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    #812
    Earthhorse
    Registered Users Posts: 14,714 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    liah wrote: »
    Mine's a pretty even split in terms of gender.. think they all hate me though :o

    Just noticed you snuck into my top ten, which is odd as I thought the results were frozen in time. Does this mean you hate me? :pac:


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    #813
    liah
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    Earthhorse wrote: »
    Just noticed you snuck into my top ten, which is odd as I thought the results were frozen in time. Does this mean you hate me? :pac:

    Nah, I don't hate :p It's just, my top ten are kind of an odd combination. Some are expected but others I've had little to no (positive, anyway :pac:) interaction with. Still not quite sure how that works!


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    #814
    parker kent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    Is Liah in every person on Boards Top 10? I thought I was special :(:pac:


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    #815
    Earthhorse
    Registered Users Posts: 14,714 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    It's PMs and thanks. So either they sent you hatemail or thanked your posts ironically.


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    #816
    liah
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    I don't get much PM hatemail (a bit on other sites though) so I guess a lot of people are thanking ironically.

    Oh well, at least my ratio goes up? :pac:


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    #817
    Earthhorse
    Registered Users Posts: 14,714 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    liah wrote: »
    I don't get much PM hatemail...

    PM sent.
    Oh well, at least my ratio goes up? :pac:

    Sure it does, liah, sure it does.


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    #818
    Maguined
    Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    I really don't think that match thing is based on pm's or thanks, Galvasean shot straight up into my number one spot despite me thanking and pm'ing other people way more.

    Also liah is my number three, she is in everyones lists! :pac:


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    #819
    Screaminmidget
    Registered Users Posts: 2,059 ✭✭✭Screaminmidget


    Maguined wrote: »
    I really don't think that match thing is based on pm's or thanks, Galvasean shot straight up into my number one spot despite me thanking and pm'ing other people way more.

    Also liah is my number three, she is in everyones lists! :pac:

    Its a combination of thanking posts, how many times ye quoted eachother, pms and profile visits...


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    #820
    The_Morrigan
    Registered Users Posts: 9,368 ✭✭✭The_Morrigan


    Maguined wrote: »
    I really don't think that match thing is based on pm's or thanks, Galvasean shot straight up into my number one spot despite me thanking and pm'ing other people way more.

    Also liah is my number three, she is in everyones lists! :pac:

    She ain't on mine :D


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    #821
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    The_Morrigan wrote: »
    She ain't on mine :D

    MONSTER! :eek:


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    #822
    Maguined
    Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Screaminmidget wrote: »
    Its a combination of thanking posts, how many times ye quoted eachother, pms and profile visits...

    Yeah thats what everyone says but I am pretty sure there are other people I have done all of the above far more and they are either very low or not on my list at all.

    I swear Galvasean I am not stalking you and stalking your profile every fifteen minutes. :cool:


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    #823
    ToniTuddle
    Registered Users Posts: 8,964 ✭✭✭ToniTuddle


    Maguined wrote: »

    I swear Galvasean I am not stalking you and stalking your profile every fifteen minutes. :cool:


    Yeaaaah right Maggie! :pac:


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    #824
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    We now return to: Everybody Loves Galvasean :cool:


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    #825
    The_Morrigan
    Registered Users Posts: 9,368 ✭✭✭The_Morrigan


    Galvasean wrote: »
    MONSTER! :eek:


    Behave you :P


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    #826
    panda100
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,551 ✭✭✭panda100


    My boards lover Thaedyl seems to have deserted me!Has she left Boards or what?

    Galvesean and Liah are pretty high up on my list too,the boards sluts, putting their love all over the place. :)


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    #827
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Odd question I know but does any one ever feel guilty about not replying ?


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    #828
    mood
    Registered Users Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Odd question I know but does any one ever feel guilty about not replying ?

    Yes but it the best thing to do I feel. I tried replying to polity say not interested and have got nasty replies, guys begging for a chance, guys disregarding what I said. I could go on. I just have the time or desire to have to deal with all that and shouldn't be made feel I should always reply.

    I think this has already been discussed i this thread do we really need to go over it again!


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    #829
    pablomakaveli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Odd question I know but does any one ever feel guilty about not replying ?

    I do anyway. I always hate it when my messages are ignored. I know i shouldnt take it personally but sometimes its hard not to. I got a pm from a girl a few weeks ago and i knew she just wasnt my type.

    I didnt really want to ignore her message either so i replied but after a couple of messages it stopped. I dont know if its better or worse to do that but i reckon if you at least give a reply the fact their getting a response from someone might encourage them to keep trying and they might find someone that suits them eventually.

    Of course some people will say its just better to not respond at all if your not interested.


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    #830
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    my friend gf once said if you cant see your self naked with the woman then dont bother with her :D

    I d0ont mean to bring sex into the equastion but if you dont find some attractive for what ever reason... well its not really that good is it i feel guilty either way : /


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    #831
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    pablomakaveli wrote: »
    ...I do anyway...

    I mentioned my thoughts elsewhere on the thread already; you have to live according to your own standards. If you are polite and mannerly IRL, why is it important your online persona be different? If she becomes a psycho hose beast after you've tried to be civil without leading her on, you can do no more.


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    #832
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,117 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    my friend gf once said if you cant see your self naked with the woman then dont bother with her :D

    I d0ont mean to bring sex into the equastion but if you dont find some attractive for what ever reason... well its not really that good is it i feel guilty either way : /


    Yep thats my theory too. :D


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    #833
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    I feel guilty... Tho :(

    My new rules is no numbers until 2 days before the date ......

    I've got a serial texter :mad:


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    #834
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,117 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    I always text the day of the date to confirm time etc. If I dont get a reply I dont turn up! Learned that lesson the hard way! :mad:


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    #835
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    This is worse then that it's like texting none stop :mad:
    she's nice but I dunno my intuition says no :/


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    #836
    the_syco
    Registered Users Posts: 37,301 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    Galvasean wrote: »
    It has also developed an unusual tendency to recommend people to me who live in other countries.
    Aye, it seems London is less than 50KM away... according to okcupid :pac: An "only Ireland" option would be good.
    Tremelo wrote: »
    I'm starting to think that sharing mobile numbers too soon can be a problem. There's nothing worse than being pestered with texts by someone you barely know... so I've decided to cut that out a bit.
    Not got to that stage yet, but having a "weekend" phone number looks like a good idea. Have known a few people to do so, after having to get rid of their "main" phone number.
    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Odd question I know but does any one ever feel guilty about not replying ?
    No. I see no reason why I should, tbh. I once did, and they replied with more questions. I thought for a bit, and decided as most of my replies may offend, that there was no reason to reply. A lot of the times the reason why I didn't like someone who PMed me would be as they're... very big. Again, I see no reason to reply, and I do not feel guilty for not replying.

    I dislike when my messages are ignored, but at the same time, I'd prefer no contact as opposed to hostile contact.


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    #837
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    panda100 wrote: »
    Galvesean and Liah are pretty high up on my list too,the boards sluts, putting their love all over the place. :)

    And yet, we don't appear on each other's radars...
    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    my friend gf once said if you cant see your self naked with the woman then dont bother with her :D

    I d0ont mean to bring sex into the equastion but if you dont find some attractive for what ever reason... well its not really that good is it i feel guilty either way : /

    I've always maintained the opinion that if you ask someone out on a date you are, in a round about sort of way, indirectly asking them if they would like to have sex with you at some point.


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    #838
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Galvasean wrote: »



    I've always maintained the opinion that if you ask someone out on a date you are, in a round about sort of way, indirectly asking them if they would like to have sex with you at some point.


    Dude that's true I whole heartidly agree.....
    But some times they even try to start chat messages ahhhh run away....


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    #839
    Misticles
    Registered Users Posts: 13,746 ✭✭✭✭Misticles


    hhmm don't know if I should go back to this, I never find anyone I like on OK and people on POF just want to bed me :confused:


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    #840
    Galvasean
    Registered Users Posts: 30,746 ✭✭✭✭Galvasean


    Misticles wrote: »
    just want to bed me :confused:

    See my last point :pac:


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    #841
    Misticles
    Registered Users Posts: 13,746 ✭✭✭✭Misticles


    Galvasean wrote: »
    See my last point :pac:

    alas, I mean just looking for a one off ride! not interested in pursuing anything but hook ups.

    Whereas I wanna, date and have copious amounts of sex ha :D


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