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    #5702
    Misticles
    Registered Users Posts: 13,746 ✭✭✭✭Misticles


    so how is everyones quest going?

    Havnt stopped by in a while :D


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    #5703
    cyrusdvirus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,752 ✭✭✭cyrusdvirus


    I've just chanced my arm with a R.L. 3D person.

    Bloody annoyed with myself now, cos i get the distinct impression that she's a gonna say no! :(


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    #5704
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,109 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    gatecrash wrote: »
    I've just chanced my arm with a R.L. 3D person.


    This is the online dating forum - go away with your real life people!! ;):D

    She wont say no!


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    #5705
    cyrusdvirus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,752 ✭✭✭cyrusdvirus


    Misticles wrote: »
    so how is everyones quest going?

    Havnt stopped by in a while :D

    I've left Internet dating world for a bit of a break, and am having as much success in 3d world.......which is to say none.

    Denise has left the thread after a Mod spat and i've no idea how she's getting on

    Snoopy is totally loved up and drops by to say hi every once in a while

    The rest can tell you about them selves!! :)


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    #5706
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    gatecrash wrote: »
    I've just chanced my arm with a R.L. 3D person.

    Bloody annoyed with myself now, cos i get the distinct impression that she's a gonna say no! :(

    If you're not in it, you can't win it!! :pac:


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    #5707
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    gatecrash wrote: »
    I've just chanced my arm with a R.L. 3D person.

    Bloody annoyed with myself now, cos i get the distinct impression that she's a gonna say no! :(


    IF you that impression, if a woman on a dating site gives me that,
    kinda cold shoulder i just sat on a
    Butt Plug
    type of vibe thingy...

    Tho saying that I think the number 1 attibute about online dating and approach is simple don't care about them or the reply... Because at the end of the day they could as sooner be in your life as they are out of it.


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    #5708
    premierlass
    Registered Users Posts: 156 ✭✭premierlass


    So, I got about three messages from someone on OKCupid who had virtually nothing on his profile though he said maybe I would induce him to get a full membership :rolleyes:, and that he was looking for "fun with no complications". So I ignored his messages until I got another one today, and I was irritated enough to reply pointing out that we were obviously looking for different things, and I got this passive aggresive reply back.
    Hello and thank you for replying. Yes, I am looking for some fun and no complications... are you looking for boring time and a lot of complications instead? ;-) I do not think so....

    Ladies and gentlemen - I think I've just encountered my first negging. Let's just say it's a good thing for him that he didn't get to try that in person.


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    #5709
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    premierlass wrote: »



    Ladies and gentlemen - I think I've just encountered my first negging. Let's just say it's a good thing for him that he didn't get to try that in person.


    Its good that you think that's negging....

    :D


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    #5710
    starviewadams
    Registered Users Posts: 6,116 ✭✭✭starviewadams


    Got my first message from a nice sounding/looking girl on plentyoffish,plus her profile isn't written in txt speak which is a good sign!

    Shall see how things go.


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    #5711
    premierlass
    Registered Users Posts: 156 ✭✭premierlass


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Its good that you think that's negging....

    :D

    Aw come on, it's a little more subtle than your average, but still negging I think. :)


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    #5712
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Negging:
    Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances.

    I learned something new today.


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    #5713
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Galvasean wrote: »
    Negging:
    Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances.

    I learned something new today.

    Ha, just looked that up too !


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    #5714
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Its good that you think that's negging....

    :D


    that's neg ^

    Its a form of patronising/sarcasm.. Its like if you make fun of a girls hair she says ( i think my hairs nice...)

    One would reply: Its good that you think that....
    premierlass wrote: »
    Aw come on, it's a little more subtle than your average, but still negging I think. :)

    I like the sopund of a fishing box filled with concrete and the Atlantic... :pac:
    Honestly if he thinks that highly of him self why is he on a dating site ;)

    Galv
    Negging:
    Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances.

    I wouldn't say so maybe some Wannabe psycho bablist would but I would say its more a form of sarcasm/patronising... In a playfull way any idiot who wants to bye into the Hole quote above can but its far from it they just like the sound of there own voices :pac:


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    #5715
    cyrusdvirus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,752 ✭✭✭cyrusdvirus


    meanwhile in 3d land i wait for 5.00 and the increased flow of alcohol into my bloodstream to ease the rejection bit again!! :):D

    It really is a good thing that i tend not to take myself too seriously!!

    Or should that be IS IT really a good thing etc... ?

    Hmmm..

    Ah well, it's Friday. That means things can only get better. For 2 days.


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    #5716
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    you don't need a drink


    O no you don't

    128768964165979945.jpg


    I couldnt find one with ari gold :(

    so this will have to do :/


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    #5717
    cyrusdvirus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,752 ✭✭✭cyrusdvirus


    Hugging Pussy's or beer?

    hmmmm....... decisions decisions......


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    #5718
    Lord TSC
    Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 42,454 Mod ✭✭✭✭Lord TSC


    Do people put Dublin down for convience or is every girl on OKCupid living in Dublin <_<


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    #5719
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    gatecrash wrote: »
    Hugging Pussy's or beer?

    hmmmm....... decisions decisions......


    we'll get you a heiniken keg and some klenex :p


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    #5720
    Kinski
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,555 ✭✭✭Kinski


    Teamshadowclan wrote: »
    Do people put Dublin down for convience or is every girl on OKCupid living in Dublin <_<

    Putting down Dublin wouldn't be very convenient if you didn't live in Dublin or at least in the commuter belt. Are you trying POF too? There's probably a greater geographical spread on there. Though 'tis an ugly site compared to OKC...oh, and how bad does OKC wanna be the Facebook of online dating!


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    #5721
    billy the squid
    Registered Users Posts: 12,811 ✭✭✭✭billy the squid


    Anyone ried the mobiile apps. The okc one ia horrificly slow


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    #5722
    2 Miles From Narnia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 188 ✭✭2 Miles From Narnia


    I just got an email from a guy who is married, but apparently it's not a problem as his wife is bi and it could be an adventure for all of us.


    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:


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    #5723
    2 Miles From Narnia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 188 ✭✭2 Miles From Narnia


    2 Miles From Narnia wrote: »
    Got a date tonight, wish me luck! My expectations aren't too high but I reckon that's a good thing because in the past I've managed to build up things in my head that don't live up to it.
    ecoli wrote: »
    Just relax and have fun remember the other person has already said yes going on your pictures and talking to you so the hard work is done. You dont need to impress but rather just be yourself.
    Worst case there is no spark you are not committed to seeing them again so just see how it goes


    Went ok, had a couple of pints and he walked me to the bus stop. He was very cute, much better looking than his photos... but no spark. He did talk non-stop though, might have just been nerves but I'd say the conversation split was about 90% him to 10% me.:pac:


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    #5724
    MudSkipper
    Registered Users Posts: 556 ✭✭✭MudSkipper


    late night, tipsy messaging on PoF......... I expect to either crinnge at myself tomorrow or get a date out of it....... both if im really lucky

    /also just spotted what i'm certain is my first fellow boardsie PoF'er


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    #5725
    Novella
    Registered Users Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I got 2 boardsie messages on PoF yesterday ^_^


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    #5726
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    6 hour long first date. that don't usually happen :)


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    #5727
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    10 euros galva got a kiss last night :D


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    #5728
    The Gnome
    Registered Users Posts: 1,403 ✭✭✭The Gnome


    Galvasean wrote: »
    6 hour long first date. that don't usually happen :)

    I see your 6 hours and raise you 30. Date was on Thursday, got home half an hour ago... :D


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    #5729
    AnnyHallsal
    Registered Users Posts: 4,117 ✭✭✭AnnyHallsal


    The Gnome wrote: »
    I see your 6 hours and raise you 30. Date was on Thursday, got home half an hour ago... :D

    Holy God .. bet you're moving in together now :pac:


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    #5730
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    10 euros galva got a kiss last night :D

    Not one.


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    #5731
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Galvasean wrote: »
    Not one.

    :confused: why ? i mean 6 hours on a first date is a long time. most times in that situation a good face wearing of comp is a good way to end the night. :pac:


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