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The Weaning Thread

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    The ellas pouches are YUM, I'll have to stop buying the spag bol because I always end up eating half of it on the baby :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭kandr10


    Yeah don't dismiss them completely based on those jars, they really aren't a good example. It's so handy to have one in the changing bag cos if you take the home cooked stuff out it has to be eaten fairly quickly whereas if you were stuck a pouch is fine til it's opened. You're going to run into emergencies where you don't have enough pre prrepared stuff at some stage. The only thing I'm disappointed with is the limited range of vegetarian options in stage 3. There's quite a few in stage 2.


  • Registered Users Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    Just in case anyone is considering baby led weaning I just wanted to say go for it as I'm finding it brilliant. I started with it but lost my nerve due to some gagging incidents so I then went to purées. Had an absolute disaster with them. My son got infinitely more windy and was up several times a night with trapped wind. I was tearing my hair out until eventually I decided to stop all purées. The past week he has been self feeding and he is flying (he's 7 months now). No hassle as he is eating what we're eating minus any salty ingredients. His sleep, while still not perfect, is much better. He even managed to only wake once for a feed from 7.30-6 the other night, something that I never thought would happen.

    Every baby is different as my first did brilliantly with Annabel Karmel's weaning guidelines and has a great appetite now. But after eventually going with BLW this time, if I ever have another baby I'll be doing it again!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    kandr10 wrote: »
    Yeah don't dismiss them completely based on those jars, they really aren't a good example. It's so handy to have one in the changing bag cos if you take the home cooked stuff out it has to be eaten fairly quickly whereas if you were stuck a pouch is fine til it's opened. You're going to run into emergencies where you don't have enough pre prrepared stuff at some stage. The only thing I'm disappointed with is the limited range of vegetarian options in stage 3. There's quite a few in stage 2.

    I tried the cow and gate fruit pot things and they are grand, I give him glenisik fromàge frais too :)
    I will provide his food for his baby minder so I will need a good stock anyway. I may try Ella's in a month or so :) but I will just buy one. Her banana one looks, smells and tastes horrible.
    I would love if I found one that was grand because if I have a day in work where I am cooking all day I just want to make something easy when I go home.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    Bagheera wrote: »
    Just in case anyone is considering baby led weaning I just wanted to say go for it as I'm finding it brilliant. I started with it but lost my nerve due to some gagging incidents so I then went to purées. Had an absolute disaster with them. My son got infinitely more windy and was up several times a night with trapped wind. I was tearing my hair out until eventually I decided to stop all purées. The past week he has been self feeding and he is flying (he's 7 months now). No hassle as he is eating what we're eating minus any salty ingredients. His sleep, while still not perfect, is much better. He even managed to only wake once for a feed from 7.30-6 the other night, something that I never thought would happen.

    Every baby is different as my first did brilliantly with Annabel Karmel's weaning guidelines and has a great appetite now. But after eventually going with BLW this time, if I ever have another baby I'll be doing it again!

    I find it brilliant too. I did a couple of weeks of purée with my now 9 month old when we were starting out but she kept trying to feed herself so I said what the hell. We'll give baby led weaning a go. I still laugh at people's reactions when they see her sitting down tucking into a peach or setting too with whatever we're having. It's great fun but oh so messy!! She'll be with granny and grandad four of the days when I'm back to work the week after next and I'm not sure they have their heads wrapped around it though so I'd say they'll be giving a bit more spoon feeds than she's had......if she'll take it!! If she's having soup/yogurt/porridge we have to use pre loaded spoons.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    I do a combination of BLW and purees, mainly because my mam minds him when I'm in work and there's no way in blue hell she'd let him have 'grown up' food; she's terrified of him choking! So I give him real food at home, and send her things like spag bol, cottage pie etc that I've cooked for him. Today he had an avocado and cheese sambo to the amazement of my OH's mother. Yesterday she couldn't get over him eating a peach (woe betide anyone who tries to mush or cut up a peach for him; he wails and screeches until he gets his hands on it - he then cries when you take away the stone!!! He really loves peaches!!) He also loves toast, raisin bread, steamed broccoli florets, grated cheddar, banana, rice cakes, anything that he can hold and gnaw the life out of :D

    As for the cow & gate jars, a few weeks ago I got some c&g pots called little gourmet (7-18mths) They have about 4 varieties. They were really nice, the tagliatelle one had decent sized pieces of pasta in them and recognisable veg lol! He loved them. However, today I tried to give him a different c&g meal - little steamed meals, in a funny shaped pot. It. Was. Vile. He hated it, and refused to eat it. I can still smell it off his breath, five hours and a bottle and a teeth brush later. The other two pots I got will be going in the bin.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    That's great that the combination of BLW and purees is working out for you nikpmup - this was my plan all along, pureed food in creche, and BLW at home. But being spoonfed in creche has made him lazy, and he has no real interest in even trying to feed himself - although he absolutely loves being spoonfed, and gobbles it down! Whereas if I give him "real" food, he mostly just plays with it and throws it off his chair ... I still give it to him, but will usually end up just feeding him a pouch after it all ends up on the floor!


  • Registered Users Posts: 263 ✭✭lolademmers


    Can I give tinned salmon? Also if any of ye do what recipes have you for it?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,292 ✭✭✭Cunning Stunt


    well my little lad is still off his solids and I see there's a third tooth in the mix now. We gave him some yoghurt as someone suggested and he took a bit. Other than that he fed himself half a marietta biscuit and two tiny pieces of cooked ham today. I suppose his bottles will have to do until his mouth is better. I hope this won't last too long though!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    That's great that the combination of BLW and purees is working out for you nikpmup - this was my plan all along, pureed food in creche, and BLW at home. But being spoonfed in creche has made him lazy, and he has no real interest in even trying to feed himself - although he absolutely loves being spoonfed, and gobbles it down! Whereas if I give him "real" food, he mostly just plays with it and throws it off his chair ... I still give it to him, but will usually end up just feeding him a pouch after it all ends up on the floor!

    Keep at it, he'll eventually feed himself! I used to put small pieces of food in his mouth (by hand, not on a spoon) and he eventually started picking it up himself.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    Lol my little fella is getting frustrated with BLW. Hell put one thing in his mouth (usually a whole carrot stick, or rice cake or something) Then pick something up in each hand. when it all doesnt fit in his mouth (or dissolve fast enough as he doesnt have any teeth) he cries and it all falls out and he starts again. Sigh. Hes so impatient like me its scary! Might just have to give him one thing at a time or something.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Girls, if I make ready brek for a 7 month old do I use his baby formula or normal milk? He is 7 months.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Millem wrote: »
    Girls, if I make ready brek for a 7 month old do I use his baby formula or normal milk? He is 7 months.

    You can use either but cows milk is fine to give in his food from 6 months. I've given it a few times to get him used to it, no problems at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    You can use either but cows milk is fine to give in his food from 6 months. I've given it a few times to get him used to it, no problems at all.

    Thanks chatastrophe. How much is your little boy drinking now ? Our baby seems to want less milk! I have noticed he leaves an oz or two. So maybe consumes 24oz per day.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Millem wrote: »
    Thanks chatastrophe. How much is your little boy drinking now ? Our baby seems to want less milk! I have noticed he leaves an oz or two. So maybe consumes 24oz per day.

    He usually has four eight oz bottles, might leave an oz or two but usually finishes them. He also has a few oz of either cows milk or formula mixed in with his breakfast. And usually has a few oz of water throughout the day as well. I'd like to see about cutting out a formula bottle, he'd definItely miss it though, he knows exactly when they're due each day!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    He usually has four eight oz bottles, might leave an oz or two but usually finishes them. He also has a few oz of either cows milk or formula mixed in with his breakfast. And usually has a few oz of water throughout the day as well. I'd like to see about cutting out a formula bottle, he'd definItely miss it though, he knows exactly when they're due each day!

    I reckon he has around 2 oz in his breakfast so 26oz in total. My baby is terrible for water he refuses sippy cup so we are waiting on doidy cup to come :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    Ours is doing the same milem, since his meals are getting more proper dinner-ish (as opposed to just pureed fruit etc), he has been struggling with his last bottle of the evening. Normally, the bottle used to be swamped quickly but he has started losing interest when he gets down to the last 3ozs and it's a struggle to get it into him. He takes 3 8oz bottles of formula a day and 4ozs of juice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Ours is doing the same milem, since his meals are getting more proper dinner-ish (as opposed to just pureed fruit etc), he has been struggling with his last bottle of the evening. Normally, the bottle used to be swamped quickly but he has started losing interest when he gets down to the last 3ozs and it's a struggle to get it into him. He takes 3 8oz bottles of formula a day and 4ozs of juice.

    Yes that sounds exactly like our little one! Today he had cereal and 6oz bottle, mashed potato, parsnip, carrot and cheese sauce, natural yoghurt and a banana, 6oz bottle, roast chicken, potato, broccoli and carrots, 6oz bottle and will have another 6oz in 30mins. I reckon he drank only 2 oz of water. I think it seems like a lot of food but I am following the back of anabel's book as a guide! He is teething real bad at the mo :( bottom tooth is coming up and one at the back.

    I am going to try toast lightly buttered tomorrow :) I guess I cut it into strips?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    Ah the poor little fella :( I find cold slices of fruit great for the teething. That does sound like loads of food, there's no way I could get my fella to have a whole banana after his dinner but then again, he loves big portions. We tried the toast yesterday and he loved it! I was worried he might gag and at one stage he bit off a big piece and I panicked and went to fish it out of his mouth only to find it had been swallowed whole :) I just toasted the bread lightly so it was still soft, buttered it and cut it into strips long enough for him to hold and shove in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Ah the poor little fella :( I find cold slices of fruit great for the teething. That does sound like loads of food, there's no way I could get my fella to have a whole banana after his dinner but then again, he loves big portions. We tried the toast yesterday and he loved it! I was worried he might gag and at one stage he bit off a big piece and I panicked and went to fish it out of his mouth only to find it had been swallowed whole :) I just toasted the bread lightly so it was still soft, buttered it and cut it into strips long enough for him to hold and shove in.

    Yes I think it sounds like loads of food and she says to give fruit with breakfast too! (I don't think he would have space for!!). I buy the kiddy bananas for him and whizz it with natural yoghurt in my mini chopper. I will do berries tomorrow.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    I was wondering if you all wouldnt mind sharing your schedules with me! Ive been following ananbel karmels book mostly, but her timing isnt really working for us!

    At the moment he drinks 32 oz over 4 bottles and is 6 1/2 months old ( but started weaning just after 5 months.

    Current schedule

    8am : baby cereal/ porridge mixed with pureed fruit + 1 bottle

    12 :bottle

    2pm: veg meal from the book and finger foods

    4pm: bottle

    6pm: meat meal

    8pm: bottle and bed


    I really would like to bring his lunch and dinner forward a bit, but that would unbalance the bottles and he does be starving for those most days! He usually tells me that hes full with the food too, so more there wouldnt balance it out either. He also doesnt get up any earlier. takes him 30 min after waking before hes able to take a bottle for some reason! (glad of this most days!)

    Im really just looking for reassurance from others. I should probably just follow his lead and leave it as it is! thx!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    I was wondering if you all wouldnt mind sharing your schedules with me! Ive been following ananbel karmels book mostly, but her timing isnt really working for us!

    At the moment he drinks 32 oz over 4 bottles and is 6 1/2 months old ( but started weaning just after 5 months.

    Current schedule

    8am : baby cereal/ porridge mixed with pureed fruit + 1 bottle

    12 :bottle

    2pm: veg meal from the book and finger foods

    4pm: bottle

    6pm: meat meal

    8pm: bottle and bed


    I really would like to bring his lunch and dinner forward a bit, but that would unbalance the bottles and he does be starving for those most days! He usually tells me that hes full with the food too, so more there wouldnt balance it out either. He also doesnt get up any earlier. takes him 30 min after waking before hes able to take a bottle for some reason! (glad of this most days!)

    Im really just looking for reassurance from others. I should probably just follow his lead and leave it as it is! thx!

    I was literally typing this up for our minder! This is what we just started. It is from the back of her book.


    7am breakfast porridge/cereal and bottle 6oz

    11.00 bottle 6oz

    12.30 lunch a savoury and a sweet
    Water in a sippy cup

    3.00 bottle 6oz

    4.30 dinner (meat, veg and carbs) and water in sippy cup

    7.00 bottle 6oz and bed


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭kandr10


    I was wondering if you all wouldnt mind sharing your schedules with me! Ive been following ananbel karmels book mostly, but her timing isnt really working for us!

    At the moment he drinks 32 oz over 4 bottles and is 6 1/2 months old ( but started weaning just after 5 months.

    Current schedule

    8am : baby cereal/ porridge mixed with pureed fruit + 1 bottle

    12 :bottle

    2pm: veg meal from the book and finger foods

    4pm: bottle

    6pm: meat meal

    8pm: bottle and bed


    I really would like to bring his lunch and dinner forward a bit, but that would unbalance the bottles and he does be starving for those most days! He usually tells me that hes full with the food too, so more there wouldnt balance it out either. He also doesnt get up any earlier. takes him 30 min after waking before hes able to take a bottle for some reason! (glad of this most days!)

    Im really just looking for reassurance from others. I should probably just follow his lead and leave it as it is! thx!

    Since you have a four hr gap between the breakfast and first bottle would he take that bottle an hr or two earlier then everything would come forward.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    Thaanks! Yeah but then all his bottles come forward too and there's no way he'd go to bed earlier than 8. Might do when it gets darker sooner though. I might bring the meals forward by 30mintomorrow and see how we go!

    How did everyone get their kids to drink from a sippy cup? My fella really dislikes juice and water. Just spits it all straight out. Even at room temp. Tried it in a bottle and he roared cos it wasn't milk poor fella!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    Ours looks something like this:

    -9am 8oz bottle with porridge/ready break
    -1pm 8oz bottle
    -4pm fruit or veg meal with 4oz juice and a pot of baby custard (sometimes I'll give the custard at 3pm if he's hungry or to keep him going an extra while if I'm planning to go out)
    -7pm dinner (usually with meat/chicken) with 8oz bottle

    Throughout the day I'll give him little bits of whatever fruit I'm eating or toast. I keep a box of heinz powdered food in the cupboard in case I'm caught short for dinner, it's not the healthiest option but it's quick and handy and himself loves it :o


  • Registered Users Posts: 263 ✭✭lolademmers


    My guy turned up his nose at dinner the other day. I hope us bit getting fussy he is only 10 months old! He used to Hoover anything I have him lol! He is still on 3 bottles then water with meals he drinks his water out of a nuby sippy cup. Do I start giving him his milk in that instead of the bottles soon? He just has the ordinary avent bottles.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    How did everyone get their kids to drink from a sippy cup? My fella really dislikes juice and water. Just spits it all straight out. Even at room temp. Tried it in a bottle and he roared cos it wasn't milk poor fella!

    What age is your baby? Personally I wouldn't give juice until at least maybe 4-5 years old, it's not good for their developing teeth.

    As for the water, you could try giving him a bottle of milk an ounce or two smaller than his usual, then after a short break give him a small bottle of water? I think he's less likely to make a fuss about it not being milk if he's not actually thirsty at the time! Also if you give him rusks etc, try giving him water at the same time or shortly after (again, when he's not actually all that thirsty.) Once he gets used to the taste, he's more likely to take it then even when he is actually thirsty.

    Also, do you give cooled boiled water? You could try bottled water - however be very careful about sodium content, some are much higher than others - I think I read Evian is one of the lowest? (I usually just give the cooled boiled water myself, but he'll take the bottled water fine if we're out and about or if I don't have time to wait for the water to cool!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    What age is your baby? Personally I wouldn't give juice until at least maybe 4-5 years old, it's not good for their developing teeth.

    As for the water, you could try giving him a bottle of milk an ounce or two smaller than his usual, then after a short break give him a small bottle of water? I think he's less likely to make a fuss about it not being milk if he's not actually thirsty at the time! Also if you give him rusks etc, try giving him water at the same time or shortly after (again, when he's not actually all that thirsty.) Once he gets used to the taste, he's more likely to take it then even when he is actually thirsty.

    Also, do you give cooled boiled water? You could try bottled water - however be very careful about sodium content, some are much higher than others - I think I read Evian is one of the lowest? (I usually just give the cooled boiled water myself, but he'll take the bottled water fine if we're out and about or if I don't have time to wait for the water to cool!)

    thanks. Hes 6 and a half months. Was giving him watered down innocent juice. And have been giving him cooled boiled water. I might try really watered down formula to get him used to the taste. He drank sugared water when we were on holidays no problem, but i dont really want to give him sugar water either

    I dont know if the sippy cup is now ruined becasuse he dislikes juice so much. he just spits it out and cries! To be honest Id rather he didnt have juice anyway. but would really like him to be able to drink water. Ill just keep trying!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    thanks. Hes 6 and a half months. Was giving him watered down innocent juice. And have been giving him cooled boiled water. I might try really watered down formula to get him used to the taste. He drank sugared water when we were on holidays no problem, but i dont really want to give him sugar water either

    I dont know if the sippy cup is now ruined becasuse he dislikes juice so much. he just spits it out and cries! To be honest Id rather he didnt have juice anyway. but would really like him to be able to drink water. Ill just keep trying!

    Dori it could be the sippy cup. I have the tommee tippee one (the first one) and he will tolerate maybe only 2oz per day. I tried annabel karmels one but no joy. I have ordered a doidy cup to try :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭kandr10


    thanks. Hes 6 and a half months. Was giving him watered down innocent juice. And have been giving him cooled boiled water. I might try really watered down formula to get him used to the taste. He drank sugared water when we were on holidays no problem, but i dont really want to give him sugar water either

    I dont know if the sippy cup is now ruined becasuse he dislikes juice so much. he just spits it out and cries! To be honest Id rather he didnt have juice anyway. but would really like him to be able to drink water. Ill just keep trying!

    Don't stress it. He's still quite young. Maybe just try offering it from time to time during the day, at meals etc. I wouldn't stress if he doesn't take much. He'll get used to it eventually.

    I used that tommee tippee one at first too and it was hard for herself to suck from because it was...well hard! Tried a nuby one we had lying around and it had a thing shaped like a sippy but soft like a teat. She got used to that and now takes the two. She only takes a few ounces through the day. Try a few types and alternate them maybe?

    Edit: just to add from looking at friends kids and nieces and nephews, if seems by the time they get used to sippy cups they want to move onto the next thing. Little rascals! That's why I wouldn't stress about it. They're used for a relatively short time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    Our little girl always preferred an open cup. We used end up taking the lids off sippy cups to drink any amount so we got a doidy a few months ago and she's flying with it. Can be a little messy so we don't tend to use it when we are out and about. She will drink from one particular tommee tippee one too so we use that when we're out. Tried the nuby with the silicon top but she used just chew on it. Found it a bit big too. Haven't used it in a while. Might try it again later.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    We tried 4 different types of sippy cups, all with different style teats, no joy. However, whenever he sees me with a normal cup he tries to grab it and when I put it up to his mouth, he drinks fine out of it. Pity he's not strong enough to hold it :( We're trying to get him used to the doidy cup at the moment but he's not gone on the feeling of the plastic in his mouth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    We tried 4 different types of sippy cups, all with different style teats, no joy. However, whenever he sees me with a normal cup he tries to grab it and when I put it up to his mouth, he drinks fine out of it. Pity he's not strong enough to hold it :( We're trying to get him used to the doidy cup at the moment but he's not gone on the feeling of the plastic in his mouth.

    Just hold the doidy. The strength will come with time. The handles on it aren't the easiest either. We'd still occasionally have to hold a sippy for my 9 month old if she's feeling lazy!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭kandr10


    I always have to hold the sippy cup. She can grab the handles and bring it to her mouth but she's not got yet that she needs to tip it back!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    My lad uses this cup with a fair degree of success, but I do have to hold it for him. It doesn't have to be sucked for the liquid to come out, any cups I tried with a valve he refused point blank. I use this nuby cup out and about as it doesn't leak, it has a soft silicone spout.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    nikpmup wrote: »
    My lad uses this cup with a fair degree of success, but I do have to hold it for him. It doesn't have to be sucked for the liquid to come out, any cups I tried with a valve he refused point blank. I use this nuby cup out and about as it doesn't leak, it has a soft silicone spout.

    That first one is the one she uses herself successfully. We have the same nuby one too but I think it's a little big. Tried her with it again this evening but she's definitely better with the doidy or the other one. The fact that it doesn't leak is handy though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    Roesy wrote: »
    That first one is the one she uses herself successfully. We have the same nuby one too but I think it's a little big. Tried her with it again this evening but she's definitely better with the doidy or the other one. The fact that it doesn't leak is handy though.

    Of course they have the same cups!


  • Registered Users Posts: 175 ✭✭kknitter


    Hi all,

    Quite few weeks now that baba has started on solids, started with purees. He is still having purees. I tried making rice a bit coarser but he doesn't like it and never eats it, but if I purée the same thing he will have it. He doesn't have any tooth yet. Would I be making purees for long period now 😔. Have I given him a bad habit? Not sure how should I get him to eat it. Is it that he will create a fuss since he is not used to it or should I wait few more weeks for coarse stuff. I m afraid he won't have dinner like us for long period now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    My public health nurse was very adamant that babies should only be on completely smooth stuff for a few weeks until they learn how to swallow. she gave me a big lecture at our 3 month meet up!
    Our fella was on smooth stuff for about 3 weeks, but it would just run off his tongue and out his mouth if he put his head forward so we moved to lumpier stuff pretty quickly so it would grip to his tongue. its all still kind of smooth just with bits.
    I make most of his food myself, but take the lead on texture from the small bit of supermarket baby food we buy for his age group.

    I suppose it depends how old your baby is and how long a few weeks really is??

    You could try him on porridge which is smooth but still a little lumpy? or I like some of the fruity pots for little lumps too. to test him out.

    If he has no teeth, he cant chew and so cant really have big lumps.

    Also my little sister hated lumps from day 1 and still hates them. No idea why as my mum weaned us all the same!


  • Registered Users Posts: 175 ✭✭kknitter


    My public health nurse was very adamant that babies should only be on completely smooth stuff for a few weeks until they learn how to swallow. she gave me a big lecture at our 3 month meet up!
    Our fella was on smooth stuff for about 3 weeks, but it would just run off his tongue and out his mouth if he put his head forward so we moved to lumpier stuff pretty quickly so it would grip to his tongue. its all still kind of smooth just with bits.
    I make most of his food myself, but take the lead on texture from the small bit of supermarket baby food we buy for his age group.

    I suppose it depends how old your baby is and how long a few weeks really is??

    You could try him on porridge which is smooth but still a little lumpy? or I like some of the fruity pots for little lumps too. to test him out.

    If he has no teeth, he cant chew and so cant really have big lumps.

    Also my little sister hated lumps from day 1 and still hates them. No idea why as my mum weaned us all the same!

    Thank you very dori_dormer. Few weeks is 6 weeks to be precise. Is it too much on purees? I have made the food a bit on lumpier side but still kind where can directly swallow n need not chew. But it is textured rather than complete smooth. Don't know whether should I be worried.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,339 ✭✭✭How Strange


    Babies chew with their gums. Baby led weaning involves giving pieces and chunks of food from 6 months. I did it on both of mine and they had very little problem managing the food. The gag reflex of a baby under 10 months is at the front of their mouth so they may gag, even vomit and have watery bulgy eyes when they're given lumpier food. This is normal and isn't a sign that the baby is choking.

    Purées are only needed for babies under 6 months as their tongue thrust is still active. This is where a baby keeps sticking his tongue out so the puréed food falls out. It's an evolutionary survival mechanism to make sure nothing but milk gets in.

    I'd say if your baby is over 6 months skip purées and move to fork mashed lumpier textures so they get used to the feeling if it while their gag reflex is still at the front. This means if they don't like the texture they'll just spit it out. The gag reflex moves further back in the mouth around 10 months.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    The odd bit of food we buy our fella in the 7-9 month range is only textured no real lumps. I make our baby food a little more lumpy, just not blending it as much, tiny bits of brocolli, carrot still in it.

    Have you started on chicken or fish? that kind of leaves natural lumpy bits.

    Also would suggest as How Strange said, might be good to give some finger food too. Carrot / celery sticks, liga, etc to get her used to not gagging?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    I've made a massive sort-of lamb tagine for the wee lad. I put onions, garlic and carrots into a big cast iron dish and fried them in a little olive oil. I then added diced lamb, and a half teaspoon each of ground cumin, smoked paprika and ground coriander and browned the lamb. I then added a tin of tomatoes, the same amount of baby vegetable stock, a squeeze of tomato puree, and a handful of dried apricots and brought to a simmer. Left it simmering slowly for a bit, then added some chopped aubergine and courgette, put the lid on and transferred it to a very low oven (about 120-150°) for a couple of hours. It's frikkin delicious! Sweet and very mildly spiced, and the lamb is so tender. I'll be freezing some in pots for the baby, but I'll be nicking a bit and adding some more spices and a little chilli for myself and himself. It'd be lovely with some lemony, herby couscous and some falafel and hummus.

    Does anyone know what can be done with polenta :D I made some the other day; when it was cooked I mixed in a little cheese and made it into patties. He seemed to like them (although it was messy!) but I was wondering if there was any other way of preparing it? It's a bit bland by itself; is there any way of injecting a little flavour into it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    nikpmup wrote: »
    I've made a massive sort-of lamb tagine for the wee lad. I put onions, garlic and carrots into a big cast iron dish and fried them in a little olive oil. I then added diced lamb, and a half teaspoon each of ground cumin, smoked paprika and ground coriander and browned the lamb. I then added a tin of tomatoes, the same amount of baby vegetable stock, a squeeze of tomato puree, and a handful of dried apricots and brought to a simmer. Left it simmering slowly for a bit, then added some chopped aubergine and courgette, put the lid on and transferred it to a very low oven (about 120-150°) for a couple of hours. It's frikkin delicious! Sweet and very mildly spiced, and the lamb is so tender. I'll be freezing some in pots for the baby, but I'll be nicking a bit and adding some more spices and a little chilli for myself and himself. It'd be lovely with some lemony, herby couscous and some falafel and hummus.

    Does anyone know what can be done with polenta :D I made some the other day; when it was cooked I mixed in a little cheese and made it into patties. He seemed to like them (although it was messy!) but I was wondering if there was any other way of preparing it? It's a bit bland by itself; is there any way of injecting a little flavour into it?

    Ive never tasted even half of what youve mentioned, but a) it sounds yummy and b) NOW I WANT FALAFEL!!!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    The bit I saved for myself was gorgeous :D I added in a dash of cayenne pepper and a little more cumin and coriander. I didn't bother with the falafel in the end, I hadn't got the ingredients and I was starving! I hope the wee man thinks it's nice - the lamb was so tender I was able to mash it with a fork.


  • Registered Users Posts: 263 ✭✭lolademmers


    Nikpump you're some woman for the recipes! Would that work in a slow cooker I wonder?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    Nikpump you're some woman for the recipes! Would that work in a slow cooker I wonder?

    I'd say it'd be perfect in a slow cooker, you want the meat nice and tender. Leave the veg in big chunks so it doesn't disintegrate. I should have thrown in a tin of chickpeas as well!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭kandr10


    nikpmup wrote: »
    I've made a massive sort-of lamb tagine for the wee lad. I put onions, garlic and carrots into a big cast iron dish and fried them in a little olive oil. I then added diced lamb, and a half teaspoon each of ground cumin, smoked paprika and ground coriander and browned the lamb. I then added a tin of tomatoes, the same amount of baby vegetable stock, a squeeze of tomato puree, and a handful of dried apricots and brought to a simmer. Left it simmering slowly for a bit, then added some chopped aubergine and courgette, put the lid on and transferred it to a very low oven (about 120-150°) for a couple of hours. It's frikkin delicious! Sweet and very mildly spiced, and the lamb is so tender. I'll be freezing some in pots for the baby, but I'll be nicking a bit and adding some more spices and a little chilli for myself and himself. It'd be lovely with some lemony, herby couscous and some falafel and hummus.

    Does anyone know what can be done with polenta :D I made some the other day; when it was cooked I mixed in a little cheese and made it into patties. He seemed to like them (although it was messy!) but I was wondering if there was any other way of preparing it? It's a bit bland by itself; is there any way of injecting a little flavour into it?

    that sounds delish!

    With polenta do you add stock when you're cooking it? I usually put loads of herbs and roasted garlic through it as well as any roasted veg. When you made the patty did you fry it off? You can also cut it into strips and fry them to make em into 'chips'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    kandr10 wrote: »
    that sounds delish!

    With polenta do you add stock when you're cooking it? I usually put loads of herbs and roasted garlic through it as well as any roasted veg. When you made the patty did you fry it off? You can also cut it into strips and fry them to make em into 'chips'.

    I fried some of them, but he preferred them just rolled into patties! I must try that with the veg and garlic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 206 ✭✭Sweet Rose


    Can anyone tell me when should I cut out formula milk completely? It's only in the last month that I've got my baby drinking out of a cup properly so I didn't introduce cows milk until the last few weeks. She's still on 2 bottles of formula now at 13 months.


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