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Moral dileama

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  • 19-08-2010 8:44pm
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    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,240 Mod ✭✭✭✭


    So i met a woman im interested. Im a straight male, but most of you know im transitioning. Is it wrong of me to pursue anything at the momment given my situation. She is on boards too but i dont think she knows yet.


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    Zillah
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    You started as physically female and are transitioning to male, or the opposite?

    If the former, I think it's only fair to explain it before anything physical happens. If the latter...well, I suppose no need to say anything until it would begin to become a problem.


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    L.Jenkins
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    Im going from Male to Female. I've only just met her and would feel it to be a cruel act to continue anything with her under the premise that I would remain a male when in fact I won't.

    I'm just working this out in my head and think it would be slightly cruel of me to build a trusting and loving relationship with someone only to tell them this later on.


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    baby and crumble
    Registered Users Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Best thing I can think of is to direct you to this thread, from a few days ago over in TLL. I think it'll give you a good flavour of what most women would be thinking in this exact situation!

    Transgender partner thread


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    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,240 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Thanks Zoe.


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