Online Dating

Justask

Larianne wrote: »

Most will have their own place.

Plus, some can be easier to giving out teh sex.

I mean 18/19 year olds contacting late 30's woman

Ah well must float some boats

cyrusdvirus

Justask wrote: »

I mean 18/19 year olds contacting late 30's woman

Ah well must float some boats

some like that kinda thing...

As i said a few pages back, apparently i'm toyboy/cougar material cos the last 5 of 6 women on POF who have checked me out without me visiting their profile or writing are all 10-15 years older than me.

And maybe the 18/19 yr old blokes are playing on the fact that they are at their sexual peak at that stage, and as larianne said, some women might like that sort of action

Justask

Think i'll stick to my own age group

Oh god that such an ole one thing to say :eek::D

Hansanter

Hey All, I'm new to this online dating stuff. I've gathered what POF is but what site is OKC ? I've been looking through match.com but I'm wondering what's generally regarded as the best dating sites? Also, has anybody any useful tips. I'm a geezer, from Dublin

Justask

Hansanter wrote: »

Hey All, I'm new to this online dating stuff. I've gathered what POF is but what site is OKC ? I've been looking through match.com but I'm wondering what's generally regarded as the best dating sites? Also, has anybody any useful tips. I'm a geezer, from Dublin

Yup tip!!! "your a gentleman" Not a GEEZER

OKC is okcupid

Plenty of Fish seems to be popular here.

Connecting singles is good also they have regular meet up event.

Best of luck

Corsendonk

Justask wrote: »

I mean 18/19 year olds contacting late 30's woman

Ah well must float some boats

I believe the term is MILF Hunters. Look on the positives you must be pretty hot to get all that attention.

Justask

Corsendonk wrote: »

I believe the term is MILF Hunters. Look on the positives you must be pretty hot to get all that attention.

Or bored waiting for their mums to cook their dinner lol

But i'll got with your positive

parker kent

Justask wrote: »

Ugh ok :eek:

Only asked...wont again

I didn't say sex is what they are all looking for, just acknowledging that a section of them will think like that. There'll be plenty of others who are just fed up of younger girls and prefer older women.

cyrusdvirus

and speaking as a bloke in his mid 30's there is NOTHING wrong with women in their 30's!!

Corsendonk

Nothing wrong with older women, dated a couple of them in the past and I found them very much more comfortable with themselves than some my own age or younger at the time. If you both fancy each other and have that spark whats age got to do with it is my thinking.

P.S Course if they did take the exhubby to the cleaners that helps

Larianne

Justask wrote: »

I mean 18/19 year olds contacting late 30's woman

I meant the ladies will have a place of their own, whereas the 18/19 years old may still be living at home.

cyrusdvirus

Dammit.

Why did you lot not tell me about OKC before i decide to give the sites a break??

So far i'm having really nice chats with people. Real people. And they don't appear to be boardsies either!!

I joined it yesterday and sent out about 10 mails between today and yesterday. So far i'm on replies from 4 ladies.

That's like twice the amount of non boardsie chats i've had on POF. for a SHEDLOAD less mails!

GRRRRRRRRR

:mad::mad::mad:

That_Guy

OK Cupid seems to have a lot less traffic on it but I've noticed that people tend to reply back more on OKC myself.

Gillo

I shows a lot of people who haven't logged in in ages though.

amandaf675

gatecrash wrote: »

Reply back with a 'when & where'

That'll sort the men from the boys

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

cyrusdvirus

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Ah that's just being a jackass.

Unless he is breaking open the piggybank right now that is.

That_Guy

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Give it a day or two. If he doesn't message you back he's probably not that bothered unfortunately.

stupidusername

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

could mean he's checking out when he can do it.. or he's buying time to consider if he wants to go out with you.

Justask

amandaf675 wrote: »

he said leave it with me... Now im extra confused

Thats just taking the piss

amandaf675

gatecrash wrote: »

Ah that's just being a jackass.

Unless he is breaking open the piggybank right now that is.

he has a savage Audi and a dacent job so i doubt that
(and i know this from friends who know him)

That_Guy wrote: »

Give it a day or two. If he doesn't message you back he's probably not that bothered unfortunately.

Ah he aint stopped really messaging me unless hes offline haha

stupidusername wrote: »

could mean he's checking out when he can do it.. or he's buying time to consider if he wants to go out with you.

That could be very true

amandaf675

Justask wrote: »

Thats just taking the piss

i think wexford guys like playing mind games

cyrusdvirus

amandaf675 wrote: »

he has a savage Audi and a dacent job so i doubt that
(and i know this from friends who know him)

I have a decent job too, but at the end of the month sometimes i'm kinda counting the pennies until payday....

By the way, is it Friday yet??

Kya1976

gatecrash wrote: »

and speaking as a bloke in his mid 30's there is NOTHING wrong with women in their 30's!!

Well of course not:cool::P

Corsendonk wrote: »

If you both fancy each other and have that spark whats age got to do with it is my thinking.

I agree,:) I've dated younger men and men around my own age. Age makes no difference to me really.

amandaf675

gatecrash wrote: »

I have a decent job too, but at the end of the month sometimes i'm kinda counting the pennies until payday....

By the way, is it Friday yet??

Neaaarrly

cyrusdvirus

amandaf675 wrote: »

Neaaarrly

I wouldn't write him off until the far side of the weekend.

and if you know people who know him, why not use them for an arranged informal meetup??
Few drinks with mutual friends rather than a proper date type of thing.... might be easier.
You could share the pizza on the way home!!

amandaf675

ah ill give him a bit longer.. hes off away this weekend so he cant and im working anyway so i cant

cyrusdvirus

amandaf675 wrote: »

ah ill give him a bit longer.. hes off away this weekend so he cant and im working anyway so i cant

Well there ya have it.

He's away + you are working = He'll get back to you.

No need to worry

Denisejcc

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies :D;)

cyrusdvirus

Denisejcc wrote: »

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies :D;)

Hi D, welcome back!!

Any joy yourself?

amandaf675

Denisejcc wrote: »

Amanda, hopefully hes not a chancer like the 2 that wanted to go on dates with me, weeks and weeks ago, never happened!

Sounds like hes not like them at all, nice to have a week to have the build up to the date, oooh the butterflies :D;)

Ah if he is he is, haha im not too bothered

Denisejcc

Damn Ive been mailing this guy back and forth this evening, he asked about a date, checked out his profile again and noticed I had overlooked something originally in his marital status, woudl never normally have mailed him back if I had noticed this before

cyrusdvirus

Denisejcc wrote: »

Damn Ive been mailing this guy back and forth this evening, he asked about a date, checked out his profile again and noticed I had overlooked something originally in his marital status, woudl never normally have mailed him back if I had noticed this before

What? As in he is??

Denisejcc

gatecrash wrote: »

Hi D, welcome back!!

Any joy yourself?

Hiya GC

see my previous post, I'm a disaster!:rolleyes:

Denisejcc

gatecrash wrote: »

What? As in he is??

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

ToniTuddle

Denisejcc wrote: »

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

Yeah but even if they have never been married they still could have a psycho crazy ex....

Denisejcc

ToniTuddle wrote: »

Yeah but even if they have never been married they still could have a psycho crazy ex....

True but was so disappointed when I noticed that

cyrusdvirus

Denisejcc wrote: »

Separated, dont fancy the whole ex wife scenario, I'm all about the quiet life :rolleyes:

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

Denisejcc

gatecrash wrote: »

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

I know its just the whole divorcee thing and all the baggage that goes with that

cyrusdvirus

Denisejcc wrote: »

I know its just the whole divorcee thing and all the baggage that goes with that

If it's amicable, and just a matter of signing a piece of paper, all the financial stuff has been dealt with ages ago.

i wouldn't rule it out.... not until you find out the story.

And that means a face to face meet up.

Anyone around our age will have baggage D.

feck it, even the girl 8 years younger than me that i'm mailing is bound to have some baggage!!

Larianne

gatecrash wrote: »

A date won't kill ya though?

They could be separated for years, just waiting on a amicable divorce to be finalised? Never know unless you try.....

Yeah that's true but if she's going into a dating scenario with someone she already has doubts about/not her thing, then what's the point? It's getting the guys hopes up and wasting her time.

Go with your gut Denise. I've twice put my feelings aside when friends had said to me "give him a chance" etc. etc. when I knew myself it wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. :cool:

cyrusdvirus

Larianne wrote: »

Yeah that's true but if she's going into a dating scenario with someone she already has doubts about/not her thing, then what's the point? It's getting the guys hopes up and wasting her time.

Go with your gut Denise. I've twice put my feelings aside when friends had said to me "give him a chance" etc. etc. when I knew myself it wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. :cool:

Fair point. I never looked at it that way

Denisejcc

I feel really bad now because if I hadnt checked his profile again there is nothing I dont like about his mails, banter and looks.Damn why did I look!:o

Gillo

Go with it Denise, hey I'm seperated it's pretty amicable and just a case of waiting for the divorce to come though, he could well be the same.

Larianne

Denisejcc wrote: »

I feel really bad now because if I hadnt checked his profile again there is nothing I dont like about his mails, banter and looks.Damn why did I look!:o

Maybe just ask him about it then? Be honest with him. I think honesty is the best policy, especially with online dating stuff.

Maybe it's Gillo!

That_Guy

Have any of ye actually messaged one another without realising it's a boardsie yet?

Denisejcc

Larianne wrote: »

Maybe just ask him about it then? Be honest with him. I think honesty is the best policy, especially with online dating stuff.

Maybe it's Gillo!

Ha ha ha , yeah I better shut up now, in case he is on Boards!:o

Gillo

Larianne wrote: »

Maybe just ask him about it then? Be honest with him. I think honesty is the best policy, especially with online dating stuff.

Maybe it's Gillo!

No, its not, maybe I should write to her and see if I get a reply

cyrusdvirus

That_Guy wrote: »

Have any of ye actually messaged one another without realising it's a boardsie yet?

YUP!

Sent Fee Fi a message last week. Straight away she popped on here saying Thanks GC!!



I hadn't a clue she was a boardsie when i messaged her

That_Guy

Oh did you use your boards username. I didn't.

Sure won't it be mad awkward when I see all the girls that didn't message me back on Saturday night at the beers. :pac:

Denisejcc

That_Guy wrote: »

Have any of ye actually messaged one another without realising it's a boardsie yet?

Not that I know of but I'm guilty of not sending very many messages!