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    #9452
    ladylost
    Registered Users Posts: 367 ✭✭ladylost


    MudSkipper wrote: »
    indeed, just look at me... few weeks ago was kicking myself about one that gave me her no didnt reply to my txt...... turned out I had one number wrong, we had a second date earlier and have a 3rd one arranged for next week :D

    stories like that give me a little hope.. thanks and good luck with D3


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    #9453
    zuroph
    Registered Users Posts: 11,097 ✭✭✭✭zuroph


    got shot down by my IRL date from last thurs week. told me she had a fantastic time but didnt think she had time for something right now.
    back to square one.


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    #9454
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    zuroph wrote: »
    got shot down by my IRL date from last thurs week. told me she had a fantastic time but didnt think she had time for something right now.
    back to square one.
    Is this someone you met on a dating website?


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    #9455
    zuroph
    Registered Users Posts: 11,097 ✭✭✭✭zuroph


    booboo88 wrote: »
    Is this someone you met on a dating website?

    nope, this was a friend of a friend that I took a chance on and asked out for a drink. Had heard she was looking.


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    #9456
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,117 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    zuroph wrote: »
    nope, this was a friend of a friend that I took a chance on and asked out for a drink. Had heard she was looking.

    Oi get out of here with your 'real life people' dates!! :eek:;)


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    #9457
    That_Guy
    Registered Users Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    Some of the questions on OKC are mental.
    Would you perform a "rape" act with your partner?

    WTF?


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    #9458
    The Big Red Button
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,390 ✭✭✭The Big Red Button


    I got asked if I'd be willing to cut my partner during sex if they asked me to! :confused:


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    #9459
    kieranfitz
    Registered Users Posts: 592 ✭✭✭kieranfitz


    Well thats me done, accounts on POF and OKC canceled last night.


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    #9460
    That_Guy
    Registered Users Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    kieranfitz wrote: »
    Well thats me done, accounts on POF and OKC canceled last night.

    Because of good news we hope. ;)


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    #9461
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    chatterpillar wrote: »
    I got asked if I'd be willing to cut my partner during sex if they asked me to! :confused:

    :eek:


    wtf :pac:


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    #9462
    The Big Red Button
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,390 ✭✭✭The Big Red Button


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    :eek:


    wtf :pac:

    I know!

    ... I mean, it's not like they'd need to ask! :p


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    #9463
    parker kent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    That_Guy wrote: »
    Some of the questions on OKC are mental.
    Would you perform a "rape" act with your partner?

    WTF?

    I'd say the user that submitted that has a few issues!


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    #9464
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    chatterpillar wrote: »
    I know!

    ... I mean, it's not like they'd need to ask! :p


    Chatter im seeign a whole new side of things :eek:

    to you I'm quite scared ...:eek:


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    #9465
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users Posts: 5,117 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    Snow-Monkey wrote: »
    Chatter im seeign a whole new side of things :eek:

    to you I'm quite scared ...:eek:

    Different stroke for different folks :eek:
    (Goes searching for Chatter on sites to block) :)


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    #9466
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Dovies wrote: »
    Different stroke for different folks :eek:
    (Goes searching for Chatter on sites to block) :)


    Im all for different strokes :pac:

    but theres a little bit of line there some were :)

    just i don't like blood I'm squeamish :(


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    #9467
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    That_Guy wrote: »
    Some of the questions on OKC are mental.



    WTF?

    The question I've seen is:

    "Would you consider roleplaying out a rape fantasy with partner who asked you to?"

    What's wrong it as a match question? If you're against the idea you can answer "No" and set the importance to high.


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    #9468
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    parker kent wrote: »
    I'd say the user that submitted that has a few issues!

    It's not a fantasy I share but I wouldn't assume a person who does "has issues". There's no accounting for what turns people on and deciding that anything even a little outside the norm is a mental disorder is very Irish.


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    #9469
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    PK is far from one of those people,but yeah I wouldn't consider the rape fantasy that odd


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    #9470
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    stupidusername wrote: »
    PK is far from one of those people

    Sorry yes, what I mean the attitude is the kind common in Ireland not that PK is of that mindset :D I think there's a big difference between "Not something I'm into" and "Not something I would do" as well as between those and "There's something wrong with anyone who would do it".

    Most people reflexively go for the latter when it's the most extreme position.

    The thing with the crazy questions on okc is this: If you ask 10 people to pick their top 5 crazy questions you'll get 50 different questions. If something appears crazy to you then the reason it's there is so you can filter people who don't think it's crazy (and vice-versa). If the questions were limited to thinks people broadly agree on it then it'd be useless!


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    #9471
    That_Guy
    Registered Users Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    sharper wrote: »
    The question I've seen is:

    "Would you consider roleplaying out a rape fantasy with partner who asked you to?"

    What's wrong it as a match question? If you're against the idea you can answer "No" and set the importance to high.

    Was just a bit taken aback by it. Wasn't a question that I was expecting to be honest. Just found it a tad strange but each to their own.


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    #9472
    parker kent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    sharper wrote: »
    The question I've seen is:

    "Would you consider roleplaying out a rape fantasy with partner who asked you to?"

    What's wrong it as a match question? If you're against the idea you can answer "No" and set the importance to high.

    The words "fantasy" and "roleplay" are extremely important and make that a different question to the one above. I don't give a shít what people do and I am fully aware that rape fantasies are enjoyed by many partners.

    My comment was mainly tongue in cheek anyway. Issues probably not the right word. But regardless, it is a bit odd to submit it as a match question. Roleplay like that is hardly the first thing I'd think of when starting dating, so I'd raise an eyebrow at anybody that would consider it a "must".


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    #9473
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    parker kent wrote: »
    But regardless, it is a bit odd to submit it as a match question.

    There's something like 2000 questions in there, a lot of them are awful. There's at least 10 separate questions asking how many times a day you wash/shower and a bunch with near unintelligible grammar.

    Personally I'm more taken aback by the bad grammar ones than the rape ones.

    I have mentioned I'm a bit odd already haven't I? :D


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    #9474
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    theboss85, this is a thread to discuss experiences of online dating, its not a dating site. post deleted.


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    #9475
    timmy880
    Registered Users Posts: 306 ✭✭timmy880


    2000? Jesus. I didn't think there were that many. I gave up after around 100!


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    #9476
    timmy880
    Registered Users Posts: 306 ✭✭timmy880


    Nice one Sam!

    the_boss85: cheeky fecker :)


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    #9477
    the_boss85
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭the_boss85


    Not cheeky at all! I just didn't know, it was my first post.

    Seems like all of the online dating websites have their flaws but Plenty of Fish is probably the best one to meet Irish girls??


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    #9478
    Sky King
    Registered Users Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    Well there's 632 pages of debate on that, better get reading.


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    #9479
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Wonder if King Henry met anyone in the end? :pac:


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    #9480
    managerman
    Registered Users Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    chatterpillar wrote: »
    I got asked if I'd be willing to cut my partner during sex if they asked me to! :confused:

    what was your response?!!


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    #9481
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    managerman wrote: »
    what was your response?!!

    like they'd have to ask :pac:


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