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Larianne · 22-06-2011 7:43pm

Justask wrote: »

I mean 18/19 year olds contacting late 30's woman

I meant the ladies will have a place of their own, whereas the 18/19 years old may still be living at home.

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 7:50pm

Dammit.

Why did you lot not tell me about OKC before i decide to give the sites a break??

So far i'm having really nice chats with people. Real people. And they don't appear to be boardsies either!!

I joined it yesterday and sent out about 10 mails between today and yesterday. So far i'm on replies from 4 ladies.

That's like twice the amount of non boardsie chats i've had on POF. for a SHEDLOAD less mails!

GRRRRRRRRR

:mad::mad::mad:

That_Guy · 22-06-2011 7:58pm

OK Cupid seems to have a lot less traffic on it but I've noticed that people tend to reply back more on OKC myself.

Gillo · 22-06-2011 7:59pm

I shows a lot of people who haven't logged in in ages though.

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:02pm

gatecrash wrote: »

Reply back with a 'when & where'

That'll sort the men from the boys

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:06pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Ah that's just being a jackass.

Unless he is breaking open the piggybank right now that is.

That_Guy · 22-06-2011 8:08pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Give it a day or two. If he doesn't message you back he's probably not that bothered unfortunately.

stupidusername · 22-06-2011 8:08pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

could mean he's checking out when he can do it.. or he's buying time to consider if he wants to go out with you.

Justask · 22-06-2011 8:11pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Thats just taking the piss

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:12pm

gatecrash wrote: »

Ah that's just being a jackass.

Unless he is breaking open the piggybank right now that is.

he has a savage Audi and a dacent job so i doubt that

(and i know this from friends who know him)

That_Guy wrote: »

Give it a day or two. If he doesn't message you back he's probably not that bothered unfortunately.

Ah he aint stopped really messaging me unless hes offline haha

stupidusername wrote: »

could mean he's checking out when he can do it.. or he's buying time to consider if he wants to go out with you.

That could be very true

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:13pm

Justask wrote: »

Thats just taking the piss

i think wexford guys like playing mind games

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:17pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

he has a savage Audi and a dacent job so i doubt that
(and i know this from friends who know him)

I have a decent job too, but at the end of the month sometimes i'm kinda counting the pennies until payday....

By the way, is it Friday yet??

Kya1976 · 22-06-2011 8:18pm

gatecrash wrote: »

and speaking as a bloke in his mid 30's there is NOTHING wrong with women in their 30's!!

Well of course not:cool::P

Corsendonk wrote: »

If you both fancy each other and have that spark whats age got to do with it is my thinking.

I agree,:) I've dated younger men and men around my own age. Age makes no difference to me really.

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:19pm

gatecrash wrote: »

I have a decent job too, but at the end of the month sometimes i'm kinda counting the pennies until payday....

By the way, is it Friday yet??

Neaaarrly

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:30pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

Neaaarrly

I wouldn't write him off until the far side of the weekend.

and if you know people who know him, why not use them for an arranged informal meetup??
Few drinks with mutual friends rather than a proper date type of thing.... might be easier.
You could share the pizza on the way home!!

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:33pm

ah ill give him a bit longer.. hes off away this weekend so he cant and im working anyway so i cant

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:34pm

amandaf675 wrote: »

ah ill give him a bit longer.. hes off away this weekend so he cant and im working anyway so i cant

Well there ya have it.

He's away + you are working = He'll get back to you.

No need to worry

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:42pm

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies

:D;)

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:43pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies :D;)

Hi D, welcome back!!

Any joy yourself?

amandaf675 · 22-06-2011 8:44pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies :D;)

Ah if he is he is, haha im not too bothered

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:45pm

Damn Ive been mailing this guy back and forth this evening, he asked about a date, checked out his profile again and noticed I had overlooked something originally in his marital status, woudl never normally have mailed him back if I had noticed this before

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:45pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

Damn Ive been mailing this guy back and forth this evening, he asked about a date, checked out his profile again and noticed I had overlooked something originally in his marital status, woudl never normally have mailed him back if I had noticed this before

What? As in he is??

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:46pm

gatecrash wrote: »

Hi D, welcome back!!

Any joy yourself?

Hiya GC

see my previous post, I'm a disaster!:rolleyes:

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:47pm

gatecrash wrote: »

What? As in he is??

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

ToniTuddle · 22-06-2011 8:48pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

Yeah but even if they have never been married they still could have a psycho crazy ex....

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:49pm

ToniTuddle wrote: »

Yeah but even if they have never been married they still could have a psycho crazy ex....

True but was so disappointed when I noticed that

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:49pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

Denisejcc · 22-06-2011 8:52pm

gatecrash wrote: »

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

I know its just the whole divorcee thing and all the baggage that goes with that

cyrusdvirus · 22-06-2011 8:55pm

Denisejcc wrote: »

I know its just the whole divorcee thing and all the baggage that goes with that

If it's amicable, and just a matter of signing a piece of paper, all the financial stuff has been dealt with ages ago.

i wouldn't rule it out.... not until you find out the story.

And that means a face to face meet up.

Anyone around our age will have baggage D.

feck it, even the girl 8 years younger than me that i'm mailing is bound to have some baggage!!

Larianne · 22-06-2011 8:55pm

gatecrash wrote: »

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

Yeah that's true but if she's going into a dating scenario with someone she already has doubts about/not her thing, then what's the point? It's getting the guys hopes up and wasting her time.

Go with your gut Denise. I've twice put my feelings aside when friends had said to me "give him a chance" etc. etc. when I knew myself it wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. :cool:

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