What makes a "slut"?

Raze_them_all

PARARORY wrote: »

Just wondering why if a guy has sex regularly ( with different girls ) he is considered to be a complete hero among the lads and if a girl does it , she's a slut

Its always been the above with my friends and everyone we know. Just out of interest , have any guys out there gone home with a girl on the first night he met her and been called a slut?

Also , couldnt decide on an appropriate thread title so sorry :rolleyes:

people who sleep with you would be my guess

kjl

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MardiB

The term is entirely reliant of judgment, who gives a fcuk or should about the sexul appetities and preferences of others, It's a personal issue and should be independent of gender, sadly it's not. Sure some guys handle sexual rejectment with the very mature name calling of slut etc, which is really quite ironic

laugh

a lack of knickers!

Kepti

I don't know what makes a slut, but if you find the recipe let me know.

HxGH

A lot of name calling originates from other women?

Not saying most are "bitches", just sayin' the way it is.

HxGH

Killer Pigeon wrote: »

I proud to say that I am a complete and utter slut.

In recent news Killer Pigeon's dramatic page view increase caused a worldwide crash and the internet has broken.

I didn't even know that it was possible, but there you go.

Over to John with the weather....

evercloserunion

Dudess wrote: »

Plenty of people would be of the view she can't.

I subscribe to the post-modernist view that hitting people is bad form generally.

Saila

its a bit like saying "dont think of an elephant" - what did you picture?
same thing, think slut and its a female stereotype, just the way its evolved

Saila

Killer Pigeon wrote: »

I proud to say that I am a complete and utter slut.

I thought you were a guy though

smash

Saila wrote: »

its a bit like saying "dont think of an elephant" - what did you picture?

A Penguin.

sbsquarepants

What makes a slut?
Sugar, spice, all things nice and 8 baccardi breezers:D

fakearms123

you can always tell if a girl is a slut by her voice, is she a loud mouth attention seeker because if she is then she loves the cock

sbsquarepants

siltirocker wrote: »

Chicks are like bouncers .

Don't worry about it mate, you'll get a nice one one day, some of the chicks i was with were like bouncers too!

smash

http://www.motifake.com/image/demotivational-poster/0803/sluts-demotivational-poster-1206466197.jpg

http://smithbeachwood.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/sluts1.jpg

JasonMcNulty

If women sleep around there branded sluts by other *jealous* women that arent gettin half as much, then it just transfers on and everyone calls them sluts. simple :P

Motley Crue

PARARORY wrote: »

Its always been the above with my friends and everyone we know. Just out of interest , have any guys out there gone home with a girl on the first night he met her and been called a slut?

I think it's because of some age old sexist notion and our attitudes towards sex in this country to be honest

There was a guy in college who used to take a different girl every weekend, and he had a bit of a reputation, and actually it led to people being afraid to take their girlfriends on nights out if he was going to be there

My current girlfriend has slept with a lot more people then I have, but I don't see her as being a slut, I just see her as having more relationships then I had. I think that it's easier for women to get into relationships in many respects (or have one night stands because apparently men are hornier) and I think that there are more men out there willing to criticize a women for sleeping around, especially in rural communities where everyone seems to know everyone their age, and brandish her a slut then it is for a women to do the same to a man.

I will say though, that pregnancy is an issue I didn't contend with in my school, and we didn't have a single guy father a child or girl get pregnant in our year. That we knew about of course. But in schools where that kind of thing is commonplace, maybe it would be more acceptable, but I think a girl getting pregnant before the Leaving Cert brandishes her for life. As sad as that is to see.

thebigbiffo

every man wants a lady in street but a slut in the bedroom.

imo, slut just means a woman who has no inhibitions about sex...that -more often than not if the girl is actually sound and doesnt f'uck everything that walks - is a good thing.

women of ireland - reclaim the word 'slut' as a mark of confidence in yourself. you can all be sluts!!! find your inner slut!!

thebigbiffo

Motley Crue wrote: »

brandishes her for life

i couldn't help but picture some dude pulling out his girlfriend and shouting 'back you vile fiend' before being assaulted by a highwayman :pac:

dinneenp

JasonMcNulty wrote: »

If women sleep around there branded sluts by other *jealous* women that arent gettin half as much, then it just transfers on and everyone calls them sluts. simple :P

But I thought that any woman can get 'it', anytime they want.

siltirocker

thebigbiffo wrote: »

every man wants a lady in street but a slut in the bedroom.

imo, slut just means a woman who has no inhibitions about sex...that -more often than not if the girl is actually sound and doesnt f'uck everything that walks - is a good thing.

women of ireland - reclaim the word 'slut' as a mark of confidence in yourself. you can all be sluts!!! find your inner slut!!

That fair enough if that's your opinion but i wouldn't care myself then for much of this thread if i were had a similiar frame of mind 'cause most of the posters on this thread have very different ideas about what a slut is, something that is a lot worse than what you've posted.

You really consider women with no sexual inhibitions to be defined sluts as oppose to a women who needs permiscuious sex with anything all the time - WTF?

vicecreamsundae

i don't believe in 'sluts'. Some people only have sex with a few people, some people have sex with lots, no big deal. Sex is great, most of us can agree I'm sure, so why on earth would having sex with people be a bad thing?!
The only negative aspect of having sex with lots of people is that your risk of getting an STD increases [or getting a baby -the nastiest STD of them all!], but at the same time, you only need to sleep with ONE person to get an STD, and if you're responsible about getting checkups and using protection, you can lower that risk.
I would never look down on someone for getting laid a lot, so long as they knew what they were doing and weren't hurting anyone [a la cheating]. When somebody calls somebody else a slut, they are actually saying a lot more about their own ****ed up attitudes towards sex than they are saying about the other person.

dinneenp

vicecreamsundae wrote: »

i don't believe in 'sluts'.

What if 'Mary' lets a guy drop the hand on the dancefloor, has sex in the nightclub toilet. Outside she meets another (lucky/unlucky) guy and has sex down the alley behind the nightclub. And this is a Thursday night, she goes out over the weekend and does similar.

Would she be a slut?

mojesius

dinneenp wrote: »

What if 'Mary' lets a guy drop the hand on the dancefloor, has sex in the nightclub toilet. Outside she meets another (lucky/unlucky) guy and has sex down the alley behind the nightclub. And this is a Thursday night, she goes out over the weekend and does similar.

Would she be a slut?

No, but she sounds like a nymphomaniac, same as if a bloke acted similarly.

Snowie

I would of thought it would be a girl whos on a first name basis with the receptionist in local sti clinic

antodeco

If a key opens every lock, its known as a master key. If any key opens a lock, its known as a shittylock....

thebigbiffo

siltirocker wrote: »

That fair enough if that's your opinion but i wouldn't care myself then for much of this thread if i were had a similiar frame of mind 'cause most of the posters on this thread have very different ideas about what a slut is, something that is a lot worse than what you've posted.

You really consider women with no sexual inhibitions to be defined sluts as oppose to a women who needs permiscuious sex with anything all the time - WTF?

that's a difficult read but if i get you correctly my response is...

theres a fine line between no sexual inhibitions and promiscuous sex. in a sense they go hand in hand, you can't be one without the other. as per my original post then, although i'd never want my partner sleeping around i'd want her to not give a **** if she had in the past and the 'experience' of that leads back to a lack of inhibitions meaning i get my slut in the bedroom!

smash

antodeco wrote: »

If a key opens every lock, its known as a master key. If any key opens a lock, its known as a shittylock....

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=67283532&postcount=13

smash

dinneenp wrote: »

What if 'Mary' lets a guy drop the hand on the dancefloor, has sex in the nightclub toilet. Outside she meets another (lucky/unlucky) guy and has sex down the alley behind the nightclub. And this is a Thursday night, she goes out over the weekend and does similar.

Would she be a slut?

Got Mary's number?

Motley Crue

dinneenp wrote: »

What if 'Mary' lets a guy drop the hand on the dancefloor, has sex in the nightclub toilet. Outside she meets another (lucky/unlucky) guy and has sex down the alley behind the nightclub. And this is a Thursday night, she goes out over the weekend and does similar.

I think I know the Mary you're speaking about, but she's best not spoken of

someone who dosnt clean themselves in a proper and regular manner

smash

Alivia Screeching Trainee wrote: »

someone who dosnt clean themselves in a proper and regular manner

Douche?

MikeRoeSopht

this can be explained simply and thoroughly enough using keys & locks

guy - key
girl - lock

if a lock lets any key open it then it's a sh1t lock
but if a key opens any lock then it is considered the master key

colinod0806

steve06 wrote: »

Douche?

the guy was only expressin his opinion theres no need for name calling:D

siltirocker

I think i understand all the kurfuffle. I read that post about 'Mary' and was all like "What are raging slut!!!" I've come to the notion that had it been a man he'd be in high-five city!

Wibbs

MikeRoeSopht wrote: »

this can be explained simply and thoroughly enough using keys & locks

guy - key
girl - lock

if a lock lets any key open it then it's a sh1t lock
but if a key opens any lock then it is considered the master key

ah well third time lucky. If someone posts this a forth time I call lynching.

plissken

Wibbs wrote: »

ah well third time lucky. If someone posts this a forth time I call lynching.

If a key opens many locks....



Sorry:D

Porkpie

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AnonoBoy

MikeRoeSopht wrote: »

this can be explained simply and thoroughly enough using keys & locks

guy - key
girl - lock

if a lock lets any key open it then it's a sh1t lock
but if a key opens any lock then it is considered the master key

Take it to the Lock forum....... ah forget it. :mad:

Tender Hoop

at the end of the day all women are sluts in my opinion.

Scarydoll

Tender Hoop wrote: »

at the end of the day all women are sluts in my opinion.

So your ma's a slut too eh?

AnonoBoy

Tender Hoop wrote: »

at the end of the day all women are sluts in my opinion.

You've never actually talked to a real woman, have you?

HavingCrack

I've said it before and I'll say it again, in my personal experience men will not judge a girl for sleeping with lots of guys. I'm sure most would prefer a girl who knows what she's doing in the bedroom than someone inexperienced actually. However, women will refer to other women as sluts/slags/whores and bitch about them far, far , faaaaaar more than men ever do.

starlit

Tender Hoop wrote: »

at the end of the day all women are sluts in my opinion.

That's not a very mature answer!?:rolleyes:

HavingCrack wrote: »

I've said it before and I'll say it again, in my personal experience men will not judge a girl for sleeping with lots of guys. I'm sure most would prefer a girl who knows what she's doing in the bedroom than someone inexperienced actually. However, women will refer to other women as sluts/slags/whores and bitch about them far, far , faaaaaar more than men ever do.

Well I have heard that guys would rather shag a girl who is experienced rather than a girl who is perhaps inexperienced or heavens forbid a virgin!

Terry

WindSock wrote: »

A slut imo is a woman who sleeps with any guy that gives her a bit of attention. She has no inhibitions and will fk married men, friends fellas, or anyone else to make them like her. Then feel like sht afterwards.
Big difference to a woman who sleeps with many men because she enjoys sex.

Add a chick who does all of that while in a relationship and a dash of low self esteem, and you're done.

smash

snuggles285 wrote: »

Well I have heard that guys would rather shag a girl who is experienced rather than a girl who is perhaps inexperienced or heavens forbid a virgin!

I'd rather shag a girl who's naive - you could do some kinky sh!t and tell her it's completely normal practice!

The Waltzing Consumer

snuggles285 wrote: »

Well I have heard that guys would rather shag a girl who is experienced rather than a girl who is perhaps inexperienced or heavens forbid a virgin!

I think guys prefer to sleep with girls who are not "worn out", to put it mildly

m@cc@

PARARORY wrote: »

What makes a "slut"?

Sex.

starlit

steve06 wrote: »

I'd rather shag a girl who's naive - you could do some kinky sh!t and tell her it's completely normal practice!

The Waltzing Consumer wrote: »

I think guys prefer to sleep with girls who are not "worn out", to put it mildly

Neither is right if you ask me...means taking advantage of a girl like that....?

smash

snuggles285 wrote: »

Neither is right if you ask me...means taking advantage of a girl like that....?

Nope, just introducing her to new things