How would you feel if your partner admitted they thought they were bisexual/gay?

cooltown

How would you feel if your partner admitted they thought they were bisexual/gay?

Kasabian

Horny

admiralofthefleet

how would you feel op?

me; if she told me she liked women i would crack open the bubbly

starbelgrade

Not half as worried as I would if my partner admitted they thought that I was gay.

AckwelFoley

..another threesome.

Win win win

galwayrush

starbelgrade wrote: »

Not half as worried as I would if my partner admitted they thought that I was gay.

I had to think about that one....:pac::pac::pac:

cooltown

I would have to worry about them telling me they were straight!:D

Asphyxia

I have had this conversation with my partner before when I told him that I was bisexual it went quite well he was the only person I've ever been nervous of telling. I felt so relieved afterwards and much better.

If it was the other way around I would like to have a good talk and try sort it out. I wouldn't be mad or angry at him because it's not like he did it intentionally. I would be more upset at the fact our relationship might have to end if he was gay, I would find it easier if he was bisexual and I could relate to him more. I would be broken hearted to loose him but would want him to be happy.

flyton5

"P.S. I am gay." - Homer Simpson


As long as they were being genuine then I'd be fine with it. There's nothing they can do to change the fact is there? :rolleyes:

rainbow kirby

I'd be more worried if they said they were straight, tbh.

alwaysadub

snyper wrote: »

..another threesome.


Win win win

But thought you didn't enjoy them?


Anyway OP, lesbian sex, whats not to like?


EDIT: :eek: I'm losing the run of myself. I'm female, so i'd have to be the gay one to get lesbian sex
ooh i'd get a 3some though!

stephen_n

Telling your partner your Bi will usually scare the **** out of them and more often than not end the relationship!

FreudianSlippers

If my girlfriend slept with another woman I'd still be pissed off... still cheating IMO.

FreudianSlippers

stephen_n wrote: »

Telling your partner your Bi will usually scare the **** out of them and more often than not end the relationship!

hmmmm... good to keep in mind if I want to get out of this one ever.
:P


j/k obviously - just in case my SO is reading this

Lia_lia

Meh. Why it would make a difference.

Kasabian

Lia_lia wrote: »

Meh. Why it would make a difference.

If they want to pursue a sexual relationship ?

Truley

I don't have a problem with homosexuality in general but if my partner told me they were gay I would be pretty peeved because ... well, they are sexually attracted to a different gender to my own one.

Links234

Well, I'd imagine they'd have to be at least bisexual to be in a relationship with me, so it probably wouldn't be an issue

Minstrel27

The relationship would be over.

Earthhorse

Kasabian wrote: »

Horny

Same here.

No change in mood whatsoever.

nacho libre

if a girl i was with told me she was bisexual it would not bother me in the slighest.
if the fear is that it increases the chances the person will cheat on you, you'd have to question how well your really knew your partner and how secure you really are. As if you have had a good relationship up to the point of this admission, what is suddenly going to change?? nothing!!

Lia_lia

Kasabian wrote: »

If they want to pursue a sexual relationship ?

With somebody else like? Well wouldn't that be cheating? I don't understand your question.

MarkGrisham

If she's up for bringing more women to the bed, I can live with it.

The_Minister

Gay - that means the whole relationship was a sham tbh. I'd be very pissed off.

Bisexual - It would depend. If one gender couldn't satisfy her, then I would be pissed.
If she was attracted to women as well as me but able to be happy with a man then that would be grand.
It's still cheating unless she scores them in a pub for my amusement.:D

Transexual - I would be really, really, really pissed off.


The above post is predicated on the notion that this is a serious relationship.

Kasabian

Lia_lia wrote: »

With somebody else like? Well wouldn't that be cheating? I don't understand your question.

You did . I missed your point earlier. We are on the same page.

The_Minister

Minstrel27 wrote: »

The relationship would be over.

For both or just gay?

RockinRolla

I don't know what part I'd feel then.

Royal Irish

If a girl friend ever told me she thought she was gay, the first words out of my mouth would be, "can I watch".

Mr. CooL ICE

OisinT wrote: »

If my girlfriend slept with another woman I'd still be pissed off... still cheating IMO.

What if she let you watch?

RockinRolla

LordChessington wrote: »

What if she let you watch?

Would you let her watch you wellying another bloke out of it???

Piste

If a boyfriend told me her was gay I'd be very disappointed and upset that he'd strung me along and I'd wonder why he ever went out with me in the first place.

StupidLikeAFox

Piste wrote: »

If a boyfriend told me her was gay I'd be very disappointed and upset that he'd strung me along and I'd wonder why he ever went out with me in the first place.

Thought you were a man?

Piste

Yeah but I'm a straight man. I'd be disgusted if my boyfriend said he was gay.

Rented Mule

I have dated several bisexual women over the years. It's no big deal.

Morlar

Piste wrote: »

Yeah but I'm a straight man. I'd be disgusted if my boyfriend said he was gay.

My head hurts.

policarp

I wonder how many people are actually in that situation and don't know?

recylingbin

policarp wrote: »

I wonder how many people are actually in that situation and don't know?

19.

policarp

Piste wrote: »

If a boyfriend told me her was gay I'd be very disappointed and upset that he'd strung me along and I'd wonder why he ever went out with me in the first place.

I'd believe him / her.

policarp

recylingbin wrote: »

19.

And what would the male / female breakdown be?

cc-offe

As a woman, If my man told me he was bisexual it would be over, I wouldn't be attracted to them anymore, no problem in general with gay or bisexual people but I mean obviously if they were gay they wouldn't want me either but if they were bisexual then I would not want to be in a relationship with them, it would be a massive turn off for me

ottostreet

If my girlfriend said she was gay: I'd be very disappointed with my physical appearance.


If she said she was bi: I'd say I knew already. She's worse for perving on girls than I am.

recylingbin

policarp wrote: »

And what would the male / female breakdown be?

errr, 50/50.

Mackman

If she said she was gay - Id be devastated, as it would be the end of the relationship. My only hope would be that she would agree to a threesome becasue she feels so guilty.

If she said she was bisexual - Same as The Minister said, if she's happy to stay with me but fancies chicks. happy days!
But if she wants to have a relationship with another woman, see above

Americangirl1

I would be completely disgusted and go pour alcohol all over my body. lol, jk. But even if he said he was bisexual, I don't find that attractive what so ever. ewww

Wompa1

policarp wrote: »

I wonder how many people are actually in that situation and don't know?

My girlfriend has hinted at it recently. About being Bi. I'm not so sure I'm ok with it and I'm probably the only man on here that would say it. For the simple fact I would think being with a woman is a whole lot better than being with a man. If she's Bi she most likely won't want to go without being with a girl for the rest of her life, yet she's said before she wouldn't have a threesome so where does that leave me?

The_Minister

Piste wrote: »

Yeah but I'm a straight man. I'd be disgusted if my boyfriend said he was gay.

I was absolutely certain that you were female.

This is like the bluelagoon saga all over.

orourkeda

Probably applaud the possibility of extra beaver

aujopimur

Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

CrazyRabbit

I think 7 years old is too young to be labelling oneself as gay/bisexual.

PeterIanStaker

OisinT wrote: »

If my girlfriend slept with another woman I'd still be pissed off... still cheating IMO.

I'd be too busy filming to be pissed off:D

starlit

I wouldn't be bothered if they admitted to being bi but I be concerned if they said that they were gay but then again I'd rather know than they be strining me along knowing that they would rather the company of men than me. I'd kinda guess myself anyway.