So, I think my friend is in love with me

Dean820

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

Logical Fallacy

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Leave it as is, casual sex is fine when both are cool with the casual nature of it but the social comeback of her loving you wouldn't be worth the price.

I await the floods of "ride her" responses from dudes who never get any.

Sugar Free

/Insert gimpy PI response here/

AH Response: Do it

Gummy Panda

Ride her.

EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!

Vanbis

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

I would advise you to bring a rain coat, the forecast isn't looking to good tonight but sure stranger things have happened.

Ian Beale

Oh how Brummytom wishes he was you right now

Dean820

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

Tender Hoop

kick her back door in.

mikom

What would Jesus Tiger do?

Nodin

Dean820 wrote: »

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

She probably won't, as its her idea really and nobody likes to be associated with failure. Go on ye good thing.

Logical Fallacy

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Ride her.

EDIT: Dragon you sunk my battleship!

Preemptively as well.

I am the Nostradamus of board games.

bleg

Dean820 wrote: »

One of the main things holding me back is she's obviously good friends with most of my friends so imagine if she let slip I shagged like [insert something that rides like ****e] and made me a laughing stock.

Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.

Dean820

bleg wrote: »

Laugh it off and call her a cockgobbler.

Obviously. :cool:

coffeenut

dont do it, if you don't feel the same way she does she'll be more in love with you afterwards and you'll feel like a complete b*stard for doing that to her.

unless of course you don't give a sh*t in the first place in which case what's the difference to you?

Fittle

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

Redzer7

Whack her outta it OP.




Not with a shovel or any other object

Dean820

Fittle wrote: »

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.

Fittle

Dean820 wrote: »

Ah come on. A bit harsh? She's up for the ride too like. She made that clear.

She also told you she LOVES you.

Are you 12?

Agricola

Horse it into her OP. You know it makes sense!

Swampy

Ride the bejasus out of her.

Dean820

Fittle wrote: »

She also told you she LOVES you.

Are you 12?

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

Dacelonid

Obviously go to the party and try hook up with someone else. If that doesn't work you always have someone else to go home with

Fittle

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

13 so.

Lob it into her

Scuid Mhór

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

it really depends on one thing: is she hot?

thee glitz

Ride her.

She won't let anything slip to your friends, why would they trust her again if she did that to you?

She did say 'love' so be nice to her and all that. At least if you mess her round,
she'll know what she's not missing out on.

Fittle

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

yeah, u wish.

13 so.

Redzer7

Fittle wrote: »

13 so.

13 and a half fyi .

Scuid Mhór

Fittle wrote: »

Very lucky girl to have told you she LOVES you last week and here you are on boards, wondering should you ride her tonight.

Leave the girl alone.

She deserves better:rolleyes:

fittle just wants dean820 all to herself guys.

Juwwi

Fittle wrote: »

yeah, u wish.

13 so.

He heard you the 1st time.

Pauleta

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

Pauleta

Pauleta wrote: »

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

speaking from experience?

Super-Rush

Is she any good with Powerpoint??

Gummy Panda

Just think OP, will you look back in future regretting not riding her and seeing what developed?

JeanClaude

Dean820 wrote: »

No I'm not. Stop hijacking my fun thread ya lesbian.

PMSL...:D

MagicMarker

I can't believe I'm going to post a serious response on AH, but you'd be a serious cúnt to do that, and not much of a friend at all.

Wibbs

PI response. No it would be morally dubious and cruel to hurt someone like that.

AH response. No, pull one of her friends, dry hump her on the sofa in full view of this woman. Then an hour later ring her and ask her out.

dr.bollocko

Too late Dawson. You'll been navel gazing and asking for advice online. Somebody else is already balls deep.

FlutterinBantam

Dean820 wrote: »

Well I don't think because I know. She told me last week and I reacted in a neutral manner, I wasn't against getting together or for it. But tonight I'm heading out to a party and she's gonna be there...so my question to AH is: Should I ride her and possibly ruin things or leave it the way it is? I think I'm gonna be screwed either way. (pun totally intended :cool:)

Edit: My apologies on anyone who read the title thinking it would be a male friend.

Look son, give her a good vigorous dunting up the nipsy and stop farting about.


You will know for sure in the morning.


Ok..... neeeeeeext

Dean820

Alright lads, I'm leaving soon. I'm sure I'll do the right thing. Cya.

thee glitz

Don't forget to take pics.

Son Of A Vidic

Surely to God you know better than to come here and ask us for advice. But since you did, well you have two options (1) follow you balls (2) follow your brains. Now if your brain is in your balls, then you'll have to follow your instincts.

alwaysadub

Dean820 wrote: »

Alright lads, I'm leaving soon. I'm sure I'll do the right thing. Cya.

Don't forget to come back and let us know how you got on... I could do with a good laugh.

opinion guy

alwaysadub wrote: »

Don't forget to come back and let us know how you got on... I could do with a good laugh.

<opinion guy hits Follow Thread button>

mink_man

he's gonna drop his shopping off at her back door, i can sense it...

digme

Pauleta wrote: »

Just ride her. You will be kicking yourself in the distant future when your stuck with some loser kids and a tramp of a wife thats probably being lamped by the postman.

ya poor fcker

Amazotheamazing

Just for future reference, ride her. She's an adult, she can take care of herself.

Many years ago I had the same issue (presumably with a different girl), I didn't ride her, I regret it now, after all it's just two adults having fun.

Aw come on, the girl told him she's in love with him before they've even shagged. I know this is a bit of an assumption, but it's highly likely she's the type of girl who'll take a ride as a marriage proposal. They'll do the deed, he'll be all "grand so", and while he's doing the walk of shame home, thinking about the big dirty fry he needs to cure his hangover, she'll be online looking at wedding rings. He'll never get rid of her, and if he does manage to, she'll probably act like he "took advantage" and make out like he's the root of all evil even though she'd probably still let him have another poke because she hopes it will make him love her. Ugh.

But yeah, just an assumption...

Mr Benevolent

No-one falls in love before doing the nasty. Except a 15-18 year old girl, that is.

Sticky_Fingers

So OP did you drop the hand?

You *really* should have posted in PI.

PI Answer: If you're not sure how you feel to her, date & find out.

AH response: it's a free sex ticket. Allow her to bask in your glory and you'll have sex on tap for months, if not years before she realises.