Again, is this an ambition...?

just joking :D ...i thought it was funny:(:)

Cullen82

Think we should get back to putting more Emphasis on the green hat, Not sure it's being taken serious at all ffs

Donkey Oaty

Cullen82 wrote: »

Think we should get back to putting more Emphasis on the green hat, Not sure it's being taken serious at all ffs

Cullen82, he no speak with forked tongue.

Edward de Bono's approach from "Six thinking hats: an essential approach to business management" has some interesting things to say about green hats.

Wiki summary:

Green hat – New Ideas
This is the hat of thinking new thoughts. It is based around the idea of provocation and thinking for the sake of identifying new possibilities.

i.e, smoking area. QED.

Cullen82

Donkey Oaty wrote: »

Cullen82, he no speak with forked tongue.

Edward de Bono's approach from "Six thinking hats: an essential approach to business management" has some interesting things to say about green hats.

Wiki summary:



i.e, smoking area. QED.

Nice;)

Can't believe you googled it though:pac::pac::pac:

Donkey Oaty

Cullen82 wrote: »

Nice;)

Can't believe you googled it though:pac::pac::pac:

How very dare you...`tis in my memory, as is the Wiki summary.

DB10

If it comes to the point where you're trying to pull lads on your own at any stage, ALWAYS try the lads on their own first, before you start chatting to groups of them.

I say this as a lad. Say you go up to a group of 5 lads, who will most likely have been drinking, it only takes one snide comment to piss you off!

Far better trying to get random lads on their own, save the feeling your being watched or he is dragged away.

LC2010HIS

Cullen82 wrote: »

Fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinally found some sense and coming around to the idea of the green hat? Just wear one, you'll find out the same way I did. Aw the memories

you cannot be serious!
in a club? i do have a hairstyle in mind :rolleyes:

Gummy Panda

Just say the lads you like that, "you make me slit tingle!!"

RachPie

Just be yourself, be outgoing, make eye contact with lads and if you're in the smokin area especially if you see them lookin at you go up and randomly strike up a convo. It always works for me! Relax, have fun and enjoy yourself - then even if you dont pull at least you had an awesome night with your friends!

Cullen82

ElaElaElano wrote: »

Hang on...

Are you insinuating that the op should wear a green hat?

That sounds like something, someone that has worn a green hat would say;)

LC2010HIS

Cullen82 wrote: »

Listen lovely, "Almost" everyone has a hairstyle. It's all about the green hat - Are ya getting the idea yet?

not really it wouldnt go with my outfit:)

Overature

go up and talk to somebody, make conversation

Cullen82

LC2010HIS wrote: »

not really it wouldnt go with my outfit:)

I should be online after your *nigh tout for a shoulder to cry on if you like.



*no such thing as a successful night on the pull without the green hat.

Donkey Oaty

Cullen82 wrote: »

We'll see about that - What colour is a Leprechauns hat??

Cocked (citation needed).

Cullen82

Donkey Oaty wrote: »

Cocked (citation needed).

It's green, Can't believe you did'nt get that one

Donkey Oaty

Cullen82 wrote: »

It's green, Can't believe you did'nt get that one

Not enough for it to be green. It must be cocked at a jaunty angle, otherwise leprechauns would be mistaken for these green-hatted fellows:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special_Forces_(United_States_Army)

Edit: OP, in the smoking area you'll witness banter of this type. As you read it, practice looking cool, sophisticated and up for it.

LC2010HIS

how can u tell which fellas are single?

LC2010HIS

Cullen82 wrote: »

I should be online after your *nigh tout for a shoulder to cry on if you like.



*no such thing as a successful night on the pull without the green hat.

haha ok u can be an assigned shoulder :P

Donkey Oaty

LC2010HIS wrote: »

how can u tell which fellas are single?

Picky, eh?

LC2010HIS

Donkey Oaty wrote: »

Picky, eh?

i do NOT wanna get smacked down in this nightclub, believe me!! :rolleyes:
One of my friends got bitch slapped for bumping into a guy who stumbled infront of her. His gf was not happy as she stumbled around drunk tryna slap her!!:P

dabbido

OP
if this club you're going to is like any one i've ever been to before, lads will outnumber girls by 2 or 3 to 1. just get on the dancefloor with you're mates and in no time ye'll be surrounded by any amount of lads who would eat the face off anything in a skirt...
Happy hunting!

Scan Man

Think Contraception

http://www.crisispregnancy.ie/think.html

ElaElaElano

Only one word is going through my head as I read this thread.

Brummyfúckin'tom.

Seriously lads, let's club together, cheap ryanair flight, bob's yer uncle.

Cullen82

ElaElaElano wrote: »

Seriously lads, let's club together, cheap ryanair flight,Green hats, bob's yer uncle.

Yeah I'm in:D

ElaElaElano

Cullen82 wrote: »

Yeah I'm in:D

I think you need to lay off the green leaves, never mind hats.

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

how can u tell which fellas are single?

you can never tell by looking at them. you'd need to ask them or else suss out if they have a girlfriend in the background! sometimes you can tell how they approach you, how they chat too you is sometimes an indicator but not bullet proof unless they tell you they are single even at that you may or may not know if they are telling the truth or not!

smash

LC2010HIS wrote: »

I need advice on how to pull or get pulled!

Short skirt, no knickers!

And get a wax.

LC2010HIS

lol ok its almost d-night!! :eek: have nothing to wear!! ****é!

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

lol ok its almost d-night!! :eek: have nothing to wear!! ****é!

a nice dress just above the knees is nice! shows a bit of mystery yet shows off da legs! but wear some undies though! you'd get a way with no tights tis quiet humid!:cool:

Tigger

Perfect

smash

snuggles285 wrote: »

but wear some undies though!

Spoil Sport

LC2010HIS

im wondering - are leggings acceptable? literally - all i have right now

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

im wondering - are leggings acceptable? literally - all i have right now

you could wear leggings under a short dress. i'd often wear those kinda things myself. really comfy. and if your a bit shy about showing off the legs then leggings are perfect.

starlit

steve06 wrote: »

Spoil Sport

rogue! going commando for a girl is not an option if she wears a dress! :rolleyes:
Dignity is the key, the OP doesn't need to be branded by guys just cause of what she wears or doesn't wear! Classy, fashionable and pleasing to the eye and nicely presented, goes to show being nicely dressed goes a long way!:D

Newtown90

Sounds grand!

Come here, dance and have the crack on the dancefloor, and if a guy does show interest be confident and don't play hard to get, trust me we hate it!...

Used be like yourself until two years ago, except i was no good with the women!

Showed a bit of confidence and some moves and have never looked back!

Main thing "Enjoy yourself!"...

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

im wondering - are leggings acceptable? literally - all i have right now

tunic top/short dress and leggings(tight! ) are nice to wear in the summer especially when its humid. if you are daring you could chance a hot pants(with flesh colored tights) and halter neck (might satisfy steve06's mind!:p)

Bonito

LC2010HIS wrote: »

if only i were brave enough for one night stands :rolleyes:

This. Don't do this. You'd most likely get more enjoyment havin' a go of yourself when you get home than bringing a chap home who's off his trolley with drink.

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

ok at the risk of sounding like a starter nun, i only wanna get a number and few kisses - god im so frigid :rolleyes: i sound like im 16 at a GAA disco

best way to be girl!

LC2010HIS wrote: »

if only i were brave enough for one night stands :rolleyes:

seriously do not under any circumstances do this! guys will respect you more if you haven't engagged in the likes of one night stands!

guys categorise girls in different ways...the friend, friend with benefits, easy chick, the girlfriend, the girl they bring home to meet mammy, the girl they will settle down with/marry/have kids with [may not all apply, but some or all might] etc...which would you like to be classed as? just think about it, how do you want guys to think of you?

guys will respect you alot more if you respect yourself no matter how hard they try to gear you off track! know your own mind and not let them interfere with your decision making whether they think its right or wrong! don't ever let a guy put you under pressure to do anything you don't want to do. you are at an age where you like to experiment, just take your time on that. you have loads of time to have fun and enjoy yourself without getting hung up on the complexities of men and women relationships.....

anyways, hope you enjoy yourself let your hair down. and most importantly be yourself! guys will like you more for that. be confident, smile and chat to them. even the word hello would be enough to set them fluttering!

LC2010HIS

just had a look at my wardrobe - i have plain tops and print tops......:rolleyes:


so.....how bou jeans and top??

snuggles285

snuggles285 wrote: »

seriously do not under any circumstances do this! guys will respect you more if you haven't engagged in the likes of one night stands!

Any guy who thinks less of you for doing the same thing as them can feck off.
Think of it as a filter for idiots.

guys categorise girls in different ways...the friend, friend with benefits, easy chick, the girlfriend, the girl they bring home to meet mammy, the girl they will settle down with/marry/have kids with [may not all apply, but some or all might] etc...which would you like to be classed as? just think about it, how do you want guys to think of you?

With basic respect and not double standards.

guys will respect you alot more if you respect yourself no matter how hard they try to gear you off track!

Well this is always true. It's not mutually exclusive with having ONS though

know your own mind and not let them interfere with your decision making whether they think its right or wrong!

lol? Irony much?

Bonito

I'd much rather a girl who wants a chat than one who wants to lob the gob and be a prick tease and then fúck off at the end of the night.

This is why I don't go out much. I'm a boring aul bastard. Now, where's my slippers?

starlit

LC2010HIS wrote: »

just had a look at my wardrobe - i have plain tops and print tops......:rolleyes:


so.....how bou jeans and top??

sounds good. what colour are the plain tops? what kind of prints are on the tops? one striking item of clothing is good. often the plain tops are good cause you'd get more wear out of them. what kind of jeans have you in mind? if its white ditch it! I don't want to be bragging, I'm sure the lads love this...usually what goes is you have a top that shows a bit of flesh and cover the legs or cover up on top and expose the legs...(often figures out which guys are ass/boob man or both!). usually if its one or the other all over then you be branded whatever...